Joseph A. Arpino
Joseph A. Arpino, 84 of Milford, passed away peacefully on January 26, 2025. Joseph, “Joe”, was born on August 19, 1940, in New Haven, CT, son of the late Pasquale and Caroline Arpino. Joe was the beloved husband of Carol Benjamin Arpino for nearly 60 years.
Born and raised in Connecticut, Joe enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1959 following the Korean war in which he was stationed in Korea to help with the construction and rebuilding of the country following the war. Joe’s service left a lasting legacy, inspiring his grandson Dylan, who joined the Marines and often spoke of his grandfather as his hero, wanting to follow in his footprints.
After his military service, Joe returned home and took over the family business, Arpino Asphalt & Paving, alongside his brother Carmen. Together, they transformed an already successful company into a cornerstone of the community, known for their integrity and exceptional service. Joe worked tirelessly until the age of 84, embodying dedication and pride in his work, with his son carrying on the business into the third generation.
Joe and his beloved wife, Carol, shared many adventures during their marriage, traveling to all 50 states and the Caribbean islands. They especially enjoyed escaping the cold winters to sunny Florida. Among Joe’s favorite traditions were the Thanksgiving week trips to his hunting cabin in Maine, where he spent time with family, friends, and employees. He also found joy in golfing, maintaining his immaculate lawn, and helping his daughter with home improvement projects.
Lovingly known as “PopPop,” Joe was a central figure in the lives of his children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends, who cherished his guidance and love.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to Joe’s primary care physician, Dr. Kashaf, and the V.A. Cancer Center of Connecticut, whose skilled and compassionate care extended his life far beyond initial expectations. They are also deeply thankful for his hospice nurse, Ann, who provided comfort and care during his final days.
In addition to his beloved wife, Carol, Joe is survived by his daughter Denise Arpino (fiancée Scott Ashley), son Joseph P. Arpino, granddaughter Angelica Arpino (fiancée Bradley McCormick), grandson Dylan Arpino, and sister Phyllis Arpino. As well as his best friend of over 70 years, Edward White, and many beloved extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his brother Carmen Arpino.
Joe will be remembered for his tenderhearted personality and devotion to everyone in his life.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, January 30, 2025, from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday, January 31, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at First United Church of Christ, 34 W Main St, Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery, Cherry St., Milford CT.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to First United Church of Christ Organ Fund or Steeple Fund online at www.firstchurchofmilford.org/website/publish/giving or to the American Cancer Society online at www.donate.cancer.org
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Teresa Victoria Assunto
Teresa Victoria Assunto, 73 of Seymor and formerly Milford, passed away peacefully on February 4, 2025. Born on October 3, 1951 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late John and Mary Kundrac. Teresa was the beloved wife of Anthony “Tony” Assunto for 54 years.
Teresa, lovingly known as Terry, lived a life filled with warmth, kindness, and an unwavering love for family and friends. She met the love of her life, Tony, in high school through town and school sporting events. From the moment they met, they fell head over heels for each other, marrying in 1970 and building a beautiful life together with their two daughters.
Terry dedicated many years as an administrative assistant for CT Orthopedic Surgeons, where her kindness and professionalism left a lasting impact. However, her greatest joy in life was the relationships she nurtured. She was known as a second mom who always offered an open heart and an open home. Her yearly Christmas Eve gatherings were legendary, welcoming family, friends, and even extended loved ones into her warm embrace.
Her bright and fun spirit lit up any room, and she never missed an opportunity to bring people together. Terry shared an unbreakable bond with her daughters. She was not only their mother, she was also their closest friend, confidant, and travel partner. She and Tony also shared a love for travel, embarking on cross-country road trips and enjoying their yearly getaways to Atlantic City, where they cherished time at the casino and the beach.
In her free time, Terry’s creative side and love of crafting brought friends together. Her beloved “Crafty Ladies” group joyfully showcased their creations at holiday markets and households all over the town.
Terry’s legacy is one of love, laughter, and an open heart. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who were fortunate enough to know her.
In addition to her beloved husband, Tony, Terry is survived by her two daughters: Wendy Wade (Richard) and Andrea Silkman. Three cherished grandchildren: Gibbs Wade, Anna Silkman, and Mary Silkman. As well as her sister Victoria Cella, and many beloved family members and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, February 8, 2025, from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in the memory of Teresa Assunto at alz.org/CT.
Helen Brown Barnett
Helen Brown Barnett, age 100, of Milford, formerly Bridgeport, passed away peacefully on January 25, 2025. She was the widow of Clifford Barnett. She is survived by her daughter Claudia and her husband Andrew Kennedy, grandson Erik Green Sr., great-grandchildren Saniya Green and Erik Green Jr., niece Laura Silva, grandniece Pamela Keyes and other nieces and nephews. There will be no calling hours. Interment will be private. To view the full obituary or to leave an online condolence please visit Baker-Isaac Funeral Services via www.bakerfuneralservices.com.
Theodore O. Boynton Jr.
