Obituaries from the June 30, 2022 Issue

Barbara Ann Ambriscoe

Barbara Ann Ambriscoe, 74, of Milford went home peacefully to be with the Lord on June 10, 2022. She was the beloved daughter of the late George and Ann Ambriscoe, whom she joins in heaven along with her late brother, Richard Ambriscoe. She is survived by her sister, Rosemarie Ambriscoe, her brothers, George Ambriscoe, Jr., and Michael Ambriscoe and his wife Evelyn, her niece Jaclyn Hagner, her nephew, Keith Ambriscoe, and all of their families, including many grandnieces, grandnephews and cousins.

Barbara reflected her father’s fun-loving sense of humor and always wanted to make people smile and laugh. She also loved ceramics and crafts, a talent she learned from her mother. Barbara worked for several years in retail and as a certified nurse’s aide. Her natural gift was always caring for others, and her patients would request her by name. She dedicated many years volunteering for the nonprofit organization, Engine 260 Inc., a fire buff club that raises funds for Camp Happiness. Barbara was an avid supporter of the New York Yankees and UConn Women’s basketball teams. She enjoyed listening to rock ‘n’ roll music, and she adored her beagles, Missy and Patches.

Friends and family are invited to call on Wednesday, June 15, 2022 from 9:30 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 12:00 p.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church (Precious Blood Parish) 325 Oronoque Rd., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at King’s Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT. For those wishing to pay tribute to Barbara, in lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to Engine 260 Inc., 4 Flax Mill Terrace, Milford, CT 06461.

Jonathan Anderson

Jonathan Roland Anderson, age 76, of Milford, loving husband of 39 years to Ellen Ann (Mellas) Anderson, passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 12, 2022 surrounded by his loving family. Born on September 9, 1945 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Gunnar and Matilda (Demeter) Anderson. Jonathan was a Graduate of Andrew Ward High School in Fairfield, he joined the Air Force but received a Medical Discharge shortly after enlistment. He was a longtime employee of Fetzer Tire, he enjoyed restoring Triumph TR6 automobiles and had a deep love for his 1966 Triumph Bonneville motorcycle, which won many trophies. Jonathan later worked as a machinist and retired from ENVIPCO after 29 years of service in 2012.

Jonathan enjoyed taking annual trips with his son to Rutland, VT, to hunt deer, a lifelong outdoorsman. When he wasn’t in the woods hunting, you could find him on his beloved Robalo fishing boat as the Captain of the “Thumb’s Up.” He was a member of LISA (Long Island Sound America) and a devoted parishioner of Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church in Bridgeport. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

In addition to his loving wife, Ellen Ann, he leaves behind his daughter, Kristin and her husband Mark Freeman; and his grandson, Brooks Anderson Freeman of Allentown, PA; his son, James Jonathan Anderson of Milford; brother-in-law, Chris Mellas and his wife Susan, and their daughter, Cassandra of Yorba Linda, CA; sister-in-law, Pat Anderson of Fairfield. Jonathan was predeceased by his brother, Roger Anderson. The family would like to thank the angels at Bridgeport Hospital Medical ICU for their kindness and compassion during his final days.

The Rite of Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, June 16, 2022 at 10:30am at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 4070 Park Ave. in Bridgeport with Fr. Georgios Livaditis, Presbyter, officiating, followed by interment in Lakeview Cemetery, Bridgeport. Calling hours will be held Thursday morning from 9:30am until time of service in the church. The family requests that masks be worn during the services. The Commerce Hill Funeral Home, 4798 Main St., Bridgeport, was entrusted with the services. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Holy Trinity Church or to the charity of ones choice in memory of Jonathan. For online condolences, memorial tributes and to make a donation, visit commercehillfh.com.

Margaret “Marge” Bagley

Margaret “Marge” Anne Bagley, 71, of Stratford, CT, beloved mom and grandmother passed away peacefully on June 18, 2022. Born on June 6, 1951, in Port Chester, NY, she was the daughter of the late Patrick Pennatto and Gloria Sabia Pennatto of Stamford, CT.

Marge worked for the Purchasing Department for the City of Milford, CT for 20 years and retired in 2019. Previously, she worked for 15 years at Pitney Bowes Corporate Office. She was a member of the MEA Union for the City of Milford, CT and held the positions of Treasurer, Sunshine Chairperson, and Second Vice President. An avid volunteer, she was a member of the Irish Heritage Society, the Sons of Italy-Norwalk Chapter, a volunteer with the Milford Oyster Festival, as well as annual City of Milford Blood Drives and Wellness Health Fairs. She served many years as the Team Leader for the Safety and Emergency Evacuation for her unit at the Parsons Government Complex.

Marge played ‘host mother’ to students from Italy and Spain through the Education First (EF) Program, and loved to read, travel to Europe, dance, and enjoyed the theater, all genres of music and classic movies and musicals.

She is survived by her only daughter, Christine Renee Bagley, son-in-law Jorge Fritz, and granddaughter, Teagan Lunajoy Fritz, all of Burke, VA.

Friends and family may gather on Wednesday, June 29, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460.

Joseph Bakis

Joseph Bakis, 71, of Orange, entered into rest on May 28, 2022, leaving his cherished wife of 49 years, Claudia Manson Bakis. The very first date for both Claudia and Joe, they met as teenagers, soon got engaged and married in 1973. Their family includes three children and their spouses, of whom Joe was so proud: John Joseph (Chrissy) Bakis, Michael Jeffrey (Jessica) Bakis and Kellye Joan Bakis (Melody Treszi), his adored grandchildren Kiley Bakis, Payton Bakis and Melody Treszi, his sisters, who are technically his in-laws, Debbie (Michael) Fedorko, Susan Puhl, Meg (Max) Martins and many nieces, nephews and grand nieces and nephews.

Joe retired from the State of CT., Department of Corrections where he worked over 20 years. He served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War. Joe, an avid woodworker and his late brother Gary, spent countless hours together making custom furniture for the family. Joe was also a member of the Shoreline Streetrods.

In accordance with Joe’s wishes, there are no public services. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Henry M. Baneat

Henry M. Baneat, 88, of Milford, passed away peacefully on June 6, 2022 at home. His beloved wife, Marie, predeceased him by one month on May 6. While we will miss him beyond measure, we know that he is with his love again. Born on July 15, 1933 in Landivisiau, France, he was the son of the late August and Yvonne Baneat. Henry arrived in the U.S. in 1952 and was drafted shortly thereafter. He served in Korea from 1953-1955. He met his bride at U.S. Motors and they were married in 1957.

Henry leaves behind his children, Lisa (William Soda) Wilcock, Michael (Mary Stapleton) Baneat, and Ann Walsh; ten wonderful grandchildren; five adoring great grandchildren (and three on the way); and many extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his son-in-law, Daniel Walsh and his sister, Marie-France Contenet.

A Graveside Service will be held on Saturday, June 11, 2022 at 10:00 a.m. at the Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY). The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

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Delores Surgalis Hopper

Delores Surgalis Hopper was a loving and attentive wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend. She left this world in Columbus, OH on June 4, 2022 at age 78.  One of 7 daughters of the late William and Mary (Taurick) Surgalis she was born in Milford, CT on March 16, 1944. Wife of Daniel Hopper she was a graduate of Milford High School Class of 1963 and Stone Academy of Business.  She was an employee of SNET before her marriage and move to Columbus, OH where she remained for the rest of her life.

Delores dedicated herself to volunteering at her local library and church in addition to the Community Food Bank.  There was not a Bingo Hall in Ohio that Delores did not like and we’re sure she’s found a game or two through the pearly gates.  In addition to her husband she leaves her son Jason (Michele), Granddaughters Natalie and Rosie, her sisters Judith Inclima (Alphonse), Lorraine Harrison (Lee) and Donna Pomes (Frank) in addition to many nieces and nephews.

She was pre-deceased by her beloved daughter Natalie whom she so lovingly cared for during Natalie’s lengthy illness, sisters MaryAnn Ferguson (Jack), Nancy Stewart (James) and Diane Russo. We are at peace knowing Delores if now with her daughter Natalie.

In complying with Delores’ wishes her body will be donated to science.

Margret Hotchkiss

Margret Laine (“Maggie”) Hotchkiss escaped her struggles on June 16, 2022. She was born in New Haven, CT on January 5, 1986 and was a resident of Woodbridge at the time of her death. Maggie expressed herself best through her art, wit and compassion for other people. She leaves behind her parents, Derek and Kerrigan Hotchkiss, her sister, Katie (Ben) Cooley, her nieces, Chloe Cooley and Davey-Blue Cooley, her aunts Sara Hotchkiss and Deborah (Jeffrey Preble) Uva and her cousins Kerrigan, Kyra, Liam and Bill Donaldson, Jason Ritter, Matthew (Leah Fairchild) Uva, Stacy (Matthew Williston), Madelyn, Callen and Benjamin Milkowski and many heavy hearts.

“Colors” by Maggie Hotchkiss

My mother is white. She is a white wedding gown. Summer is green, stems blooming from the ground. War is brown, soldiers falling dead in the mud. Love is dark blue, the end of the day sky. Math is purple. God is yellow like the sun. Water is silver. My soul is clear so no one can see me.

Those wishing to celebrate her memory can follow her lead and show kindness to persons in need.

Serge Mary Jacques

Serge Mary Jacques, age 62, beloved husband of Lynda (Heriveaux) Jacques of Milford, Connecticut and Queens, New York, entered peaceful rest on Sunday, June 19, 2022.

He was born on February 7, 1960 in Haiti and was the son of the Iate Imoles Camille and Adilie (Regis) Jacques. Mr. Jacques was an architect and the owner of Superfly Maintenance in New York.

In addition to his devoted wife, he leaves fourteen children, Victoria Elizabeth Jacques, Bryant Alexander Jacques, Jean Exantus, Nikiya Exantus, Joshua Exantus, Samuel Exantus, Sephra Vendrys, Elizabeth Jacques, John Jacques, Angelica Jacques, Caroline Jacques, Zechariah Jacques, Serge Mary Jacques Jr., and Yamiley Jacques and three, grandchildren Nora Sky Exantus, Madison Exantus, and Mikhail Exantus and brother: Joseph Camille Jacques and children, Sisters: Marie Lyse J Vigilance and children, Yolette J Payen and children , Nina Virginie J Nelson and children, Josette Jacques and children, Marguerite Jacques and children and many nieces, and nephews.

Family and friends may gather on Tuesday, June 28th from 12 to 1 p.m. at the Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Interment will take place at 1:30 p.m. at King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford.

Walter Alvin Joy Jr.

Walter Alvin Joy Jr. (Walt), age 84, of Florida and formerly of Milford, CT and Sandy Hook, CT beloved husband of Andrea K. Joy for 56 years, died in his sleep on Wednesday June 8, 2022.  Walter was born in Bridgeport, CT on March 1, 1938, to the late Walter and Mildred Joy.  He was a graduated from Milford High School in 1956. Walter was an accomplished baseball player; he played semi-pro baseball traveling the northeast and even got a tryout with the Pittsburgh Pirates. He was a youth baseball, softball and basketball coach for a number of years. Walter was also a highly skilled builder learning almost everything from his Father. He built the family home Sandy Hook, CT where the Joy clan lived for over 30 years.  He loved working on his cars. Walter was the supervisor of the print department at AVCO Lycoming in Stratford, CT where he worked for almost 40 years. Walter retired in 1995 and in 2008 he and Andrea moved to Florida where they enjoyed the warm weather and loved playing pickle-ball, bocci and he played in a men’s softball league. He loved the beach and spending time with his family whenever possible.  He especially loved family cookouts and holiday get-togethers often challenging friends and family members to a friendly game of horseshoes. Walter’s other surviving family members include his children Andrea McGowan of Ansonia, Walter A. Joy III of Waterbury, Justine Williams of Milford, son-in-law Jeffrey Williams, eight grandchildren, Jesse (Kasey), Russel, Monica, Walter IV, Matthew, Danielle, Samuel and Hannah, and two great-grandchildren Brennan and Oliver.

Friends and family may call on Thursday, June 16th from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.  A Service will be held in the funeral home on Friday, June 17th at 10:30 a.m. followed by the interment in Saint Michael Cemetery, Stratford.  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Parkinson’s Foundation.  To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

James “Jimmy” Karpicky

James “Jimmy” Karpicky, 41, of Stratford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, June 15, 2022.  Born and raised in Milford, Jimmy was the son of Christine Brown and the late Frank Karpicky, Jr.   He graduated from Bunnell High School in Stratford and went on to become a carpenter by trade.  Jimmy was employed by Capasso Enterprises, Inc, where he had been a foreman on many job sites throughout the state, winning many awards for his Masonry expertise.  But it was his children, Tye and Tianna, of Glastonbury, who he considered to be his greatest accomplishments in life.

In addition to his mother and children, Jimmy is survived by his brother, Frank David of Ansonia; step-father, Maurice Brown of Stratford; his former spouse, Heather Karpicky, who was his soulmate; step siblings, Lisa Holodnak, Stacy Brown and Jesse Brown; his aunt, cousins and a large extended family, including son, Cayden Karpicky.   He will be fondly and forever remembered as a “gentle giant” who had a genuine interest in others.  His quick and generous smile along with his sense of humor, even in adversity, shined through always.   He never hesitated to help others and was always the first to be there and jump in. When you were with Jimmy you felt like you were embraced by everything pure, beautiful and happy.  He was loyal to the very core.

Family and friends may gather on Monday, June 20, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460. A prayer service will commence at approximately 6:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, Jimmy’s family has requested that donations be made to Tye and Tiana’s Education Fund.

Mary Kozej

Mary M. Kozej, 76, of Milford, passed away peacefully on June 11, 2022 surrounded by her family. She was the devoted wife of the late John Kozej. Mary was born in Bridgeport on July 2, 1945 to the late Otto and Marjorie Kinder Pfannkuch.

Mary was a loving and devoted mother and grandmother. Her pride and joy was her granddaughter. She would light up when she came to visit and say “there’s my baby.” She had a love for baking, decorating for the holidays especially Christmas with every room in her home decked out and for shopping. She loved spending time with her family and friends. Mary was also the strongest and most courageous woman you could have known. She never gave up and fought with dignity to the end.

Mary is survived by her three daughters: Gheri Kozej, Stefanie Kozej and her partner Bill Madelung, and Megan Kozej; granddaughter Brianna Madelung; brother Kurt Pfannkuch and his wife Eivor; brother Bob Pfannkuch and his wife Jill. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews, cousins and friends.

The family would like to thank The Connecticut Hospice Home Care nurses, aides, social workers and our aides for their care and compassion. A special thank you to Michelle, Tina, Debbie, Jen and Lynette for being “Our Rock.”
A memorial service will be held on June 29, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. meeting directly at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 406 White Plains Rd., Trumbull. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation in Mary’s memory to the Smilow Cancer Center, P.O. Box 1849, New Haven, CT 06508. Sign Mary’s guestbook at www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com.

Marie Librandi

Marie Librandi passed away peacefully just one month shy of her 101st birthday. She was truly a force of nature whom we dubbed “the Energizer Bunny”. Family meant everything to her…she was a much-loved wife, mom, mother-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, great-aunt, cousin, daughter, grand-daughter, great-grand-daughter.

Marie enjoyed so much in life and enthusiastically celebrated the accomplishments of her family — births, birthdays, graduations, weddings, anniversaries, awards, new homes and numerous adventures. She was our cheerleader!

She loved so many things and loved sharing them with friends and family: swimming, dancing, bowling, traveling, reading, college study, theatergoing, raising flowers, rooting for the Yankees and the Knicks, knitting, needlework, tailoring, cooking, partying… and, notably, political organizing. In her role as an active member and leader in the League of Women Voters and AARP, she advocated relentlessly for her strong political beliefs in Florida, Hartford and Washington D.C. with luminaries such as U.S. Representative Rosa De Lauro and U.S. Senator Richard Blumenthal.

Towards the end of her long and eventful life, she loved being with family, lit up when seeing Gizmo, her long-lived canine pal—and most especially—her great-grandson, Frank — whom she called the bayyy-beee!!!

We will always miss and love Marie.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, June 30, 2022, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. Those who wish to honor Marie — here we quote her own words: “When I was growing up, I followed my father’s passion for reading”— are invited to donate in her name to the Milford Public Library, 57 New Haven Avenue, Milford, CT 06460.

Raymond Loch

Raymond Loch, 66, of Milford, beloved husband of Mary Loch, passed away peacefully on Thursday May 26, 2022. Born on May 5, 1956 in Bridgeport he was the son of the late Andrew & Mary Lou Loch.

Ray graduated from Bullard Havens in 1974 later pursuing a degree in electrical engineering at Teikyo Post and later a Bachelors and Masters in Business Management at Albertus Magnus. He worked for Sikorsky Aircraft and Lockheed Martin for 44 years combined. He was very hardworking and very dedicated to his job.

Ray enjoyed playing softball and horseshoes, singing karaoke, gardening and traveling. He spent time concocting different types of hot sauces and salsas. He enjoyed spending time with friends for weekly “Whiskey Wednesdays.” No matter where he went, he made friends and brought laughter and many jokes. He was the life of the party. His family was very important to him and he was there for them, as they always came first. He was always willing to lend a helping hand.

In addition to his loving wife of 46 years, Ray is survived by his children Stacy Loch, Eric (Fani) Loch, grandson Rene, his brother Richard Loch (Maricel), sister-in-laws and brother-in-laws, several nieces and nephews, numerous cousins, many friends, and two dogs.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, June 4, 2022 at 12:30 p.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.

Cecile Mashtare

Cecile M. Mashtare, age 80, of Orange passed away peacefully Wednesday June 1, 2022. She was born June 12, 1941 in St. Johnsbury, Vermont to the late Joseph and Helen Begin.

Cecile is predeceased by her beloved husband Stewart Mashtare. She is survived her son David Mashtare, of Milford, and her daughter Alicia Zaldo, of Orange, and her grandchildren Daniel Zaldo, Benjamin Zaldo, Alexander Zaldo, McKenzie Broderick, and Stewart Mashtare.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, June 10, 2022 from 5 p.m. – 7 p.m. at the Keenan Funeral Home 238 Elm St, West Haven CT.

Interment will be held at St. James Cemetery in Manchester, CT on Saturday, June 11, 2022 at 10 a.m.

Hugh Masterson

Hugh Masterson (Benny), age 57, of West Haven, CT, formerly of Firmullagh, Moyne, Co. Longford Ireland, died peacefully Saturday morning, May 28, 2022 surrounded by his loving family.

Born on Jan 6, 1965 in Co. Longford Ireland. He was the son of the late Peter & Catherine Masterson. He is predeceased by his sister, Kathleen (28).Hugh is survived by his beloved wife and partner of 31 years, Donna Studdard; his stepchildren, Brian (Nicole), Fred, Cullin, Patrick (Sara); his grandchildren whom he cherished, Logan, Natalie, Julian, Simona; beloved siblings, Michael (Bernadette), Peter (Collette), Emily (Paddy), John Joe (Nora), Ann (Gerard), Patrick (Mary), Diarmuid (Jacqueline); several (16) very special nieces and nephews; and 17 grand nieces and nephews; and aunt, Nan Masterson (95).

Hugh was a highly skilled mason. He was a member of IUBAC and co-owner of Masterco Restoration. His passion and dedication to his work are evident in his legacy of restorations throughout the New Haven area.

Hugh had a competitive spirit. In his younger years, he was active in GAA football as a player & Captain. He enjoyed Rugby & Liverpool FC. He would never pass up a good New England Patriots game. Hugh was an avid golfer, willing to play at any time, through all seasons. He celebrated his first “hole-in-one” in 2017.

A man of integrity & charisma with an infectious smile, when he wasn’t working or playing golf, you could often find him enjoying a night out with friends & family. Hugh enjoyed casual banter and he had an uncanny ability to see the best in people and find humor in most situations. He was a generous man and a compassionate listener. He was always willing to help in any way. He will be dearly missed by many.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, June 4, 2022 at Saint Lawrence Church, Saint John XXIII Parish, 207 Main St., West Haven, CT. Friends and family may call from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Friday, June 3, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.

For friends and family who are unable to attend the services on Friday, June 3, 2022, you may join us virtually by visiting One Room Streaming and using the event ID and password below.

Bernard J. McDermott

Bernard J. McDermott, 82, of Sunrise, Florida, formerly of West Haven passed away on Sunday April 24, 2016. Father of Bernard P. McDermott of Hobe Sound, FL. Grandfather of Bernard A. C. McDermott. Brother of Arthur (Brooks) McDermott, David (Sally) McDermott, Kathryn (James) Clabby, Terrance (Karen) McDermott and Daniel (Triscia) McDermott, many beloved nieces and nephews, his first wife Ann Killnan Young, and his former daughter in law Angela Consorte. He was predeceased by his nephew Kevin Clabby and his second wife Lois Burr McDermott. Bunny is also survived by his stepchildren David (Suzanne), Lisa & William Kinney & Deborah (Pat) O’Keefe. He was a proud graduate of Notre Dame High School, Class of 1952. He served in the U. S. Navy during the Korean War. He was a mechanic and owned McDermott’s Service Station and also worked for McDermott Chevrolet until his retirement in 1990. For many years he was a volunteer member and volunteer firefighter for West Haven Hook & Ladder and coached West Haven Midget Football. He was past president of Sunrise Lakes Condominium Association and a foster grandparent for Village Elementary School in Florida. He was an avid New York Football Giants fan. The hours for visitation will be Friday from 4 to 8 pm at the West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. On Saturday all are asked to go directly to St. Lawrence Church for a Mass of Christian Burial at 11:30. Interment will be private.

Nicholas Meyer

Nicholas Meyer, 24, of New Rochelle, NY and Milford, CT, died peacefully on May 30, 2022 at his home. Born in New Haven, Oct. 5, 1997, Nicholas was a son of David and Meredith (Simon) Meyer. Beloved Brother of Evan Meyer of Milford. Nicholas was a graduate of Hofstra University, and a Senior Fund Accountant at a Private Equity Firm in NYC. Nicholas had a great sense of humor and enjoyed spending time with family and friends.
Funeral Services will be private. Memorial Contributions may be sent to the charity of one’s choice. Funeral Arrangements in care of Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit: www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Lorraine Miskella

N. Lorraine Miskella, 86, of Milford, beloved wife of the late William Miskella, passed away peacefully on June 7, 2022. Lorraine was born on April 13, 1936 in Middletown, CT to the late Michael and Edna (Marthins) Hennessey, Sr.

Lorraine is survived by her children, Linda Barone, Bill Miskella, Donna (Gary) Hansen, Leasa (Robert) Torelli and Lauri (Thomas Fiorella) Miskella; grandchildren, Kyle Barone, Jake Barone, Amanda Barone, Noella Barone, Billy Miskella, Abby Miskella, Cole and Lilly Hansen, Lindsay (Josh) Schmelzel, Ellie Moon, Sarah Moon, Olivia Ricco, Grace Ricco, Anna Ricco and Lia Ricco; brother, Michael (Janet) Hennessey, Jr.; and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her brother, Paul Hennessey.

Friends and family are invited to gather on Friday, June 10, 2022 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A private burial will follow. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lorraine’s name may be made to Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105.

Deborah A. Moffet

Deborah A. Moffet, 70, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved wife of Gary Moffet, passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, May 24, 2022.

She was born on April 11, 1952 in Bridgeport, Connecticut. She was the daughter of the late Harold and Janice Lundquist. She was a high school graduate and had a long career as a telecommunications operator. She loved working out, baseball, especially the Mets and became a devout Catholic.

Debby is survived by her husband, Gary; daughter, Rhonda; son-in-law, Fred Wehrenberg; grandchildren; Anthony, Alicia, and Alex; her brother, Harold Lundquist, Jr. and his wife, Barbara; sister-in-law, Gail Moffet and her partner, Brent Killion.

Family and friends may gather on Thursday, June 16, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. 7:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, June 17, 2022 at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT 06460.

Dorris Moretti

Doris M. Moretti, age 95 of Milford, loving wife of 42 years to the late Pasquale Moretti passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 7, 2022. Born in St. John, New Brunswick, Canada, she was the daughter of the late Leo Arsenault and Ella Gallant Arsenault. She was a genuine, sweet, extremely caring homemaker who absolutely adored her family. Spirituality and her Catholic religion was of utmost importance to her. She loved to dance and although a quiet lady, she could make people laugh with a witty comment.

Doris leaves behind her two children: Donna Crispino & Leo Moretti; sister Lorraine Ciotti; granddaughters Rose Carey, Lisa Weber, and Michelle Crispino; as well as great-granddaughters Makayla Carey, Juliette and Phoebe Weber. She was predeceased by her son, Louis P. Moretti and brothers Lionel, Arthur, and Walter Arsenault.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, June 14, 2022 at 10 am in St. Augustine, The Cathedral Parish, 399 Washington Ave., Bridgeport. Interment will be private. In abiding with her wishes, calling hours have been omitted. The Commerce Hill Funeral Home, 4798 Main St., Bridgeport has been entrusted with the services. For online condolences and memorial tributes, visit us at commercehillfh.com.

Antone Robert Opekun

Antone Robert Opekun, age 91 of Orange, beloved husband of the late Ann Lauder Opekun, died peacefully on May 29, 2022 at the West Haven VA Medical Center.  Born in New Haven on March 27, 1931, he was the son of the late Antone and Mary Kubisch Opekun.  Mr. Opekun was a lifelong resident of Orange and member of Three Saints Orthodox Church.  He was a proud U.S. Navy Veteran of the Korean War and an active member of the VFW, Post 1284, Seymour.  Mr. Opekun was an Automotive Instructor for the Pine and Eli Whitney Vocational Technical High Schools, as well as a master mechanic for the former Andy’s Garage of Pershing Dr., Ansonia.  He took pride in wearing his Navy uniform for many Memorial Day Parades and veteran’s functions.  Throughout his many years of volunteer service with the VFW, it is estimated that Mr. Opekun single handedly raised over 20,000.00 in poppy sales. He was a member of the King Hiram Lodge 12 and the George Washington Lodge 82, AF and AM, for nearly 70 years.  He is survived by his devoted sons, Antone (Julia) Opekun of TX and Matthew (Robin) Opekun of Naugatuck; cherished grandchildren, Curtis (Laura) Opekun of NC, Rebecca (Marc) Lascko of Thomaston, and Alexander of TX; great-grandchildren, Tanner and Kaitlyn Opekun of NC, Hunter and Maxx Lascko of Thomaston.  Funeral services will be held on Friday, June 3, 2022, at 10:00 AM in the Wakelee Memorial Funeral Home, 167 Wakelee Avenue, Ansonia.  Interment with Military Honors will follow in Pine Grove Cemetery, Ansonia.  Family and friends may call at the funeral home on Thursday, June 2, 2022 from 4:00 to 7:00 PM.  Memorial contributions may be made to The Masonic Charity Foundation of Connecticut, P.O. Box 70, Wallingford, CT 06492 or to the West Haven VA Medical Center, Center for Development and Civic Engagement, 950 Campbell Avenue, West Haven, CT 06516.  Online condolences may be made at www.wakeleememorial.com.

Richard L. Pacelle, Sr.

Richard L. Pacelle, Sr. died on May 27, 2022 at the Veterans Administration Medical Center in West Haven after a brief illness. His beloved wife of 68 years, Patricia (Kledaras) Pacelle passed away in September 2021. He is survived by his son Richard, Jr. (Fenton Martin), daughters Kim (Dennis) Johnsky, Wendy (Neil) Hathaway, and son Wayne Pacelle (Lisa Fletcher); three grandchildren: Danika (Chris) Hodges, Robert (Lauren) Hathaway, and Corey Hathaway; a step grandson Craig Martin (Chiara Bariviera) and three great grandchildren Cora and Charlie Hodges and Penelope Hathaway. He is predeceased by his parents John and Esther Masseli Pacelle; his only sibling John Pacelle Jr. and a step grandson Russell Martin.

Richard spent the bulk of his career teaching at both Milford and Jonathan Law High Schools and coached at both. He was named head football coach at Milford High School in 1968 and later became Athletic Director at Jonathan Law.

After his retirement, he worked at the New Haven Testing Laboratory, owned by his brother-in-law Stanley. He also served as Regional Coordinator for high school volleyball in Connecticut. Richard was an avid reader, political advocate and sports fan who enjoyed playing golf and tennis well into his eighties. He enjoyed and appreciated the staff at the VA Hospital and appreciated all the wonderful care he received throughout his years.

A graveside service, with military honors, will take place on July 30, 2022 at 10 o’clock at Orange Center Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Fisher House Foundation at VA Connecticut Healthcare System, Fisher House (135F), Attn: Amanda Salthouse, Fisher House Program Manager, 950 Campbell Avenue, West Haven CT 06516.

Kathleen Pacelli

Kathleen (Cocozza) Pacelli of Milford, age 79, the beloved wife of Patrick R. Pacelli entered into eternal rest on Saturday, May 21, 2022, at home with her loving family by her side. Born in Bridgeport, CT on July 30, 1942, the daughter of the late Albert and Mildred (Clayton) Cocozza. Survivors, in addition to her husband of 50 years, include her children, Patrick W. Pacelli and wife Lisa of Milford, Charisse H. Pacelli of Monroe; four beloved grandsons, Nicholas, Dominic, Dante and Lukas. All services will be private at the convenience of the family. Arrangements entrusted to the Parente-Lauro Funeral Home, 559 Washington Ave., Bridgeport, CT. To sign an online guest book or to send private condolences, please visit www.parentelauro.com.

Robert Penrosa

Robert Penrosa was born April 26, 1956 and passed away on May 25, 2022 at age 66.

Ava Skye Perrella

Ava Skye Perrella, 10, of Milford, passed away peacefully 6/6/2022 at Yale New Haven Children’s Hospital after a brief illness surrounded by her loving parents James and Gail Perrella.

Ava was born 5/30/2012 at a beautiful home birth In Milford, CT. Ava, who was born with Down Syndrome, lived a full and extraordinary life in such a short period of time. In 2014 Ava was crowned Connecticut Little Miss Rising Star in the Miss CT Organization, appeared on billboards in Time-Square for NYC Buddy Walk Day, and began to show the world how powerful and impactful a girl with Down Syndrome can be. In 2018 she developed a passion for cheerleading becoming the first member of the MEPW Challenger Cheer team where she brought thousands to their feet at competitions. She loved her time on the mat and spending time with the junior coaches she grew so fond of. Ava was finishing 3rd grade and developing at a rapid rate due to the efforts of her family and the amazing educators, therapists, and paraprofessional’s that she built a special bond with.

Ava wasn’t just special because she had Down Syndrome, it’s because she had the ability to light up every room with the potency of her spirit.  She was a smart, sweet, sassy, vibrant, and compassionate soul with an infectious smile that would make your day and give the best hugs.  In just a short 10 years Ava made an impact on her community and the world. Her legacy will continue to grow by all those lives she touched.

Ava is survived by her parents, James and Gail Perrella;  Brother, Hunter Perrella; Several Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins. Ava is predeceased by her Paternal Grandparents, Barbara and Joseph Perrella and Maternal Grandparents, Sidney and Theresa Brayton.

The family would like to express their appreciation to all the educators and school staff that touched Ava’s life in the Milford Education system, also her after school sitters she built a special sister bond with.  We are also grateful for all the medical professionals at Yale in the ER, PICU, and Child Life that showed such compassion towards Ava and us during this unimaginable time.

A Gathering to Celebrate the Life of a special person will take place Tuesday 6/14/2022 at Ava’s favorite ice cream and sunset spot, Gulf Beach from 5:30-7:00 p.m. to share memories with a prayer service to take place at 7:00 p.m. The family encourages everyone to wear purple and to please refrain from wearing black. Feel free to bring a blanket or chair.  In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Ava’s Memorial and Family Support Page at

https://www.gofundme.com/f/Ava-Skye-Perrella?utm_campaign=p_nacp+share-sheet&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook

Arrangements have been compassionately cared for by the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment will be held in private. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

John F. Peterson

John F. Peterson, 84, of Woodbridge passed away peacefully at his home on Sunday, June 5, 2022. He was the son of the late Eugene and Catherine (Rose) Peterson. John is survived by his partner, Richard Terwilliger.
A Memorial Service will be held at a later date. For more information or to send condolences, please see Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home website: www.beecherandbennett.com.

Antoinette (Gritsko) Podpolucha

Antoinette Podpolucha, age 89, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Joseph Podpolucha, died on Tuesday, June 7, 2022. Antoinette was born in Nanticoke, PA on April 13, 1933 to the late Frank and Petronella Gritsko. She retired from Schick where she worked in Quality Control. Antoinette was an active parishioner of Christ The Redeemer Church where she was a member of the Ladies Guild, a Lecter and part of the crocheting group. Survivors include her children: James Podpolucha (Elizabeth) and Peter Podpolucha both of Milford, sisters, Phyllis Piccolello of Trumbull and Carol Lewis (James) of Martinsville, Virginia, five grandchildren; Ryan, Kyle and Clayton Podpolucha of Meriden, Alexander Podpolucha (Erin) of Shelton and Alison Delmott (Fabien) of France, and sister-in-law, Sandra Gliniak of Meriden. Antoinette is predeceased by her two sons, Michael and Mathew Podpolucha and brothers: Edward and Frances Gritsko. Friends are invited to attend a Memorial Mass for Antoinette on Saturday June 18th at 11:00 a.m. in Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Road, Milford. Interment will be private.

Purple was her favorite color. The family asks that those in attendance wear something purple and dress comfortably. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, 1500 Rosecrans Ave, Suite 200, Manhattan Beach, CA 90266. To share a memory, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Donna Marie (McDermott) Post

Donna Marie (McDermott) Post, 60, of Orange, died on June 17, 2022, surrounded by her family. Born in Randolph, Massachusetts on October 27, 1961, a daughter of the (late) John E. and Lorraine (Swart) McDermott of Milton, MA. In addition to her mother, Donna is survived by her husband of 32 years, Bruce Post; loving children Jennifer Post of Providence, RI, Kristin Post of Norwalk, CT, and Matthew Post of Delray Beach, FL; sister-in-law Rachel McDermott of San Jose, CA; brothers Michael (Lisa) McDermott of Hanson, MA, Dan (Julie) McDermott of Franklin, MA, and Bob (Erica) McDermott of Scituate, MA; ten nieces and nephews; four godchildren; as well as many dear friends, all whom she loved deeply. In addition to her father, Donna is preceded in death by brother John F. McDermott and nephew John E. McDermott..

Donna graduated from Westfield State University, and shortly thereafter settled in Connecticut; however, she never lost touch of her ‘roots’, nor lost her Boston accent. Her unending “Boston Strong” love of the Red Sox, Patriots, and Celtics were only surpassed by her love for her family- her role of mom was of highest importance. Her passion for children and education alike led to her employment at Platt Technical High School of Milford as a coach and paraprofessional. Donna was steadfast in her pursuit of self-improvement, both personally and professionally, as illustrated daily amongst those she cared for. Considered a “Sista friend” to many, Donna was particularly well known for her quick wit and willingness to lend a shoulder to lean on over a cup of coffee, should one need such. The love, support, and lifelong friendships remained dear to her heart.

Our ‘Wonder Woman’ has now gone before us. As such, words may never articulate the love she offered, nor encompass that which was expressed to her during this sad time.

Arrangements have been entrusted to West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. A wake will be held on Friday, June 24th, from 4:30 to 7:30pm, in the funeral parlor. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, June 25th, at 9am, in Holy Infant Church of Orange. Attendees are asked to meet directly at church. Interment will immediately follow in Orange Center Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be offered in Donna’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Judith Soule Redmann

Judith Soule Redmann, 66, of Branford, beloved wife of Robert H. Redmann, passed away peacefully June 18, 2022 at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by her family. Judith was born and raised in Milford, the daughter of the late Charles and Jean Soule.

She was the adoring mother and mother-in-law of Charlene Wray and Jon Handy, Cheryl and Todd Tompkins and Robert C. Redmann. Proud grandmother to Jessie Tompkins, Todd Tompkins, Daniel Tompkins, Kyle Tompkins, Dana Wray, Trevor Tompkins, Michelle Tompkins, Denise Wray and Laycee White. Loving sister of Cindy and JohnYoung and Carol White. Judith was further survived by her nieces, nephews and other relatives and friends.

Judith was a part of the Milford Volunteers Ancient Fife and Drum Corps for many years. She also had a successful career at Kissel, Kneale and Tobin of Guilford, where she enjoyed working with a tight knit group of co-workers and friends for over 30 years. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother who enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, June 28, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Memorial Service will begin at 7:30 p.m. that evening. Burial will be private.

Judith L. Rice

Judith L. Rice, 77, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Stanley Rice, passed away on June 14, 2022. Born on March 12, 1945 in Sheldon Springs, VT, she was the daughter of the late Bryon and Ruth Austin.

Judith was a graduate of Ansonia High School and went on to marry and raise her family for many years along with being a foster home host. Judith had a very generous heart. Once the family was grown she went back to the workforce and worked at many divisions of Air-Lock Inc. and became an entrepreneur with a friend of a painting and wallpapering company.

Judith leaves behind her children, Steva Werden, Scott Rice, and a son-in-law, Robert Werden. Grandchildren, Cassie Rice, Mackenzie Rice, and Tommy-Lee Buskey. Her brothers, Ronald Austin and James Austin. Her sisters-in-law, Beth Austin and Sue Austin; and many extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her brother, Gary Austin and sister-in-law, Jean Austin.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, June 21, 2022 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Graveside Service will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The American Heart Association.

Carolyn Ryan

Carolyn Nelson Ryan, 97, a longtime resident of Milford and beloved wife to the late James J. Ryan, entered into eternal rest on June 9, 2022. Born on December 25, 1924 in Kensington, CT, she was the daughter of the later Algot and Mary Nelson.

Carolyn graduated Milford High School with the class of 1942. She worked many years in banking and later in life at a book bindery. She was an avid reader and a kind giving spirit who will be remembered as a loving mother, grandmother, and sister.

Besides her husband, Carolyn was predeceased by an infant son, Kevin Richard Ryan; her three sisters, Betty Chernock, Barbara Pantagese and Lois Hammond; and her son-in-law, James M. Maher. She is survived by her four children, Kathy (Dominik Della Rocca) Maher, Linda (Ed) Cronin, Mary Ellen (Bob) Madoule, and James N. (Valerie) Ryan; her eight grandchildren; and ten great grandchildren.

The family would like to extend their gratitude to the nurses and staff of Milford Health and Rehab for the compassionate care given to Carolyn. Many, many thanks.

All services were private and interment was in Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT.

Gloria Anna Sanwald

Gloria Anna Sanwald, age 81, of Milford, the beloved widow of Robert J. Sanwald, passed away in her home with her loving family by her side on Thursday, May 26, 2022. Born in Bridgeport on May 20, 1941 to the late Peter and Anna (Petrashka) Terasowich, she has been a lifelong Milford resident. Gloria was a retired manager for Kmart and previously worked in Howland’s Department Store. She was always found working the Polls in Milford every election day. She is survived by her devoted children, Kurt Sanwald and his wife Julie of Milford and Keith Sanwald and his wife Veronica of Stratford, her cherished grandchildren, Abby and Jacob Sanwald, Benjamin Fusco, Samantha and Melanie Sanwald, her brothers, Peter Terasowich and his wife Diane of Milford, Thomas Terasowich and his wife Kris of Monroe, a sister, Cindy Terasowich and her husband Dick Harvey of Shelton, a niece, Reagan Carroll and her husband Dan and a great nephew, Sterling. The family would like to thank the staff of Milford Hospital and the CT Hospice for the wonderful care given to Gloria. Friends may greet her family on Tuesday, May 31 from 4-7 pm in the Adzima Funeral Home, 50 Paradise Green Place, Stratford. A prayer service will take place on Wednesday, June 1, 2022 at 11:00 am in the Funeral Home. Interment will follow in Kings Highway Cemetery in Milford.

Amalia Simoes

Amalia Simoes, age 94, of West Haven passed away at CT Hospice on May 27, 2022. She was born in New Haven, daughter of the late Alfredo and Emalia Simoes. Amalia is survived by her sisters Dolores Piascik of West Haven & Elvira Ruggiero of Branford, her brother Anthony Simoes of West Haven, her godson Raymond Suraci of East Haven and her very special niece Maureen Ruggiero of East Haven. She was predeceased by her siblings, Judith Jacobs Celentano, Marie Ann Suraci, Maria Alice Simoes, Manuel, Americo and Carlos Simoes and her dogs Gigi and Shelby. Prior to her retirement, Amalia worked for Prime Technology.

Family and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in Our Lady of Victory Church on Friday at 10am. Interment will be private. There will be no hours for visitation. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to your favorite animal shelter. West Haven Funeral Home at the Green entrusted with arrangements. To leave an online condolence, please visit our website at www.westhavenfuneral.com.

Susan Foyer Smith

Susan (Sue) Foyer Smith, of Orange, passed away on June 17, 2022 after a lifelong illness, Type 1 Juvenile Diabetes. Born on September 15, 1952, she was the daughter of the late Bernard and Audrey Mitchell Foyer. Susan attended the University of New Haven and pursued a Master’s Degree in elementary education from Southern Connecticut State University, and a sixth-year degree in Advanced Teaching from Sacred Heart University. Susan taught in the Orange Public School System for 34 years before retiring in 2009. While teaching, Susan was involved with many school events and committees. After retiring, Susan became a caregiver for aging family members. She also joined the Orange Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). She participated by taking a more active role in emergency preparedness projects in her community.

Susan grew up in Orange alongside her family she loved so much. She enjoyed the outdoors, walking with her dog, going to antique markets, working out at the gym, and gathering with friends. Each morning she would attend to the countless animals on the family farm. She was a huge animal lover and cared for many pets during her lifetime.
Susan loved to travel and enjoyed choosing a new destination to tour each year. Her most heartwarming trip was when she and her husband traveled to China to adopt their loving daughter, Ashley.

In addition to her devoted husband of 43 years, Robert Smith, and daughter Ashley and her husband Brian Coate, she is survived by her brother Donald Foyer, Sr. and his wife Barbara, her nephew Donald Foyer, Jr., and grandnieces Leia and Violet Foyer. Her parents, her brother Thomas Foyer, and infant niece Cheryl Ann Foyer all predeceased her.
A Mass of Christian Burial will take place at 12:00 p.m. Monday, June 20th in Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Road, Orange. Friends may visit with Susan’s family in church prior to Mass, from 10:30 a.m.-12:00 p.m. Burial will be private. Donations in remembrance of Susan can be made to the American Autoimmune Related Disease Association, Inc. (AARDA), 19176 Hall Road Suite 130, Clinton Township, MI 48038, or to a farm animal rescue sanctuary of choice. Arrangements are in care of BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden. To send condolences, please see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

Justin Spray

Justin Spray, 35, was killed, at his home in Milford. Visitation will take place Sunday, June 5 at Dennis & D’Arcy Abriola & Kelemen Funeral Home between 1 and 4 p.m. Funeral service will begin at 4 p.m.

 

 

 

Kathrine M. Trimboli

Kathrine M. Trimboli, age 82, of Milford entered peaceful rest on June 8, 2022.

She was born on April 29, 1940, in Manhattan, New York and was the daughter of the late Frank and Genevieve (Sukunda) Czarnecki. She worked as a Librarian in Brooklyn, NY for many years. She was a member of the American Legion in NY. She loved to play cards and was an avid shopper, especially for purses.

Mrs. Trimboli is survived by her daughter, Debra Brunetto and her husband Richard of Milford and Frank P. Trimboli, Jr. and his wife Mary of Boca Raton, Florida and five grandchildren, Samantha, Richie, Alexandria, Stephanie and Frank, III and two great grandchildren, Vanessa and Adrianna. She was predeceased by her husband Frank P. Trimbolli, Sr. and her son, Gregg A. Trimboli.

Services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Ruth Vaglivelo

Ruth Vaglivelo, 94, of Monroe, Connecticut, passed away peacefully into eternal rest on Saturday June 18, 2022. Born on April 14th, 1928, in Scranton Pennsylvania, she was the daughter of the late Madge and Edwin Coleman.

Ruth is survived by her children, Susan (George) Baron, Lynn (Tom) Giulietti, Alan (Debra) Vaglivelo; her grandchildren, David (Danielle) Baron, Kelly Usanis, Caitlin (Ryan) Moreau, John (Elisha) Giulietti, Jordan Vaglivelo, Tyler Vaglivelo; her great grandchildren, Makenzie and Hayden Baron, Brooke Usanis, Paige, Connor and Patrick Moreau, Collin and Sean Giulietti. Ruth is survived by one brother, Joseph (Marie) Coleman. Ruth is also predeceased by her brother, Ed Coleman.

All services for Ruth will be private.

Richard Zitser

Richard Zitser, 89, our beloved “Papa Z,” of Woodbridge, CT passed away peacefully with his family by his side on June 13, 2022. Richard was born on April 13, 1933, the son of the late Ella Burres Zitser and Saul Zitser. He was born and raised in New Haven, graduating from Hillhouse High School and later from the Wharton School of Finance and Commerce at the University of Pennsylvania in 1955 with a Bachelor of Science in Economics. He made his mark at Penn in many ways, even as a finalist for Mr. Pennsylvania in 1954. After serving in the US Army for 2 years, he created a mattress company called Colonial Richard and then in 1957 joined his father at Yale Upholstery, a furniture factory in New Haven. Eventually, he purchased the old Wilson H. Lee Printing Company building in Orange, CT on the Boston Post Road, where he founded Yale Manufacturing and employed over 100 people. At Yale Manufacturing, he put his keen intellect, creativity and talent for design to good use to create custom furniture for homes across the country. Beloved by his staff, he took excellent care of his employees until the last day of the business in 1992. At that point, Richard reinvented his career by focusing on customer service at Costco Wholesale. He helped to open the Milford Costco 312 store in 1993, which is where he retired 25 years later, in 2018. Known at Costco as the “Keeper of the Valuables,” he was the one on whom everyone could count for extreme organization well into his 80s. His energy and work ethic rivaled that of his coworkers 6 decades his junior, and he mentored many of his younger co-workers during his years there. He was an avid technology enthusiast and early adopter of computers, purchasing the IBM for his business in the 1980s, and purchasing the original Macintosh on which he created beautiful computer art. He later sold computers and educated others about the benefits of computers while working at Costco. He kept up with the latest technology trends until his death. Richard was a proud member of the Young Presidents’ Organization (YPO), served as President of the Woodbridge Country Club for several years, and was treasurer of B’nai Jacob Synagogue.
Richard always said, “You have to work hard to play hard,” and he and his wife Joanne did just that, traveling to dozens of countries, from the Soviet Union in the 1970s to Myanmar to Syria shortly before war broke out there in 2011. Whether it was across the globe or on a drive to get bagels, he and his wife Joanne went on countless adventures together, always by each other’s side. Richard impressed people all over the world with his charm and immense curiosity, meeting lifelong friends along the way. He and Joanne loved to share their experiences with others, even taking extended family on two unforgettable international trips, first to Europe and then to China, Thailand and Cambodia. Richard loved to be outdoors and was comforted by nature. The Tree of Life and Yin Yang were important symbols to him, and he was sharing his “pearls of wisdom” until his last breath.

Richard loved his family. He leaves behind his soulmate, Joanne Ketover Zitser, of Woodbridge, to whom he was married for 63 years; his three daughters, Andrea (Cary) Benjamin of Woodbridge, Emily Zitser of Bryn Mawr, PA and Jen (Todd) Zitser of Hamden; his six grandchildren, Ryan, Josh (Lindsay), Allison, Victoria, Zachary and Jadyn; one great-granddaughter, Esther; his dog, Lilly; numerous cousins, nieces, nephews and in-laws; and countless friends. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his sister, Beverly Lavietes, and his beloved poodle, Bella, who was always by his side and died just a few weeks ago.

Thank you to all his Yale doctors who saved his life many times through the years; his caretakers at the end of his life, Ana, Tiffany and Andrea P; and his hospice nurses, Michele and Coco.

Funeral services will be held at B’nai Jacob Memorial Park, 200 Wintergreen Ave, New Haven on THURSDAY morning June 16th at 11:00 a.m. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven is in care of Arrangements.
Donations in Richard’s memory can be made to the Yale New Haven Hospital Development Office and Congregation B’nai Jacob. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit; www.shurefuneralhome.com.