Abbazia, Margaret
Margaret Abbazia, of Milford, died peacefully at home on Saturday, March 27, 2021. Margaret was born in Stamford on December 8, 1928; daughter of the late Rocco and Bernarda DiNapoli. Margaret, and the love of her life, Tony, raised their four children in Stamford.
Left to cherish her memory are children, Bernadette (Stephen) Ward, Marilyn Lodato, Timothy (Mary) Abbazia, Anthony (Lisa) Abbazia; and grandchildren Timothy (Rebecca), Brian, Kevin (Ashley), Sean (Samantha) Hughes, and Holly (Todd) Murphy, Michael Lodato and Julie (Colby) McCormick, TJ and Sophia Abbazia, Tony, Sara, Jessica, Maria, Dominic and Lydia Abbazia.
Margaret is also survived by an extended family of great grandchildren, in-laws, nieces, and nephews.
Margaret was predeceased by her beloved and devoted husband, Anthony (Tony) Abbazia; her sister, Carmella Cantavero; and brothers Alphonse and Pasquale DiNapoli. She is survived by sisters-in-law Marie DiNapoli and Mary DiNapoli.
Margaret graduated from Stamford High School in 1946 and started working at the Home Finance Company where she met her husband. After raising her family, she returned to work for People’s Bank, retiring at the age of 62. A few years later Margaret and Tony moved to Milford, CT and very much enjoyed living there throughout their retirement years.
Margaret was grateful for all the blessings in her life and always maintained a positive attitude. She valued her family and was the most supportive mother and friend.
The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Margaret’s long-time caregiver and friend, Victoria Kwofie, who provided excellent care in a very kind and loving way.
Interment will be private. A memorial mass to celebrate Margaret’s life will be held at a later date. When available, information will be provided on the website, codywhitefuneralservice.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation at CFF.org/give-today (chose New York Western Rochester Chapter).
Aronson, Nelly M.
Nelly graduated from the Mary Louis Academy in 1946 before moving to CT in 1948. She worked as a statistition/editor for Standard & Poors for 33 years. Nelly was an avid roller skater in her younger days and also taught ballroom dancing in both the Milford school system and privately for adults. She was the third president of the original Milford Women’s Club, a past president of the Devon Lady Lions Club, and was a member of the Civil Air Patrol while living in New York during World War II.
Nelly leaves behind her children, Debora (Gregory Donohue) O’Brien and Nancee (Ron) Taylor; grandchildren, Sean (Beth) O’Brien, Jon Paul Stevens, and Heather (Edwin) Peckham; and great grandchildren, Hayley Fitch, Kaitlyn Peckham, Edwin “EJ” Peckham, and Corbin O’Brien.
All services will be private. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford, CT 06405. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Attard, Salvatore Frank
Salvatore Frank Attard, 88, of Hamden, formerly of Orange, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 16, 2021 with his beloved wife of 65 years by his side.
Sal was born on June 16, 1932 in West Haven to the late Frank and Josephine (Messina) Attard. He is survived by the love of his life, Carmela (Juliano) Attard, and their two children, Lisa (Heath) McMonigal and David (Maryann) Attard. Known lovingly as “Pops,” he will be missed by his 5 grandchildren; Kelly (Marc) Carrano, Kristen (Vinny) Torres, Rebecca (Michael) Walters, Elizabeth Shultz, and Royal (Megan) Attard, and his 9 great-grandchildren; Vicente, Micah, Julian, Lucia, Rosalie, Violet, Destin, Harper, and Phoenix. He also leaves behind his 2 sisters; Christine (Bruce) Ladrie and Jacqueline Attard, his 3 sisters-in-law; Maryanne Hande, Teresa DeNicholas, and Gilda Wojcik, and a brother-in-law; Thomas (Annamay) Juliano, along with his many adoring nieces and nephews, and a vast number of extended family members and dear friends.
Sal worked for many years at Armstrong Rubber Co. and was also a licensed electrician, but his favorite work was that of talking to people and teaching them about his heavenly Father, Jehovah God. As one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, he found great joy in helping people learn about Biblical truths, and also extended himself to work on many volunteer building projects throughout the US and several other countries. He was a member of the Lake Whitney Congregation in Hamden.
Sal wholeheartedly believed in a promised resurrection on earth in the near future. He expressed his desire to see all of his family and friends again in this beautiful paradise to come. He wanted to be remembered for his love of God, family, and friends, and for his endless energy and joy for life. In his own words, “I love you all dearly.”