Theodore O. Boynton Jr., 95, of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully on January 23, 2025, surrounded by his family. He was the beloved husband of the late Anna M. Boynton. Born on September 17, 1929, in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Alice McGormand and Theodore Boynton Sr. Ted grew up in Bridgeport, CT and graduated from Harding High School before moving to Milford, CT. Ted then enlisted and proudly served in the United States Navy aboard the USS Franklin D. Roosevelt. After being honorably discharged, he worked as an electrician, dedicating over 35 years to US Motors and Bic Pen.
Ted then met Anna, the love of his life, during their daily commutes to work at US Motors. Their bond grew through hard work and shared values, and they were married on June 30 1956, beginning a long and joyful 68-year marriage where they never left each other’s side.
Ted was deeply devoted to his family, always putting them first. He was a loving husband to Anna and a dedicated father to his children and grandchildren. He was also a cherished uncle and brother-in-law to his extended family – a guy who would be there for anyone on the drop of a dime.
Outside of his family, Ted and Anna were passionate New York Yankees fans, sharing countless hours watching games together. In their later years, they discovered their love for the casino, often taking trips with family members “up the line”.
Known for his warm smile and quiet strength, Ted was a man of few words, but when he spoke, people listened. He was dependable, straightforward, and a true gentleman—someone anyone could count on. Though he is no longer with us, Ted’s legacy will live on in the hearts of all who knew him, and we will forever cherish the love and memories he leaves behind.
He is survived by his children, Theodore Boynton III and Patricia (William) Varnum; his cherished grandchildren, Alyssa, William, and Robert Varnum, and Theodore IV and Steven Boynton; as well as many nieces and nephews. Ted was predeceased by his sisters, Eleanor (Albert) Sullivan, Dorothy “Dot” (George) Frank, Lillian “Tiny” (Lou) Juliano, Ethel “Ginny” (James) Lewis, and Barbara “Butch” (Walt) Gayle.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate Ted’s life on Wednesday, January 29, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, January 30, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Ann Church, 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford (please meet directly at the church). Interment will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry Street, Milford.
Thomas Raymond Brooks
Thomas Raymond Brooks, 82, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Mary (Penders) Brooks, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday, January 23, 2025. He was the 6th child born out of 12 children on August 25, 1942 from his late parents John Joseph and Flora Virginia Brooks.
Thomas (Ray) grew up in Trumbull and attended its public schools. Most of his life he lived in the Point Beach Area of Milford. He worked for Hollands Department Stores, Town of Trumbull (Highway Department), JM Rosa Construction and Appalucia Construction. He was a member of the following: International Union of Operating Engineers Local 478, Local 478 Active Retirees, a member and Past Master (2002) of the Ansantawae Lodge #89 A.F. & A.M., Fourth Masonic District Actual Past Master’s Assn., Jolly Mariners Square Club, The Scottish Rite, Orange Hills Country Club, The Milford Elks No. 1589 and the Milford Bowhunters.
Prior to his injury in 2016, Thomas (Ray) loved to play golf as often as he could. He played at Orange Hills, Myrtle Beach and courses in England. He had 2 holes in one during his lifetime. Also, he really enjoyed riding his Harley sometimes with Mary on the back if he could coax her into it. In his younger days, he loved hunting and playing billiards with his brothers and nephews. Thomas (Ray) always wanted to be around his family. Family was very important to him especially his grandchildren. He couldn’t wait for Saturday Night Family Dinners. Going to On the Border, to have a Grande Frozen Margarita was his favorite.
Thomas (Ray) leaves behind his adoring daughters, Michele (Manu) Chandra and Beth Ferris; cherished grandchildren, Alex and Kira Chandra and Marc Ferris, Jr; brothers, Richard Leon Brooks and Daniel James Brooks; sister Carol Ann (Philip) Waller; sisters in-law Betty Ann (William)Berry and Adrienne Penders; brother in-law Edward Penders, Jr.; as well as many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his brothers, Joseph Edward, John Lawrence, Charles Henry, Anthony Jackson, Kenneth Francis and Leo Norris; and sisters Theresa Constance Klembara and Rose Mary Bossong; son in-law Marc Ferris, Sr.
The family would like to express sincere gratitude to one of Thomas (Ray) best friends and long time aide Nancy Worsham for her many years of caring, dedication and love. Also to the Konedu Agency for helping take care of our father over the years.
Thomas (Ray) had a way that touched everyone he met, and he leaves behind a legacy of kindness, generosity and laughter. We are all better for having known him, and he will remain in our minds and hearts forever.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, February 1, 2025, from 12:00p.m. to 4:00p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Masonic service will be held at 3:00p.m. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to National Spinal Cord Injury Assn.
Edna M. Casolino
Pasqualina Castiello
Pasqualina Castiello, 95, of Milford, adored wife of the late Mario Castiello, passed away peacefully on January 16, 2025. Born on December 24, 1929, in Calvi, Province of Benevento, Italy, she was the daughter of Pietro Cecere and Angelina Liucci.
Lina and Mario were married in Italy. They both earned their certificates in tailoring there. Lina was also a co-owner of Da Vinci Pizzeria in Milford, Connecticut. Lina enjoyed crocheting and made various items, including blankets, shawls, hats, and more. Lina and Mario loved their home in Milford and enjoyed their garden and the flowers around their yard. Lina had a strong Catholic faith. She had sacramental bread delivered to her home by Aurelia Michelson from her parish. She often watched Pope Francis and Vatican News on YouTube, in addition to her Italian cooking shows. She sang in a church choir while living in Italy and would still often be heard singing Italian and Catholic songs. As in the song she loved so dearly, “Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò),” we bid farewell to a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend.
Lina is survived by her son, Vincent Castiello; daughter-in-law, Dale Zaczkowski; grandchildren, Mario, Vincent, and Gianni Castiello; soon-to-be granddaughter-in-law Lianna; and her extended family and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather for a Mass of Christian Burial on Monday, January 17, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Rd, Milford, CT 06461. Interment will follow at Mountain Grove Cemetery, 2675 North Ave, Bridgeport, CT 06604.Family and friends are invited to gather for a Mass of Christian Burial on Monday, January 17, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Rd, Milford, CT 06461. Interment will follow at Mountain Grove Cemetery, 2675 North Ave, Bridgeport, CT 06604.
Catherine Ann Clifford
Catherine Ann Clifford, 83 of Milford, passed away peacefully on January 28, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. Catherine, “Cathy”, was born on January 12,1942 in Brooklyn, NY to the late Charles and Estelle Lach Dudler. Cathy was the beloved wife of the late Patrick Clifford.
Cathy was the proud co-owner of Milford Cleaning Village, which she ran alongside her husband, Patrick, for 34 years until their retirement. More than anything, Cathy treasured her family—whether it was chatting for hours on the phone, cooking meals to bring everyone together, or offering a listening ear and unwavering support. She was incredibly generous, always willing to help those she loved and anyone in need. A devoted wife, she embodied the vows “in sickness and in health,” serving as Patrick’s primary caretaker after his Alzheimer’s diagnosis.
In her free time, Cathy was a voracious reader with a love for mysteries and elegant romance novels. She was also never one to turn down the QVC special of the day. The love for her family was never more evident than by Cathy and her daughter’s exceptionally close relationship, with Cathy serving as Victoria’s Maid of Honor at her wedding. But above all, her greatest joy was spoiling her grandson, Kiernan. From the moment he entered her life, she cherished him with all her heart, making every moment together special.
Cathy is survived by her beloved daughter Victoria K. Clifford and her husband Peter Grasseler, grandson Kiernan Grasseler, and many additional nieces, nephews, family and friends. In addition to her beloved husband, Patrick, she is predeceased by her sister Dorothy Gerace and brother Edward “Eddie” Dudler.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, February 7, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 8, 2025, at 9:00 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Rd , Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave, Milford, CT.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Alzheimer’s Association at www.alz.org
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Doreen D’Auria
The family would like to thank ElderCare Services and the aides that cared for and treated Doreen with compassion and to Yale Hospice Care for their help during this very difficult time.
A Celebration of Life for Doreen will be held on Sunday, February 16, 2025, at the First Lutheran Church, 52 George Street, West Haven, CT. Visitation with the family will begin at 12:30. The service will begin at 2:00 p.m. Burial will be private. The family has asked that in lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Doreen’s memory to Yale New Haven Health-Health at Home, Hospice, 753 Boston Post Road, Guilford, CT 06437.
George Danas
George Danas, age 58, a man of few words but immense love, passed away peacefully with his beloved wife, Jennifer, by his side. Known for his gentle nature and his ability to make everyone feel cherished, George’s love language was evident in his every thought and action. Jennifer and his daughter Amanda knew this better than anyone.
George had a passion for cooking and took great joy in feeding his family and friends. His face would light up whenever he saw one of his loved ones, a testament to the deep connections he cherished. Point Beach was his happy place, and there was nothing he loved more than watching sunsets with his family and neighbors, who became family.
George was born 4/11/66 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. He was proud to have been born in the city that housed his NFL team, the Pittsburg Steelers. He managed Napa Auto Parts in Stratford for over 20 years where he was known as “Napa George”. He loved to surround himself with his dear friends Mike, Mona, Rick, and Trudy.
George didn’t like to ruffle any feathers, and avoiding conflict was his life’s mission. George preached patience, often stating he was not “rushian,” he was Greek. He lived his life by the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” He had an infectious belly laugh and enjoyed sitting around the fire, serenading his wife with love songs, going on family date night and sipping Coors Light.
He was predeceased by his mother, Marie Murphy, and his father, Nicholas Danas. George leaves behind his beautiful wife and best friend, Jennifer, and his two daughters Amanda and Brianna. He also is survived by his three brothers: Jon, Dean, and Christopher and his nieces and nephews: Gabby, Andrew (Megan), Meghan, Danielle, Christopher, Alexandra, Samantha (goddaughter), Julie, Kaitlyn and Tahlia.
