John “Jack” Barton Jr.
John “Jack” Barton Jr., 90, beloved husband of the late Shirley Barton, passed away on May 26, 2024. Born on July 8, 1933 in Hartford, CT, he was the son of the late John M. Barton Sr. and Gertrude Barton.
Jack owned and operated the Barton & Barton Insurance Agency for over fifty years, retiring at age 80.
Jack’s passion for sports and community involvement was evident throughout his life. He was inducted into the Trinity College Basketball Hall of Fame in 1982 and served as president of the Orange Little League in 1976. Additionally, he was an assistant coach for the Amity Basketball team and was inducted into the Amity Athletics Hall of Fame in 2011. He was life-long Detroit Tiger fan who traveled religiously to their spring training. His contributions to local sports were a testament to his dedication and love for nurturing young talent.
Beyond his sports involvement, Jack was deeply engaged in various community organizations. He served as chairman of the Amity Board of Education from 1983 to 1987 and was a member of the Orange Rotary Club serving as president for a year, Paul Harris Fellow and a member of the Paul Harris Society. His leadership extended to the Town of Orange Police Commission, where he served as chairman until 2024. In recognition of his lifelong dedication to the community, he received the Town of Orange Living Treasure Award in 2010.
Jack was also a devoted churchgoer and lifetime parishioner of the Church of the Good Shepherd, where he served as a senior warden. His faith and commitment to his church community were central to his life, providing him with strength and solace.
Jack is survived by his two beloved sons: John M. Barton III and James Barton. He is also survived by his loving partner for the last twenty years, Ms. Lee Schlesinger. He also beloved by his extended family of John’s partner Maura Harrigan, her daughters G.G. and Ana, their husbands Derek and Jeff, Lee’s daughter Sarah Pollack, her husband Ross and daughter Marian, and Lee’s son Ian Schlesinger and his children Coren and Eva. In addition to his late wife, Jack is predeceased by his sister Virginia Porter, and brother Charles Barton.
A Memorial Service will be celebrated on Wednesday, June 5, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at Church of the Good Shepherd, 680 Racebrook Rd, Orange, CT 06477. Interment will be held privately by the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Church of the Good Shepherd online at https://www.cogsct.org/pay-pledge-online
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Victoria Brennan
Victoria Brennan of Milford, beloved wife of the late Arthur R. Brennan for 54 years, passed away on May 22, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Victor and Kathleen D’Angelo of Mount Vernon NY. Her memory will be cherished by her family including her son Arthur (Laura), daughters Vicki (Bela), and Christine, her beloved granddaughter Rose and her brother Michael D’Angelo (Jo-Ann) of Newtown CT. She will also be missed by other family members – nieces, nephews and close family friends. Victoria was predeceased by her sister Elizabeth Costello of Portchester NY.
A graduate of A.B. Davis HIgh School, Victoria began her professional career in New York City at Union Carbide followed by a lifelong career at The Horolovar Clock Company in Bronxville NY. Victoria was known for her organization and planning skills (almost to a fault), keen wordsmithing skills (her 2 favorite books were the dictionary and thesaurus), and her addiction to all things “office supplies.”
On a fateful day in 1959 at the Jersey Shore, Victoria met the love of her life, Arthur. They started a family and moved from Brooklyn to Mount Vernon. She was an over achiever who balanced many work hours, keeping a busy house organized, attending countless school sporting events and spending long summer days at Jones Beach watching the sunrise and sunset.
Victoria was a perfectionist (the good kind.) Her sense of humor unmatched, her story telling, legendary. She loved music and to dance; especially the Lindy with her sister and the Twist with her brother. She was supportive, dedicated, loyal, committed and loving. She was unforgettable and brought both strength and wit to this world. The wonderful memories that Victoria created will be carried on by all of those who knew her.
On behalf of the family, a special thank you is extended to Carriage Green Assisted Living of Milford for their kindness, caring services and genuine friendship that they offered Victoria for her 8 years living there. She enjoyed countless activities, live music gatherings, and was treated superbly by everyone from the aids, nursing, kitchen staff, housekeeping, administrative staff, activities specialists, etc. Another thank you is extended to Caring Hospice for the skill and dignity in which they cared for our beloved matriarch during her final days.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, May 30, 2024 from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 am at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St. Milford . A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, May 30, 2024 at 12:00p,m, at St. Gabriel Church, 26 Broadway, Milford CT 06460.
Interment will be held privately by the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of your choice in her name.
Gregory E. Clukey
Gregory Edward Clukey (age 79) of Milford, CT passed away peacefully on Tuesday May 28, 2024 after a courageous battle with Alzheimer’s, which he faced with humor, strength, and dignity. He was an inspiration to all who knew him.
Greg was born on September 8, 1944 in Dexter, Maine and was son of the late Roland and Elizabeth (Giles) Clukey. What he enjoyed most about his childhood was playing sports, and in high school he excelled at football, baseball, and basketball. After graduating, he moved to Connecticut and eventually settled in Milford, his lifelong home. Throughout his life, Greg managed several grocery stores, but he was most proud of owning and operating Swanson’s Fish Market in Hamden, CT.
Greg is survived by his devoted daughters Sharon Paredes and her husband Luis and Dianne Lickteig and her fiance Glen Greene, his loving granddaughters Lauren and Christina Paredes, his sisters Jacqueline Sharpe and Jerilyn Mullis, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents and his older brothers Douglas and Roger Clukey.
He will be remembered for his huge heart and laid back nature. His greatest joys in life were spending time with his family and watching the Boston Red Sox.
His family would like to thank the loving people who cared for him at Sunset Shores and West Haven Nursing and Rehab.
Family and friends may call on Monday, June 3, 2024, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.
A Graveside Service will be held on Tuesday, June 4th at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford.
Agnes Estelle Dupree
Agnes Estelle Dupree, 91, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Robert G. Dupree, passed away peacefully on May 11, 2024. Born on July 10, 1932 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late Stephen and Victoria Stefanek.
Agnes was employed at BIC Corporation in Milford for 15 years. She also worked as a lunch aide for Calf Pen Meadow for over 30 years enjoying her time spent with the children. Following her time at Calf Pen Meadow she volunteered at Carriage Green Assisted Living well into her 90s, where she helped to community and spent quality time with the residents.
Agnes loved to stay active and often enjoyed a daily walk, even participating in 5k charity marathons for cancer in her local community. She enjoyed meeting up with her friends to enjoy a cold drink and play a few games of cards to help the day pass by in good company. Agnes was an avid reader, finding herself fulfilled by the stories she read.
She was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother who will be dearly missed by those who had the honor of calling her family, friend and Nana.
Agnes is survived by her two beloved sons: Stephen J. Dupree and Robert C. Dupree (Doris). Six grandchildren: Justine, Kayleigh, Zachary, Lydia, Miriam and great grandson Tyler and great granddaughters Emma and Madelyn. She is also survived by her nephew Donnie, niece Donna, niece Debbie, and her grand-dogs Sushi, Fig Newton and Magic. She is predeceased by her beloved daughter Kim Dupree Campanelli and her sister Barbara Spillane.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, May 17, 2024, at 10:45am to 11:45am with a Mass of Christian Burial to begin at noon at St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford CT 06460.. Interment will be held privately by the family at a later date.
Agnes is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Gail Arnold Meeson Elker
Gail Arnold Meeson Elker (nee Spooner) passed peacefully on May 25, 2024 surrounded by her loving family. She was born May 7, 1938 and was raised in East Douglas Massachusetts, the daughter of Dr. Raymond H. and Kathleen C. Spooner. Growing up, she liked to ride along in the car when her father, the only town doctor, went on house calls so that she could spend time with him, often reading a book in the car while he was with patients. She loved to draw and paint, mostly horses, and was thrilled when her father bought her a horse, Gypsy, when she was 14 years old. She graduated valedictorian of her high school and then went to Middlebury College in Vermont where she earned a Bachelor’s degree in biology and met John H. Meeson, who she married in the summer of her junior year. They lived in New Jersey for a few years, and had two sons, Daniel W. Meeson and John H. Meeson Jr. When the boys were six and three years old, the family moved to Orange, CT and 3 years later, the boys’ father left the family and Gail became a single parent who was both strong and loving.
She was a dedicated mother, working part time to provide for her children while also being actively involved in their upbringing – as a den mother in Scouts and teaching Sunday School where they went to church. She met Bradford H. Elker when they were both helping install a pipe organ at church and, after a long courtship, they were married in 1986. They had a loving and happy marriage, traveling extensively in the U.S. and Europe to view pipe organs – a joint passion of theirs. They went on many other trips with favorite destinations including Israel, a safari in South Africa, and an annual trip to Pemaquid Point, ME, always bringing her dog.
She went back to school to earn her Masters degree in Counseling from the University of Bridgeport graduating in 1994 with a 3.91 GPA as a member of Phi-Kappa-Phi honor society.
Gail’s children and grandchildren were her greatest joy in life and both she and Brad poured time, love, and energy into maintaining these important relationships with family and friends. She was a strong, born again Christian and member of both Orange Congregational Church and Messianic Jewish congregation, Simchat Yisrael. Gail volunteered at the Beth El soup kitchen for years and spread joy to others through her musical talent as a member of both her church choir and Pitchpipers. She was also a member of the OCC bell choir. Gail also loved animals, especially horses, dogs, and cats. Besides the horse she had in high school, she had a retired race horse in her back yard in Orange, and over the years, several different breeds of dogs and many cats.
Besides her parents, Gail was predeceased by her husband, Bradford H. Elker, her first husband, John H. Meeson, and a dear sister-in-law Susan B. Spooner. She is survived by her son John H. Meeson Jr. and his wife Dawn P. Meeson, their sons Eric John Meeson and Kevin John Meeson to whom she was their beloved “Nana,” her son Daniel W. Meeson and his wife Suzanne D. Lampe, as well as younger brothers Raymond H. Spooner and Jonathan F. Spooner, his wife Laurie Spooner, and many nieces and nephews whom she loved dearly. Gail was a devout Christian and is now forever with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Services will be Thursday June 6th at Orange Congregational Church, 205 Meetinghouse Lane, Orange. Calling hours will be 4:00-6:00 downstairs in the Fellowship Hall. The memorial service will begin upstairs at 6:00 in the Church Proper.
In lieu of flowers please make a contribution to a charity that you know was important to her.
Gail is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home, to light a candle or leave a condolence please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Paul Ernst Sr.
Paul Ernst Sr., 83 passed away April 25, 2024. He was born in Somerset, MA, the son of the late Alder and Marie (Bibeau) Ernst. The family moved to the Rivercliff section of Devon in 1945 where Paul resided until 1964.
Paul leaves behind his soul mate Joan (Mickune) of 63 years; his son, Paul (Alice) of Woodbury, CT; and his two grandchildren, Brian of Los Angeles, California and Kristin of Seattle, Washington. He is also survived by his brother, Robert of Palm Coast, Florida. Paul was predeceased by his brother Roger who passed away in 2022.
Paul graduated from Milford High School, the Hartford State Technical College and the University of Bridgeport where he earned two Engineering degrees. During his engineering career Paul worked in Airframe Design and Layout at Sikorsky aircraft.
Paul then pursued a career as a Connecticut State Police Trooper and earned the rank of Sergeant. He attended the Babson College Leadership Course and the Milford Citizens Police Academy. During his twenty four years with the State Police, Paul had assignments with the HQ Traffic Squad, Troop ‘I’ in Bethany, Troop ‘F’ in Westbrook and as a platoon Sergeant at Troop ‘G’ in Westport. He finished his State Police career with an assignment of thirteen years to HQ Computer Systems in Hartford and Meriden as a lead programmer and technical support specialist for the State Police Resource and Incident reporting system.
After his retirement from the State Police; Paul worked for thirteen years as a software engineer at CBS and other companies. During his working years Paul took additional software training in Chicago, Boston, Hartford and King of Prussia, PA.
Paul was active with the Milford Road Runners and a 17-year member of the Bridgeport Rifle Club. He maintained his computer network in addition to constructing a two car attached garage, adding on a 16’ x 14’ TV room, a 30’ deck and completing a bathroom restoration.
Paul enjoyed cruises to Bermuda and Vancouver. He toured Alaska, Eastern Canada, Mexico, England, Saint-Martin, and many of the contiguous United States of America.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, May 18, 2024, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Memorial Service will begin at 12:30 p.m. that day at the funeral home. Interment will be private.
Dianne Forino
Dianne, ‘Dee’, Forino passed away peacefully on February 3, 2024. Dee was born and raised in Waterbury, CT and settled in the seaside town of Milford, CT.
Dee earned a Bachelor of Fine Arts from the University of Connecticut, Storrs campus, and a Master of Science (English) from Southern Connecticut State University in New Haven, CT. Dee worked as an Art Teacher in Stamford, CT and a Marketing Administrator at Unilever in Greenwich, CT.
For many years, Dee taught (ESL) English as a Second Language in New Haven, CT. This career was so much more than a job. Dee cared deeply for her students and their cultures, sharing her passion and gift as a teacher to help them navigate their new journeys. She used familiar props and daily life family situations to make her lessons easily accessible to all her students.
Dee loved her home and neighborhood. She enjoyed playing Scrabble, sharing meals and spending time with her loved ones.
She was a member of the Milford Senior Center and the ‘Milford Walkers’, meeting up for hikes on all the local beaches to enjoy nature’s infinite beauty. Her additional hobbies included reading, creative writing, art and photography.
Dee was a strong, independent woman who always strove to be positive and to keep learning and
teaching throughout her life.
She always requested a name from each new acquaintance and then returned it with her thank you, goodbye.
Dianne (Dee) Forino will be greatly missed.
A Celebration of Life has been scheduled for Monday, June 24, 2024 at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Ave., Milford, CT from 10:00am – 11:00am. Interment will immediately follow in King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford. The Doyle Funeral Home is honored to be assisting in services for Dianne.
Yolanda Gaudette
Yolanda Gaudette, 84, passed away Sunday, May 5, 2024 at her home in Milford with her loving family by her side. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 62 years, Richard Gaudette and her son Ricky Gaudette.
Yolanda was born in Puerto Rico and grew up a good Catholic girl from the Bronx. She worked in manufacturing jobs at Robert Shaw’s in Milford and KXI in Orange. Yolanda enjoyed many trips to Las Vegas and visiting Mohegan and Foxwoods casinos. Yolanda enjoyed all her wonderful neighbors at Walnut Beach Condo and loved going to the summer concerts on the beach.
Yolanda loved her family and friends and will be dearly missed by her daughter, Suzanne Brown and her husband Clifford of Milford, granddaughter Isabella Brown of Milford, and her grandpups: Pickles and Pringles. She will also be missed by dear friends Karen, Magda, and the “Robert Shaw Ladies.”
All services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted to the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford, CT. To leave a condolence or share a memory, please click on our Tribute Wall icon.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital at www.stjude.org.
Maryann Gurz
Maryann C. Gurz, 92, formerly of Milford, beloved wife of the late Joseph J. Gurz, passed away on May 6, 2024. Born on September 8, 1931 in Mayfield, PA, she was the daughter of the late John and Josephine (Rutkowski) Kulesa.
Maryann was known for her infectious smile. She had a long career as a retail saleswoman. She was very artistic from a child all the way to her adult life. She loved to paint, draw, do crafts and crossword puzzles. She was the hostess with the mostess. She always put on quite a spread whenever relatives came to visit and during family holiday dinners. She made the best lasagna!
Maryann leaves behind her loving sister Eleanor (Kulesa) Conrad and her life long friend and sister-in-law Leona Kulesa both of Scranton, PA and many nieces and nephews, her two sons Joseph Gurz (Donna) of Meriden, CT and Alan Gurz (Lorraine) of Cheshire, CT, five grandchildren Matthew Gurz (Jessica) of Cheshire, CT, Kirsten Gurz of Middletown, CT, Rachel (Gurz) Larson (Mike) of Wallingford, CT, Tim Gurz of Milford, CT and Stacey (Gurz) Broderick (JD) of Wallingford, CT and nine great grandchildren. Maryann was predeceased by her four brothers Chester, Joe, John and Frank Kulesa and sister Helen (Kulesa) Cerra.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, May 15, 2024, from 11:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. with a Funeral Service to begin at 12:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford.
Linda Ann Gustafson
Linda Ann Gustafson, born June 3, 1943, in Bridgeport, CT, peacefully passed away on April 29, 2024, at her Milford, CT home. She was the beloved wife of the late John Gustafson, and the cherished daughter of Joseph and Anne Martin.
Linda was known for her affection for animals, especially cats and birds, she was an active member of the Milford Lions Club and the Democratic Party. She dedicated much of her time to serving St. Peter Episcopal Church, where she faithfully served as an altar member for many years.
Linda’s memory lives on through her surviving brother, Gerald Martin and his wife Diane Hodges, her niece Jennifer Ward, her cousin Donna Sutter, along with Donna’s husband, Sam Sutter.
A graveside service to honor Linda’s life will be held on Monday, May 6, 2024, at St. John Cemetery in Stratford, CT, starting at 11 a.m. Friends and family are invited to join together at the cemetery to pay their respects and celebrate Linda’s remarkable life.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Linda’s memory can be made to the Milford Humane Society.
Anna Goetze Hartshorn
Anna Goetze Hartshorn, 100, passed away May 10, 2024 at Lutheran Life Villages in Fort Wayne, IN. She was born February 21, 1924, in Port Chester, New York; the daughter of Joseph Goetze and Edith Carrieri Gasparino.
Anna graduated from Greenwich High School and after worked as a switchboard operator at the Pickwick Hotel and Bell Telephone Company in Greenwich. Anna and Bill were married on December 26, 1942 in Mamaroneck, NY. They moved to Milford in 1956 where she was the secretary to the guidance counselor at Milford High School for 17 years and retired in 1985. In 1986, they moved to Ellenton, Florida for 8 years. In 1994, they moved to Fort Wayne to be with Pam, Don, and Sarah. She volunteered at Lutheran Hospital delivering mail to the patients. Anna loved to dance, enjoyed watching Wheel of Fortune, Dancing with the Stars, working word find books and knitting. She loved her dogs and her family. She was a people person and loved to be around others. She was a member of Trinity English Lutheran Church in downtown Fort Wayne. Bill and Anna were married for 70 years before Bill passed in 2013.
She is survived by her son, Randy (Dawn) Hartshorn of Orange, CT; daughter Pamela (Don) Bradbury of Fort Wayne, IN; grandchildren, Laura (Scott) Haskitt of Milford, CT; Sean (Nickie) Hartshorn of Orange, CT; Sarah (David) Croteau of Atkinson, NH; great grandchildren, Deacon and Hunter Hartshorn, Arlie and Finley Haskitt, and Benjamin Croteau.
Anna was preceded in death by her husband, William E. Hartshorn; son, William “Bruce” Hartshorn; sister, Emily Kovacik; and brother, Joseph Goetze, Jr.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, June 21, 2024 from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford.
Memorial donations may be made to Eleos Hospice 4432 Ardmore Ave., Unit B, Fort Wayne, IN; Fort Wayne Animal Care and Control 3020 Hillegas Rd., Fort Wayne, IN; or Lutheran Life Villages Attn: Director of Philanthropy- Resident Avtivities, 6701 South Anthony Blvd., Fort Wayne, IN.
Irma Venosta Heiter
Irma (Ela) Venosta Heiter, 93, of Milford, passed away peacefully with her family by her side in her home, on May 9, 2024. She was born in General Pico, La Pampa, Argentina on May 25, 1930–the same day as her late husband, Eugenio Guillermo Heiter, who was born in Neustadt, Germany. They were married for 53 years before his passing.
Irma is the daughter of the late Antonio Venosta and Rosario (Elvira) Lobos Escudero de Venosta. Irma’s father was born in Italy. Although her father passed when Irma was only six, he left a lasting impression on her life. Irma’s mother worked hard to support them both after Antonio’s death. Irma believed that she and her mom made it through difficult times because of her mother’s determination, help from her mom’s family, and an enduring promise of protection from the Virgin of Lourdes.
Irma is survived by her four devoted children and their spouses, eight grandchildren, and loving relatives throughout the U.S., Europe, and Argentina–all of whom were so special to her.
Irma’s love for children, teaching, and learning led to a 50 year career as an educator. She began her teaching career in Buenos Aires, continued in Yonkers, N.Y., and concluded in New Haven, CT where she was a Kindergarten teacher in the Bilingual Program at Hill Central School. She spent the last 30 years of her professional career in the bilingual program in New Haven. Teaching was a calling that brought her tremendous joy.
A lifelong learner, Irma pursued and received a Master’s Degree in education from the University of Connecticut. Irma’s excellence as an educator was recognized and she was the recipient of several teacher appreciation awards, which she accepted with humility and grace. Noteworthy, is her 1990 New Haven Bar Association Liberty Bell Award. The Liberty Bell Award acknowledges the awardee’s sense of community service and dedication to civic responsibilities. Irma humbly shares this award with several notable past recipients. Other New Haven Bar Association Liberty Bell Award winners include George Herbert Walker Bush, American philanthropist Paul Mellon, and Yale University’s past president and 7th Commissioner of Major League Baseball, Bart Giamatti among others. Most noteworthy and treasured by Irma is the respect and gratitude she received from her students and colleagues. So many of these special individuals have taken the time to share their beautiful and heartfelt memories about Irma’s kindness, generosity, presence, and support during their lives.
Following her retirement from public school teaching, Irma continued to educate and support those around her with her wisdom about things that matter. Retirement also afforded her the gift of time to devote to her gardening, grandchildren, and travel. Unbeknownst to Irma, a trip to Argentina just 4 months before her passing, allowed her to bid farewell to beloved sites and people.
The Irma we know loved to clean, cook, host holidays, garden and wear warm, soft cashmere sweaters. However, the most important thing to know about Irma is her devotion to the God she loved with all her being. From the young age of 6 and throughout her life, she was influenced, amazed by, and drawn to all things spiritual: both the divine and the human. She prioritzed her soul’s health and held that more significant than anything material. Irma was blessed to attend schools where good people of strong faith taught her how to invite the Holy Spirit to work through her. She sought her strength from the most powerful source–the Eucharist. She gently, but passionately, engaged in God’s work with her daily actions instead of words. In Argentina, her priest opened his doors to give her the Eucharist before all her high school and college exams. She later received communion daily at morning Mass before going to work. She never missed receiving It on Sundays, whether home or on vacation. Since making her first holy communion, she relied on the bread of life for her remaining 86 years. When Irma’s beloved neighbor, Jean Coleman, a St. Agnes Eucharistic Minister, passed, Irma was prompted to continue Jean’s mission. Under Father Callahan’s guidance, she became a Eucharistic minister for St. Agnes. Her grandchildren loved to find “her spot” at church so they could receive the body of Christ from their grandma – along with a special wink. Her inner joy just smiled through her eyes!
Irma was always so grateful for the people who God put in her path to help her. She transformed this gratitude into a mission of love. She used that love to serve, support, pray for, or in some small and quiet way help someone in need. Irma reflected and meditated frequently on the miracle of her life and her faith–faith that could move mountains.
Irma will forever be remembered as a devoted daughter, wife, sister-in-law, mother, aunt, godmother, grandmother, educator, colleague, neighbor, trusted confidant who never revealed secrets or gossiped, and a prayer warrior whose protection will be greatly missed. Irma never prayed for herself, but unselfishly remembered and prayed for others. Her family asks that even though she would never expect it, that we remember and pray for her now and always.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of one of the charities Irma loved would be greatly appreciated. Her favorites include: Office of Radio and Television (ORTV) for televised masses since these provided her with the opportunity to attend mass from home and receive communion spiritually later in her life (special thanks to to Father Gatzack for his wonderfully inspiring sermons); Her parish, Precious Blood Parish; The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA); Mouth and Foot Painting Artists; the National Shrine of the Divine Mercy in Stockbridge, Massachusetts ; The American Heart Association; or The American Lung Association.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, May 18, 2024 at 12:30 p.m. at Saint Agnes Church, 400 Merwin Ave., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery, 35 Gulf St., Milford.
Irma is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home. To light a candle or leave a condolence please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Jane Foley Hemingway
Beloved wife, devoted mother, cherished grandmother, and treasured friend, Jane Hemingray (nee Foley), 79, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family, on May 22, 2024, after a courageous battle with cancer. Born on July 16, 1944, in Philadelphia, PA, she was the daughter of the late John and Mary Foley.
Jane attended Stamford Catholic High School and continued her education at the University of Bridgeport. Her early career began at Clairol, but later after many years as a devoted stay-at-home mom, she returned to the workforce at IBM, dedicating over 25 years of exemplary service.
Jane found joy in simple pleasures: reading a good book, sitting by the water, and admiring beautiful flowers. She delighted in dinners and trips with friends, shopping, and new adventures. Yet, her greatest joy, however, came from spending time with her family and celebrating her children’s and grandchildren’s accomplishments. Whether cheering on her grandchildren at dance performances, swim meets, sports games, or celebrating their academic achievements, Jane was always there, showing her unwavering love and proud support.
In her later years, Jane together with her loving husband Edward, found great joy in escaping the winter by heading to Naples, FL. For over a decade, they cherished long walks on the beach and sipped wine on the lanai while watching dolphins play in the water. They also enjoyed the vibrant shopping, dining, and live music scenes that Naples had to offer. These times were a source of immense happiness and relaxation for Jane and Edward, creating many beautiful, treasured memories.
Jane had a profound love for the holidays, delighting in every detail that made them special. She took great joy in decorating her home, offering a warm and festive atmosphere that welcomed everyone. Jane’s holiday celebrations were filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories, leaving an indelible mark on all who gathered to share in her joy.
Jane is survived by her beloved husband, Edward; her loving children, Denise Hawkins (Eric), Lisa Savone (Nick), Wendy McCabe (Jason), Edward Hemingray, Jr.; and her six adoring grandchildren, Chloe, Taylor, Stella, Leo, Avery and Braden. In addition to her parents, Jane was pre deceased by one brother John J. (Bud) Foley. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
Family and friends are invited to gather on SUNDAY, JUNE 2, 2024, from 2 p.m. to 5p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on MONDAY, JUNE 3, 2024, at 11 a.m. at St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf St, Milford, CT 06460. (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at St. Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave, Milford, CT 06460.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Yale Cancer Center Directors Fund (Donations will be designated for Pancreatic Cancer).
Christina Lynn Hey
Christina “Chris” Lynn Hey, 61, of Milford, was a loving daughter, mother, sister, and friend. She passed away suddenly on May 6, 2024. Born on May 4, 1963 in Bridgeport, she was the daughter of Barbara Holcomb and the late Raleigh B. Holcomb Jr.
Chris had a happy childhood growing up in Fairfield with her parents and 4 siblings. You could always find her with a smile on a swing, in the pool or with one of 5 cats or the dog. After graduating Roger Ludlow High School, she attended Sacred Heart University. Chris started her working life in the travel industry (which was funny since she really didn’t like to travel) and then went on to be a property manager/purchasing agent and then purchasing/payroll specialist. For the last 15 years, she worked for Wenncon in Bridgeport and loved her job and the people she worked with.
Chris and John Hey were married from 1985-2003. Together they had a son, Timmy—who was the love of her life and daily joy. There is no doubt she was a proud mama that would move heaven and earth for her son and animals (Zoey and Jazie). Although divorced, Chris and John stayed good friends and together built a loving family with Timmy.
She was a loving and caring daughter and sister that was always there with a smile to help, lend an ear, have a laugh or organize an event. (She loved organizing…)
There wasn’t an animal she didn’t love. In addition to her son, her life revolved around her pets. Toys, toys, toys…. special foods, blankets, vacations, even a pool to swim in—Chris would do whatever it took to ensure her dogs and cats were loved, had fun, and were well-taken care of.
Her favorite hobby was cooking which she mainly learned from her mother-in-law, Pearl. She had recipes everywhere and spent most of her time in the kitchen making delicious food (pepperoni bread, chili, pizza, mac and cheese, cakes, something with garden fresh tomatoes, Jello..) to bring to a family event or have on hand for Timmy’s friends who frequently gathered at her home. (They even called her 2nd mom and came to visit her when Timmy wasn’t even there!)
Chris learned to love gardening from her mom and especially loved old fashioned roses with beautiful fragrance. Other loves included vacations, swimming, going to the beach, and having a drink relaxing in the hot tub. Many may not know that she was a gifted photographer and if she had time, took amazing photographs.
Chris was so outgoing and lived her life quickly making friends and connecting with people wherever she went. Her smile, easy laugh, warmth, kindness, and twinkle in her eye will always stay in our hearts.
Chris is survived by her son, Timothy Hey (Melissa Alfaro); siblings, Elizabeth (Mark) Bogues, Victoria Holcomb, and Raleigh B. Holcomb III; nieces and nephews, Shannon, Dennis, Raleigh B. IV, Vanessa, Luke, Nate, and Riley; former husband, John Hey; her beloved pets, Jasmine, and Zoey; and many extended family and good friends. She was predeceased by her sister, Constance Pough.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, June 8, 2024, at 9:30 a.m. for a Celebration of Life at the Black Rock Church, 3685 Black Rock Tpke, Fairfield, CT 06825. Christina’s family is being cared for by the staff at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations by check may be made out to Milford Animal Control and mailed to: Milford Animal Control 664 East Broadway Milford, CT 06460.
Carol Lee Hosler
Carol Lee Hosler, age 78, of Milford, beloved wife of the late James Q. Hosler Sr., entered peaceful rest on April 29, 2024. Carol was born in New Haven on October 10, 1945 to the late Francis and Jean Rubino Glennon. She was a devoted mother and grandmother and family meant everything to her. Survivors include her children: Christopher Hosler and his wife Billie of FL, Kim LaFrance and her husband David of West Haven and Kelly Hanson and her husband Thomas of Milford, seven grandchildren, Jessica LaFrance, Courtney and Shane Hanson, Connor, Logan and Galen Hosler, and two sisters-in-law, Jan Glennon of Madison and Debra Glennon of East Haven. Carol is predeceased by her son, James Q. Hosler Jr., grandson, Ryan LaFrance and brothers; Francis Glennon Jr., Matthew Glennon and Michael Glennon. Services will be private. The GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME is in care of arrangements. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Martin S. Lippman
Martin “Marty” S. Lippman, 90, of Milford, passed away peacefully on May 9, 2024. Born on September 11, 1933, in Brooklyn, NY, he was the son of the late Harry and Tillie (Heitner) Lippman.
Marty graduated from the prestigious Brooklyn Technical High School and from City College of New York with a bachelor’s degree in civil engineering in 1956. His passion for engineering led him to become a licensed engineer in both New York and Connecticut, where he made significant contributions to infrastructure and development projects throughout his career. He retired from Norden Systems where he was a mechanical and systems engineer.
Marty was not only a skilled engineer but also a visionary and a leader in various organizations. He served as the president of The PC Users Group of Connecticut, where he fostered a vibrant community of technology enthusiasts. As a former president of the Walnut Beach Condo Association, Marty’s leadership and advocacy paved the way for positive changes and enhanced the quality of life for residents. Additionally, he dedicated his time and expertise as the Secretary of the Massenet Society, American Branch, contributing to the preservation and promotion of classical music. Marty shared his love of opera on a weekly program at WMNR radio and donated his extensive collection of opera and classical music records and CDs to the University of North Texas. Marty will be remembered by all who knew him.
Marty is survived by many cousins including Elizabeth Heitner, Kathleen Rhind, Julie Jacobs, and Jeffrey Jacobs.
Friends and family may call from 4 PM – 7 PM on Wednesday, May 29, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will immediately follow at the funeral home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Ruth H. Martin
Ruth H. Martin was born on November 23, 1927 and passed away on May 20, 2024 at age 96.
Ann (Capano) Moll
Ann Moll, age 96 of Milford, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 14th, 2024, surrounded by her family.
Born on November 22, 1927, in Brooklyn, NY, she was the daughter of Frank and Irene Capano. Ann’s journey took her from Long Island to Milford in the 1950s, where she raised her four children along the shoreline in both the Fort Trumbull and Bayview neighborhoods.
Ann was predeceased by her son Daniel Moll, daughter Irene Moll, and grandson Christopher Moll.
She is survived by her daughters Nell Moll (Dory Nielson) and Kate Silva (Richard Silva), grandchildren Tara Kristman, Ian Shea (Karen Shea), Brendan Moll (Michele Moll), and Makayla Silva; great-grandchildren Andrew Evans, Chris Moll, Sarah Kristman, Sam Kristman, Matthew Shea, McKenzie Shea, Jillian Shea, Noah O’Keefe, Charlotte O’Keefe, Daniel Moll, and Sadie Moll; great-great grandchildren Aria Evans and Emilia Evans.
A longtime realtor in both Connecticut and Puerto Rico, Ann had a deep love for real estate.
Ann was an avid antique collector always keeping a discerning eye for treasures throughout her years of thrift shopping.
An avid reader, Ann could always be found with her nose in a book, usually a mystery or a cookbook, curled up with her beloved cat Bella, who always provided her with unwavering companionship.
Ann loved to cook (and grocery shop,) regularly delivering homemade macaroni and cheese or spaghetti and meatballs to her neighbors who became her dear friends.
Ann loved to garden and always had a green thumb, always able to grow flowers and vegetables from seed, keeping a flourishing garden.
She was an avid Yankee fan and loved to recount each inning during the commercials on the phone with her daughter, Kate.
While we mourn Ann’s passing, may her legacy of warmth and kindness continue to inspire us all and may we never forget to always count our blessings.
Family and friends may call on Friday, April 19th, 2024 from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. followed by a funeral service at 12:30 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment will be private.
Darrell Ray Moran
Darrell Ray Moran, age 65, long term resident of Milford, CT, passed away unexpectedly on May 11, 2024. Born in Bridgeport, CT, on July 1, 1958, to the late Vincent and Janice Moran. Darrell moved to Milford at a young age and never left. He attended Foran High School, graduating in 1976, and subsequently worked tirelessly for 45 years for Sikorsky Aircraft, finally retiring in 2023.
In 1988, Darrell married the love of his life, Christine (Ahrens) Moran, which resulted in a life full of adventures, including raising his three sons, Kyle, Patrick, and Collin. Darrell loved photography, the outdoors, cooking, and most of all, being a great husband and dad. He loved the songs of birds, the woods, walks by the sea, and gazing at the stars at night. Darrell loved his family so deeply, and they loved him back. If love could have saved him, he would have lived forever.
Besides his loving wife and sons, Darrell is survived by his baby girl Chloe (Border Collie), his sisters Dawn and Darren, her husband Stan, his uncles Mike and Nick, his cousins, and many nieces and nephews. Darrell is predeceased by his brother Donny, his aunt Breta, and his faithful boy Jasper (Border Collie).
As a prostate cancer survivor and an avid bird watcher, in lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Darrell’s memory to the Prostate Cancer Foundation or the Connecticut Audubon Society.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, May 22, 2024, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. with a Prayer Service to be held at 4:30 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford.
Cody-White is compassionately caring for Darrell, to light a candle or leave a condolence in his memory please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Robert Daniel Oliver Sr.
Robert Daniel Oliver Sr., of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Barbara Brotherton Oliver, passed away peacefully at home, on May 21, 2024 on his 88th birthday. He was born in Milford and was the son of the late Peter H. Oliver Sr. and Mary CapaBianco Oliver.
In addition to Barbara, his beloved wife of 67 years, he is also survived by his five children: Deborah Oliver Clifford (James), Kevin Oliver (Lori), Maureen Oliver Gerardi (David), Robert Oliver Jr. (Sharon), and Patrick Oliver (Cynthia). He was blessed with eleven grandchildren: Molly, Ashley, Kaitlin, Kristin, Morgan, Connor, Griffin, Casey, Taylor, Hailey, and Brooke. He was additionally blessed with three great grandchildren: Colby, Teddy, and Miles. In addition, he leaves behind his brother Ernest Oliver (Penny), his sister Margaret Wendel (Calvin), countless loving nieces and nephews, and his beloved dog and constant companion Daisy. He was predeceased by his brother Peter Oliver Jr., his sisters Mary Lou Filanowski, and Patricia Campbell.
Bob attended West Main Street School and Milford High School. He began his working career at the age of 14 at Secondi Brothers Truck Stop helping his mother support his family. Bob worked at Secondi’s until he retired as the general manager at age 60. The majority of his career was spent working the night shift, where he was affectionately known as “Red”.
He will be remembered as a gentle, humble man, who enjoyed every day. He had a wonderful sense of humor and loved a good joke. He cherished his family, his many friends and his loving wife Barbara. He was known and loved by many as an amazing friend, a great dad, a wonderful grandfather, and had the privilege of being a Great Grandfather. He was a dependable guy. who would do anything for anyone, without looking for credit or for anything in return.
Bob was very social and enjoyed life to the fullest. Among his many interests were golf, bowling, Pinochle, going to the casino, and Friday night was always reserved for cocktail hour with his wife and friends.
Bob was a huge sports fan. He loved and rooted for the Boston Red Sox and the New England Patriots. His favorite sports teams, though, were the ones on which his children and grandchildren played. He sometimes traveled many miles to root for them. He was their biggest fan.
Bob was an avid golfer. In addition to his golf league and numerous golf tournaments, he played every Wednesday with his good friends. They often played at different golf courses throughout the state. The perfect ending to a great day of golf was sharing time with them back at the 19th hole, “The Shack”.
Bob was a long-time parishioner of St. Mary Church, where he was an usher at 10:00 mass every Sunday, for over fifty years.
His family would like to thank the doctors and staff at the Trumbull Smilow Care Center and Hospice Home Care Plus for the compassionate care they provided.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, May 28, 2024, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, May 29, 2024, at 12:30 p.m. at St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf St, Milford, CT 06460. (Please meet directly at the church). Interment will follow at St. Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Avenue, Milford CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Smilow Cancer Hospital.
Paulina Papendorf
Paulina Papendorf, 91, formerly of Milford, passed away on May 3, 2024. Born on November 9, 1932 in Santiago, Chile, she was the daughter of the late Paulino and Ignacia Carvajal.
Paulina came to the United States in the late 1960s and spent most of the rest of her life in Queens, NY. She worked as a bookkeeper until she retired to help care for her grandson James. She enjoyed listening to classical music and watching ballet and opera performances. She was known for her love of dancing, always with her “boyfriend” her walker. She made friends everywhere she went and loved to help others.
Paulina leaves behind her beloved daughter, Erika Bustos and her husband, Elias; and cherished grandchildren, James, Jaden, and Jakob. She was predeceased by her siblings.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, May 11, 2024, at 11:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Helen Baker Pasenelli
Helen Julia Baker Pasenelli entered into glory on May 8, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Albert and Helen Baker of Stamford. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 68 years, Edward Anthony Pasenelli and her brother, Albert Baker of Ridgefield, CT. She was the mother of E. Michael (Stephanie) Pasenelli, Robert Pasenelli, and William (Jennifer) Pasenelli. She was extremely proud of her grandchildren: Stacey, Jory, Jay, Lucy, and Neil and her great-granddaughter, Bethany. Sherry Morrison Schellin was also a special person in Helen’s life. In addtion she leaves behind several nieces and nephews.
Helen earned her B.A. from the University of Bridgeport and her Master’s from Southern CT. State College. A retired teacher, she taught at Calf Pen Meadow School for 25 years as well as New Canaan, Fairfield, Bridgeport, and Rahway, NJ. A proud member of the Milford Senior Gospel Choir, Helen served as it’s major concert producer for many years. She was also a member of the Greater Bridgeport Retired Teacher’s Association and various church groups.
In Lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made to St. Peter’s Episcopal Church of Milford in her name.
A Celebration of Life Service held in honor of Helen and Ed Pasenelli will be held at 12 p.m. on Thursday May 23rd, 2024 at St. Peter Episcopal Church, 71 River St, Milford CT 06460.
Helen is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home, to light a candle or leave a condolence please visit www.CodyWhiteFuneralService.com.
Janice May Rainey
Janice May Rainey, 96, of Milford, beloved wife of the late David Rainey, passed away on May 24, 2024. Born on April 9, 1928 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late William and Mildred Schlotterbeck.
Janice dedicated many years of her professional life to Milford Savings Bank as the Assistant Treasurer, where her work ethic and warm demeanor left a lasting impression on colleagues and customers alike. Her love for the community extended beyond her professional life, as she was a devoted member of the First United Church of Christ in Milford, where she served faithfully as an usher for many years.
A woman of many passions, Janice found joy in gardening, tending to her flowers with a nurturing hand and a keen eye for beauty. She was also a generous soul, contributing to the community as an avid blood donor. Her love for life was evident in the way she embraced the simple pleasures, from square dancing with her beloved David to enjoying weekends with family in Bridgewater, CT.
Janice was a social butterfly, known for her independence and her vibrant social life. Every Friday, she looked forward to gathering with her dear friend Dottie for drinks, a testament to her enduring friendships and zest for life.
Janice is survived by her beloved son David Rainey and his wife Shora. Granddaughter Jessica Rainey and her husband Anant Amirapu, grandson Kyle Rainey, and great grandson Arlo Amirapu. She is predeceased by her sister Louise Rencher.
A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Thursday May 30, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at First United Church of Christ, 34 W. Main St, Milford CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be held privately by the family. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Joseph D. Rogers III
Joseph Delbert Rogers III, of Woodmont, passed away on May 7, 2024. Joe, or Joey to his family and many neighborhood friends, was born on Aug. 21, 1946, the son of Joseph D. and Mary Murphy Rogers of Milford. Joe graduated from Milford High School and Stonehill College. He served as a 1st Lieutenant in the United States Army, and was in the Republic of Vietnam from 1970-71 as a 1331 Combat Engineer Unit Commander, with the 62nd Engineer Battalion, 11th Armored Cavalry, Engineer Corps.
Joey was predeceased by his parents and his wife Paula Reed Rogers, and is survived by his son Jesse Rogers, GySgt USMC (Ret.), daughter-in-law Julie, both of Milford, and two grandchildren, John and Darcy Rogers of Alexandria, VA. The eldest of five siblings, he leaves a brother, James G. Rogers (Joan) of Milford, and three sisters, Judith Evans (James) of Groton, Katherine Krauss Murphy of Milford, and Mary Beth Blacker (David) of Noank, as well as several nephews, nieces, grand-nephews and grand-nieces.
Joe was employed in the automotive/trucking industry for his entire career, working at Roadway Express, W.I. Clark Co., Flagg Industrial Sales, Mayflower/Kenworth, Atlantic Detroit Diesel, Interstate Ford, and Center Towing and Truck Repair. Evenings and weekends, he worked tirelessly at Rogers Lawn Care, his lawn care and snow removal business which he operated in Woodmont for 45 years. Known around Woodmont as “lawn mower man,” he was honored by the Woodmont Day Committee as the Woodmont Day parade Grand Marshal in 2006. His many friends and neighbors enjoyed his easygoing ways, his boisterous laugh, his kind heart and upbeat outlook.
Joseph loved lawn care, helping people in the neighborhood, and working outdoors, at times with his son and two grandchildren. He adored Woodmont, where he and his family resided since the mid-1970s. He was a Boy Scout leader when his son was young, and later worked part-time as the Borough of Woodmont custodian for several years.
Cody-White Funeral Home in Milford is handling arrangements. A Funeral Mass will be held at Saint Agnes Church, 400 Merwin Avenue, Milford CT on Saturday, May 18 at 11 a.m., followed by a reception and celebration of his life at the church hall.
The family respectfully requests in lieu of flowers, donations be made at a charity of their choice. They also would like to share their utmost appreciation to the Department of Veterans Affairs, Bella Home Health Care, and Seacrest Retirement Center in West Haven, CT for their excellent care.
Roger John Rottkamp
Roger John Rottkamp, 82, of Milford, beloved husband of Cecilia Rottkamp, passed away on May 25, 2024. Born on February 7, 1942 in Floral Park, NY, he was the son of the late Roger and Catherine Rottkamp.
Roger grew up in Elmont, New York. He attended St. Boniface Elementary School, Sewanhaka High School and in 1963 graduated from Rochester Institute of Technology in New York. He worked in production lithography in New York City and ultimately in sales.
Roger and Cecilia met through a friend, a chance meeting that blossomed into a lifetime of shared joys and adventures. They were set to celebrate 57 wonderful years of marriage this June. Roger’s life was a testament to his passions: he found immense satisfaction in home improvement projects, carpentry and reading. He enjoyed renovating and spending time with his family and friends at his beach house on the Jersey Shore.
A devoted family man, Roger’s greatest joy came from spending time with his grandchildren. Whether playing games or making them smile, his positive attitude and strong character left an indelible mark on their hearts. Despite suffering a stroke 23 years ago, Roger’s spirit remained unbroken. He faced his challenges with resilience and grace, never allowing his limitations to define him. His driven, funny, and caring nature shone through, inspiring all who knew him.
In addition to his loving wife, Cecilia, Roger is survived by their two children: Karen Generalis (Dean) and James Rottkamp (Pam). Five grandchildren: Joey, Julia, Justin,Will and Jason. He is also survived by his sister Carol Warner, brother Kenny Rottkamp (Rosanne), many beloved nieces, nephews and additional family.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday May 30, 2024, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, May 31, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf St, Milford CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be held privately in the future by the family. Roger is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home to leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Hedwig “Hedi” (Bergmiller) Seefeldt
Hedwig “Hedi” Seefeldt, age 88, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Charles J. Seefeldt entered into peaceful rest on Saturday, May 4, 2024, surrounded by her family at home.
She was born on March 22, 1936, in Altenstadt, Germany, and was the daughter of the late Otto and Theresia (Stibi) Bergmiller.
Hedi worked as a head teller at People’s Bank in Noroton Heights for many years. She was a member of St. Ann’s Church in Milford. She also attended monthly luncheons with the Ladies’ German Club. Hedi loved to cook and taught her whole family how to make delicious German schnitzel and spaetzle. She loved to read and crochet. She made hundreds of slippers for friends, family, and various shelters. She also crocheted hats for newborns at many hospitals.
Above all, family was most important to her. She treasured our weekly family dinners and any time she was able to spend with her family. Nightly family FaceTime phone calls were often the highlight of her day. Her voice, her laugh, her smile and her presence will be missed tremendously.
Hedi is survived by her three children, Theresa Reinholz and her husband, Thomas of Milford, Charles Seefeldt and his wife, Bethany of Derby and Christopher Seefeldt and his husband, Daniel Karol of Ocoee, FL, three grandchildren, Erica Reinholz and her fiancé, Shane, Ava Lilly and her husband Vincent, and Jayden Cooper, and two great-grandchildren, Arlo and Emery. She also leaves behind her two brothers, Franz Bergmiller and his wife, Renate and Tony Bergmiller and his wife, Renate, and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her sister, Frieda Bergmiller and her brother, Otto Bergmiller and his wife Anni.
A Gathering of Family and Friends will be held on Friday, May 10th from 2:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. with a Funeral Service to follow at 3:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you donate to the Lustgarten Pancreatic Cancer Research walk at https://hope.lustgarten.org/fundraisers/hedisladiesherguystoo.
Robert K. Simington
Robert “Bob” K. Simington, 66, of Shelton and formerly long time resident of Milford, beloved husband of the late Diana M. Simington, passed away on May 4, 2024. Born on December 1, 1957 in Port Smith, OH, he was the son of the late Joseph and Kathleen Simington.
Robert graduated from Milford high school and worked for 46 and ½ years at Sikorsky aircraft. He loved his dogs (Zeus was his favorite), he enjoyed a collection of coins, stamps, and wine, family was most important to Bob. He recently found his family after 62 years on ancestry.com. Sadly he had only a chance to meet some of his family and the rest he had planned to meet this summer.
Bob is survived by his daughters, Wendy Guilavogui (Joseph Onofrio,), Katie Holman (previously married to Micheal Holman) and Stacie Simington (Hunter Geslien; grandchildren, Andrew Harrison, Jackie Simington (Cleeford Cenejuste), Jayden and Kayla Guilavogui, Courtney, Michael, and Ryan Holman, and Hunter Jr. and Joshua Geslien, great grandson, Noah; siblings, Diana C. Simington, Connie Shy, Kenneth Kennedy, and Joyce Morthole; as well as many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his son, Robert K. Simington II; and siblings, Stanley Kennedy and Alice Simington.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, May 9, 2024, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday, May 10, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at Wildermere Beach Congregational Church, 133 Broadway, Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Jerrold “Jarek” Skakacz
Jerrold Jarosław “Jarek” Skakacz passed away suddenly on April 22, 2024 at Yale New Haven Hospital with his daughter by his side. Jerrold is predeceased by his father Marian Skakacz. He is survived by his mother Jolanta Skakacz of Poland, his son David Skakacz, his daughter Monica Skakacz, his only grandson Corneilius Williams Jr. all of West Haven, and all of his friends from all over the world.
Jerrold was born in Łęczyca, Łódź, Poland on June 15, 1961 to Marian and Jolanta Skakacz, their only child. After completing high school Jerrold fled communist Poland as a refugee, with $10 in his pocket, a pregnant wife, and not knowing whether he would be able to see his family in Poland again. With all odds stacked against him. He was able to create a very comfortable life for himself and his family. Two weeks prior to his death Jerrold filed for early retirement. He planned to move back to Poland in June 2024 to be closer to his mother. He loved living in Connecticut but nothing meant more to him then to be back in Poland with his mother. Jerrold was a great man who was altruistic even till his last breath. He donated his kidneys and liver in order to help someone get a second chance at life. He loved going to the beach and watching the waves crash the shore. He was the type of person that always loved taking the scenic route anywhere, it didn’t matter how much longer the ride took.
In lieu of flowers and cards the family is asking for donations towards Jerrold’s final expenses. Gofundme page- In Loving Memory of Jerrold “Jarek” Skakacz.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Sunday, May 5, 2024 from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford.
Dennis Alan Twigg
Dennis Alan Twigg, age 75, of Stratford, beloved husband of 24 years to Patricia Kutis Twigg, entered peaceful rest on May 18, 2024, at his home.
He was born on December 28, 1948, in Bridgeport and was the son of late John P. and Kathleen V (May) Twigg. Dennis was a machinist for over 35 years at Bic Corp. in Milford before his retirement. He was an avid golfer and enjoyed weekly lunches with his friends and coworkers.
In addition to his wife, he leaves his devoted sister, Kathleen Johnson of Milford, his stepson, Mark Kutis and his wife, Stephanie of Madison, Alabama and four loving grandchildren, Reagan, Dylan, Jackson and Ryleigh and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his first wife, Carol “Jean” Twigg and his brother, John H. Twigg.
Services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Steven J. Wells
Steven J. Wells, 44, of Mystic, CT, passed away on May 16, 2024 after being stricken ill at home. Born on June 26, 1979 in Norwich, CT, he was the son of the late Wayne W. and Mary (Levesque) Wells.
Affectionately known as Stevie is survived by 6 siblings Rose & Terry of South Carolina, Robert Levesque & his wife Brenda, Wesley Wells and his wife Donna, John, Marty & his wife Dawn, several nieces & nephews along with his best friend Andy Venturini. Stevie was pre-deceased by his brother Edward and grandparents.
He was employed by Valenti Toyota of Westerly, RI for the past 10 years. He enjoyed working with his coworkers and his boss Harvey.
Stevie enjoyed spending time with his family, doing odd jobs with his brothers, yard work, & going to the swap meets.
All services will be private at this time. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. The family is being compassionately cared for by CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT.
Anthony F. Yarochowicz Sr.
Anthony Frank Yarochowicz Sr., age 78, of Milford, beloved husband of Kathleen Harrington Yarochowicz, entered peaceful rest on Friday May 24, 2024.
Anthony was born in Bridgeport on September 17, 1945 to the late Anthony and Ethel Pagliuso. He proudly served his country in the United States Navy and went on to work at UPS and CL&P.
Anthony was the type of person to help anyone in need. He volunteered for parades, fairs, and at the Irish Club. He loved gardening and tending to the beautiful roses in his yard. He enjoyed antique cars and driving around in his 1965 and 1966 classic Chevy’s. As Anthony got older, he enjoyed working on various types of puzzles.
Left to cherish his memory are his wife, Kathleen Yarochowicz; daughter, Diane Kingston and her husband, Daniel; his brother Eugene Yarochowicz, grandchildren: Steven and Traci Kingston, Anthony Yarochowicz III, and Danielle Harker; great-grandchildren: Jackson and Carson, and several nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Anthony was predeceased by his son Anthony, Jr., and 3 siblings.
Friends and family may call on Thursday, May 30th from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday May 31st at 10:00 a.m. in Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish). Interment will follow in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford.
Memorial contribution’s in Anthony’s honor may be made to The American Cancer Society at http://www.donate.cancer.org.