Mario “Chick” Alberghini
Friends and family are invited to attend his funeral services on Friday at 11:00 a.m. directly at St. Rose of Lima Church, 46 Church Hill Rd. Newtown, CT. Interment will be private. Friends may express their condolences to the family on Thursday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Cyril F. Mullins Funeral Home, 399 White Plains Rd. Trumbull, CT.
To view his complete obituary or to leave an online condolence, please visit www.mullinsfh.com.
Elizabeth D. Barbano
Elizabeth D. Barbano, 94, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Guy R Barbano Senior, passed away peacefully on November 16, 2023 surrounded by her loving family. Elizabeth was also pre-deceased by her parents, Pasquale and Anna Rose (Gualtieri) D’Agostino; and her five siblings, Anna Marcello (James), Joseph D’Agostino (Winifred), Michael D’Agostino (Marion), Philomena DeStefano, and Mary Scacozo (John).
Elizabeth was born at home on May 2, 1929 in Brooklyn, New York, the sixth and youngest child of Pasquale and Anna Rose (Gualtieri) D’Agostino, both immigrants from Pomarico, Italy.
Elizabeth, who survived polio as a toddler, grew up in Flatbush, Brooklyn New York and attended Brooklyn College, the first coed liberal arts college in New York City. She was the first college graduate in her family and one of the few women in her class to complete a Bachelor’s degree. Elizabeth taught elementary school in Harlem, NY, before marrying her husband Guy. Elizabeth and Guy moved to Milford, CT, in 1960, where they raised their nine children and remained for the rest of their lives.
Elizabeth was a determined and hard working woman devoted to her children and supporting her husband Guy in his multiple civic and community activities as Finance Director for the City of Milford, Alderman, President of Milford Chamber of Commerce, and proud member of the Knights of Columbus. In addition to raising her children, Elizabeth supported many children throughout her life as an educator and grant administrator at the Cardinal Sheehan Center in Bridgeport.
Elizabeth is survived by her children, Daria Fitzgerald (Robert), Gaetana Barbano-Grinder (Kevin), Marisa Creaghan (Stephen), Roselle Jardim (Edward), Elizabeth Flynn (Jay), Adria Barbano, Patricia Barbano-Parczany (Dieter), Guy R Barbano Jr (Maura), Juliette Sabo (Louis); her grandchildren, Annarose Fitzgerald Steinke (Christopher), Maria Schroeder (Peter), Daria Fitzgerald (Coleman Hall), Zoe Barbano Grinder, Patrick Grinder, Mariella Creaghan, Elizabetta Fill (Timothy), Chiara Creaghan, Aya Creaghan, Melkamu Creaghan, Mulunesh Creaghan, Michael Jardim (Tasha), Mark Jardim (Rokshana), Thomas Jardim (Nerlande), Stephen Jardim (Monserrat), Sharonrose Jardim, Marisa Jardim, David Jardim, Jessica Gianfredi, John Flynn (Marykate), Evelyn Gray, Christopher Rosett (Lesley), Rose Rosett, Amelie Parczany, Guy R Barbano III (fiancé Alannah Basile), Giovanni Barbano, Mary-Elizabeth Sabo (Tim), Emily Sabo, Katie Sabo, Louis P Sabo III; and her great-grandchildren, Regina, Jonathan, Anthony, Robert, Charles, Nico, Luca, Elias, Inaaya, Nadege, Eva, Blaise, Inaaya, Flynn, Max, Kieran, Lukas, Ethan, and Timothy.
Elizabeth will be remembered as a model of perseverance and determination; overcoming paralysis and learning to walk again after the birth of fraternal twins. She was a gifted seamstress who designed and made wedding dresses as well as other heirloom-quality dresses for her daughters and granddaughters. Elizabeth was also a talented artist of pencil drawings, oil and pastel painting. She loved cooking, babies, dogs, dolls, music, and a fierce game of Scrabble, and all things Italian. Her multiple talents included a lovely singing voice which she shared on stage in a memorable performance of You Make Me Feel So Young directed to a baby doll in a highchair! She did not miss an opportunity to encourage her children to perform in talent shows and direct home performances as a family event. She will be deeply missed.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Sunday, November 26, 2023 from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Monday, November 27, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Peter’s Episcopal Church, 71 River Street, Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Burial will take place at a later date. Please wear colorful attire to celebrate Elizabeth’s life. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (pancan.org), Operation Smile (operationsmile.org), The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals®(https://secure.aspca.org/donate), or St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital (https://www.stjude.org/donate).
Miriam F. (Wotton) Bull
Miriam F. Bull, age 80, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Anthony F. Bull, passed away peacefully on November 30th, 2023 surrounded by her family.
She was born on March 10, 1943 in Bridgeport and was the daughter of the late Joseph and Mary (Heaphy) Wotton. Miriam started her career as a hairdresser and later worked as a machine operator for Bic Corp. in Milford for many years before her retirement. She enjoyed her Craft Club on Tuesday afternoons.
Miriam is survived by her devoted children, Kathleen Bull (Mark Butt) of Milford and Michael F. Bull (Joanne) of Trumbull and four granddaughters, Meghan Travis (Michael), Sarah Pogozelski (Dean), Melissa Bull and MaKenna Sharpe and two great grandchildren, Isabelle and Hannah and her two bonus grandchildren, Courtney Urcuyo (Michael) and CJ Butt. She is also survived by her devoted sisters, Celeste Tomasko, MaryLee Seaman and several nieces and nephews and many dear friends. She was predeceased by her daughter, Margaret Mary Bull and her sister, Mary Lou Vitelli.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, December 4th at 10 a.m. at St. Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish) 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment to follow in St. Mary Cemetery, Milford. Family and friends may call on Sunday from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 201 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association.
Barbara Calosso
Barbara attended and graduated from Saint Mary’s High School in New Haven, CT. She was employed as a staff assistant in the Comptroller’s office of Southern Connecticut Telephone Company for over 30 years until her retirement.
Barbara was a devout Catholic and member of St. John Vianney Church where she served many roles including Sacristan and Eucharistic Minister. She gave generously of her time, talent and treasure; volunteering at the Church Carnival, Diaper Bank, Food Pantry and Clothes Closet. If there was a Church function, Barbara was always there to lend a helping hand, along with her best friend, Regina Stevens, who predeceased her last year on November 25th, 2022.
In recognition of her innumerable contributions to church life, she received the Saint Joseph Award for Dedicated Service in 2011.
Barbara’s other love was her beautiful garden and the birds that visited daily. They were a constant source of joy for her, especially in her final months.
Well-loved by her many cousins and neighbors, Barbara was known for her gentle demeanor and kindness. Barbara brought comfort and love to all who knew her. Despite being gone from our sight, her spirit lives on in all of us who were lucky enough to have had her in our lives.
