Obituaries from the May 6, 2021 Issue

Gilbert, Harry Douglas III

On Saturday, April 24, 2021 Harry Douglas Gilbert III entered into eternal peace surrounded by his loving family.  Born on June 26, 1948 to Harry D. Gilbert Jr. and Antoinette Gilbert, he attended Milford High School, class of 1967.  Upon graduation, Harry enlisted in the United States Navy where he proudly served his country during the Vietnam Conflict. Harry was a carpenter by trade and loved building houses. He was a very proud, hardworking and dedicated man.

Harry is survived by his soulmate, Diane and his three children: Jennifer Gilbert, Crystal Gilbert Barros, her spouse John, and Harry Gilbert IV.  Harry also leaves behind his grandchildren Aiden, Hannah and Alexis the “Dancing Queen” Barros.

Private services will be held at the family’s discretion.

Giotsas, Nikolaos

Nikolaos (Niko) Giotsas, age 90, of Milford, entered eternal life on April 24, 2021, at Milford Hospital. Niko was born August 18, 1930, at Agio Spyridon, Greece, the son of the late George Giotsas and Steriani Tzimas. He served in the Greek Army and was later united in marriage to the former Yannoula Papachristos on December 22, 1958. He and his wife worked hard on their farm and build a house brick by brick. He completed the two-story house with a store front café. His success in business did not stop him from seeking new adventures. In 1966, he moved with his wife and two daughters to the U.S. They settled in Bridgeport and he began working for his brother at City Cleaners. He later had two sons.

Niko always wanted to see his children succeed in life and helped them every chance he had. He helped them with their education and their businesses. He retired at an early age but continued to help his sons in their businesses. In retirement he enjoyed going to the mall and meeting his friends to discuss the events of the world.

Niko was a devoted and loving husband, father and grandfather and enjoyed gardening at home and cooking for family and friends. He was a proud family man, and they meant the world to him.

Nikolaos Giotsas is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, his daughters and sons, Kathy Giotsas of Milford, Panayiota her husband Athanasios Noulas, of Thessaloniki Greece, George his wife Peggy Giotsas of Ellington, Chris his wife Joanna Giotsas of Canton; grandchildren, George his wife Semina Noulas, Polyxeni Noulas, Katrina Giotsas, Nikolaos Giotsas, Nikolas Giotsas, Dimitra Giotsas, Yannoula Giotsas, and Maria Giotsas; and one great-grandson, Athanasios Noulas. He was survived by his sister Maria Prassas and predeceased by four siblings, Antonis, Spyros, Dimitrios and Eugenia Papalexiou.

The “Rite of Burial” will take place on Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at 11 a.m. in Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 4070 Park Avenue, Bridgeport officiated by Father Georgios Livaditis, Presbyter, followed by interment at Gate of Heaven, Trumbull. Calling hours will take place Wednesday morning from 10 a.m. until time of service in the church. Please wear masks while attending all services. The Commerce Hill Funeral Home, 4798 Main St., Bridgeport has been entrusted with the service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Holy Trinity Church in memory of Nikolaos. For online condolences, memorial tributes, and directions visit us at commercehillfh.com.

Graham, Elizabeth

Known as “Simmy” to most, Elizabeth P. Graham, age 90, of Woodbridge, passed away peacefully at her home on Tuesday, March 23, 2021, surrounded by her loving family. Born on February 25, 1931 at Saint Raphael Hospital in New Haven, CT, Elizabeth was the daughter of the late Dora (Klempner) and Benjamin Pious. She grew up in New Haven, graduating from Hillhouse High School in 1949 and University of Rochester in 1953, earning a BA in History. Elizabeth taught high school history for several years and then lived her married life as a homemaker. She was the best wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, surrogate mom, and friend anyone could ask for. She is survived by love of her life, her husband Andrew Graham, MD of over 65 years, her beloved children — her son Scott Graham of Scottsdale, AZ, her daughter Cynthia Schilling of Bloomfield, CT, her daughter Alison Graham of Los Angeles, CA, along with her four grandchildren Michael Graham, Karin Graham, and Melissa Graham of Scottsdale, AZ and Tamar Faggen of Los Angeles, CA who meant the world to her, as well as many nieces and nephews, all whom she adored and they her. Elizabeth served as secretary on the Connecticut Ballet board, secretary for the Woodbridge-Bethany League of Women Voters, and was a member of the Woodbridge Garden Club. A loving, caring, nurturing, fun, and funny person who cherished time spent with family and friends. She looked forward to family holidays, especially Passover spending hours delightfully preparing gefilte fish from scratch using whole carp, whitefish, and pike. Elizabeth made her home a haven. She had an impeccable eye for decorating and an elegant sense of style. She loved to travel, garden, and read everything she could, especially The New Yorker and The New York Times, always completing the daily crossword puzzle, in pen. She will be remembered for her kind heart, generous spirit, sharp mind, and her devotion to her husband, family, and friends nationally and internationally. Funeral Services are private. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven is in care of arrangements.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the League of Women Voters (www.lvw.org) To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit;www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Grigoriadis, Julia

Julia Grigoriadis, 59, passed away peacefully on April 29, 2021 in the presence of her loving husband and devoted daughters after a short, but courageous, battle with cancer.

Julia is predeceased by her father, Elias Galantis, and is survived by her husband, Konstantinos (“Gus”) Grigoriadis; her daughters, Virginia (Sabatino) Kikis, Eleni (Danny) Vega, and Ipakoi Grigoriadis; her grandchildren, Stavros, Julia, Allison and Julia; her mother, Virginia Galantis; her sister, Ipakoi (Hristos) Paridis; her nieces, Maria, Virginia, Anastasia, Julia, and Mirofora; her in-laws, Dimitri (Irene) Grigoriadis,  Manoli (Argiroula) Grigoriadis, Minas (Zografoula) Grigoriadis, Mihali (Popanti) Grigoriadis, Zografoula (George) Perselis; and many cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts, as well as hundreds of others who will miss her dearly.

Julia and Gus had a timeless and perfect love story.  They raised their three strong and beautiful daughters, and as a family they ran Pop’s Family Restaurant for 30 years.   Julia was a bright light who loved to give and help others. Her philanthropic nature was unmatched, and she went above and beyond for anyone in need.  She welcomed patrons of the restaurant as if they were family and many grew to love her as a result.   She organized countless events to feed the less fortunate on Thanksgiving and often sacrificed time with her own family to make sure others were fed.  Her loss has left many heavy and broken hearts.  There was no one kinder and she will be greatly missed.

Friends and family may call from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 4, 2021 at CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME 107 BROAD ST. Milford, CT 06460.  The funeral service will follow on Wednesday, May 5, 2021 at 10:00 a.m. at Saint Barbara Greek Orthodox Church 480 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT 06477 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH).

In lieu of flowers, we ask that you pay Julia’s compassion forward and perform an act of kindness to someone in need.

Grinnell, Louise I.

Louise I. Grinnell, age 100, of Milford, beloved wife of the late William E. Grinnell, passed away on April 14, 2021 at CT Hospice in Branford.

She was born on September 4, 1920. She grew up in Stratford and graduated from Stratford High School. Mrs. Grinnell owned the popular Bill’s Restaurant in Devon Center with her husband for over 20 years and was an assembler at Bic Pen, Inc. in Milford for 18 years before her retirement. She enjoyed her time with the ladies in the Happy Hookers Crochet Club, also attending the Ahrens Program at the Milford Senior Center and socializing with the Breakfast Club at Pop’s Restaurant. She loved being with her family hosting “Aunt Louise’s Bash” every summer, birthday dinners with Donna, Caitlyn and Matthew Miller, “Nieces Night Out” with Marie, Margie, Barbara, Jeanann and Marma, trips to Delaware to see her sister Angeline and family and the family bus trips to Mohegan Sun.

She is survived by her devoted daughter, Lisa Grinnell Ellsworth and her husband, Peter of Milford and many nieces and nephews whom she loved dearly. She was predeceased by her brother, Thomas Iannone and his wife Jacinta, and her sisters, Angeline Krajnik, Mary Riccio and Rose Bova.

Family and friends may call on Monday, April 19th from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD with a mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish). Interment to follow at St. Michael’s Cemetery, Stratford.

The family would like to thank the caring people at The Connecticut Hospice and the Milford Senior Center Ahrens Program and request that memorial contributions be directed to them.

Hine, Agnes P.

Agnes P. Hine, age 89, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Harold Hine, died on Friday, April 16, 2021. Agnes was born in Bridgeport on July 19, 1931 to the late Henry and Agnes Nelson Pawlowski. She worked at Schick for many years as the secretary to the controller. Survivors include her seven children: Agnes Marie Shepard (Douglas) of TX, Harold Hine, Jr. (Christine) of, NY, Darryl Hine (Betsy) of Milford, Anne Christine Brown (Russell) of Bethany, Donald Hine (Mariann) of Ansonia, Arnold Hine of SC and Henry Eric Hine (Victoria) of North Haven, sister, Barbara Higgins of Bridgeport, daughter-in-law, Sue Hine of VT, 20 grandchildren: Phaedra, Ariel, David, Devin, Christopher, Daryl, Carrie, Laura, Heather, Melissa, Katie, Kyle, Tabitha, Craig, Ryan, Christopher, Ashley, Sabrina, Kendle and Skylre and several great-grandchildren. Agnes is predeceased by her sons, Ronald and Gerald Hine, brother, Henry Pawlowski and daughter-in-law, Rhonda Hine. Services and Interment me will be private. Donations in memory of Agnes can be made to The Humane Society.

Horvath, Sandor

Sandor (Sam) Horvath, age 66, formerly of Milford, husband of Susan Paul Horvath, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, April 27, 2021. Born in Csykanydoroslo, