Charles F. Barnes
Charlie married the love of his life on October 4, 1986 and together they shared thirty-eight wonderful years of love, traveling and spending time with his nephews, whom he considered more like sons. Prior to his retirement, he operated along with his Pop, Barney Sign Service and Accurate Neon in Stratford.
In addition to wife and mother, Charlie is survived by his heartbroken sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Terese Travis-Horvath and Robert Horvath. He was the proud and loving uncle of Christopher (Melissa), Daniel (Chiyo) and Kyle Travis; his three great-nephews, Joseph, Jackson and Theo and his canine companion, Susy.
All services were held privately in Florida. To sign his online guestbook, please visit www.shaughnesseybanks.com.
Philip D. Beach III
Philip D. Beach III, 82, of Oxford, longtime resident of Southbury, and originally from Milford, beloved husband of the late Susan Beach, passed away on March 20, 2025. Born on October 21, 1942 in Waterbury, CT, he was the son of the late Philip Beach II and Barbara Graham.
Phil was a family man above all else in life. He was a doting husband to his beloved wife, Sue. He was a tireless and dependable provider, an intrepid problem solver, and a practical, supportive, and kind patriarch who was always generous of spirit, love and wisdom.
Phil’s interests included gardening and landscape design, and his impeccable horticultural creations often resulted in his yards eliciting much praise from neighbors, and even random passers-by, who would often stop and wax effusive to Phil as he worked past dusk on many a summer night. His decidedly green thumb also resulted in some of the best tomatoes around on an annual basis. He always grew more than he needed for the sole purpose of giving them away to many lucky August recipients.
Phil was an ardent fan of sports, most especially basketball (UConn Huskies men and women), baseball (Boston/Milwaukee/Atlanta Braves) and football (New York Giants).
In his younger years, Phil was a passionate basketball player whose dedication and commitment to the game resulted in him playing as a walk-on for the UConn Huskies. He eventually took up golfing and became an avid golfer who never missed an opportunity to play a famous course as his business travels took him all over the country. He never abandoned his roots as an athlete as he continued to exercise 6 to 7 days a week at a local gym up until the very last weeks of his 82 years.
Phil’s passion for his favorite foods often resulted in him driving further than most for such ubiquitous items as pizza, hotdogs, and lobster rolls. And finally, in spite of raising the ire of a few select managers and owners of some chocolate merchants in New England, Phil’s reverence and appreciation for good dark chocolate made him a living embodiment – a nonpareil himself – of the namesake chocolates he seemingly always had on hand. Phil was a remarkably unique true original, who will be missed greatly by many, especially by those who knew him so well.
Philip is survived by his children, Karen Barnes, Philip D. Beach IV, and Jeffrey (Monica) Beach; his grandchildren, J.R. (Carolyn) Barnes, Megan Barnes and her partner, Brett Barrett, Patrick Barnes, Amanda (Christopher Theodore) Beach, and Kelsie (James) Albano; his step great-grandchildren, Adeline and Evelyn; his siblings, Dan (Noreen) Beach and William “Woody” Graham; and his cousin, Leigh (Dottie) Broderick.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, April 5, 2025 for a celebration of life at 10:00 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Interment will follow at Mountain Meadows Cemetery, 117 Mountain Rd, Seymour, CT 06483. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Smilow Cancer Hospital.
Florence G. Berrien
Florence G. Berrien, lifelong resident of Milford, passed away on March 28, 2025. She was born on June 25, 1932 to the late Bell and Marion Janssen Gray. She was pre-deceased by her brothers Robert, Ronald and Walter Gray, her son Allen D. Berrien, her grandson Andrew Bodick, her son-in-law Bill Van Wilgen and her high school sweetheart and former husband Allen G. Berrien. She is survived by her daughters Nancy (Stephen) Bennett of West Cornwall, Laurie Van Wilgen of Branford, Leigh Bak of Milford, grandchildren Katharine Mix, Stephen Bak, Emily (Patrick) Paulson, and great grandson Eli Paulson.
Her childhood was spent in crippling poverty which likely contributed to her amazing work ethic and incredible generosity later in life. She was an excellent student and just an all-around “good kid”, graduating from Milford High School in 1950. She went to work for local builder George McDermott of the Lewis J. McDermott Real Estate Agency during her high school years and ran his office with her trademark efficiency. Whenever we drove her around the neighborhoods in Milford, she delighted in telling us who purchased which house and for how much. We were flabbergasted that she could remember that, as well as the fact that you could buy a really nice cape for $10K back in the day.
She married Allen Berrien in 1953 and they settled on Helwig St. in a historic home that they had moved to that spot to save it from the wrecking ball. It was there that they raised their 4 children next door to their business, Milford Boat Works. She was the consummate mother and homemaker; she could magically stretch a half pound of meat to feed the whole family. We often marveled at how she could make 21 delicious meals a week for a family of six while working full time at the boatyard.
She adored music and it filled our home; it’s doubtful that there were many waking hours when the phonograph wasn’t playing and during Sunday afternoon car rides, she led us in song after song, likely to make up for the fact that a 1963 VW Beetle didn’t come with a radio.
Sea Scout Ship 25 was born in our living room and it’s likely many of the guys came for Mom’s baked goods; she has kept in touch with many of those scouts to this day. She also led a Brownie Scout troop. She was an avid reader and especially loved poetry. We may have been the only kids in 3rd grade who could recite Frost or Kilmer at the drop of a hat. Her love of reading poured over in later life to one of her favorite volunteer activities, reading to her little Chickadees at the Milford Preschool.
She was such a giver. She prided herself on the fact that she donated over 16 gallons of blood during her lifetime and didn’t hesitate to give a kidney to someone when she saw the need.
Her life and her rock was her church family at Mary Taylor Methodist Church, where she faithfully attended for over 80 years. She taught Sunday School, served as Assistant Treasurer, Membership Secretary, Historian, was involved with United Methodist Women, Cashier at the Fair on the Green and sang in the choir for decades. She must have baked thousands and thousands of her signature Chocolate Chip Cookies for nearly every church function. She was the unofficial ambassador for the church before that became the thing to do; if you were new and walked in the door, Flo greeted you, took you back to Fellowship Time and remembered your name the next week. She maintained birthday lists for every church member and many close friends, ensuring they were remembered with a phone call on their special day. Your birthday wasn’t over until you had a call from Flo!
She was named a “Connecticut Treasure” by Gov. Jodi Rell in 2002. Gov. Rell sure hit the nail on the head with that one.
Mom simply made a difference in nearly everything she touched. If there was a need, she filled it. Her life was not always easy, but she navigated it with grace and a quiet inner strength that inspired not only her family but all who knew her.
Her life will be celebrated on Saturday, May 10th at 11 AM at Mary Taylor Memorial United Methodist Church, 168 South Broad Street, Milford, CT. A reception in the church hall will follow.
If you would like to remember Flo, please consider a donation to either Mary Taylor Memorial United Methodist Church at the address above or to Beth-El Center at 90 New Haven Ave, Milford, CT. Or, you could follow her example and make someone feel special today, as that was her hallmark.
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Genevieve K (Kochanowski) Bogucki
The family of Genevieve Kochanowski Bogucki announces her death on February 25, 2025. She was the daughter of Anthony and Genevieve Labock Kochanowski of Meriden, CT, sister of Dorothy Bryan and Robert Kochanowski. She is survived by her husband, Raymond Bogucki and her children: Ann and Rick, Paul and Roxanne, Mary, Peter and Martha, Andrew and Whitney, and grandchildren Woodrow, Harriet, Kevin, Colleen and Ava.
A Mass for Gene will be celebrated on Friday March 21st at 11:00 a.m. in Saint Mary’s Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Raymond F. Bogucki Scholarship Fund at the University of Hartford in Bloomfield or to the Petersburgh Public Library at 69 Main Street, Petersburgh, NY, 12138. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Susan D. Briggs
Susan D. Briggs, 83, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Richard Briggs, passed away on March 5, 2025. Born on May 5, 1941, she was the daughter of the late Patrick and Helena (McGoldrick) Dever.