She is survived by her loving St. John XXIII Parish family, her cousins in the US and Italy, and her beloved Richmond Avenue neighborhood friends. She will remain forever in the hearts of the Cheng family of California, and especially the Cangiano family, of which she has been a part for 78 years. Special thanks to her caregiver, Anna Pirog, and dear neighbors Sandra Brinson and Sara Murphy.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to one of Barbara’s favorite charities: St. John Vianney Church/St. John XIII Parish, The Special Olympics, or CT Hospice (for the full list see marescafuneralhome.com).
Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in St. John XXIII Parish at St. John Vianney Church on Dec. 2, 2023 at 11 a.m.
Interment in St. Lawrence Cemetery. Maresca & Sons Funeral Home, 592 Chapel St. is in charge of arrangements. Offer condolences at marescafuneralhome.com.
Roberta “Babe” (Fraser) Cerrone
Roberta “Babe” Cerrone, age 88, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Nicholas J. Cerrone, entered peaceful rest on Sunday, November 19, 2023.
She was born on September 16, 1935 in Hartford and was the daughter of the late George and Mary (Sabol) Fraser. Babe worked in many areas of food service including catering at the former Sante’s Manor and a dietary aid at Carriage Green. Babe will forever be remembered for her kindness, love and dedication to her family and friends. Her presence will be deeply missed but her memory will live on in our hearts of all who knew and loved her.
Roberta is survived by her devoted sons, Mark J. Cerrone (Cheri) of West Haven, Nicholas W. Cerrone of Crystal River, FL and beloved daughter, Dawn Cashman (Michael) of Naugatuck and seven grandchildren, Mark, Jesse and Sara Cerrone, Michael and Ryan Cashman and Danielle Tamargo and Melissa Simon, eight great grandchildren, Marco, Santino, Jesse, Leonardo, Christiana, Anthony, Madison, and Cara and a great great granddaughter, Maya. Her sisters, Lorraine Gura and Joan Verrilli predeceased her.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, November 27th, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. at Saint Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish) 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment to follow in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford. Family and friends may call on Sunday, November 26th, 2023 from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.
Jessica F. Braun Ciola
Jessica Frances Braun Ciola, 46, of Bethany passed away into eternal rest on November 25, 2023. Born on December 24, 1976, in Milford, she was the daughter of Edward Braun and Karen Acheycheck.
Jessica spent her early childhood years on Bayview Beach in Milford, Connecticut. As she grew older she attended Laurelton Hall for high school where she was known as a force of nature. Jessica excelled in track and field, especially in the high jump and short-distance sprints. After high school, she continued her track and field career at Sacred Heart University while studying English Literature. Shortly after Jessica started Sacred Heart she fell deeply in love with John Ciola. Jess built her dream home in Bethany and had three beautiful children Shauna, Jenna, and Kyle. Jessica was an incredibly intelligent woman and she craved stimulation and constant growth so she founded MPOWER Studio, a workout center designed for women to own their power and strength. After many successful years at MPOWER Studio, Jess moved forward with her fitness career at the JCC Fitness Center.
It did not take long for Jess to become fully immersed in the JCC community, radiating her positive vibrant energy to every member whom she came across. Jess worked as a personal trainer and director for the JCC; she changed hundreds of lives with her charismatic energy. She had a unique process that did not just focus on weight loss, but full mind, body, and soul wellness. Jess wanted to reach more people outside her community so she recently started a fitness education app called REGAIN. This is where she focused her commitment to continued learning and strength by teaching people how to regain strength through whole-body wellness. Over 25 years in the BOW she built a community of love and family. Jess was curating a new business, running the JCC fitness center, and was a Mom to three but she always found time to visit with her cousins, have a beer with friends in Maine, and cook lasagna for her family.
Jess found peace in being with her people. She would travel to Colorado to ski with Shauna and fill her fridge with homemade food, snuggle with Jenna and talk about the world, and have frequent backyard chats with her son Kyle about his recent welding projects. You would often find Jess dancing in the kitchen to foo fighters or reading a book in her grandmother’s chair with a cup of tea. She loyally cared for her three Great Danes and her two cats. Jess always had love and healing in her heart. She loved truly and, as hard as she could in every moment. She was a one-of-a-kind woman, she cherished her people, she would hold her people tight, and she loved with everything she had.
Jessica leaves behind her grandmother Mary Braun (101), her father and mother Edward Braun (72) and Karen Sorenson (70), her husband Christopher Scott (49), and her three children Shauna (25), Jenna (22), and Kyle Ciola (19). Her two step-children Alexa (21) and Sierra Scott(18), her Braun, Fahey, and Acheycheck Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins and her three beloved dogs and two cats Beyla, Shea, Indy, Bear, and Delilah. Services will be held on December 6th, 2023.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, December 6, 2023 from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Great Dane Rescue of New England.
Daniel Clifford
In Loving Memory of Daniel Clifford (Dan)
Devoted Husband, Father, Grandfather and Brother, Dan Clifford 90, was born on April 14, 1933, in New Haven, CT, to the late Patrick and Mary (Sullivan) Clifford. Dan was part of large tight knit Irish family, the youngest of 9 children, he is predeceased by his 8 brothers and sisters, Mary Ostrander, Jim Clifford, Kathryn Clifford, Barbara Chase, John Clifford, Patrick Clifford and Thomas and Eugene who died in infancy. He passed away on November 29, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of love, faith, service, and a life well-lived.
Struck with polio at the age of 10 and told he would never walk again, through pain, hard work and determination proved the doctors wrong and excelled in basketball, baseball, golf and was even inducted into the Connecticut Fast Pitch Softball Hall of Fame.
This determination followed Dan throughout his life as he served his country during the Korean War in the U.S. Army. Following his military service, his thirst for knowledge and adventure led him to explore and travel the world extensively.
After returning home, Dan pursued his education, attending Quinnipiac University and Springfield College earning a degree in History. He then furthered his education by obtaining a master’s degree in history from the University of Bridgeport.
In 1958, Dan began his career in education at Henry Abbot Tech then moved on to Bullard Havens where he was teacher, basketball coach, and mentor who impacted the lives of numerous students and athletes. His coaching abilities were exemplified by leading the basketball team to the state finals in 1967. Later, at Plat Tech Dan was Department Head and finished his career in education at Emmet O’Brian where he earned the esteemed Teacher of the Year award. In addition to his educational career, Daniel was also successful realtor with Jack Clifford Realty.
Daniel raised his family in Orange, CT, and was a lifelong Giants, Red Sox and Notre Dame fan. An avid golfer, he enjoyed spending time on the golf course, embracing the camaraderie the sport offered and played well into his 80’s.
Dan leaves behind his loving wife of 60 years Elaine P Clifford, his sons Daniel and his wife Catherine and Michael and his wife Ruth, as well as his 5 grandchildren, Meghan, Kevin, Julia, Emma and Patrick. “Pa” as he was lovingly called by his grandchildren, was a playful friend, teaching them how to juggle, throw a ball, putt a golf ball, and how it felt to be loved unconditionally. His family brought him immense joy, and he cherished every moment spent with them.
A gathering of Family and Friends will be held at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St. Milford CT, on Saturday December 9th from 8 a.m. to 9:30 a.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd., Orange CT at 10:30am. Burial with Military Honors will follow at St. Lawrence Cemetery, 280 Derby Ave, West Haven CT 06516. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to Alzheimer’s Association in Dan’s memory – Alzheimer’s Association – Daniel Clifford. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Gary Curtiss
Gary Charles Curtiss of Branford, CT, 72, passed Friday November 24, 2023. He was born on May 26, 1951 in New Haven, CT to the late Asa Curtiss and Carol Dandio Curtiss.
After graduating from Amity High School Gary continued working just shy of 50 years as a Union Grocer for Local 919 of The United Food and Commercial Workers Union at various Stop and Shop locations on the shoreline CT area until his retirement in 2017. Before raising his sons and spending time coaching and on the sidelines of their games in North Branford, CT he enjoyed driving his Corvette and being at his camp in Northern Maine. He loved to spend time with his sons, being a grandpa, trout fishing, The New York Yankees and Giants, tuning in daily to WFAN 660 AM, and watching action movies. He will be remembered as a loving father, grandfather, co-worker, and friend.
Gary is survived by his sons Kevin Anthony (Nashua, NH), Steven (Steve) Charles (Branford, CT) his grandson Trevor William (Branford, CT) and his best friend Kurt Avery (Milford, CT). Services will be private and he will rest at his favorite fishing spot.
Paul Howard DeCoster
DeCoster–Paul Howard, of Woodbridge, CT, died Wednesday, November 1, 2023, at Yale New Haven Hospital, at the age of 89. Born November 8, 1933, in South Paris, ME and raised in Laconia, NH, Paul was a graduate of Yale University and Law School and practiced law in New York City for 42 years before retiring to Woodbridge with his wife Judy in 1999. In addition to Judy, his wife of 65 years, Paul is survived by his sister Carol Innes, his three children, Emily, Paul and Matthew, his daughters-in-law Raquel and Erika, and his sole grandchild, Jesse Durbin. There will be a memorial service at the First Church of Christ in Woodbridge, CT at 2pm on December 10, 2023. If you would like to share memories of Paul, please visit: https://www.forevermissed.com/paul-howard-decoster/about.
Linda Marie DelPrete
Linda Marie DelPrete, 66, of Milford, beloved wife of Joseph DelPrete, passed away on November 29, 2023. Born on May 1, 1957 in St. Albans, VT, she was the daughter of the late Ellis and Marie Burns.
Linda enjoyed watching movies, especially horror or cuddling up with a good book. She loved Saturday night parties, shopping trips and visits to the casino. She had a great sense of humor and was always wicked sarcastic. Nothing brought her more joy though than spending time with her grandson, Ashton. Christmas was her favorite holiday and she loved to spend it opening presents and being with her family. Linda loved music, concerts and to sing and dance like no one was watching. She was the heart of the family and the strongest woman we knew and fought bravely until the very end.
In addition to her loving husband, Joe, Linda is survived by her children, Sherri (David) Veilleux, Michael (Shanda Nardelli) DelPrete, and Christina (Andrew Kovacs) DelPrete; her grandson, Ashton Veilleux; siblings, Randy (Linda Zargo) Burns, and Tammy Burns; her siblings-in-law, Vincent (Suzanne) DelPrete, Marie Worroll, and Donna (Rick) Allen; several nieces and nephews; her cats, Precious and Dexter; her Pekingese, Lacey and hound dogs, Harry and Dwight.
Friends and family may call from 10 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. on Monday at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will begin at 11:30 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment will follow at King’s Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Meta Dziedzic
Meta Dziedzic, 101, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Joseph Dziedzic, passed away on December 8, 2023. Born on April 27, 1922, in Yonkers, New York, she was the daughter of the late Herman and Elizabeth (Dall) Reiff.
Meta grew up in Sawkill, NY until she moved to Milford, CT in 1961. Throughout the years her hobbies and interest included; dancing, ice skating on the Hudson River, writing poetry, drawing, reading her romance novels and in the summer time; riding on the back of her late husband’s motorcycle. Meta always had an open door policy and enjoyed all the visits from family and friends. Meta enjoyed cooking and her family always knew there would be a delicious hot meal each and every night. Her house was always filled with laughter, love and support and her words of wisdom, grace and advice will carry on.
Meta will be truly missed by her children Robert, Joanne Ruotolo, Joseph and Carol. Meta will also be missed by her adored grandchildren, Jodie Torres, Megan Cloutier, Lauren Ruotolo, Daniel Reilley and Mariah Reilley. In addition, Meta leaves her most treasured great grandchildren, Andrew Torres, Hayden Torres, Jade Cloutier and Quinn Cloutier. Meta was pre-deceased by her daughter Donna Dziedzic.
Friends and family may call from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Thursday December 14, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday December 15, 2023, 10:00 a.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. Interment will follow the funeral service at Saint Mary Cemetery in Milford, CT on Friday December 15, 2023.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Martha A. Fallanca
Martha A. Fallanca was born on December 30, 1953 and passed away on November 28, 2023 at age 69).MSGT Richard C. Finn
MSGT. Richard C. Finn, 65, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved husband of Connie (Toledo) Finn, passed away on November 20, 2023. Born on January 24, 1958, in Schenectady, New York, he was the son of the late Charles Finn and Marjorie (Roberts) Finn.
Richard served in the United Stated Marine Corps for 21 years. His job as a Marine was Helicopter Mechanic and CH53E Helicopter Crew Chief. He served in Operation Restore Hope in Somalia, received the Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Kuwait Liberation Medal and the Korean Service Medal. He was also a drill instructor and retired as a Master Sergeant and Helicopter Maintenance Chief.
After retiring from the United States Marine Corps, he had a long, successful career at Sikorsky Aircraft and NAVAIR, primarily as an Aviation Logistics Engineer. He retired from NAVAIR in February of 2023 to spend more time with his beloved wife, and his grandchildren, whom he loved more than life itself.
Everyone who knew Rick would say that he is one of a kind. The type of person to give you the shirt off of his back, he was always helping others – whether it was donating to various charities, picking his grandkids up from school, giving a stranger a ride to work, or just being there to listen. He loved to go bowling with his wife, watch old war documentaries, teach his grandchildren about world history, spit off random sports facts that nobody asked for, and most of all – he loved to be around his family.
Rick didn’t have children of his own, but when he married his wife Connie, he quickly became a step-dad. Becoming a step-dad to a 9-year-old and a 17-year-old is not an easy job. But to know Rick is to love him, and that is exactly how his children felt. He dedicated his entire life to his family. When his first grandbaby, Sadie, was born – he was forever changed. If you ask anyone to tell you something about Rick, the first thing they would say was that he loved his grandbabies more than anything. He was always showing everyone pictures of them and talking about them any chance he got. He was there for every sporting event, every graduation, every dance recital and every little or big milestone. He was always there, and he will be deeply missed.