A memorial of his life will be celebrated at a time to be determined. Contributions in Sal’s memory may be made to the Jehovah’s Witnesses at www.donate.jw.org. Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden is in care of arrangements.
Bachman, Jean M.
Jean was a strong faithful woman who enjoyed spending time with her family, reading, and listening to classical country music. She was famous for her fruit salad and her delicious sour cream coffee cake.
Jean leaves behind her children, Michele (Richard) Rouse, James T. (Terry) Bachman, Jr., Cheryl (Robert) Hofmiller, and Mark (Kristina) Bachman; seventeen grandchildren; three great grandchildren; brother, Richard Kalinowski; and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her brother, Walt Kalinowski.
Friends and family may call from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Thursday, March 25, 2021 at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Due to gathering restrictions, only 50 people will be allowed inside at a time. Masks and social distancing will be required. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 7, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Masks are required. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Badenhausen, Cintra Morgan
“What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world remains and is immortal.” Albert Pine
It is with great sadness that the family of Cintra Morgan Badenhausen shares news of her passing on March 7, 2021. We know that hearts around the world will mourn Cintra’s passing.
Cintra’s family was her greatest joy. She is survived by her son John and daughter-in-law Donna Fluhr, daughter Susan and son-in-law Doug Eldridge, son Morgan, and daughters Cintra Olson and Cimbria. Cintra was blessed to have loving adult grandchildren: Zohar and his wife Brooke, their son Theodore, granddaughters Nadezhda and Natasha, Goddaughter Cintra Warden and many nieces and nephews. Cintra was preceded in death by her beloved sister Olga Reigeluth and brother Vaughan Morgan. We will honor our Mother’s legacy by honoring her values of kindness and generosity of spirit.
Cintra attended The Agnes Irwin school as a young girl, graduated from The Westover School, the University of Pennsylvania, where she met her husband Dr. Bayard Badenhausen, and obtained her Masters Degree in Social Work from Fordham University.
Cintra had a successful career in human services as a social worker and psychoanalyst, practicing late into her eighties. It was her experience attending the Out-of-Door Academy in Sarasota Florida that seeded Cintra’s spirit, instilling a life-long support of nature as teacher. As a teenaged counselor at a “fresh-air” camp outside Philadelphia, and later as a Girl Scout leader for more than forty years, Cintra shared her love of rivers and lakes. She helped almost a thousand girls develop a passion for camping and canoeing, attending competitions all over the Northeast. Cintra and her dear friends Laura Sorgenfrei, Edith Sloane, and Leon Smith spent many Summers portaging through Canada with Senior Girl Scouts, creating friendships and memories that will last a lifetime.
When Cintra married Bayard in 1948 they continued his passion for classic cars, attending car meets with the older children. Their marriage lasted almost seventy years, until Bayard’s passing in October 2017, a few months after his ninety-seventh birthday. Although Cintra looked like a starlet, she was warm, light-hearted and engaging, with a creative, mischievous and curious nature. She passed on many of these traits to her family.
Cintra’s home was often the gathering place for kids of all ages. Everyone was welcome, and many found a refuge there. As one family friend shared, one could “be yourself” with her.
A celebration of Cintra’s life is planned for July 10, 2021. If you would like to join us, please reach out to Cintra Olson (CintraOlson@gmail.com) or to one of the siblings on Facebook.
If you would like to honor Cintra, please contribute to an organization that supports rivers, lakes, and watersheds, or one that introduces outdoor education to children. That would make her happy. American Rivers, the Girl Scouts, and Special Olympics were three of Cintra’s favorite charities. Remember, if you have ever touched or hugged Cintra, you carry her DNA inside you. She will always be with you.
Barbieri, Nancy Lee
Becker, Susan P.
Susan P. Becker, age 71, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Donald R. Becker, died on Sunday, March 28, 2021. Susan was born in Hartford on June 10, 1949 to the late Wallace and Aileen Wilkinson Post. She was a teacher in the Milford Board of Education School System for over 30 years. She enjoyed summer days on the beach and loved to garden and kayak. Survivors include her children; Ken R. Becker of Milford, Donald R. Becker Jr. (Stacy) of Naugatuck and Lorri Becker of FL, five grandchildren; Kayla, Jessica, Bradley, Brandon and Jacob Becker, one great-granddaughter, Lucy Becker, sisters-in-law; Mary Post and Beverly Charland, several nieces and nephews and her loved dog, Rogue. Susan is predeceased by her brother, Robert Post and sister, Deborah Post. A walk-through visitation will be held on Monday, April 5th from 10:00 am – 11:30 am in The Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Please follow current pandemic concerns by wearing a mask and keeping social distance. Interment will be private.
Benjamin, Lisa
Bradford, Donald R. Jr.
A graduate of Granby High School, Don went on to earn degrees from Greenfield Community College and UMASS Amherst. While Don may be best remembered for his time at the YMCA as Assistant Physical Director, he has held many other positions that served the community, from being a Franklin County Probation Officer, a Bail Commissioner, Guardian Ad Litum and Investigator for the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children. Don also supported and volunteered his time as a Big Brother with the Big Brothers Big Sisters of America.
Later in his career Don worked as an Agent for TSA as well as becoming both a Private Investigator and Private Pilot. After years of service, his most recent and much-loved career was traveling with his wife, Yue, to different parts of the world. He was a loving, giving, kind man that will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.
Don leaves behind his wife, Yue Bradford; children, Donna Bradford and Rachael Bradford; grandchildren, Shayla Abbott, Michael Abbott, Lauren Bradford, Grace Emmerson, and Noah Emmerson; great granddaughter, Gabriella Emerson; and sister, Dr. Susan Bradford. He was predeceased by his daughter, Laurel Ann Bradford; grandson, Elijah Abbot, and his parents.
Services will be private at this time. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation – ChristopherReeve.org/donate. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at the Cody-White Funeral Home, Milford, CT. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Brinley, Shirley G.
A private service will be held Saturday, March, 20th in Milford, CT by Rev. Joseph Miller, father of Jennifer Brinley. Burial will be at Orange Cemetery. Arrangements are by HM Patterson in Atlanta and The Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home in Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, please donate to The Animal Haven in North Haven, CT; the Connecticut Humane Society; or the American Heart Association. To share a memory, please visit,
www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Donahue, Margaret J.
A member of the Bassick High School class of 1942, Peg became a Milford resident in 1948. She was a dedicated Registered Nurse for over 40 years, serving in the Cadet Nurse Corps during WWII and later working at Bridgeport Hospital. She eventually joined Pond Point Healthcare, where she spent 30 years, going on to retire as evening supervisor. A past President of Foxwood Condominiums Homeowners Association, she was active well into her later years; known and admired for her sharp mind and quick wit. A versatile conversationalist happy to chat about anything from world affairs to her favorite sitcoms, Peg enjoyed times at the Senior Center, rooting for UCONN basketball and setting up her Christmas Village. She also loved baking and was a skilled seamstress and knitter, frequently making doll clothes and scrunchies for her beloved grandchildren, who, along with anyone else lucky enough to have known her, learned a great deal from her and will miss her dearly.
Margaret is survived by her children, Linda (David) Gaffney, Sheila Butler, and Kathy Donahue; her grandchildren, Megan (Theresa Hessey) Gaffney, Colleen (Robert Hermann) Gaffney, Timothy (Angela) Butler, and Laura (Matthew) Allen; her great-grandchildren, Maxwell, Noah, Jeremy, Eleanor, and Jacob; her step-great-grandchildren, Riley and Lucas; several nieces and nephews. Margaret was predeceased by her husband of 25 years, John P. Donahue; her siblings, Barbara (Arthur) Christensen and Robert (Sherry) Johnston; and her sons-in-law, Robert Butler and Edmund Donahue.
A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Monday, March 22, 2021 at 12:30 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Friends and family may call from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. prior to the service. Due to gathering restrictions, a limited number of people are allowed inside at a time. Masks and social distancing will be required. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Douglas, Elaine J.
Elaine J. Douglas, 73, of Milford, wife of Philip Douglas, passed away at the Connecticut Hospice on March 9, 2021. Elaine was born April 23, 1947, in New Haven, daughter of the late Antonio Tousignant and Rose Picardi. She was employed as an Executive Secretary for Electralux. Besides her husband, Philip, she is survived by a daughter, Laura Douglas of Massachusetts, two sisters, Anna Rourke of Connecticut and Sharon Rosacker of North Carolina, a brother in law, Stephen Douglas and his wife Barbara of New Jersey as well as her nieces, Dawn Nowak, Crystal Paradis, Clarissa Robakeiwicz and a nephew, Chris Rourke. She is predeceased by a niece, Kimberly Rourke. Elaine was an avid animal lover and she leaves behind her cats, Jade and Ginger and a grandcat, Talula. Calling hours will be held at the D’Angelo Funeral Home, 22 South Main St, Middletown, on Tuesday, March 16th from 12:00PM – 2:00PM. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family.