George died after a short but heroic battle with pancreatic cancer. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. His legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to be part of his life.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, February 10, 2025, at 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. with a prayer service at 5:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 11, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Barbara Greek Orthodox Church, 480 Racebrook Road, Orange, CT 06477 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Road, Orange, CT 06477.
Elinor Gregory
Elinor Brainerd Silva Gregory, 82, of Milford, beloved wife of Robert “Bob” Gregory, passed away peacefully on January 27, 2025 surrounded by her loving family. Born on December 26, 1942 in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Warren and Vera Brainerd.
Elinor was a hard working and devoted individual. She graduated from Berlin High School and went on to attend Bates College in Lewiston, Maine. She continued in her education journey at the University of Delaware Institute for Organizational Management. She married Ed Silva and had four children. Elinor and Ed proceeded to travel the world and made many friends and memories with their Army family.
She served as the Executive Director for the Southington Chamber of Commerce, Director of the Hill and Harbor Convention and Visitors Bureau, and as the Executive Director of the Greater New Haven Convention and Visitors Bureau. She was a treasured community servant in numerous capacities such as being honored as the Southington Jaycee Woman of the Year, the President of the Women’s Auxiliary of Northern Little League, the President of the CT Tourism Association, and finally as the Executive Assistant to two consecutive Mayors of Milford, CT. Some of her favorite past-times included playing bridge, reading, traveling, and family vacations by the ocean, especially in Gloucester, MA. She was an avid fan of the UConn Huskies men’s and women’s basketball programs, and the Boston Red Sox.
Most importantly, Elinor took great pride in her family and all of their accomplishments. She was everyone’s biggest cheerleader –showing up to every game, recital, concert, meets, and more. She was a loyal wife to her beloved husband, Bob, of 32 years.
Along with her husband, Elinor leaves behind her children, Charles “Ed” Edward Silva Jr. (Nicole Fallon), Kevin John Silva (Mary), Melinda Silva (Denise), Julie Silva Wlodarczyk; step children, Grayson Gregory, Melora Gregory (Dan DeSimone), and Asch Gregory (John Robertson); grandchildren, Max, Maya, Katie, Matthew (Sierra), Brian, Megan, Kent, Lucas, Grace, Charlie, Paige, Aschel, Isabel, and Ian; niece and nephew, Jennifer and Jay Brainerd; as well as many extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her brother, John Brainerd; former husband and friend, Charles Edward Silva; and her beloved pets, most notably her cat, Peek-a-boo.
Elinor will be loved and missed by all who have been touched by her.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, January 31, 2025, at 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Saturday, February 1, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. at First United Church of Christ, 34 W Main St, Milford, CT 06460 (Meet directly at the church). Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Beth-El Center, 90 New Haven Ave, Milford.
Gabriel Angel Hernandez
Gabriel Angel Hernandez, age 66 beloved husband of Barbara (Farinas) Hernandez, entered peaceful rest on January 27, 2025 surrounded by family.
He was born on November 14, 1958 in Bridgeport and was the son of the late Arcadio Hernandez, Sr. and Clotilde (Butler) Hernandez. Gabriel was an inspector for many years at Harvey Hubbell before his recent retirement. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, antique cars, working on cars and spending time with his grand pups Bonnie and Luca.
In addition to his devoted wife Barbara, Gabriel leaves his loving sons, Gabriel Hernandez, II and his fiancé, Megan of Shelton and Alex Hernandez of Stratford. He also leaves his brother, Arcadio Hernandez, Jr. and his sister, Maggie Hernandez both of Puerto Rico, brother-in-law, Lenny Farinas and his wife Melissa of Maine, his sister-in-law, Betty Farinas of Ansonia, and several nieces and nephews as well as his dog Scooter.
Friends and family are invited to attend the Funeral Mass on Friday, March 7th at 11:00 a.m. in Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), Milford. Interment will be private. THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME is in care of arrangements. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Delena J. Hulse
Delena J. Hulse, beloved wife of the late Brian R. Hulse, went home to be with the Lord on January 18, 2025, after a brief illness. Delena was born on a snowy Christmas Eve, December 24, 1940, in Paterson, NJ, to the late Herbert and Irene Herron.
She was raised in Little Falls, NJ, until relocating with her family to Milford, CT when she was 13 years old. After coming to Milford, she formed many friendships which lasted over 70 years.
Delena was a devout Christian woman who found unwavering strength in her faith with God as the anchor of her life. She dedicated much of her time to serving the church where her kindness and devotion touched countless lives. She was the beloved host of her Coffee Talk Group which met every Tuesday until just before Christmas 2024. Delena fostered meaningful connections within her church family.
Outside of her spiritual commitments, Delena found joy in hosting her family for holidays and birthdays. She loved spending time with her grandchildren. She enjoyed sitting on her screened in porch taking in all the sights that nature had to offer. She loved her little gardens, cooking and baking. In her free time, she enjoyed meeting up with her friends at the YMCA to swim. Adventurous at heart, Delena and her husband took 2 cross country trips after retirement and had many other vacations over the years. Delena worked for many years as a legal secretary for Lynch, Trembicki and Boynton. She loved her work family.
Delena is survived by her children Debra Robinson-Gaglione, Jon Robinson, Jr. (Linda), Denise Treiber (Kurt), her Stepchildren Scott Hulse (Holly), Gregory Hulse (Sheri), Lori Stein (David), Grandchildren Matthew Porter, Savanah Robinson (Noah), Amber Robinson, Ashley Allen (Roland), Kenneth Hulse (Victoria), Christopher Hulse (Danielle), Stephanie Ayala (Ken), Geoffrey Hulse (Kelsey), Ashley Hulse (Meredith), Hannah Stein and Erica Stein. She is also survived by 14 Great Grandchildren. Survived by brother in law Michael Abeling, brother-in-law Brad Hulse, sister in law Beverly Lebel (Wayne), Niece Janet and Nephew Tim and a Cousin Sandy.
Delena was predeceased by her brothers and their spouses: Jack Herron (Margie), Samuel “Bud” Herron (Charlotte), Kenneth “Bob” Herron (Jean), her sister Patricia Abeling, her mother-in-law Gladys Hulse, father-in-law Clifford Hulse, and sister-in-law Barbara Wolf.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, February 8, 2025, from 11:30 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. at Kingdom Life Christian Center (1455 Naugatuck Ave, Milford CT) with a funeral service to begin at 12:15 p.m. Interment will be held privately by the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Kingdom Life Christian Center online at www.klcc.us/give or to the American Cancer Society online at www.donate.cancer.org To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Sharleen Ann Kazmercyk
Sharleen Ann Kazmercyk, 64 of Milford, CT, passed away on January 25, 2025. Sharleen was born on June 4, 1960, in Milford, CT, daughter of the late Peter and Joan Kazmercyk.
Sharleen worked for Schick as a production line worker of nearly 10 years, before joining Bayer Pharmaceuticals as a logistics coordinator for nearly 20 years.
Sharleen, a vibrant soul with a passion for fashion, delighted in designing outfits that reflected her creativity and fashionable spirit. Las Vegas held a special place in Sharleen’s heart, where she found joy in the city’s energy, entertainment, and vibrance. Her final visit to her favorite destination in September 2024, alongside her sister Kim, created unforgettable memories they cherished deeply. Closer to home, Sharleen loved visiting Gulf Beach in Milford, where she found peace watching the waves and admiring the beautiful scenery.
Sharleen’s sparkling personality and the kindness that radiated from her beautiful blue eyes touched everyone who knew her. She will be remembered for the light she brought to others and the love she shared.
Sharleen is survived by her three siblings: Peter Kazmercyk and his wife Andrea, Kevin Kazmercyk and his wife Elizabeth, Kim Baxter and her husband Robert. Four nephews: Kevin Kazmercyk Jr., Derek Kazmercyk, Scott Baxter, and Keith Baxter. As well as many additional cousins, family, and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 12, 2025, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf St., Milford CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St, Milford, CT 06460.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to American College of Gastroenterology at https://gi.org/acg-institute/ways-to-give/
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Richard Lanese
Richard M. Lanese, 85, of Milford, beloved husband of Bonnie Carlson Lanese, passed away peacefully at his home on January 26, 2025 surrounded by his loving family. Born on August 25, 1939 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Michael and Anna Marrone Lanese, and predeceased by his siblings Nicholas Lanese and Maryann Ramik.
Rich graduated from Central High School in 1957. He met Bonnie when both worked at Dictaphone, and together they had a wonderful family, recently celebrating 60 years of marriage this past Halloween. He was retired from Burndy Corporation.
An avid sports fan, ‘Richie’ had an enduring passion for baseball & softball. He played softball for over 40 years in the Bridgeport area, excelling as a shortstop and third baseman. Known for his competitive spirit and sportsmanship, he forged lasting friendships with teammates and opponents. In recognition of his skill and dedication, Rich was honored with a place in the Connecticut ASA Slow Pitch Hall of Fame in 1996.
‘Coach Rich’ volunteered for many of his sons’ baseball teams in Milford Little League, Babe Ruth, and American Legion. At the time, contributing to players’ development and team success was his satisfaction. In later years being remembered by those players was priceless.
As a grandfather his greatest joy was spending time with family. He rarely missed a game or event his grandchildren participated in. Never short to critique performance, he was always proud of their effort.
A loyal Catholic, Rich attended church services every Sunday and Holy Day. We find comfort in knowing he is reunited with dear family members gone before him.
In addition to his devoted wife Bonnie, Richard is survived by his children, David (Jill) Lanese, Richard (Cindy) Lanese, Karen (Joe) Ferraro, and Dawn (Steve) Warzel; cherished grandchildren, Justin, Kevin, Tori, Kasen, Nick, Shannen, Shayla, Michael, and Miranda; beloved great grandchildren, Angelo and Harper; and many extended family and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, January 30, 2025 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, January 31, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Road, Milford (Meet directly at church). In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Beth-El Center, 90 New Haven Ave, Milford, CT 06460 or a charity of one’s choice.
Reinhold Luther
We are sad to announce that Reinhold Luther, 98, of Milford passed away on January 29, 2025 at his home surrounded by his loving family and friends. He was born on April 8, 1926 in Kalvaria, Lithuania. He was the beloved husband of the late Herta (Hammler) Luther, and the son of the late Charles and Helen (Keslau) Luther.
Reinhold (Reiny) lived a remarkable life. Reiny’s childhood and early adulthood were shaped by WWII. When Russia invaded Lithuania in 1940 the family moved to Plock in East Germany as refugees. Reiny always excelled at school, skipping two grades at one point. Reiny went off to attend the Munich Architecture Academy at the age of 16 and graduated in early 1940 with a degree in Land Surveying. He was then drafted into the Luftwaffe and trained as a pilot. At the war’s end his unit was captured by the Americans in Italy before seeing any action. Reiny was interred at a prison camp in Forgia, Italy. In the prison camp, American management recognized Reiny’s talents and put him in charge of surveying a massive airport in Forgia. Reiny had 10 survey crews working for him. Upon discharge he was presented with a commendation and letter of recommendation from the Colonel in charge of the camp.
Reiny then made his way to his family who were now in Hamburg. His grandparents were both in a nursing home. One of the nurses at the home was his bride to be Herta. They fell in love, got married and were accepted as displaced persons into the United States, settling in New Britain.
Reiny found work at the Electric Utility, Connecticut Light and Power as a land surveyor. With 4 young children and a full time job he attended the University of Hartford and earned a degree in Electrical Engineering in 1968. When Reiny retired twenty years later he was the Chairman of the Insulated Conductors Committee of IEEE. He always stayed involved in Land Surveying, running his own part time business as a licensed Land Surveyor. With all this on his plate he still lavished attention on his children, grandchildren and many friends and extended family.
Reiny was an avid fisherman, both fresh and salt water. He was a passionate collector of mushrooms. Reiny and Herta were world travelers, particularly enjoying cruises. For many years, they wintered in Desert Hot Springs, CA enjoying the benefits of the mineral water.
Reiny is pre-deceased by his beloved wife Herta and beloved daughter Judy (Joe) Andrews. He is survived by his daughter Edith (Oscar Bran) Luther, son Ed (Teruko) Luther and son Bob (Liz) Luther. He leaves grandchildren Vicki (Bill) Bran Tone, Mary (Greg Wilson) Luther, Rose Luther, Michael Luther, Bob (Iris) Bran and Russell (Anna) Bran. Great Grand Children are Sam Wilson, Hannah Wilson, Myles Bran Tone and Liam Bran Tone. He will be sorely missed by his best friend Cliff Mason and his devoted caregiver Zofia Kwaskiewicz.
A memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Luke Christopher Lynch
Luke Christopher Lynch, 67, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Desiree Tango, passed away on January 26, 2025 surrounded by loved ones. Born April 23, 1957 in Gardener, MA, he was the son of Luke Joseph Lynch Jr. and Agnes Lynch (née McLaren). He grew up in Moosup, CT and attended Plainfield High School. Luke was awarded the first ever Nafe Katter/Ron Palillo Acting Award Scholarship in 1977 and graduated from University of Connecticut with a BFA in Theater in 1979. Pursuing his love for acting, he lived in New York City for 17 years where he performed numerous roles in Off-Broadway productions which included Teddy in Teddy Roosevelt and Monroe in Up in Central Park. He also performed in plays across the country, such as the 1986 Equity tour of Zorba, Kiss Me, Kate at the Ivoryton Playhouse, and Shenandoah and Paint Your Wagon at the Goodspeed Opera House, performing “They Call The Wind Mariah.” This led him to become a prominent member of Connecticut community theater, his performances including The Odd Couple and Laughter on the 23rd Floor at Eastbound Theatre (Milford), Much Ado About Nothing with the Players of Putney (Stratford), and A Few Good Men and Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner at Curtain Call (Stamford) to name a few. During this time, Luke worked with many local playwrights in several one act play festivals throughout southern Connecticut. He was always in a “nice play, Shakespeare!” His career spanned over 40 years in pursuit of bringing quality entertainment, laughter and his love of sports (except the water kind) to the world. He was an avid fan of the Dallas Cowboys and those “Damn Yankees” (which he also performed in by the way). The other roles he played in life included umpire with Milford International Little League, board member at Eastbound Theatre and bartender at various local establishments, most recently Grassy Hill Country Club. During his time in New York, he met and fell in love with his wife, Desiree. They were married in Tomkins Cove, NY in 1989 where he made an unforgettable entrance on horseback during the ceremony. They had two children, Luke Joseph Lynch and Anna Tango Lynch, and together made Milford, CT their home for almost 30 years. Luke is survived by his wife, daughter, son, and his daughter-in-law, Emily Grimaldi. He was predeceased by his father. He is also survived by his mother, his two brothers, Mark Lynch and Matthew Lynch, as well as his close family friends, Lucian Vinci and Ann, Ray, Raymond and Lena Arnold. He will be greatly missed by his cousins, many friends, and neighbors. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Luke’s memory to Smilow Cancer Hospital. Final arrangements have been entrusted to Cody White Funeral Home in Milford. Special thanks to Milford Arts Council/Eastbound Theatre for helping make the celebration of Luke Lynch possible. His celebration of life will be held at Eastbound Theatre in Milford, CT on Sunday, February 16th from 5:00 to 9:00 PM, your Honor!
Jeannette E. May
Michael J. McCarthy
Michael John McCarthy, age 69, lifelong resident of Milford and beloved husband of Carol Ann (Sala) McCarthy, passed away at home on Sunday, January 26, 2025 surrounded by his loving wife and daughter. Michael was born in Milford on September 16, 1955 to Virginia Rice Camputaro of Milford and the late Melvin Eugene McCarthy.
Michael loved animals and cherished his cats and fish. He loved making crafts and DIY projects, especially out of the bamboo that grew in his yard. In his spare time, Michael enjoyed finding the best deals at local book sales. He was a Yankees fan. He was a U.S. Army veteran. He retired from Sikorsky where he worked as a machine operator for over 35 years.
In addition to his devoted wife and mother, Michael is survived by his cherished daughter, Lauren McCarthy (Andrew Apicelli), siblings, John McCarthy (Sharon), Donna Standish, and Deborah Field (Gregory), brothers-in-law, Charles Sala (Ada) and Robert Sala (Paula) and several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. Michael is predeceased by his brother-in-law, Ronald Standish and by his stepfather, Frank Camputaro.
Friends and family are invited to call on Friday, January 31, 2025 from 11:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. in THE DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A funeral service will be held at 12:00 p.m. in the Funeral Home. Interment will be private.
Anna May Geipel Pieger
Family and friends may call at the PORTO FUNERAL HOME, 830 Jones Hill Rd., West Haven, THURSDAY from 5:00 PM-8:00 PM and are asked to go directly to St. Barbara’s Greek Orthodox Church in Orange, FRIDAY, for Services at 10:00. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The American Legion Women’s Auxiliary Unit 127, 137 Porter Lane, Orange, CT 06477. Sign Anna May’s guest book online at www.portofuneralhomes.net .
Aileen May Provenzano
Aileen May Provenzano, 95, of Milford, passed away on January 31, 2025. She was born on April 9, 1929, in Mexico, Maine, the daughter of the late Harry and Phoebe (nee Young) Haley.
Aileen’s parents were originally from Canada and then later started life in the United States where she was born. Aileen was one of eleven siblings so family was incredibly important to her. She attended high school but left to help provide for her family. Aileen was always a loving, kind, and giving person. Once she met her late husband, Alfred, she met the man she would start a life with. Alfred and Aileen had a love of music and dance. Aileen always supported Alfred’s career of pursuing music. They would host dances where they would sing, laugh, and dance happily together. She would attend many shows where he would play in various bands. She was a wonderful wife to him. They ended up starting a family of their own. They had three beautiful children, Robert, David and Rose. Aileen’s love lied with her children. She always put their needs before hers and showed them the truest love throughout her life. She was married to Alfred for 62 years before his passing and cared for him throughout his entire battle of Parkinson’s Disease.
Aileen is survived by her son, Robert Provenzano and his wife Claire; daughter Rosemarie Provenzano; grand-children Daniel and Sarah (children of Joann Provenzano), along with four more grand-children Christopher, Nicholas, Laura, and Robert A.; her siblings, Bernice (Peter) Tomshek, and Faye (Ralph) DeLuca and several nieces, nephews and great-grandchildren.
Aileen was predeceased by her son David Provenzano; her husband Alfred Provenzano; her grandchild Robert M. Provenzano; and her siblings, Garfield, Vincent, Henry, Vernon, Theresa, Roy, and Pearl.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on April 9, 2025 at 11am at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St. Milford, CT 06460. Please meet directly at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Naomi Rottman
Naomi Simkhovitch Rottman, 88, passed peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, February 1, 2025, following several years enduring the cruel decline brought on by dementia where, rather than living life, she was just existing.
Naomi was the wife of the late Honorable Alvin G. Rottman (1925-1997) and is survived by her daughter Patricia (Patti) Antonelli and son-in-law John Antonelli of West Haven. She was predeceased by two sisters.
Naomi was born on August 11, 1936, in Greenwich, CT to the Russian/Ukraine/American artist Simka Simkhovitch (d 1949) and Elsa Fornell Simkhovitch (d 1970). The family moved to Milford, CT in the mid-1940s and Naomi graduated from Milford High School in 1954.
Naomi and Al met when she started working at his private law practice. They married on April 15, 1956, which is when she moved to the Woodmont section of Milford where Al resided. Naomi was a 65-year resident of Woodmont until it was necessary for her to be moved to assisted living.
In the early 1960s Naomi worked for Drs. Leonard Rappaport and Nicholas Coassin at Milford Surgical Associates doing administrative duties to keep the business side of their medical practice in order and running smoothly. After a few years she changed her profession to keeping her home in order and running smoothly. One of her main responsibilities was going to the library almost every week to get and return several books at a time for Al, who was a voracious reader.
One of Naomi’s greatest personal achievements in life was quitting smoking in 1973, which she did through a program called SmokEnders. After successfully completing the program, she worked for SmokEnders for several years as a program moderator, and took tremendous pride in helping many others “kick the habit.”
Later in life Naomi discovered the joy of swimming and for years spent hours in Long Island Sound swimming back and forth from in front of her house and towards the West Haven shore. This led to another one of her greatest personal achievements: Winning the Masters’ Class in the 25th annual 1.5-mile Cross Milford Harbor Swim event on July 26, 1980.
Naomi was a proud daughter of Simka Simkovich, who was an accomplished artist in the early 1900s through his premature death in 1949, and she took immense pride in trying to preserve and promote her father’s legacy and extensive body of work.
Naomi’s greatest joy in life was peaceful solitude and the wonderful view of Long Island Sound and the coast of West Haven from her waterfront home on Beach Avenue, where she resided since 1969 and had hoped to remain for life. Naomi lost her eyesight at the beginning of 2020 and, with 24/7 home care, she was able to remain in her waterfront home in Woodmont until the fall of 2021 when she was moved into assisted living.
Besides her house in Milford, the one other place she loved was Cape Cod. When a child, summer family vacations were spent in Hyannisport. After she and Al married they vacationed every year in Provincetown, spending time with many artists and business owners who lived there year-round and became life-time friends. Naomi maintained many of these friendships after Al passed.
Naomi preferred the company of adults and could be a very gracious hostess or guest. She had a good sense of humor, loved a good laugh and perusing the aisles at Trader Joe’s, and many days her highlight was going out for dinner. She always tried to keep up on the news and preferred entertainment that was cultural or educational, though The Sopranos was one of her all-time favorite shows, right up there with Masterpiece Theatre. As much as she loved a fun time, Naomi was also very set in her ways and never afraid to speak her mind or offer her opinion.
Naomi’s daughter wants to extend very special thanks and gratitude to those who provided much-needed help and compassionate care for Naomi in her final years: Deborah McKeever, for coordinating Naomi’s life and care for the last few years she was at home; Donna Bradley, who provided help with Debbie McKeever; home aide Aisha Mustafah, who had the patience of a saint; the staff at Carriage Green of Milford; the staff in the memory care area at Charter Senior Living of Orange since May 2023, particularly the staff during the last six months (there are far too many to name individually in this space, but special thanks to nurse Cheryl Kinman who was there when Naomi arrived and always checked in on her); hospice nurse Donna McCarthy and aide Christine Steeves from Constellation Healthcare who provided the extra exceptional care and attention that was needed for an extended period of time leading up to and during the final stages to the end; and to Tina Knapp, a former aide, for her continued caring visits and gifts of homemade cookies or other treats that were Naomi’s favorites.
There will be no calling hours or services. Donations in lieu of flowers may be made in Naomi’s memory to the charity of choice, or plant a tree.
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Diana Wilmink
It is with heartfelt sadness that we announce the passing of Diana Gerardi Wilmink, who left this world on January 31, 2025 surrounded by the love of her family. She was a devoted wife and mother, a proud grandmother and cherished friend whose kindness and selflessness touched everyone who knew her.
Diana’s greatest joy in life was her family, her beloved daughters and grandson, whom she loved beyond measure. She always put others before herself, never hesitating to lend a helping hand or offer a warm smile. She had a giving heart and would do anything for those she cared about.
She was born in Stamford, CT on December 3, 1941 to the late William and Sarah Gerardi and was the first of four children. A former hairdresser, Diana had a vibrant personality to match her ever-changing hair colors, never shying away from adding bold highlights just for fun. She also loved visiting the casino, where she embraced the thrill of the game and the company of those around her. She was a die-hard New York Yankees fan, never missing a game on TV and cheering them on with unwavering devotion.
She was predeceased by her daughter Patricia Bausch. She is survived by her husband, Richard Wilmink, daughter Debbie Tiriolo and her grandson Kyle Bausch of Shelton, CT, who will carry her love with them always.
Friends may greet the family on Monday, February 10th from 4-7 PM with a Prayer Service to begin at 6:30 pm at Cody White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St, Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her memory to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital.
To light a candle or leave a condolence in her memory please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.