Richard is predeceased by his father, Charles Finn, his brother Derek and his sister Diane. In addition to his beloved wife, Connie, Richard is survived by his adored children, Alisha LaDore (and her husband Tom) and Matthew Schlenk (and his companion Emily Weller). Richard also leaves behind his most precious grandchildren, Sadie, Parker, Hudson and Blake (and his granddog Rocky), his mother, Marjorie, his sisters, Laura and Pam and several nieces and nephews. Gone, but never ever forgotten. We will make it our mission every day to talk about him, share memories, and keep his spirit alive.
Friends and family may call from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. on Wednesday, November 29, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. Interment will be private.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, November 29, 2023, immediately following call hours, at 12:30 p.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. Military Honors will commence at the conclusion of mass.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Carl “Buzz” Gissel
Carl “Buzz” Ernest Gissel, 92, of Milford, CT, passed away on December 2, 2023, at the VA hospital in West Haven after a short illness. Born on September 9, 1931, in Mount Carmel, PA, to Carl and Violet Wolfgang Gissel, Buzz was a dedicated and humble man who provided guidance and served as an example to his sons and all who knew him.
Buzz proudly served his country during the Korean War in Africa. After his military service, Buzz had a successful career and retired from Heim Bearing Company in Fairfield, where he was a General Supervisor. He also worked at Raybestos Company in Stratford.
A confirmed bachelor, Carl met Carol in 1973. The young widow and mother of four boys changed his life forever. As he would say “the boys came with the package”. The life he built for them included a cottage in the Berkshires where friends and family would gather and where he began fishing. Some of the best times included family and friends sleeping on every couch and floor space available to share time together.
In his free time, Buzz enjoyed playing softball and golf as a younger man and more recently, cards, walking club, traveling and family get-togethers. He was an avid follower of the UConn women’s basketball, and one of his more memorable trips included seeing them play in the final four.
Buzz was an active member of his community. As a member of St. Mary’s parish, he found solace and strength in his faith. He enjoyed helping with Christmas decorations at the church and volunteering for shelter dinners. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus and performed volunteer work at Milford Hospital for several years.
Buzz is survived by his beloved wife, Carol Gissel, of forty-nine years; and his sons, Thomas (Audrey), Kenneth (Marty), David (Jackie), Corey (Patti) and cherished grandchildren Patrick, Daniel, Cade and Jaiden Williams. He is also survived by his brother, David Gissel, sister Carlean Shomper, and many nieces and nephews. Besides his parents, Buzz was preceded in death by his siblings Eleanor Brittingham, Virginia O’Connor, Jane Stone, and many brothers and sisters-in-law.
Please join us in remembering Buzz and celebrating his life.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, December 7, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, December 9, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Military Honors will be rendered at the conclusion of mass. Interment will be private.
Donald J. Holly
Donald James Holly Sr., 89, of Milford, beloved husband of Carol Ann Holly, passed away on Monday November 13, 2023. Born on December 23, 1933 in Bridgeport Ct., he was the son of the late John and Sophie Holly.
Donald grew up on the beach in Milford, where he developed a lifelong love for fishing and the outdoors. After graduating from Milford High School, Donald honorably enlisted in the U.S. Navy where he proudly served his country on the USS New Jersey during the Korean War. Donald dedicated his professional life to the UI Company where he worked diligently until his well-deserved retirement. He was a proud member of his local VFW, where he continued to enjoy camaraderie and a friendly game of pool with his fellow servicemen.
Beyond his professional and military accomplishments, Donald found joy in various hobbies and pastimes. He was an avid bowler, showcasing his skills on both the high school bowling team and the UI Company bowling team. In his leisure time he enjoyed daytime trips to the casino and working in his yard. In earlier days, he enjoyed fishing off the Milford dock for snappers and taking peaceful walks around the duckpond and downtown green, which often included walks with his grandchildren to Wanda’s Sugar Shack. Donald was known for his tremendous love for his family, kind and beautiful heart and his love for sweets!
Along with his wife, Donald leaves behind his 3 children: Donald J. Holly Jr., Joanne Allen and Nadine Holly, 7 grandchildren: Jessica, Debrah, Holly, and Dana Allen, Christy Cicero, and Stephanie and Eric Goll, and 6 great-grandchildren: John, Jayme, Jordyn, Riley, Rowan, and Michaela. He also leaves behind his sister Barbara Rogers of Massachusetts. He was predeceased by his four brothers, Theodore, Richard, John, and Edward (Corky).
A Graveside Service will take place at a later date. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Christian T. Holmes
Family and friends are invited to a Parlor Service in the PORTO FUNERAL HOME, 830 Jones Hill Rd., West Haven SATURDAY afternoon at 1:00 p.m. Interment will be private. Family and friends may call SATURDAY morning from 11:00 a.m. until time of service. Sign Christian’s guest book online at www.portofuneralhomes.net.
Carmelite Jean Pierre
Carmelite Jean Pierre, 40, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved wife of Marcio Rene Aguilar, passed away on November 17, 2023. Born on June 05, 1983, in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, she was the daughter of the late Rodrig Jean Pierre and Lobertha Content.
In addition to her husband, Carmelite leaves behind her beloved children, Carla, Jeanne, Reyhan and Joey.
Friends and family may call from 9:00 a.m.to 12:00 p.m. on Friday, December 1, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT.
A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday December 1, 2023, 11:30 a.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. 06460.
Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
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Diana Elizabeth Edelman Kleiner
Diana Elizabeth Edelman Kleiner, affectionally “DEEK”, passed away peacefully on November 12 at the age of 76. She was an art historian known worldwide for her expertise on the art and architecture of the ancient Romans.
Diana was the Dunham Professor of History of Art and Classics at Yale University, where she taught from 1980 to 2020. She loved her subject and her students. In the classroom, she was known for her dynamic lectures and colorful wardrobes. As the Founding Director of Open Yale Courses, she trailblazed new methods of teaching online. In the early 2000s, at a time when most were scared to share their scholarly work online, she dared to be different and created beautiful digital courses that touched countless students far beyond Yale. Through her immortal online lectures, she left a permanent legacy across the globe.
Her online students frequently sang her praises. Learners sometimes logged on from remote villages with limited internet connectivity. She stayed up late on most nights chatting in online message boards and building personal relationships with admiring students.
Diana loved to travel, especially to Rome, and encouraged her students to go as well. She believed that learning should be hybrid—both in-person and online—many years before the world discovered it. Her excursions were not just about the obvious tourist sights. They were about experiencing all the nooks and crannies of both the ancient and modern city of Rome. She proudly guided students not only to the Top 10 Monuments but also to the Top 10 Gelaterias.
Diana dedicated much of her scholarly life to and completed seminal work on Roman women, including the ground-breaking exhibition “I Claudia: Women in Ancient Rome.” She is also the author of Cleopatra and Rome, which opened a new perspective on one of the most intriguing women who ever lived. In dedicating her life to an ancient society ruled by male emperors, she gave a voice to Roman women and introduced them to the world.
Her accomplishments are too many to list, but there are several more that deserve mention. She is the author of numerous books and articles on Roman art in its political and social context, including Roman Sculpture (1992), which remains the fundamental reference on the subject. In 2014, she created the magical, interactive e-book, Roman Architecture: A Visual Guide, which includes maps, geolocation links, and more than 250 photographs, most of them taken on her own trips to Europe. Diana was the first woman to chair Yale’s Classics Department; the first female Head of Pierson College; and from 1995 to 2003, Deputy Provost for the Arts with responsibility for arts, divinity, and new media.
Diana earned her B.A. at Smith College in 1969, and her M.A., M. Phil., and Ph.D. from Columbia University in 1970, 1974, and 1976.
She is the daughter of Hilda and Morton Edelman, whom she loved dearly. She is survived by her husband Fred, son Alex, and grandchildren Teddy and Samantha. She was a devoted mother who put her son above anything else and taught him that hard work and creativity can be an unstoppable combination.
Funeral services are private. The Wakelee Memorial Funeral Home, 167 Wakelee Avenue, Ansonia is in care of the arrangements. Online condolences may be made at www.wakeleememorial.com.
Paul J. “Buzzy” McGovern
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Paul “Buzzy” McGovern, of West Haven, on November 19, 2023. Born in New Haven on August 23, 1947, a son of the late Luke and Ann Withington McGovern. Survived by his wife of 36 years, Patricia “Patty” Ayres McGovern; brother-in-law Raymond W. (Fayne) Ayres; as well as many cousins. Buzzy was additionally preceded in death by his brother Luke J. McGovern.
A kind and easygoing gentleman, with no harsh words towards anyone, Buzzy was well-known and appreciated by his colleagues of 22 years at Yale University. He loved his college sports, especially Yale football and basketball. For years he attended many games with his best friend of over 60 years, Walter Murray. He also enjoyed long walks along the West Haven shoreline. Buzzy was a devoted husband and a loyal friend who will be missed, but never forgotten.
Arrangements have been entrusted to West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Visitation will be held on Friday, December 1st, from 8:30 to 10:30. His procession will then depart the funeral home for a Mass of Christian Burial in St. John Vianney Church, St. John XXIII Parish at 11 am. Interment will be private.
Teresa L. Mello
Teresa Lea Mello, 61, of Milford Connecticut, beloved wife of the late Mark Mello, passed away on November 17, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. Born on September 25, 1962, in Albuquerque, New Mexico to the late Thomas Leo Rich and Jana Inez Kidd.
Teresa was a manager at SNET, SBC, AT&T for many years. Teresa then worked as a customer service representative at United Illuminating.
When Teresa was not working, she enjoyed crocheting blankets, reading, and going on motorcycle rides with her late husband. Most recently she enjoyed days watching tv with her english bulldog “Lily”.
In addition to her mother, Teresa is survived by her loving children Rene Mitchell and Tyler Mitchell.
All Services will be Private.
Teresa’s family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. 06460.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Rhoda (Freedman) Myers
Rhoda (Freedman) Myers, 96, of Milford, devoted wife of the late Peter Myers, died at Yale-New Haven Hospital on Nov. 14, 2023. Born in Lawrence, Ma., Aug. 2, 1927, Rhoda was the daughter of the late Sidney & Sara (Sosner) Freedman. Beloved Mother of Beth Stubenhaus (James) & Barry Myers. Loving Companion of George Olshin. Treasured Grandmother of Jonathan & Samuel. Rhoda was Executive Director of B’nai Jacob Synagogue for many years and continued on for love and support.
Funeral Services at Cong. B’nai Jacob, 75 Rimmon Rd., Woodbridge, on FRIDAY morning, Nov. 17th, at 11a.m. with Interment Services to follow at the B’nai Jacob Memorial Park, Wintergreen Ave., New Haven. Memorial Contributions may be sent to Cong. B’nai Jacob. A Period of Mourning will be observed at Rhoda’s home, 628 Pope Island Rd., Milford on Friday following the service until 4p.m., Sat., 6p.m. – 8p.m., and on Sunday, 1-3:30p.m. Funeral Arrangements in care of Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven. To sign an on-line registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit: www.shurefuneralhome.com.
Maddalena Mylen
Mrs. Maddalena (Maddie) Mylen, age 91, passed away peacefully on November 15, 2023 at Mozaic Senior Life in Bridgeport CT.
Born on January 2, 1932, she was the daughter of the late Carmello and Mary Grace Garofolo. Maddie grew up in Bridgeport and graduated from Harding High School.
She spent her married life in Milford with her predeceased husband, James D. Mylen Sr. Maddie is survived by her son James D. Mylen Jr and her daughter-in-law Mona Mylen of Westport, and her three grandchildren, Jack, Cole, and Gabriel Mylen. She is also survived by a brother, James Garofolo and two stepchildren, Peter and Michelle Mylen, along with numerous nieces and nephews.
Maddie’s unstoppable spirit filled our lives with laughter and love.
A visitation will be held on Friday November 24, 2023, at Mountain Grove Cemetery in the Chapel at 2675 North Avenue, Bridgeport, CT from 10:30 am to 12:00 pm with a prayer service to take place at 11:00 am. Entombment to follow in the Mountain Grove Mausoleum. Please meet directly at the cemetery chapel.
The family is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home. To leave online condolences, please continue to the Tribute Wall tab.
Mary Lou O’Connell
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the unexpected death of Mary Lou O’Connell of Milford, CT on Thursday, November 23, 2023 at the age of 77 years young.
Mary Lou was born June 6, 1946 in Holyoke, MA the youngest child to parents Delia (Dede) Harper and George E. O’Connell. She went to Ursuline Academy in Springfield, MA. Following high school she went to college in Washington, D.C. Mary Lou worked as an Executive Assistant to the District Attorney in North Hampton, MA for many years. In order to be closer to her family, upon retirement she moved to the Heritage Sound Condominiums in Milford where she served as the Secretary on the Board of Directors. Mary Lou volunteered at the Shubert Theater in New Haven. She more recently became a member of the Irish Heritage Club of Milford.
Mary Lou was a talented knitter and avid reader, never leaving home without her Nook. She was a keen shopper, whether it be early morning on Black Friday or a ‘quick’ trip to Costco. She always looked forward to her annual shopping vacation with friends Betsy, Donna, and Pat, first to Freeport, ME and then to Woodbury Commons in NY.
Family was most important to Aunt Mary Lou. She was dedicated to each and every one of us, and we felt her love and support daily whether it be a simple call or text, making her famous potato salad for a family gathering, or being our “Uber Driver”. Driving meant time with her family, especially her great nephew and nieces, who affectionately referred to her as ‘GRuber’ (great aunt Uber). Mary Lou was a proud ‘Great Great’, and a fixture at every family event. She was also affectionately known as Aunt Mimi by some of her grand nieces. She loved her Pinot Grigio with ice and lots of laughs. It is very ironic that Aunt Mary Lou left us on Thanksgiving Day as we are all incredibly grateful for her, the unconditional love she showed us, and the impact she had on all of our lives. She will be missed immeasurably.
Mary Lou was predeceased by her parents, brother George, sister in laws Joan and Mary Anne, and nephew Matthew. She is survived by her brother Jack, nephews and nieces John Jr. and wife Jennifer, Margaret and wife Katherine, George Edward and wife Lori, Maria, and George William and wife Karen; great nephew and nieces Ali and husband Nico, Lyddy and boyfriend Clinton, Katie-John, Jack III, Julia, and Audrey; and great great nephews Giovanni and Ollie. She is also survived by special O’Brien and Starsiak cousins.
A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Friday December 1, 2023 at 11am at St Gabriel Church, Milford. Family and friends may visit from 8:30am – 10:30am prior to Mass at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Interment will be private.
Vera Jean Overchuk
Vera Jean Overchuk, 79, passed away November 30, 2023 at Bridgeport Hospital.
Vera was born on May 13, 1944 to the late John and Mary Overchuk in Milford, Connecticut, where she continued to live her entire life. She attended Milford Public Schools, graduating from Jonathan Law High School in 1962. She continued her education, receiving her Bachelor’s Degree in Elementary Education and a Master’s Degree in Library Science from Southern Connecticut State University. She taught in Milford School District for 34 years before retirement.
Vera enjoyed many crafts, such as knitting and crocheting, and she enjoyed helping others, particularly with her involvement in the Milford Senior Center.
Vera was proceeded in death by her parents, her brother Paul, and sister Tyne. She is survived by her brother Peter and wife Linda, sister-in-law Eve, and several nieces and nephews.
A visitation is to be held on Thursday December 28, 2023 at the Cody-White Funeral Home (107 Broad St., Milford CT 06460) from 5 to 7 p.m. A private burial will be held by the family.
Vera is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home, to light a candle or leave a condolence in her memory please continue to the Tribute Wall tab.
Eufstratia Niki Papadopoulos
Born July 2, 1941 to Stamatios and Christina Lahaniatis, she was raised in Uncasville, CT. It was at Norwich Free Academy (class of 1959) where her passion for art developed. Niki met Nick, her beloved husband of 61 years, at her parent’s egg business, Trading Cove Poultry Farm. On October 25, 1959 Nick and Niki were married at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church in Norwich, CT. In 1963 they purchased Pizza House in New Haven, CT, which has remained family owned and a cornerstone of the community for over 50 years. A ceramic artist and avid art collector, for many years she owned and operated the Mud Gallery.
Niki was a parishioner of St. Barbara Greek Orthodox Church, where she took great joy and passion in service from the early days on Dwight St and the Odyssey Greek Festival at Lighthouse Point Park to her many years as a volunteer of the Book & Icon store and member of the Interiors & Iconography Committees. Niki raised her family in faith and love. She was a phenomenal hostess and homemaker, often gathering friends and family at her homes in CT and FL. She loved to cook and care for her grandchildren. She will be fondly remembered as “everyone’s Yiayia”. Predeceased by her husband Nick, her sister Mary Stevens and her brother John, she is survived by her daughter Christine Alexiades, son Peter Papadopoulos, grandchildren Zena, Alexandra and Nicholas Alexiades, Nicholas Peter Papadopoulos, great-granddaughters Amalia and Maria Bond and countless nieces and nephews.
Calling hours will be held Wednesday, December 6th from 4-7 p.m. at St Barbara Greek Orthodox Church, 480 Racebrook Rd, Orange CT. Funeral will be held at 11 a.m. on Thursday, December 7th. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Niki’s memory to Saint Barbara Greek Orthodox Church. Niki’s arrangements are in the care of the Celentano Funeral Home.
Anthony J. Roberto
Anthony J. Roberto, Jr., passed away peacefully on November 23, 2023 at Milford Hospital. Tony was the husband of 24 years to Nancy (Gelgauda) Roberto. Born in Hartford on May 2, 1944, he was the son of the late Genevieve (Palka) Roberto and Anthony J. Roberto, Sr.
Tony proudly served his country in the U.S. Navy. He was employed as a plumber for 56 years and was an avid fan of the UConn Women’s Basketball, attending several Final Fours. But his greatest passion was being a softball umpire. For 50 years Tony umpired both slow and fast pitch softball. He was inducted into both Fast Pitch Hall of Fame and Collegiate Hall of Fame. Tony was also the CT Deputy Umpire-in-Chief for 25 years, the CT Umpire-in-Chief for 15 years, the CT Rules Interpreter for over 20 years, and an umpire for the 1997 Special Olympics World Games Softball. He met his beloved wife, Nancy, on a softball diamond where he had been umpiring behind home plate while she was the catcher.
In addition to his wife, Tony leaves behind his brother, James (Donna) Roberto of Andover; his cherished children, Michael (Lisa), Kevin, and Douglas (Nancy) Roberto, Trish (Justin) Wootton, and stepson, Christopher (Shelly) Chimini; five beloved grandchildren; two adoring great grandchildren; and many cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, November 27, 2023 from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Prayer Service will begin at approximately 6:30 p.m. that evening at the funeral home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation.
Patrick F. Smith
Patrick “Pat” F. Smith, beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away peacefully in his home on November 29, 2023, with his family and loving and devoted wife of 31 years, Connie, by his side.
Pat was one of 15 children born to the late Marion and Lawrence Smith in Chicago, IL. In 1968 Pat enlisted in the Army and proudly served his country during the Vietnam War, in the 173rd Airborne Brigade, for one year. Upon return to the states he enrolled in Drill Sergeant School and for the remainder of his service he was Drill Sergeant in Fort Knox, Kentucky. Following his discharge from the Army he joined the Illinois National Guard as First Sargeant of the 33rd Infantry Brigade. Later, as a civilian, he joined the Chicago Police Department where he served for over 12 years. Many of those years were as a gang specialist in Narcotics and Gangs Crime Unit.
Pat moved to Connecticut in 1989 and was Superintendent for the Department of Public Works until 2000. During this time he met the love of his life, Connie. They married in 1992 and moved to their current residence, a home in a community which he truly loved. He was most recently President of the Association’s Board. Pat was a Senior Project Manager for Baybrook Remodelers until his retirement in 2020. His remodeling talents spilled over, and were evident, not only in their home, but through his countless hours of advice and help to his friends in their home improvements. Pat was a friend to everyone, fiercely loyal, and undeniably kind. He and Connie adopted a big loveable dog, named Buddy, who became Pat’s best friend. They were inseparable. He adored his family, loved a good card game, was a fierce shuffleboard competitor, excelled in liqueur making, and was always the gentleman and the ultimate good, and fun, host!
A lover of classic cars, he and Connie frequently were seen at Classic car shows and one of his proudest possessions was his 2002 Thunderbird convertible. He could be seen driving around town in the red beauty, sometimes with Buddy in the passenger seat.
Pat was predeceased by his parents, granddaughter Alyssa Lendino, and siblings James Smith, Robert Smith, and Gregory Smith.
In addition to his wife, Connie Chiaraluce Smith, he is survived by his children Robert (April) Smith, Michele (Tony) Lendino, Daniel (Cathy) Smith, Anthony Chiaraluce, and Joseph Chiaraluce (Corrie). Also left to mourn him are 9 grandchildren: Amanda Lendino, Sarah Smith, Robert J. Smith, Jr, Gavin Smith, Fiona Smith, Brianna Chiaraluce Jacobs, Tanya Chiaraluce, Brandon Chiaraluce, Ashley Chiaraluce and one great-grandson Ace Chiaraluce. He is also survived by 11 sisters and brothers: Joyce Weinholtz (William), Raymond Smith (Susan), Laurel McCahill (Tom), John Smith (Mary), Luci Dizura (Robert), David Smith (Mary), Jerry Smith (Kate), Doug Smith (Nancy), Ron Smith (Joyce), Steve Smith (Cathy) Judette Riordan (Jack) as well as many nieces and nephews.
A Funeral Service with Military Honors will be held at the State Veteran’s Cemetery, 317 Bow Lane, Middletown, CT at 10:00 AM on Tuesday, December 5,2023.
Family and friends are invited to gather between 4:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT on Monday, December 4, 2023.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Pat’s memory may be made to Disabled American Veterans. (Please choose honorary and memorial gifts).
Walter “Bucky” Symanski
Walter “Bucky” Symanski, 79, of Milford, entered eternal rest on November 26, 2023, with his loving family by his side. He was reunited in time to celebrate the holidays with his beloved wife of 56 years, Judith “Judy” Symanski, as well as his parents, the late Raymond and Viola (Porter) Symanski.
Bucky was a Milford “beach kid” through and through. He was born at home around the corner from Walnut Beach where he grew up with his 5 siblings above the family business, the “Hometown Bakery.” Young love then lured Bucky over to the shores of Fort Trumbull where Judy would spend summers with her mom and dad. The name of her father’s first beach cottage was called “Lucky Break,” and Bucky once remarked that it was the luckiest break for HIM because that cottage brought Judy into his life. Summers filled with sandcastles, carousel rides, frozen custard, and roller skating at Smith’s Wonderland cemented Bucky and Judy’s love for each other. Following a brief separation when Bucky served overseas in the Airforce, he returned home, and their 63-year love story resumed with a proposal. Fittingly, the “beach kids” danced to “A Summer Place” at their wedding, and decades later they would still enjoy a stroll along the boardwalk where they had fallen in love in their youth.
Bucky was a graduate of Milford Academy and spent over 40 years working as a structural steel supervisor for Ironworkers Local 424. In his spare time, he was also a terrific athlete (enjoying many summers playing softball for his favorite hometown haunt, the Redwood Restaurant); a fantastic cook (Bucky’s stuffed mushrooms are legendary!); a doting animal lover (his kitty-companions and grand-pups were all spoiled rotten.); and an avid fisherman (Bucky had the sea in his soul. He was a fixture at the local beaches in his never-ending quest to catch the “The Big One!”). He relished the opportunity to share these personal passions with others and spoke proudly of his professional career and the many skyscrapers he had a hand in building.
But, by far, the thing that Bucky was most proud of building, was his family. His love for his three daughters ran deep until his very last breath. He welcomed his sons-in-law with joy, and a touch of relief when he was, at last, no longer outnumbered by “his girls.” He was a much-loved “baby brother” and a treasured “Uncle Buck.” But it was the title of “Grandpa” that brought him the most joy. Bucky shined brightest in his later years as he lovingly assumed this role and shared countless treasured traditions with his grandkids – including decades of family vacations at his cherished Chalk Pond “happy place,” where later this summer his ashes will join Judy’s ensuring that both Grandma and Grandpa will forever be a part of the fun.
Bucky died as he lived – surrounded by love. He is survived by his children, Tracy (Kenneth) Fratarcangeli, Janis (Frank) Tondora, and Tiffany (Alex) Beck; his grandchildren, Alyssa (Sean) Keating, Nicholas (Emma) Fratarcangeli, Caleb and Rylee Tondora, and Greyson, Dylan, and Wyatt Beck; his siblings, Virginia “Lee” Ross, and Roy, Jan, and Mary Symanski; and his many nieces and nephews. Bucky was predeceased by his siblings Alan “Butch” Symanski, Judith (Richard) Schwarzenberg, and Al Ross.
Friends and family may call from 3:30 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. on Saturday, December 2, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. His family will share memories of Bucky in a brief memorial service beginning at 6:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Senior Paw Project to help keep fur-babies and their caregivers together until the end.
Bucky is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home, to leave online condolences, please continue to the Tribute Wall tab.
Rev. Hal Vink
The Rev. Harold Van Wely Vink, 90, peacefully passed into the loving arms of his Lord Jesus Christ surrounded by his family on November 30, 2023, after suffering a stroke. Known as Hal since his college days, he was born on September 15, 1933, to Gertrude, at home in Carmel, NY, birthed by his father, Dr. Garrett Vink. Along with attending schools in Carmel, Hal also went to the St. Thomas Boys’ Choir School in Manhattan for 2 years, embedding in him a lifelong love for music. Upon graduation from high school, Hal went to Union College in Schenectady, NY, where initially he was a pre-med major. While there he was a “loyal Sigma Chi” fraternity brother, active with the chapel, and involved with the theater. Having heard a calling from God to “Heal the soul rather than the body,” as his father put it, Hal changed his major to theological studies. It was through his participation in a play with an interfaith group that he met his beloved wife Jane Santer. On June 23 of this past year they celebrated 67 years of marriage. Upon graduation from Union College, Hal became a student at Yale University Divinity School in New Haven, CT. As a student pastor, he worked at Methodist Churches in Ansonia and Thomaston, and after graduating with his Master’s Degree in Divinity in 1959, he became the pastor of the New Milford, CT, Methodist Church. It was there that Hal and Jane’s 3 children, Martha, Paul, and Elizabeth, were born. Hal later served the Methodist Church in Great Neck, NY; Bushwick Parish in Brooklyn, NY; St. John’s United Methodist Church in Elmont, NY; and Nichols United Methodist Church, Trumbull, CT. In 2000 Hal and Jane retired from Nichols, and moved to Milford, CT. In his retirement, Hal continued to serve God at the Mary Taylor Memorial United Methodist Church in Milford, where he was the Assistant Pastor for a number of years, leading Prayer and Healing Services and Bible Studies, counseling, preaching, singing in the choir, and many other activities. He was not about to let retirement or a loss of vision stop him from serving the God he loved!