Susan graduated from the University of Bridgeport, where she embarked on a career that reflected her compassion and care for others. As a visiting nurse for many years, she provided exceptional care to those in need, always putting others before herself. Her professionalism and warm heart made her a trusted figure in the healthcare community. Later in her career, Susan served as the Director of Nursing at West Haven Nursing Home and Bentley Gardens. Susan loved working with the elderly population and was very well respected and endeared by both the residents and the staff. Susan was a devoted parishioner of St. Agnes Church, where she found strength, fellowship, and a sense of belonging. Her commitment to her faith was matched by her passion for staying active. Susan was a member of Milford Tennis Association but also enjoyed playing and excelling at golf, badminton, beach volleyball and skiing. Some of her most treasured memories are those of skiing with her family and dear friends at their ski house at Mt. Snow. Participation in the Milford Oyster Festival canoe races, the Owner’s Ski Races at Season’s in VT-(where she would always place in her age bracket!) and winning the extremely competitive egg toss at Club Med in the Bahamas with her husband Rich were some of Susan’s sports highlights. Susan loved spending time with her children and grandchildren, whether it be a large holiday gathering or a small summer BBQ. Times with their many and treasured friends and extended family were some of her fondest memories and the ones she reminisced about so often. Sue possessed a kind heart, a grateful and peaceful spirit, and a genuine care and compassion for all. Sue would always express gratitude to any small act of kindness she was shown. She was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend to all, and will be so very missed. Susan’s family would like to extend their gratitude to the attentive staff at Carriage Green, where she resided for the last several years.
Susan is survived by her children, Robert Briggs, (Laura) and Patti (Brian) Droney; her grandchildren, Eric Briggs, Meghan (Mez) Abebe, and Keira and Kyle Droney; her brother, Eugene (Virginia) Dever; and many nieces, nephews, extended family members and special friends, and her grand pup Holly, whom she loved so dearly. Susan was predeceased by her sister, Patricia (Maury) Davitt.
Friends and family may call from 4pm to 7pm on Wednesday, March 12, 2025 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 13, 2025 at 10am at Saint Agnes Church (Precious Blood Parish) 400 Merwin Ave., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Gary Edward Burlock Jr.
Gary Edward Burlock Jr., 55 of West Haven, passed away on March 28, 2025, while surrounded by his loving family. Gary was born on December 28, 1969, in Milford, CT, to the late Gary Edward Burlock Sr. and Mary Burlock.
Gary proudly served in the United States Navy before beginning his career at the V.A. Hospital of West Haven, CT, where he worked as a housekeeper and carpenter for over 13 years. Through his dedication and hard work, he achieved his dream of owning his own home—a place he took great pride in fixing up and maintaining. A true handyman at heart, he enjoyed learning new skills, from electrical work to plumbing, always eager to tackle a new project.
Gary had a deep love for gardening and found joy in caring for his plants. He was also an animal lover, especially devoted to his cats. A lifelong car enthusiast, he spent time researching and admiring different models, with a special fondness for his red Corvette, which he loved cruising around town.
Above all else, Gary’s greatest pride and joy was being a father to his daughter, Alicia Rose. He cherished every moment with her, always eager to spoil his “Princess” and make her feel special. Known for his quick wit and love of dad jokes, Gary never missed an opportunity to make his family laugh. He goofed around and kept everyone smiling up until his very last day.
Gary is survived by his beloved daughter Alicia Rose Kavanah, his first love and mother of his child Tammie Gural, his two honorary daughters Sara and Selena Gural, his “grandbaby” Malia Rivera. As well as many additional beloved family, friends, and his V.A. family.
His family would like to extend a special thank you to the V.A. Hospital of West Haven, CT, for their compassionate care during his illness, and the friendships he formed during his career.
Private services will be held by the family.
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Virginia Georgette Camp
Virginia ‘Georgette’ Camp, 85, of Milford, passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family on March 14, 2025. Born on November 7, 1939 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late George and Virginia Camp.
Georgette was a proud resident of Milford, CT, a direct descendent of the Camp family, one of the founding families who settled Milford in 1639. Her family name is etched in a granite stone on the Milford Memorial Stone Bridge in Milford center.
A devoted mother and grandmother she cherished every moment spent with family. As a young homemaker with a creative mind she expressed her artistic talents through decorating, crocheting, sewing, painting and woodworking. She had a passion for fashion staying up to date in style. She enjoyed many types of music, especially broadway musicals and was an avid collector of oriental treasures. A graduate of CCMT in Newington CT, she became a licensed massage therapist (LMT) applying her healing touch bringing comfort to others. Her kindness, laughter, and love of family will be deeply missed and forever remembered in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.
Georgette leaves behind her beloved daughters, Susan Kasmin (Gary Gittings) and Amy (Matteo) Criscuolo; their father Chester P. Kasmin, Jr.; grandchildren, Mattie and Nicholas Criscuolo; siblings, Patricia Bates (Robert Broderick) Vincent Hoey and Sarah Cardinelli, predeceased by Maria Johnson; nieces, Theresa Bates and Deborah Gottschalk.
Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions/donations be made in her honor to Opportunity House, Inc., 320 Old Hill Road, Hamden, CT 06514.
Vincent Anthony Capuano
Vincent A. Capuano , 70, passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 3, 2025 at Cambridge Health and Rehabilitation Center in Fairfield. He was born June 9, 1954 in Bridgeport to the late James and Marion Capuano.
Vincent proudly served his country in the United States Navy. He then worked for many years at Textron-Lycoming before finishing his professional life as a carpenter.
Vincent enjoyed going to the beach, listening to music, and watching classic movies. He was also very kind-hearted and generous, donating to many charities; especially those that benefited animals. During his last few years at Cambridge Health, he enjoyed visits from his good friends he knew for over 50 years.
Vincent will be sadly missed by his daughter, Heather Capuano of Milford, and his granddaughter, Kassidee Joyner.
Services will be private. The Gregory F Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Ave, Milford is honored to be assisting Vincent’s family. Those wishing to follow in Vincent’s footsteps, memorial contributions in honor of his life may be made to www.donatenationalmssociety.org.
Claude J. Champagne
Claude J. Champagne of Milford, CT passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 5, 2025 at Cassena Care in Norwalk. He was the beloved husband of Margaret Champagne.
Claude was born on April 12, 1936 in Montreal, Canada to the late Joseph and Laurette Champagne. He proudly served in the US Airforce. Claude was a self employed sheetrocker for 22 years, then worked at Stop & Shop until he retired.
Claude took pride in being a great grandfather and grandfather. He loved fishing, bowling, reading and was a NY Mets fan.
In addition to his wife Margaret, Claude will be sadly missed by his children: Deanna Hiller and her husband, Mark and Denice Painter and her husband, Gregory and Derrick Champagne and his wife Jennifer; his brothers: Alain Champagne and Roch Champagne and his wife, Joan; his sister: Lola Lepore and her husband, Carmine; grandchildren: Valerie Kalunian, Danielle Marshall, Nicole Lawrence, Kelsey Herrmann, and Aimee Champagne; great- grandchildren: Alexander Kalunian, Madison Herrmann, Kingston Lawrence, and Kingsley Lawrence; as well as, many cousins, nephews, and nieces. Claude was predeceased by his parents, his sister Carole Marsala, and his brother, Serge Champagne.
Visitation with Military Honors will be from 4:00pm – 6:00pm on Friday, March 21, 2025 at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Prayers will be at 5:45pm with Military Honors to immediately follow. Interment will be at the convenience of Claude’s family.
James A. Clifford
James A. Clifford, 67, of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully on March 29, 2025. Born on December 22, 1957, in Milford, he was the son of the late Charles and Carol (Ballou) Clifford.
James was a proud graduate of Foran High School, Class of 1976. In the fall of 1977, he enlisted in the United States Navy, where he served his country with honor and dedication for over four years. His time in the service reflected the quiet strength, loyalty, and sense of duty that defined his life.
Following his military service, James built a long and successful career as a commercial fire and security systems installer. He was known for his strong work ethic, attention to detail, and the pride he took in his work. He was always ready to lend a hand and was respected by both colleagues and clients alike.
James had a deep love for his hometown of Milford, where he created countless memories and lasting friendships. He especially enjoyed spending time at the Milford beaches, where he found peace and connection with the shoreline he cherished. He also loved watching football, always cheering on his favorite teams with enthusiasm. Above all, James cherished time with his grandchildren, who brought endless joy and pride into his life. He found great happiness in being present for their milestones and simply spending time with them.
One of James’s most endearing gestures was reminding his daughters to “look at the moon” when they were apart-a small but meaningful way he stayed connected with them, no matter the distance. It’s a memory they will carry with them always.
He is survived by his twin daughters, Jessica Lewis and her husband Geoffrey, and Heather Balzano and her husband Brian. He was the proud grandfather of Ava, James, Kinsley, Cole, and Cameron. He is also survived by his sisters: Eileen Rotella, Barbara Rainey and her husband Stephen, Lisa Hudson and her husband Jon, and Maribeth Voytek; along with many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends. James was preceded in death by his brothers-in-law, Domenic Rotella and Ian Voytek.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, April 7, 2025, from 4 to 8 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. A Prayer Service will begin at 7:30 p.m. A Graveside Service with Military Honors will take place on Tuesday, April 8, 2025, at 11 a.m. Saint Mary Cemetery, 315 Buckingham Ave., Milford CT (Please meet directly at the cemetery).
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at www.alz.org
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Linus J. Croffy
On March 6th, 2025, my father, Linus J. Croffy, 68, of Milford, passed away. He was the son of the late John and Virginia Croffy. Linus is survived by his beloved wife, Marianne-Winters Croffy; son, Jonathan Croffy; daughter-in-law, Caitlin Croffy; grandchildren, Autumn and Jackson; his siblings, John Croffy Jr. (Theresa), Anne Stocking (Dale), and Gail Griffiths; and sister-in-law, Marcy Croffy. He was preceded in death by his brother, Dr. Bruce Croffy and brother-in-law, William Griffiths. He also leaves behind a continual growing list of so many wonderful nephews and nieces that were very near and dear to his heart.
Linus Croffy was born on December 23, 1956, in Jersey City, NJ. He moved to Westport, CT in 1963, enjoyed a wonderful childhood with his siblings and where he made many lifelong friends. He graduated Staples High School in Westport and attended Sacred Heart University where his father John was one of the founders and the former dean of students.
Early on my father developed a passion for Reiki which is a Japanese healing technique that uses gentle touch to promote relaxation and balance one’s energy. He also loved Transcendental Meditation (TM) which promotes relaxed awareness, stress relief, self-development and a higher state of consciousness. TM became popular in the 1960’s and 1970’s as the technique was practiced by celebrities, most prominently the Beatles and the Beach Boys (One of his Favorite Bands).
Linus found his career path led to the United States Postal Service in the Westport and Wilton, CT areas where he started out as a mail carrier and ended it as a desk clerk where he enjoyed many wonderful years. Some would say the job could get repetitive or cumbersome, but my father loved it. He loved interacting with others, chatting about their day and was a true people person. He enjoyed making others smile, telling jokes and was someone who would give you the shirt off his back.
He loved dining out with his wife Marianne, whether it was a new restaurant in the area or an old favorite such as an Outback Steakhouse or an Olive Garden. His other hobbies were music, movies and the lottery. Nothing would stop my father from stopping at the local gas station on the way home from work and playing the play 3 or grabbing a Powerball Ticket. While he had a few modest wins in his life his biggest win would come from his family that he created, the family who love him and that will miss him dearly.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, March 14, 2025 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, March 15, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary’s Church, 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Donations may be made to the National Kidney Foundation.
Jeffrey M. Curriere
Jeffrey M. Curriere, age 44, of Milford, beloved son of Diane McQuillan Heche and the late Louis Curriere, passed away on Friday, March 21, 2025 after a long illness of cancer. Jeffrey was born in Stamford, CT on July 9, 1980. After graduation Jeffrey became a plumber upon graduating from trade School.
He was an avid history buff and loved discussing anything historical. Jeffrey enjoyed driving his motorcycle, snowboarding, Colony Pizza and relaxing at home playing video games. Jeff loved animals, especially dogs and trained to be a dog trainer. Jeff was a homebody and enjoyed spending time with family and friends. His friends were lifelong and very special to him.
He also was very touched by the number of people who were there for him and his mom through his illness.
Survivors include his mother, Diane Heche and his stepfather Adam of Milford, brother, Johnathon Yaggi (Amy) of Bethlehem, CT and his nephew, Aiden Yaggi of Bethlehem CT. His very special Uncle, Edward McQuillan (Annette) of Norwalk and Uncle Mark of Florida. Good forever friend Sandra Silva and his ” brothers” Scott Bacha and William Goodwin and many cousins and friends.
Jeffrey is predeceased by his father, Louis Michael Curriere, his uncle David McQuillan and his grandmothers Patricia McQuillan and Marie Mazzeo, grandfather Louis Curriere and Edward McQuillan and his good friends Ronald J Mazzola and Mark Avendano.
Family and friends may call on Saturday, March 29, 2025 from 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. There will be a service held at 1:30 p.m. in the Funeral Home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice (human or animal) in Jeffrey’s memory.
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Mary Rose Daley
Mary Rose Daley, beloved mother and constant friend, 92, of Milford, passed away peacefully at home on March 12, 2025. Mary was born in Manhattan, NY on November 29, 1932 to Malachy and Rose McLeavey (nee Kearns) of Ireland. She was raised in the Mott Haven neighborhood of the Bronx, NY and graduated from nearby St. Jerome’s Catholic Elementary School and Walton High School.
Mary had a bright soul and a big heart and had a special knack for turning strangers into friends. She made many life-long friends through work. Some of her favorite jobs were with National Lead, the New York and Cuba Mail Steamship Company, Matson Lines, U.S. Motors, and especially the New Haven City Clerk’s Office.
Mary is survived by her sons Anthony Daley and William Daley, her longtime caregiver; and her sister, Rosaleen Nablo. Mary is predeceased by her son, Gerald Joseph Daley; and her husband, Gerald Francis Daley as well as siblings: Michael McLeavey, Joseph McLeavey, and Patricia Corridon.
We offer up a final thank you to the little city girl who left such a big impression on all our lives.
All services will be private.
Alan Lee Dobyns
Alan Lee Dobyns, 82, of Milford, beloved husband of Haroula (Mihaelidou) Dobyns, passed away on April 2, 2025. Born on March 27, 1943, he was the son of the late Lee Roy and Elouise (Woodall) Dobyns.
Alan graduated from Texas A&M University with a B.S. in Aerospace Engineering and went on to earn a M.S. in Mechanical Engineering from Seattle University. He worked at Boeing Aircraft for fifteen years before moving to Connecticut to work at Sikorsky Aircraft where he worked as a structural and materials engineer for 25 years. One of the projects he did was research for the catamaran that won the America’s Cup in Australia.
During retirement he ran and played in the Sikorsky Table Tennis Club. He also worked as a volunteer in the Sikorsky Archives and at the National Helicopter Museum in Stratford, CT. Alan had obtained his pilot license and enjoyed flying. He also traveled with his wife to several European countries, the Caribbean, Hawaii, Mexico and South America.
In addition to his beloved wife, Alan is survived by his step-children, Catrina Ciufecu, Valeria Ciufecu Broadley, and Mita Ciufecu and his wife, Lisa; grandchildren, Raymond and Amanda Ciufecu; brother, Lynn Dobyns; and niece, Mandy Dobyns Krnavek. Alan was predeceased by his granddaughter, Michele Ciufecu Broadley.
All services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Parkinson Foundation at parkinson.org. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Frank A. Downey
Frank A. Downey, 91, of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 22, 2025. Born on June 8, 1933, in Holyoke, MA, Frank lived a life defined by faith, resilience, hard work, philanthropy, and deep dedication to his family. He was predeceased by his parents, Frank A. Downey and Mildred Mannix Downey, and his sister, Mary Drohan.
A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, Frank cherished his family above all else. He is survived by his loving wife of 64 years, Augusta “Dusty” Downey; his children Kenneth (Nancy), Rick, Diane (Walter), and Chris (Tracey); his beloved grandchildren Laura, Christine, Sara, Patrick, Ryan, Braden, Amanda, Michael, Matthew, Gary, Jessica, and Austin; and his great-granddaughters Zoey and Hailey.
Frank grew up in Holyoke, MA, where he enjoyed playing football and fishing. His high school football career was highlighted by his team winning the Western Massachusetts Football Championship in 1951, which led them to the Peanut Bowl in Georgia on New Year’s Day. He continued his football journey at Amherst College, where he started at left tackle for all four years. His teammates became lifelong friends, and their reunions were always filled with joy and laughter.
Following college, Frank proudly served his country as a jet fighter pilot in the U.S. Air Force. He exhibited incredible leadership skills securing him the “ace” position of his squadron. One highlight of his service was being stationed in England, where he coached the base football team; he loved sharing stories of their undefeated season and flying the team to the European Championship in France. However, Frank always said that his most meaningful moment was meeting the love of his life, Dusty, and the cherished family they built together more than anything.
Frank was a determined entrepreneur, founding and growing three successful companies in the electronics industry:
-Westwood Associates, a sales organization for electronic manufacturers in Western Massachusetts.
-Townsend Industries, a circuit board manufacturing company in Orange, CT.
-Westwood Associates, an international electronic sales and distribution company with offices worldwide.
Frank and Dusty raised their four children in Orange, CT, before fulfilling their dream of living by the water in Milford. Frank retired at age 68, spending his time boating, fishing, enjoying winters in Jupiter, FL, and most importantly, watching his family grow. He took great pride in attending his grandchildren’s special events and sports games.
A man of strong faith, Frank and Dusty were loyal friends and benefactors of Notre Dame High School for over 50 years. Even after their sons graduated, he remained actively involved and served on the board. Their unwavering generosity made an ND education possible for many. His commitment to ensuring as many families as possible could benefit from a Catholic Holy Cross education was truly unmatched. The Downey Family Scholarship Fund supports numerous worthy students every year and has always been at the forefront of their philanthropy.
In lieu of flowers, gifts in Frank’s memory may be sent to Notre Dame High School to support the Downey Family Scholarship Fund, which provides financial assistance to deserving students with demonstrated need. Frank believed deeply in the transformative power of a Catholic education. This scholarship will continue his legacy of helping young people achieve their educational aspirations, regardless of their financial circumstances.
Gifts can be made to:
Notre Dame High School
Downey Family Scholarship
One Notre Dame Way, West Haven CT 06516
www.NotreDameHS.com/Downey
We would also like to express our heartfelt gratitude to our dedicated team of caregivers for their exceptional care and kindness towards our Dad: Thank you to Debbie, Hannah, Karen, Libby, Sheryl and Sharon. Yale New Haven, Health At-Home Hospice was also very caring and attentive to our dad most especially Nurse Coco.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, March 28, 2025, at 10:00 AM at St. Mary’s Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 AM, followed by interment at Orange Center Cemetery.
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Fortunato “Fred” Favia
Fortunato “Fred” Favia was born December 20, 1969 in the Bronx, New York, and passed away April 1, 2025 leaving behind memories of love and kindness. To those who knew him well, he was known as Fred and he was the beloved son of Carmelo and Maria Favia. As the firstborn, he was quickly entrusted with big brother responsibilities, as he was the eldest of six children.
Fred was always studious, especially at a young age. His mother began studying the Bible when Fred was just 14 years old, and by the time he was 17, Fred began his own study of the scriptures. By the age of 18, his personal study led him to be baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. Soon after Fred met the love of his life, Jessica, at the Kingdom Hall and on January 4, 1992, they married starting a beautiful life together. Fred and Jessica were blessed with two daughters, Lauren, born in February 1994, and Lindsey born in January 1998. In 2003, the family would settle in West Haven, Connecticut.
While Fred started his career in Masonry, he eventually worked as a Welder for the Metro-North Rail Road in the Structures department. He was well known at his job, and spent many hours working with and getting to know his co-workers. More than anything, he loved caring for, and spending time with his 2 daughters, wife and dog. He took great pride in caring for his family and handled a copious amount of responsibilities for his family, and extended family. Fred was primarily known as a caretaker and family head, but still had a variety of interests. He was also known to handle his theocratic assignments as well in the congregation. Although a man of many responsibilities, he would still find time to enjoy some leisure time. Fred was especially known for his hospitality. Many Bethelites, friends, and extended family would call Fred and Jessica’s home, their home. Fred enjoyed spending any available time on his hobbies, which included fishing, hunting and sharing his knowledge in construction. His love for cooking was well known, and he took great pleasure in preparing meals for those he cared about. Fred’s sense of humor was infectious, and his presence brought joy and laughter to all who knew him.
Fred’s character was marked by his generosity, kindness, and willingness to help others. He was an extremely hard worker. He was always ready to lend a hand and serve those around him – especially his close family – and his warm heart will be greatly missed by his family and friends.
Fred is survived by his devoted wife, Jessica; daughters, Lauren and Lindsey (married to Matthew West); and his siblings: Giorgio (married to Marion, children Mariah, Ashley married to Sean Monaco, and Giorgio Jr.), Giovanna Selca (married to George, children Juliana and Serena), Carmine (married to Christina, children Justina, Vittoria), Joseph (married to Nathalee), Apollonia (married to Derek Juliano). And his mother, Maria. He is preceded in death by his father, Carmelo.
We would like to express our heartfelt thanks to everyone who has shown support, attended services, and kept our family in their prayers during this difficult time. We look forward to the day when we can welcome Fred back in the coming New World in perfect health, as promised in Jehovah’s word.
Fred’s legacy of care, love, and generosity will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing him.
A memorial service talk will be held on Saturday, April 5, 2025 at 3:00 p.m. at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, 210 Old Grassy Hill Rd, Orange, CT 06477.
Thomas Gallo
Thomas Gallo, age 74, of Milford, beloved husband of 50 years to Phyllis Reding Gallo, died on Wednesday, March 19, 2025 at home. Tom was born in Norwalk on April 7, 1950 to the late Patsy and Doris Perkowski Gallo. He worked in building and maintenance for 16 years at Weeburn Country Club in Darien and retired from Saint Jospeh’s Manor as the Director of Maintenance for the past 38 years. Tom’s favorite past time was boating with his wife Phyllis. He will be dearly missed by his family and many friends.
Survivors include his children: Barry Gallo (Heather) of West Haven and Jeffrey Gallo (Anna) of Orange, three granddaughters, Sophia and Natalie Gallo and Tiffany Gallo, eight siblings, Patricia Paris, Joanne Leeming, twin-sister, Virginia Gallo, Donald, Richard, Kenneth, William and Patrick (Kathy) Gallo, brother-in-law, John Reding and several nieces and nephews. Tom is predeceased by his beloved grandmother, Kathrine Perkowski.
Friends and family may call on Tuesday, March 25th from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, March 26th at 10:00 a.m. in Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish). Interment will follow in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Shriners Children’s Hospital or Tunnels to Towers foundation.
To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
David Joseph Gerardi
David Joseph Gerardi, 68, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Maureen Oliver Gerardi, passed away unexpectedly on March 17, 2025. Dave was born on June 26, 1956, in New Haven, CT to the late Lorraine Mazzei Mulligan.
In addition to his wife of 37 years, Dave is survived by his three children: Morgan McDonald (Daniel), Connor Gerardi (Katie), and Griffin Gerardi (Makayla), and his grandson Miles McDonald, whom he adored. He is also survived by his two sisters, Linda Gibbs and Susan Stout; his mother-in-law, Barbara Oliver; his sister-in-law, Deborah Clifford (James); and his brothers-in-law, Kevin Oliver (Lori), Robert Oliver, and Patrick Oliver (Cynthia). As well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews, including his goddaughter, Kaitlin Oliver. Dave was predeceased by his brother, Alan Gerardi, and his parents.
Growing up, Dave lived in Hamden, CT, with his mother Lorraine and stepfather Thomas Mulligan, who raised him as his own. From a young age Dave loved cooking, a passion that he carried throughout his life. He graduated from the Culinary Institute of America and was a skilled chef for many restaurants, including two of his own. It was while working at Scribner’s, in New Haven, that he met the love of his life. After a chance encounter when Maureen arrived for her evening waitressing shift and Dave was leaving his morning shift, they locked eyes, and the rest is history. Maureen and Dave were engaged nine months into dating and went on to be married in May of 1988 and set their roots in Milford, CT, to raise their family.
Dave’s career transitioned from chef to food and advertising sales, leading to his dream job 18 years ago as a Senior Sales Executive for BG Lubri-Care Distributors. He was consistently one of the top salesmen handling many of their most important customers.
He also had a deep appreciation for bringing his family together, especially over meals he proudly prepared. He loved hosting and cooking the yearly Thanksgiving feast with his famous stuffing and gravy.
Golf was Dave’s passion. He played nearly three times a week with family, friends, or clients. He also enjoyed watching the PGA all weekend long. A true sports enthusiast, he could always be found in his favorite chair rooting for the Rangers, Giants, and Yankees. Though he enjoyed attending games in person, he often joked that he already had the “best seat in the house.”
Above all, Dave’s greatest joy and accomplishment was being a husband, father, and grandfather. He will be remembered for his unwavering love and devotion to his family. While he was sometimes a man of few words, his kindness and warmth spoke volumes to those who knew him best.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, March 26, 2025, from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 27, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf St, Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH).
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to American Heart Association online at www.donatenow.heart.org
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Judith B. Greene
Judith “Judy” Greene, a devoted community volunteer, loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away on March 11, 2025, at the age of 85. She was predeceased by her parents, Vincent Bristol & Anna L. Parker, her husband William Greene Jr., her son Kent Greene, her daughter Tamala Greene, and her beloved companion of 33 years, Edmund “Ned” Doran.
She is survived by her daughter Mary “Kim” Gatison (Sheldon), her granddaughters Melissa Lazzara (Anthony) and Jenna Quiroz, as well as her great-grandson Anthony Lazzara Jr.
Judy lived a life of unwavering dedication to service, leaving a profound impact on every community she was part of. Her extensive volunteer work spanned decades and included:
• 23+ years volunteering at Advent Health Emergency Room, Sebring, FL
• Worthy Advisor, International Order of the Rainbow for Girls
• Officer & member of Milford Volunteer Fire Department Ladies Marching Unit
• Volunteer at Milford Hospital
• Chaperone for Milford Police Cadets Shoreliners Drum & Bugle Corps
• Played softball for Milford Police Athletic League “Bobby Sockers”
• Officer of Ladies Auxiliary of the American Legion, Post 69, Avon Park, FL
• Member of VFW Ladies Auxiliary of Sebring, FL
• Member of Milford, CT Elks Club
• Member of Milford Police & Fire Retirees
• President and long-time board member of Pinehurst Townhouses Homeowners Association, FL
• Volunteer at multiple Super Bowls
• 7+ years volunteering at the Tampa Pro-Am Golf Tournament
• 11+ years volunteering at the Arnold Palmer Bay Hill Golf Tournament
• Member of the Milford Irish Society
Beyond her devotion to service, Judy had a deep love for travel. She explored many states across the country, embracing new experiences and creating cherished memories along the way.
Judy was a compassionate and selfless woman who touched the lives of so many. Her kindness, generosity, and dedication to helping others will be remembered and continue to inspire those who knew her.
A service will be held on Saturday, March 22nd, at 9 AM at Kings Highway Cemetery, where family and friends will gather to celebrate her life. Wake visiting hours will be on Friday, March 21st, from 5–8 PM at Cody White Funeral Home.
She will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Eugene Joseph Haeckel
Eugene J. Haeckel, U.S. Army retired, 94, of Orange, passed away on March 25, 2025. Eugene was born on June 12, 1930, in New Haven, CT to the late Thomas and Mabel Haeckel.
Eugene was a proud U.S. Army veteran who dedicated twenty years to military service, bravely serving in World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. Throughout his distinguished career, he was awarded the Korean Service Medal, the Silver Star, two bronze Service Stars, and the United Nations Service Medal in recognition of his valor and dedication. In his spare time, he found great joy in playing bridge with his wife and friends at the Orange Senior Center.
He is survived by his wife, Phyllis Haeckel, his three daughters, Marion Katuzny (John – deceased), Deborah Haeckel and Barbara Haeckel (Chun); (5) grandchildren, Carol Ryon (Robin), Jennifer Michi (Robert), Robert Katuzny (Ashley), Kevin Katuzny (Jennifer) and Katie Katuzny (Ninette) and (6) great grandchildren Matthew, Lauren, Finn, Arden, Hudson and Asher. He is also survived by his three stepchildren, Joyce Meyers, David Haglund (Lisa) and Cynthia Pirog (Steve), and step-grandchildren, Lauren, Cassidy, Benjamin, Theodore and Jeffery. He was proceeded in death by Curtis and Scott.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, April 1, 2025 at 11am at Holy Infant Catholic Church 450 Racebrook Road, Orange, CT 06477. Military honors will immediately follow at the church. A private internment will take place at Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, VA at a later date. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Ruth Dorothy Hardy
Ruth D. Hardy, 100, of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully on March 31, 2025, while surrounded by her loving family. Ruth was the very first baby born in Milford, CT, on January 1, 1925, to her parents James and Jeannie Hyndman. Ruth (Ruby) was the beloved wife of William Donald Hardy for 62 years.
Ruth had two great callings in her life—spreading the word of God and being a devoted mother. She and her husband answered their calling by joining the Christian & Missionary Alliance in 1955, embarking on a 16-year mission in Thailand. There, Ruth became fluent in Thai and embraced the culture wholeheartedly while sharing her faith and offering aid to those in need. During their time abroad, they adopted their two beloved children, James and Janice, raising them with the same deep love and faith that guided their own lives. In 1970, the family returned to New England, where Ruth and her husband continued their ministry work.
Faith remained the cornerstone of Ruth’s life. She was deeply involved at Calvary Alliance Church in Milford, CT, where she played in a musical quartet, helped run the Senior Citizens Ministry, and volunteered for countless church events. A talented pianist and organist, Ruth’s love for music was unwavering—even when she could no longer play, she invited friends to perform in her home so she could continue enjoying live music.
Beyond her faith and music, Ruth had a generous and nurturing spirit. She lovingly cared for her husband in his later years and had an immense love for animals, sharing her home with cats, dogs, and even a pet monkey named Jingles. Above all, she was a devoted mother. In the words of her children, “We couldn’t have asked for a better mother, and she will be dearly missed.”
Ruth is survived by her son James Bryan Hardy (wife Kathleen) and daughter Janice Hardy Lynn (husband William). Five cherished grandchildren: Jennifer Hardy, James Hardy, Rachel Hardy, William Hardy (wife Melissa), and Thomas Lynn (wife Jeanette). As well as many beloved great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. In addition to her husband and parents, she is predeceased by her nine siblings.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, April 26, 2025, from 10 to 11 a.m. at Calvary Alliance Church, 273 Orange Ave, Milford, CT 06461 (Please meet directly at church). A Service will begin at 11 a.m. with reception to follow in the Church Fellowship Hall downstairs.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to: Calvary Alliance Church, 273 Orange Ave, Milford, CT 06461 CMALLIANCE.org (The Christian and Missionary Alliance Overseas Ministries – Thailand) COMPASSUS.com (COMPASSUS Hospice 612 Wheelers Farms Road Milford, CT. 06461)
To light a candle or leave a condolence in her memory, please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Dana P. Hendershott
Dana Hendershott, age 75 of Milford, died peacefully after a courageous battle with Parkinson’s Disease. He was the beloved husband of Anne Hendershott, as well as a devoted father, grandfather, uncle and faithful friend to so many.
Dana was born on October 24, 1949, in Middletown, New York, the son of the late Henry and Katherine Hendershott. A graduate of Santa Cruz High School, Dana graduated from the University of San Francisco where he was a pitcher for the USF Dons and was a USF All-Time leader in wins, ERA, innings pitched, complete games, appearances, and strike-outs. As a sophomore at USF in 1969 he posted a single season record of 1.67 ERA in 21 games. In 1971 he earned an All-American selection, First-Team All-Conference, All-District Honors, and the Green and Gold Loyalty Award. In 1983, Dana was inducted into the USF Hall of Fame, and in 2005, USF named Dana a “Legend of the Hilltop.” Most of Dana’s baseball records still stand at USF.
After graduation, Dana signed with the Los Angeles Dodgers and played for several years in their Minor League system. It was during his baseball years that he met Anne, his wife of 50 years.
A dedicated employee in the insurance industry, Dana treasured the friends he made throughout his baseball and corporate career and continued to be grateful for their kindness and support.
Committed to service, Dana volunteered much of his time for various charities—including the Human Life Review where he served as a member of the Board. Because of Dana and Anne’s service to the Catholic Church, they were selected by the Hartford Archbishop to become a Dame and Knight of the Holy Sepulcher at a ceremony held at St. Patrick’s Cathedral.
Dana leaves behind his beloved wife Anne and children Heidi and Jonathan and their spouses Kostas and Neena. He also leaves his adored grandchildren Luke, Henry and Hudson, as well as a number of cherished nieces, and nephews. One of the kindest and gentlest men most of us have ever known, Dana leaves a long legacy of love and friendship. He never once complained about the limitations his Parkinson’s Disease imposed even though it limited his mobility and took away his ability to do the things he had so enjoyed—including golf. His family will always be grateful to those treasured friends from baseball and his corporate years who often traveled long distances—some from the West Coast—to visit him throughout the difficult years of his illness when he could no longer travel to visit with them.
Funeral services for Dana will be held at 10 am on Thursday, April 3, 2025 at St. Mary’s Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT. PLEASE MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH. Interment is to follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, 315 Buckingham Avenue in Milford. In lieu of flowers, friends may wish to contribute to the Human Life Foundation, 271 Madison Avenue, Room 1005, NY, NY 10016 www.humanlifereview.com
To light a candle or leave a condolence in his memory please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Dorothy Marie (Valentine) Kalakay
Dorothy M. Kalakay, age 89, beloved wife of Michael R. Kalakay, Jr. of Milford, entered peaceful rest on March 21, 2025.
She was born on June 1, 1935 in Bridgeport and was the daughter of the late James and Susan (Convertito) Valentine. Dorothy worked as a Laboratory Technician for Quest Diagnostics for many years before her retirement. She was a member of Christ the Redeemer Ladies Guild and a coordinator of the Beautiful Woman of Christ the Redeemer Knitting Group.
In addition to her devoted husband of 64 years, Dorothy leaves her loving daughter, Theresa E. DeRosa of West Haven and her grandsons, Dominic DeRosa (Tara Sokol) and Nicholas DeRosa and her great granddaughter, Lily Sokol-DeRosa. She also leaves her sister, Susan Ellis and her niece, Leigh Trayer and many dear friends. Her sister, Jane Ellison predeceased her.
Family and Friends may call on Wednesday, March 26, 2025 from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. (DIRECTLY) at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Road, Milford with interment to follow in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford.
Chuan Ko Chi
Chuan Ko (Tom) Chi, aged 90, passed away peacefully on April 3, 2025. He leaves behind a legacy of curiosity, loyalty to family, and a deep love of stories.
Born in Xiamen, China, Tom spent his early years exploring the countryside before moving to the Philippines as a teenager. There, he met Rosita—the girl who would become his beloved wife of nearly 60 years.
As a young man, he moved to Brazil in search of opportunity, where he joined General Motors in São Paulo and made meaningful contributions to automotive manufacturing. Eventually, he reunited with Rosita in New York, and together they began their life in the United States.
Tom and Rosita settled in New Haven, Connecticut, where they raised their two daughters, Claudine and Cynthia. He worked as an HVAC mechanic in the engineering department at Yale New Haven Hospital for more than 30 years. Known for his meticulous attention to detail and pursuit of continuous improvement, he left a lasting impression on colleagues and friends alike.
He was certified by the Refrigeration Service Engineers Society in refrigeration and air conditioning and was a proud member of ASHRAE and RSES. A lifelong learner, Tom read widely on many topics, thoughtfully annotating passages in his neat, elegant handwriting.
He had a signature style—plaid shirts and stylish hats—and enjoyed long walks around the neighborhood. A feminist in his own right, Tom never tied actions to gender. He was a steadfast partner to Rosita and instilled independence and responsibility in his daughters.
Tom is survived by his devoted wife, Rosita; daughters Claudine (Michael) and Cynthia (Geoffrey); grandchildren who brought him endless joy; loving nieces and nephews; and dear friends who loved him like family.
We will deeply miss his quiet strength, warm laughter, and mischievous sense of humor.
Memorial Services
Visitation: Saturday, April 12, 2025, at 10:00 AM
Memorial Service: 11:30 AM
Location: Cody White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, Connecticut 06460
With Gratitude
The family wishes to thank The Clelian Center, the Alzheimer’s Association of Connecticut, Orange Health Care Center, and AccentCare for their compassionate care and support.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, April 12, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. with a prayer service at 11:30 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom’s memory may be made to:
The Clelian Center of Hamden, Connecticut.
Alzheimer’s Association of Connecticut
Betty A. Lane
Elizabeth A. “Betty” Lane, 85, beloved wife of the late John T. Lane, of Milford for thirty years and mother of the late Frank M. Barron III and the late Joanne E. Toth passed away peacefully on March 19, 2025. Born on February 4, 1940 in Richmond, VA, she was the daughter of the late Helen S. Fisher and William B. Fisher of Bridgeport.
Betty grew up in the south most of her young life but came to Connecticut to spend wonderful summers with her cousins, the late Barbara Williams of Milford, the late Elaine Hokunson of Milford, the late James Stewart of Derby and Lynne Rzepecki of North Scituate, RI, and eventually moved to Connecticut in 1964.
She attended the university of Georgia majoring in business administration and retired from Charles Schwab in Fairfield in 2002 where she was a financial planner and stockbroker. In her leisure time she enjoyed doing charcoal portraits of friends familied and their pets.
A Graveside service will be celebrated on Tuesday, April 1, 2025 at 10am at Kings Highway Cemetery 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Denise M. Lojko
Denise Maureen Lojko, 80 of Milford, passed away peacefully on March 19, 2025. Denise was born on February 26, 1945, in the Bronx, NY to the late Dennis and Dorothy Mackey. Denise was the beloved wife of 59 years to Eugene J. Lojko.
Denise was a devoted wife, mother, and friend, whose love and dedication touched the lives of all who knew her. For over 30 years, she worked as a medical billing agent for home health care organizations, bringing her professionalism and compassion to every task. Denise met the love of her life, Eugene, in their early 20s through a mutual friend. From the moment they met, Eugene knew she was the one he would marry, and in 1966, that dream became a reality. Together, they built a life full of love and laughter, settling in Milford in 1971 to raise their family.
Denise and Eugene shared a special bond with their dear friends Bill and Tina Demuth, enjoying countless evenings of spirited card games, particularly Canasta. These games often stretched for hours, sometimes days, as they added an extra deck for more fun, but the laughter and camaraderie always made the time spent together unforgettable.
A passionate gardener and home improvement enthusiast, Denise took great pride in her home, always seeking new ways to make it a beautiful and welcoming place. Her love for reading was boundless, often finishing up to five books a week, constantly expanding her knowledge and fueling her imagination.
Denise’s legacy is one of kindness, joy, and a deep appreciation for life’s simple pleasures. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends but will be remembered for the love and warmth she shared with all.
In addition to her beloved husband, Eugene, Denise is survived by their two children: son Keith Lojko (Kathleen) and daughter Kimberly Molster (Dave). Four grandchildren: Andrew Lojko, Timothy Lojko, Madeline Lojko, and Daniel Molster. As well as her brother Kevin Mackey (Helen), and many beloved family and friends. She is predeceased by her brother Richard Mackey.
All services are together be held privately by the family. In lieu of flowers, donations in Denise’s memory can be made to the American Lung Association.
John F. Maccone
On Saturday, March 22, 2025, John Francis Maccone passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family and friends. John is predeceased by his parents, John and Violetta Maccone. He is survived by his wife Theodora, and three children, James, John, and Christen.
John was raised in Brooklyn, New York, where he met the love of his life, Theodora. His interest in electronics and his outgoing nature grew into a career with Honeywell Fire-Lite Safety. This eventually brought him and his family to the community of Milford, Connecticut, in 1996. While raising his family in Connecticut, John never left Brooklyn behind. In the winter, he brought his wife and children to see the Christmas lights in Dyker Heights and in the summer the family could be found at L&B Spumoni Gardens each with a slice of Sicilian in one hand and spumoni in the other.
John spent his free time restoring cars, turning the house he purchased into a home for his family, volunteering in his community and teaching his children to do the same. His knowledge was astounding and what he did not learn for himself, he learned from watching others. He was always busy, but always willing to lend a hand. Whether you had electrical issues, car troubles, gardening questions, craftsman difficulties, or were just looking for a good place to eat, John would offer his help with a smile on his face.
John’s congeniality was unending. He was often found calling Bingo numbers at Saint Gabriel School or organizing and greeting people at Fantasy of Lights. If you’ve ever attended the Odyssey Festival, John has certainly helped you navigate the parking lot. He assisted with set-up and tear-down of the festival, as well as the many yearly events that took place at Saint Barbara Greek Orthodox Church; and he always brought his pickup truck. John also found time to be involved with the Porsche Club, Habitat for Humanity, and Connecticut Grounds Keepers Association.
John will be remembered for his enthusiastic pursuit of new projects, always having a quip to make people laugh, and being able to name almost any song title and artist within a couple seconds of listening. His smile is forever embedded in the memories of those who knew him and his love implanted in our hearts.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday April 1, 2025 at 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. with a prayer service at 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 2, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Interment will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Road, Orange.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to American Red Cross, St Barbara Orthodox Church, IOCC or UNICEF.
Daniel Charles Mazzabufi
Daniel Charles Mazzabufi, age 38, of Milford, entered peaceful rest on March 7, 2025 at his home.
He was the beloved son of Charles R. Mazzabufi, Jr. and Patricia J. (Richitelli) Mazzabufi of Orange. Dan was born on February 13, 1987 in New Haven. Dan graduated from Platt Tech High School. Dan started his first business at the age of 16, Dan’s Landscaping and now is the proud owner of Mazzabufi Property Maintenance. In addition to his devoted parents, Dan is survived by his Paternal grandmother, Sandra Mazzabufi of Milford, his uncle, Jeffrey Mazzabufi (Lori) of Florida, aunt, Lisa Garrison of North Haven, and his cousins, Catherine Naughton (James), Michael Mazzabufi (Shelby), Jennifer Rainer (Ewen) and John Richitelli (Judy) and their children. He will be dearly missed by his beloved dog, Ruger. He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather, Charles R. Mazzabufi, Sr., maternal grandparents, John and Dorothy Richitelli, aunt Deborah Richitelli and uncle John Richitelli and his first dog Riley.
Family and Friends may call on Thursday, March 13, 2025 from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:30 a.m. at Saint Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish) 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford, CT Interment will be private.
James “Jim” P. Patchell Jr.
James “Jim” P. Patchell Jr., 74 of Milford, passed away peacefully on March 17, 2025, while surrounded by his loving family. Jim was born on May 4, 1950, in New Haven, CT to the late James Perry Patchell Sr. and Marion Holleran Patchell. Jim was the beloved husband of 43 years to Mary Ellen Patchell, the love of his life.
Jim dedicated much of his career to hard work and precision, spending seven years in the frozen distribution center at American Frozen Food, ten years with Atlas Moving & Storage, and over 15 years as an expeditor and planner at Oriel Corp. before retiring.
A proud graduate of Notre Dame High School, Jim continued his education at the University of New Haven, where he excelled as a football player—his 6’4.5” stature certainly giving him an edge on the field. His love for the game remained strong throughout his life as he passionately cheered for his favorite team, the New York Giants. During high school, he was also a skilled marksman on the rifle team.
Beyond work and sports, Jim had a deep love for bowling. A longtime member of the Milford Bowlerama teams, he formed many lasting friendships while achieving an incredible feat—bowling over eight perfect 300 games. His enthusiasm for the sport was unmatched.
Jim also had a passion for cooking, always eager to try new recipes, much to his wife’s delight when she got to enjoy his delicious creations. He cherished socializing with friends, sharing stories, and spending time at the Milford Elks Club.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Lord Chamberlain Nursing Home for their exceptional care and kindness.
In addition to his beloved wife, Mary Ellen, Jim is survived by his two children: son James P. Patchell III (wife Cara) and daughter Erin Marie Patchell, and his grandson Sawyer Patchell. As well as many additional beloved family and friends. In addition to his parents, Jim is predeceased by his brother Gary John Patchell.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, March 27, 2025, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Interment will be held privately by the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Jim’s memory can be made to the Milford Elks Lodge 1589 by check to “Milford Elks #1589” and mailed to: 124 New Haven Avenue, Milford CT 06460.
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Irene S. Perretta
We are deeply saddened to announce that our beloved Irene S. Perretta, 80, of Milford, joined the love of her life in heaven on March 10, 2025. She was the beloved wife of 52 years to the late Philip C. Perretta. Born in Bridgeport on February 25, 1945, to the late Peter and Rose Vaggelopoulos.
She was a 1962 graduate of Central High School. Her career path lead her in many directions: she started her career in Reads Department Store. She moved on to Travelers Insurance. When her daughter Carmen was born, she stayed at home with her until Carmen was in 1st grade. The next chapter was working for several doctors as office manager. The last chapter lead her to Elizabeth Arden in Stamford where she worked for 17 years. Her last role was working in the Quality Department.
She travelled to many places throughout her life including Bermuda, Italy, Greece (she loved Mykonos and Santorini), London, Paris and several states in the U.S.
She was a courageous woman, she survived breast cancer, colon cancer and had both hips replaced. She never let any challenge get her down. She was a role model to all who knew her. Her smile lit up the room and made others feel welcome, happy and loved.
She was a volunteer for many organizations starting in high school with Candy Striping at St. Vincents Hospital. A Brownie and Girl Scout leader, helping in the Library at Orange Avenue school & Rainbow Girls. When she retired, she found happiness working at St Barbara’s Church assisting with prepping for Bake Sales, festivals and serving at Church luncheons. Each of these experiences lead her to dear friends.
Irene is survived by her beloved daughter, Carmen Rose, her beloved son-in-law, Nick Rapetski; and her grand dogs, Gio and Jake. She is also survived by her sisters-in-laws Yvonne and Carole, her brother-in-law Ronald and several nieces and nephews. She is also grieved by her caregivers, Vivian and Linelle, as well as dear longtime friends, Rita Carpenter, Elenor Hill and Anne Marie Mercurio. In addition to her husband, Irene was predeceased by her sister, Sophie Metsopoulos.
A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 19, 2025 at 11 at Saint Barbara Greek Orthodox Church 480 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT. Family and friends may gather from 10am to 11am AT THE CHURCH. Interment will follow at Lakeview Cemetery 885 Boston Ave., Bridgeport, CT.
Andre Quinn
Andre Quinn, Age 50, of Milford CT, passed away on Sunday March 23rd, 2025 at Yale New Haven-Bridgeport Hospital. Born on May 18th 1974 to Mary & Gerald Quinn of New Windsor, NY. Beloved son of Gerald Quinn of Hooksett, NH and beloved brother of Cherie’ Mezias & her husband Jay Mezias of Derby, CT. Also survived by many aunts, uncles, and cousins in the Boston area. Graduate of Hesser College, Andre went on to have a successful career in Aviation in CT. A viewing will be held in the Immaculate Conception Church 216 East Dunstable Rd Nashua, NH 03062 on Tuesday morning, April 1st at 9:30 AM, followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:00 AM. Burial to follow in St. Louis de Gonzague Cemetery, Nashua, NH. Online guest book at www.brownandhickey.com.
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Raymod A. Ross
Raymond A. Ross, age 66, passed away on March 7, 2025. He was born February 3, 1959, in Milford, Connecticut to Lee Ross and the late Al Ross.
Ray graduated from Amity High School in Woodbridge where he was a bass player in a rock band. Ray was pressman and later the owner of Ross Copy & Print in West Haven for over 30 years. Through his dedication to the community, he was elected the Exalted Ruler of the West Haven Elks Lodge 1537 and a member of the Chamber of Commerce. On a nice summer day, you could find Ray at the beach reading a book.
Ray was devoted to his family. He is survived by his mother, Lee, his sister Lin (Greg Deemy); sons, Ray (Krista), and Matt (Melissa) and their mother Toni Ross, 6 grandchildren whom he adored and a nephew Greg Deemy (Reneé). He is predeceased by his father Al, his brother Bill, and his partner Tina Balboni.
He will be missed by his family, friends, and all those whose lives he touched. He always had a smile on his face, he made your heart smile, and was always ready to help anyone in need.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, March 14, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. with a memorial service at 12:30 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Family, and friends are welcome to celebrate Ray’s life. Internment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Ann & Robert H Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago. Or send a check to Lurie’s at Dept 5486, Carol Stream, IL 60122-4586.
John “Otto” Schwartz
John Andrew Schwartz, affectionately known as Otto, passed away unexpectedly on Friday March 14, 2025 at his home. Otto was born October 12, 1956 in Bridgeport to the late Otto and Margaret Schwartz. He was a loving partner for more than 20 years to Wendy Hubbell.
Otto was well known in Milford bartending at Lasse’s for 40 years. He was a huge Rolling Stone’s fan and had the pleasure of seeing the band many times. He enjoyed watching sports and cheering on the Jets and Giants. Otto loved being outside whether it was working in the yard, sitting by a campfire, or riding his beloved Harley. He had a great smile that lit up any room and will be missed by his family and friends.
Left to cherish his memory is his partner, Wendy Hubbell; his brother Wayne Schwartz; stepdaughter, Rose Teta and her daughter Gabby; stepson Alfred Teta, his wife Carla, and their children, Alex and Carrianna. In addition to his parents, Otto was predeceased by his siblings: Robert Schwartz and Margaret Burke.
Visitation will be held from 5:00pm – 7:00pm on Friday April 4, 2025 at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Ave, Milford.
To leave an online condolence or share a memory with Otto’s family, please log on at www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com
Memorial contributions in Otto’s honor may be made to the American Heart Association at pages.heart.org or to the American Liver Foundation at liverfoundation.org.
Shirley Jean (Townsend) Silva
Shirley J. Silva, age 85, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Jack Silva, died on Wednesday, March 26, 2025. Shirley was born in Pittsburgh, PA on December 3, 1939 to the late Harry and Annabelle Elkin Townsend Borrelli. Shirley was a factory worker at Schick for many years and previously worked as a lunch aid in the Milford school system. She retired from Carriage Green where she worked as a receptionist and was a talented gardener and a Steelers fan.
Survivors include her children: William Sheehan and his wife Helen and Kimberly Gresko and her husband Michael both of Milford, grandchildren, Billy and Patrick Sheehan and Nicole Gresko, brother, Francis Patrick Borrelli and his wife Geraldine of PA and several nieces and nephews. Shirley is predeceased by her brother William James Townsend.
Friends and family may call on Monday, March 31st from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Funeral service will be held in the funeral home on Tuesday April 1st at 10:00 a.m. Interment will follow in Saint Mary’s Cemetery, Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Milford Animal Shelter. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Roger A. Smith
Roger A. Smith, 82 of Orange, CT, passed away on March 28, 2025. Roger was born on August 5, 1942, in Derby, CT to the late Alden and Mabel Petersen Smith. He was the beloved husband of 60 years to Karolyn Whitney Smith.
Roger, a lifelong resident of Orange, CT, was the steadfast provider and beloved patriarch of his family. As the backbone of his loved ones, he worked tirelessly as a roll grinder operator for United Aluminum Corp. for over 20 years.
In his younger years, he was a skilled handyman, even building his own deck from scratch. In his free time, he enjoyed playing online Scrabble and passionately cheering for the Kansas City Chiefs and the UConn Women’s Huskies with the family cat, Ariel, by his side. In addition to being a loving husband and father, Roger was admired by his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, who lovingly called him “Grampy.”
Roger is survived by his beloved wife Karolyn, and their two children Jeffrey Smith (wife Stephanie) and Patricia Smith. Three grandchildren: Blair Smith Husted (husband LCDR Andrew Husted, USN), Matthew Smith (wife Hannah) both teachers in the North Haven school system and Olivia Smith. Two beloved great grandchildren: Estelle Husted and Magnolia Husted. Roger is predeceased by his sister Judith Hongo and was Uncle to her two children nephew Gregory Vernon and his family, and niece Rhonda Hooper and her family. Also a beloved niece Casey Sugarman, daughter of Karolyn’s Sister Linda.
All services are to be held privately by the family. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Barbara Stach
Barbara Stach, age 72, beloved wife of David Stach for 49 years, died unexpectedly on Thursday, March 20th , 2025.
Barbara was born in Derby on January 8, 1953 to the late Joseph and Olga Lobas Kort. Barbara was the Human Resource Manager at Spectrum Associates and worked there for 47 years. Barbara graduated from Southern Connecticut University with a Bachelors in Elementary Education and she graduated from University of Bridgeport with a Masters in Modular Scheduling.
Barbara enjoyed caring for her beautiful and fragrant flower garden, enjoying a good book, and spending time with her family. She was a hard worker that brought her keen eye for detail to everything she did. She was known for her sophisticated style and grace. She left her creative touch on each holiday from elegant décor and decadent desserts. She spent happy moments watching the birds out her kitchen bay window enjoying the view of her feeders and houses. She will always be lovingly remembered as someone you could rely on to do anything asked of her and someone who deeply loved her family.
In addition to her devoted husband, Barbara is survived by her four loving daughters: Julianne Stach of Milford, Ashley MacPherson and her husband Ross of MA, Karissa Shields and her husband Tristan of Meriden and Kristin Stach of Milford, grandchildren, Austin and Ian MacPherson and Genevieve and Aubrey Shields, siblings, Rosemary Jendras of FL, David Kort of Trumbull and Thomas Kort of Seymour and brother-in-law, Alan Stach of Bridgeport and nieces and nephews. Barbara is predeceased by her brother-in-law, Ronald Stach.
Family and Friends may call on Thursday, March 27, 2025 from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, March 28, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. (DIRECTLY) at Saint Joseph’s Church, 32 Jewett Street, Ansonia. Interment will follow in Saint Michael’s Cemetery in Derby.
Richard A. Stannard
Richard A. Stannard, 78, passed away peacefully at home, March 17, 2025. He was the dear husband of Debra Deyorio Stannard. Richard was born in Hartford on March 8, 1947, a son of the late Warren G. and Florence Adams Stannard. He received his Masters Degree in Counseling and worked for Southern Connecticut State University for many years. Besides his wife, Richard is survived by his brother, Warren (Lois) Stannard II, his sister-in-law, Joanne Gerlach, his nephew, Brandon Coldwell, and his dear friends, Julius Fabrini and David Fowler. Besides his parents, he was predeceased by his brother-in-law, Albert Deyorio Jr. Richard became a dedicated servant and Jehovah’s Witness on July 2, 2011.
Friends and family are invited to a funeral service, Monday, March 24th, in the Kingdom Hall, 885 Wintergreen Ave., Hamden, at 10:00 AM. Interment with his parents will follow in Fairview Cemetery West Hartford. The Celentano Funeral Home is serving his family.
Helene Myra Williams
Helene Myra Williams, 69, of Milford, beloved wife of Howard Williams, passed away on March 13, 2025. Born on October 28, 1955, she was the daughter of the late Irving and Toby (Taxier) Miller.
A graduate of Albert Einstein School of Nursing in Philadelphia, Helene fulfilled her lifelong passion of caring for others as a nurse for over 40 years at Milford Hospital and Saint Vincent’s Hospital, where she spent the majority of her career in the operating room. In her free time, she was a devoted cat mom, a dedicated New York Mets fan, and an avid game show watcher. Most notably, she was a frequent shopper at all grocery stores, especially the Stop & Shop in Milford.
In addition to her loving husband, Helene is survived by her stepdaughters, Wendy Williams, and Stephanie Niles; her grandchildren, Gwendolyn, Astrid, Nicholas, and Gabriel; her brother, Todd (Linda) Miller; her nieces, Taylor and Jordyn; many special cousins, including Phyllis Evarts, Thea (Robert) Alfano, and Terry Borden, of whom she was especially close, and close friend Nadine (Gary) Kaml. Helene was also predeceased by her grandmother, Sue “Bubbie” Taxier.
Friends and family may call on THIS SUNDAY, March 16, 2025 from 11:30am to 2pm at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Memorial Service will begin at 12:30pm. To watch the service via livestream, please click HERE. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Pancreatic Cancer Action Network at pancan.org, or a local animal shelter.