Etter, Eugenia “Jeany”
Golub, Barbara M.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Thursday, April 1, 2021 from 10 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Masks and social distancing will be required. A private family funeral service will be held at 11:30 a.m. However, all are invited to attend virtually via livestream at www.oneroomstreaming.com. Event ID: Codywhitefh Password: NWRKTC. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Swim Across the Sound at https://give.stvincents.org/DonateNow and the Alzheimer’s Association at www.alz.org/donate. To leave online condolences and view the full obituary, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Gordon, Frederic M.
Frederic graduated from Jonathan Law High School in 1964 before enlisting in the Navy. After serving in the Vietnam war, Frederic went on to work at Sikorsky Aircraft for 35 years. He enjoyed listening to oldies, taking his daily walks along the beach, and spending time with family. “Fred”, as his friends and family called him, was a master at Jeopardy trivia and crossword puzzles. He loved caring for his cats, Charlotte and Dewey, and had a passion for animals and their well-being.
Frederic leaves behind his children, Michael (Rosa Conti), Scott, and Emily Gordon; grandchildren, Ashley and Samuel; siblings, Richard (Mary) Gordon and Elaine (George) Berendt; and many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his brother, Robert Gordon.
A gathering of family and friends will take place on Friday, April 2, 2021 from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. Military Honors will conclude calling hours at 6 p.m. At this time 50 people are allowed inside the building at a time and masks are required. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Animal Haven, Inc. at https://www.theanimalhavenct.org. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Holler, Constance Alice
Constance Alice Holler, 88, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Paul John Holler, Jr., passed away at home on March 17, 2021. Born on February 18, 1933 in Chicago, IL, she was the daughter of the late William Arthur and Tamsen Jenny Voight.
Constance was an LPN for 69 years, a proud member of the Eastern Star and Rainbow Girls. She was a door greeter at Sam’s Club for 20 years. Her happy personality and infectious laugh would always brighten someone’s day. Constance loved to sing and entertain her friends and family. She was an accomplished seamstress who was always excited to create original pieces. Constance was a mom first and always had a listening ear and a shoulder you could lean on. Constance had been a member of the First Presbyterian Church of Fairfield since 1952.
Constance leaves behind her children, Marcia Rosser and Nancy (James) Murray; grandchildren, Bryan Rosser, Lauren Whitney, and Erin (Matthew Brodrick) Murray; great grandchildren, Chelci, Tyler, and Stacia; sister, Wilma (Robert) Smith; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Patricia (Jim) Powers and Richard (Florence) Stoll; sister-in-law, Janet Wojna; and step father, William Stoll.
The family would like to thank Andrea for her compassion and exceptional care.
All services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Alzheimer’s Association Connecticut Chapter or a charity of choice.
Hummel, William C.
William C. (Bill) Hummel, 92, of Orange, passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by his family on March 26, 2021. He was the beloved husband of Mary L. Hummel for 62 years. Bill was born in New Haven on January 22, 1929, he was the son of William and Lena (Roth) Hummel. He is survived by his three children, William Hummel of Easton, John Hummel of Orange and Mary Ellen McMahon (Kevin) of Fairfield. He is also survived by his two loving grandchildren, Lydia Hummel and Liam McMahon.
Bill graduated from Hamden High School and Quinnipiac University before entering the family business, Hummel Bros., Inc. as the Wurstmacher (Sausage Maker). He left the business briefly to serve his country in the Korean War. He returned to Hummel Bros., where he was President and CEO and worked until his retirement at the age of 83. Hummel Bros., was his passion and life’s work. He often worked long hours side by side with his coworkers who he thought of as not only employees but friends.
Bill was a true gentleman, he had a kind disposition and an unwavering work ethic. He was meticulous and dedicated, whether it was yard work, finishing the family basement, or building a stone wall in the woods you would always find him working with his hands, a ruler and level until whatever he was working on was absolutely perfect. Bill loved music, particularly Polka music which as fate would have it led him to Long Island as a young man where he met the love of his life, Mary, at a Polka Dance in Port Washington, NY. Whether it was Port Washington, Riverhead or Warsaw Park, as a young couple you could often find Bill and Mary on a Saturday Night on the dance floor doing the Polka. Bill loved spending time with his family, sitting out by the pool on warm summer days and watching his New York Giants on Sunday afternoons.
The family would like to thank the caregivers who took such amazing care of him during his brief illness. We will never forget the kindness and selfless care you gave him.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Tuesday, March 30, 2021 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Masks and social distancing will be required. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 31, 2021 at 11 a.m. at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Burial will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Rd., Orange, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Holy Infant Church which was such a source of comfort for Bill in his later years. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Kolcun, Victoria M.
Victoria M. Kolcun, age 95, of Milford, beloved wife of the late John Kolcun, died on March 19, 2021, surrounded by her family. Victoria was born in Bridgeport on March 14, 1926 to the late Aniello and Ermelinda Calogero Rodia. After retiring from the sales department at Consumers Petroleum, Vicky devoted her life to spending time with her family. GG, as she was known to her family, was a frequent spectator at her grandchildren’s sporting events, and never missed a chance to take a trip with her daughters and their families. She had a smile that could light up a room, and she will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to know her. Survivors include her children: Deborah Giannini (Duane) of Newtown and Joan Krusinski (Richard) of Milford; six grandchildren, Amy Lyddy (Ryan), Alison Farrell (David), Amanda Caparosa (James), Melissa Goncalves (John), Megan Embler (Justin) and John Krusinski; seven great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. Victoria was predeceased by her four brothers: Daniel, Alfred, Ralph and Anthony Rodia and five sisters, Phyllis, Angelina, Jane, Josephine and Mildred. Services will be held in private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Krotki, Michael
Michael Krotki, age 36, of Milford, passed away unexpectedly on March 21, 2021. Born on November 29, 1984 in Bridgeport, he was the loving son of Paul and Mary Krotki.
Michael attended Southern Connecticut State University, majoring in mathematics and was a 2002 graduate of Joseph A. Foran High School. He worked in several sales positions before finding his passion in real estate and was most currently employed by YB Realty. Michael had many interests such as hiking, skiing, mountain biking, going to the beach and riding his motorcycle, but most important of all was spending time with family and friends. He loved to sing out loud and make people laugh, especially with his infamous facial expressions and dance moves. He was deeply devoted to his cherished dogs, Junior and Kali. Cooking for others was also one of his greatest enjoyments. He spent every year since birth vacationing in Cape Cod and he never stopped looking forward to it.
Throughout his childhood and into adulthood, Michael had a loving and inseparable bond with his brother, Daniel and sister, Jessica. His relationship with their spouses, Stephanie and Matthew, flourished from the very beginning. He graciously says see ya later, but never goodbye to each of them. His love for his Goddaughter/Niece, Ashlyn, was indescribable and he adored her, his Nephew, Aiden and his Godson, Duke. He also leaves behind his Parents and Maternal Grandmother, Irene Andrejko, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends who he had a profound love for. He would have done anything for any of them. Michael was predeceased by his Paternal Grandparents, Joseph and Margaret Krotki and Maternal Grandfather, Edward Andrejko.
Friends and family may gather on Saturday, March 27, 2021 from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to GoFundMe, “Not Goodbye But See You Later” to assist the family with final arrangements.
Masciola, Domenick R. Sr.
In addition to his beloved wife Cookie of 53 years, survivors include three loving children, Domenick R. Masciola, Jr., Anthony Masciola and Lauren Masciola, two cherished grandsons, David Juchem and Jashua Masso and three sisters, Louise Ruggiero, Betty Salamanca and Dolores Yaremich as well as many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, Enrico Masciola and sisters, Annette Deyo, Gloria Masciola and Jeannette Urban.
Friends are invited to meet directly in St. Michael Cemetery, 2205 Stratford Ave., Stratford on Friday, March, 26, 2021 at 11:30 a.m. for a graveside service. There will be no calling hours. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull. To leave an online condolence, visit us at www.abriola.com.
Muller, Helen D.
She loved working in the yard and on the home where she loved to watch all kinds of birds and butterflies in her backyard. Survivors include her children: James Muller (Anuska) of Milford, Karen Atkins of North Carolina, Robert M. Muller (Annie) of GA and Cindy Jaques (Bill) of Milford, nine grandchildren, Angelina and Courtney Muller, Chris and Kevin Sutay, Bobby Müller and Kelly Müller Ruth (Sean) and Jeff Jaques, Jennifer Jaques Salgado and Sandra Jaques Pietrini. Her best friend of over 35 years Nina McCullough.
Helen was predeceased by her son, Scott Whitley; and siblings, Raymond McKernan and Joan Sperber. Friends are invited to a walk-through visitation on Friday, March 19th from 5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford, CT. Please follow current pandemic concerns by wearing a mask and keeping social distance. Interment will be private. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Novak, Katherine Adele
Katherine Adele Novak passed away peacefully in her home in Orange on February 6, 2021 at the age of 100. She was born on September 7, 1920 in Manhattan, NY, to the late Burton William and Florence (Dengler) Clark.
A 1941 graduate of Cornell University, she taught at Homer Academy, NY, and during WW II served in the Signal Corps, Department of War, in Washington, D.C. as a cryptographer. After raising her children, Kathren was employed by the Yale Medical Library.
Kathren is survived by her children, Paul, Nancy and Barbara, their spouses Vivian, Robert Lyons, and Leigh Coen; three grandchildren, John Paul Novak, Megan Elizabeth Jordan and husband Bruce, Bryant Novak Coen and wife Stephanie, and Douglas Clark Coen; and by two great-grandchildren, Patrick Bruce Jordan and Everly Marlene Coen. “Kay” was predeceased by her husband Charles T. Novak, Jr. and by her sister, Carolyn Lucille Shellhammer.
All services will be private in Little Falls and Utica, NY. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Oliver, Michael P.
Michael Patrick Oliver, age 65, of Hamden and formerly of Milford, died on Sunday, March 7, 2021. Michael was born on April 4, 1955 to the late William and Florence Boucher Oliver. He was a truck driver and loved to be outdoors. Survivors include his children: Megan Oliver and Michelle Oliver both of Milford, sister, Patricia Oliver of Milford and nephews, Jamie and Ryan Oliver. Michael was predeceased by his brother, William Oliver Jr. and James Oliver and his nephew, Jimmy Oliver. Friends are invited to call on Thursday, March 11th from 4:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Please follow current pandemic guidelines by wearing a mask and keeping social distance. Interment will take place on Tuesday, March 16th at 10:30 a.m. in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Pasenelli, Edward A. Jr.
Ed proudly served his country in the US Army during World War II. He was a graduate of Fairfield Prep and Bridgeport University. He retired after 27 years as Credit Manager at Seymour Energy.
In addition to his wife, Helen, Ed is survived by his three sons, E. Michael (Stephanie) Pasenelli, Robert (Sherry) Pasenelli, and William (Jennifer) Pasenelli; his grandchildren, Stacey Box, Jay and Lucy Pasenelli, and Jory and Neil Morrison; his great granddaughter, Bethany Ansell; his brother, George Pasenelli; and several nieces and nephews. Ed was predeceased by his brother, John Pasenelli and his sisters-in-law, Rita and Burdena.
All services will be private. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Pisacane, Carl D.
Above all else, Carl loved being a father and grandfather. He coached his children’s sports as they grew up and enjoyed family vacations to Cape Cod. Carl loved boating, the ocean, cars and cowboy movies. Having a sweet tooth, ice cream and Hershey bars were never safe in Carl’s presence. He loved all types of food and took advantage of daytime naps.
Carl leaves behind his children, Russell W. Pisacane, Karen (Mark) Pisacane-Robinson, and Donald J. (Jessica) Pisacane; grandchildren, Jimmy and Justin Davenport, Lexi Robinson, and Ryan, Joshua, Ava, and Olivia Pisacane; sister-in-law, Rebecca Pisacane; and many nieces, nephews, and extended family members. Carl also leaves behind his fiancée, Patty Kvancz. He was predeceased by his wife, Sharon Southard Pisacane; and siblings, Rosemary (Fred) Platt and Ralph Pisacane.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to all the doctors, nurses and staff on the 10th Floor at Bridgeport Hospital for their loving and attentive care.
Friends and family are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Wednesday, March 17, 2021 from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, March 18, 2021 at 10 a.m. at the funeral home. Burial will be private. Due to gathering size restrictions, a limited number of people will be allowed in the building at one time. Masks and social distancing will be required. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, 2911 Dixwell Ave., Hamden, CT 06518 or http://alz.org. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Dec 09, 1936 – Mar 19, 2021. George W. Purington, 84 of Milford, Connecticut, beloved husband of 61 years to Claire Purington passed away March 19, 2021 at Milford Hospital. Born on December 9, 1936 in Gardiner, Maine to Charles Purington and Gertrude Straight Purington.No services planned at this time.
Pauline Rita Rindos, age 85, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Charles R. Rindos, entered peaceful rest on March 18, 2021 at Bridgeport Hospital.Ross, Carol Ann Tantimonaco
Carol Ann Tantimonaco Ross, 82, of Milford, passed away at home on March 5, 2021. She was born in New Haven on February 16, 1939, to the late Joseph and Antoinette (Loiurio) Tantimonaco.
After graduating high school, Carol moved to New York to pursue a career in Nursing. She earned her diploma in Nursing from Kings County Hospital School of Nursing in 1959. Through the years, Carol continued to further her education and went on to achieve a BA in Philosophy in 1968, BS in Nursing in 1982, and MS in Nursing Administration in 1984. Carol was an animal lover (especially cats), enjoyed baseball games (a lifelong Mets fan), and an avid reader (with an impressive collection of books) before losing her sight in recent years.
She was predeceased by her sisters, Mary Buckley and Lucille Ross, and brother, Carl Tantimonaco. Carol is survived by her brother-in-law, Howard Ross; sister-in-law, Sharon Tantimonaco; nephews Gary Ross, Ken Ross, and Joseph Tantimonaco; nieces Kathleen Patterson, Tracy Huneke, and Kim Ross; several great-nephews and great-nieces. Carol’s family would like to extend special thanks to her neighbors, Beverly Smith and Louis and Carol Paolillo, for all the kindness and assistance they provided Carol over the years.
Funeral services will be announced at a later date.
Santa, Paul
Paul is survived by his 3 children, David and his wife Patricia, Bob and wife Marie of Columbia, CT, and Judy and husband Chris Beatrice of Sonoma, CA. He was Granddad to Kara, Jennifer and her husband Mike Jaffe of Bolton, CT and Collin Beatrice; and Great Granddad to Mark and Danielle Jaffe. Paul is also survived by his sister Roberta Lehotsky of Pittsburgh, PA and many wonderful nieces and nephews, as well as close family friends in Virginia.
Paul’s talent and passion for music began as a child playing the saxophone, flute, and clarinet. He enlisted in the Army and served his country in WWII, stationed in Newport News, VA where he was a member of the Army band and met the love of his life, Barbara. They were married on October 16, 1945. Shortly thereafter, they moved to Boston, MA where Paul’s music career took him on the road with a Big Band Orchestra playing many famous clubs all over the country.
After a few years of life on the road, he attended Boston University where he earned a degree in Mechanical Engineering. Paul and Barbara moved to Connecticut in 1953 where Paul began working at Sikorsky Aircraft as a flight inspector and did so for 35 years. He continued to play music during this time as a member of a quartet, on Saturday nights at the VFW in Devon, CT.
Paul was a kind and gentle man with a fantastic sense of humor who loved a good joke and movies featuring Peter Sellers. One couldn’t help laughing right along with him. He enjoyed playing golf and followed the careers of his favorite pro golfers throughout the years faithfully watching the PGA tours on TV. He was a member of the Sikorsky Golf League for many years. Whenever he had the chance, Paul would attend the Greater Hartford Open/Travelers Championship with his sons, David and Bob, sharing his love of the game. He enjoyed a good meal, a nice glass of red wine, and when his daughter Judy moved to California, he loved to visit and experience the Wine Country, sampling all the varietals. He loved fishing, gardening and nature, spending many afternoons on his back porch enjoying the flowers, birds, and squirrels in the yard. Paul will be greatly missed by his family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the charity of your choice. A funeral service and a mass of Christian burial will be held at a future date. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. To visit our website, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Scranton, Carol
Carol M. Scranton died peacefully on April 1, 2021, at Crosby Commons in Shelton, CT. She was born on July 6,1922 in Mount Vernon, NY. She was the daughter of the late Norton B. and Etta Geib James.
Carol attended Ohio University and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in journalism. While at college, she met her husband, Donald N. Scranton, of West Haven. They married in 1946 and were together for 57 years before his death in 2003. Carol and Donald lived in Mount Vernon and were summer residents of Milford for many years. They moved to Orange in 1978. Carol was very independent and never hesitated to speak her mind; she also had a great sense of humor. Her interests included gardening, cooking, reading, playing bridge with friends, and watching UConn women basketball games. In addition, she was an active volunteer at Milford Hospital for many years. She also loved animals, especially dogs.
Carol is survived by her son Peter Scranton (Sher) of Madison; granddaughter Sara Monro Restrepo (José); and great-grandchildren Liliana and Gabriela Restrepo of Orange. She is also survived by grandchildren Peter Scranton (Heather) of Clinton, and Annie Scranton (Michael) of New York City, along with 3 great-grandchildren. Carol was predeceased by her daughter, Donna Monro, of Orange, with whom she resided prior to moving to Crosby Commons, as well as her brothers Norton and Rowland James. Carol’s family would like to thank the wonderful staff at Crosby Commons. The family is also grateful to Acuity Homecare, especially Rebecca and Denise, and Seasons Hospice. No memorial service is planned at this time due to the pandemic, and her interment will be private. Arrangements in care of Cody-White Funeral Home in Milford.
Soda, Lawrence E.
Lawrence E. Soda, 63, of Milford passed in peace on Friday March 5, 2021. Larry is survived by his loving daughter Brittany Soda, former wife and cherished friend Donna Evans, brother William (Lisa) Soda, nieces, nephews and many beloved friends and family. Special thanks to Frank Silva and Melissa (Ricky) Marti for their friendship, love and care. Born in Milford on July 12, 1957, Larry was predeceased by his parents Dr. Lawrence E. Soda and Stella Wiktorowicz Soda.
Larry was a wonderful man that was loved, is missed, and will always be cherished and fondly remembered by his family and friends.
All services are private and in care of the West Haven Funeral Home at the green. To leave an online message for the Soda family, please visit our website: www.westhavenfuneral.com.
Van Wagner, Elaine Maulucci
She was a beloved wife, sister, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. After being a stay at home mom to her three children, Elaine worked at Bic for many years before going to work at the Milford Board of Education as a secretary. She was involved with the girl scouts and boy scouts and enjoyed being a troop leader for her children. After retirement, Elaine and Albert had many adventures traveling around the country. She was a very talented artist, which she was very passionate about her entire life. She was known for her avid collecting of Santa Clauses.
Elaine leaves behind her daughters, Patricia Dwinel (husband Roy), and Ann Bartone (husband Andy), granddaughters Anne Kane (wife Kristen) and Frankie Jo Maulucci, and great-granddaughters Ashley Lankton and Edie Kane. Elaine also leaves behind stepdaughter Cherilyn Rein, and step grandchildren Robin and Jay Rein. She was predeceased by her son, Frank Timothy Maulucci, and her sister Lorraine Pigott.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Sunday, March 28, 2021 from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Due to size gathering restrictions, a limited number of people will be allowed in the building at one time; masks and social distancing will be required. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Van Wagner, Albert F.
Albert F. Van Wagner, 94, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Elaine Van Wagner, passed away March 25, 2021. Albert was born on January 23, 1927 in Bridgeport, CT to the late Frank and Mildred Van Wagner.
Albert worked for the Milford Board of Education for over 40 years. After retirement, Albert and Elaine had many adventures traveling around the country. They were both longtime parishioners of St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Milford. Albert enjoyed hunting, woodworking, puzzles and western movies.
Albert leaves behind his daughter, Cherilyn Rein; grandchildren, Robin Rein and John J. Rein, Jr.; step daughters, Patricia Dwinel (husband Roy) and Ann Bartone (husband Andy); step granddaughters, Anne Kane (wife Kristen) and Frankie Jo Maulucci; and step great-granddaughters, Ashley Lankton and Edie Kane. He was predeceased by his first wife, Agnes Van Wagner; and son-in-law, John J. Rein, Sr.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through on Sunday, March 28, 2021 from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Due to size gathering restrictions, a limited number of people will be allowed in the building at one time; masks and social distancing will be required. Interment will be private.
White, Robert J. Sr.
Robert was an avid outdoorsman, fisherman and hunter. Known as “Poppy” to his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, he was a very family oriented man. He had a great sense of humor and was “the host with the most” who had the ability to feed an army. Robert cooked for Pop Warner Youth Football before the concession stand existed and volunteered to play the role of Santa for the Knights of Columbus for 30 years. He also worked for Carpenter Steel for over 20 years and was a volunteer firefighter for Company 3 in Milford.
Along with his wife, Robert leaves behind his son, William (Tabitha) White; grandchildren, Rebecca Lilley (Anthony Korkodilos) and Nicholas Kopes; great grandchildren, Cassidy, Connor, and Chelsey Davis; daughter-in-law, Lisa White; and many friends. He was predeceased by his children, Sindy White and Robert J. White, Jr.
Family and friends may pay their respects at a walk-through wake TODAY, Friday, March 19, 2021 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Family and friends may pay their respects again on Saturday, March 20, 2021 from 9:30 a.m. to 10 a.m. Due to gathering restrictions, only 50 people will be allowed inside at a time. Masks and social distancing will be required. A Private Family Funeral Service will be livestreamed at 10 a.m. Saturday morning. To virtually attend, please visit www.oneroomstreaming.com, username: Codywhitefh, password: NKSAHZ. We invite you to join in Mr. White’s Last Ride, leaving from the funeral home at 11 a.m. and processing to Kings Highway Cemetery. However, due to covid restrictions, burial will be reserved for immediate family. Instead, after the procession, please join them at a gathering at the VFW, 422 Naugatuck Ave., Milford, to further cerebrate his life. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Zavidniak, Peter