Hal’s concern for the community and his creativity were always at work. In Bushwick he helped establish a Headstart Program for children. While there he welcomed both Congresswoman Shirley Chisholm and Coretta Scott King as speakers. Working with a wonderful staff, Hal was instrumental in the creation of a musical program called “The Way Out,” which resulted in a record album by their choirs. At St. John’s he established a church theater group, The St. John’s Players, which put on many well-received plays and musicals. He wrote one of his own, called “Bible Folk” and directed the youth group in the musical “Godspell.”
Throughout his career, Hal was involved in many United Methodist ministries beyond the local church. He worked with youth from all over the New York Conference at their church camps, Quinipet and Epworth, was the Conference Youth Coordinator for the New York Annual Conference, and served as Chair of the Board of Ordained Ministry, among many other Conference activities. In addition, Hal led several trips to the Holy Land with his churches, and took youth on mission trips with the Appalachia Service Project. In his retirement, Hal and Jane traveled to Nicaragua to work with impoverished families rebuilding their lives. They also were part of two delegations from Mary Taylor to work with the Volunteers in Mission in Biloxi, Mississippi, after Hurricane Katrina. Known for his singing and playing, Hal was part of a ukulele band which played at local nursing homes and community events.
Hal also became very involved with the International Interdenominational Christian group, Tres Dias, now known in Fairfield County as “Footsteps in the Sand.” He was a Spiritual Director on many weekends both in the US and in England, sharing his love of Christ, his gift of song, and his delight in “holy rowdiness.” He touched countless lives with his faith, his wisdom, and his joy in living.
Hal enjoyed traveling, and took his family on wonderful vacations every summer, camping on Cape Cod, and going to “Vink Island,” the special place on Ashby Lake in Canada that his father and Garrett’s best friend Jack found in their quest for excellent fishing. That became a favorite pastime for Hal as well. He and Jane also enjoyed trips to Europe, including the Netherlands, where his father’s family originated, Arizona, the Badlands, and other interesting places. Hal loved music, and was known for his singing in churches, on retreats, and in other venues. He imparted his love of music to his children, sharing everything from classical to Gospel to rock and roll. One of Hal’s favorite hobbies in his retirement was gardening. He loved having his hands in God’s good earth, and his dahlias proved he didn’t need to have perfect vision to grow gorgeous flowers. Though he couldn’t see them well, he shared their beauty for others to enjoy.
In recent years, life was more challenging, but Hal rarely complained. He whistled and sang throughout his days; he loved sitting on his back deck and taking “laps” around his home; he appreciated the help he received from others, including his devoted wife Jane, along with church members and friends. Hal loved Jane whole-heartedly to the end, as well as the rest of his family. He truly was a happy soul, and he is deeply missed.
The family was delighted to celebrate Hal in September with a 90th birthday party at the church, which he thoroughly enjoyed. He was able to bask in the love that people have felt for him, and that was a gift. The family is thankful for all who gave their support and love to Hal throughout his many (but not enough for his family and friends) years. There are abundant stories that could fill multiple books!
Hal is survived by Jane, their children Rev. Martha E. Vink, Paul T. Vink (Christine), and Elizabeth J. Costello (Michael); his sister, Gari Anne Banks; his brother Walter Vink (Lee); his grandchildren Julia, Bethany, Timmy, and Diana; sister-in-law Ellen Angus (Jim); numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins; and his chosen family Ana, Frank, and Alynne. He was predeceased by his parents and step-parents, Garrett and Betty Vink, Gertrude and Gordon Christensen, his brother-in-law Skip Banks, and his niece Kathy Vink Green. No doubt upon his heavenly arrival, after Jesus said, “Well done, my good and faithful servant,” he was given a grand “welcome home” party by all his loved ones, with much singing and laughter.
Calling Hours for Hal will be Friday, January 5, 5:00-8:00pm at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 North Broad St, Milford, CT 06460. A short prayer service at 7:30 will be live-streamed on their webpage, www.codywhitefuneralservice.com. Hal’s Celebration of Life will be on Epiphany, January 6, at 11:00am at the Mary Taylor United Methodist Church, 168-176 South Broad St, Milford, CT 06460. It will be broadcast here: http://vimeo.com/event/1172011. A reception will follow at the church. It is a fitting day to celebrate one whose light shined so brightly!
In lieu of flowers, the family gratefully asks that you consider donating to these wonderful ministries:
Mary Taylor Memorial United Methodist Church, att: Missions Committee, 168-176 S. Broad St, Milford, CT 06460
The United Methodist Committee on Relief: https://umcmission.org/umcor
Project Chacocente, which provides scholarships and assistance for “materially poor” Nicaraguan youth and adults for schooling and training: https://outofthedump.org/
TogetherConnected, which enhances communications for those in nursing homes and hospitals, including the purchase of technology so their residents are able to “visit” with family who are unable to get there in person: https://www.togetherconnected.net/.
William A. Weirsman
William A. Weirsman, age 75, of Orange, CT passed away on December 1, 2023, at CT Hospice in Branford. He was born on April 30, 1948, in New Haven, CT to the late Walter A. and Vera Need Weirsman. He is survived by his beloved wife, Sharon Welter Weirsman, devoted son and daughter, Kevin (Stephanie) Weirsman and Sarah Weirsman, cherished granddaughter Brynn, sister Nancy Olson of Boston, MA. and nephew William C. Perfetto Jr. (Darcy). He was predeceased by his sister Susan Raines of Oregon.
Bill received his degree in Industrial Design from the University of Bridgeport and established his own business specializing in product design from 1977 – 2008. He was a talented and creative man whose ability to conceptualize and problem solve led to exquisite results in his professional endeavors and in the homes, he designed and remodeled for his family, which he always placed as his priority. Most recently, Bill proudly joined son Kevin, part time, in his commercial real estate business, which both enjoyed greatly.
When not working, golf was Bill’s passion. He enjoyed social time with friends and memberships at Highland Country Club, Race Brook Country Club and at the Paugussett Club over the years. A good hand of cards was also a favorite, as well as the occasional trip to Mohegan Sun.
A celebration of life will be held in Bill’s honor at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, donations can me made to the following charities in Williams honor. The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford Connecticut 06045, and Neuroendocrine Tumor Research Foundation, 31 St. James Avenue, Suite 365, Boston MA 02116.
Patricia A. Winzer
Patricia A. Winzer, 79, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Alfred Winzer, passed away on December 4, 2023. Born on June 8, 1944 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Catherine Halitsky.
Pat is survived by her children, Joseph (Allyson) Winzer and Timothy Winzer; grandchildren, Cooper and Jack; and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband, Pat was predeceased by her eldest son, Freddy Winzer Jr and her siblings, Barbara Pratt, Joe Halitsky, and Theresa McDonald.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, December 7, 2023 at 12 p.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Alzheimer’s Foundation at alz.org. The family is being cared for by CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT.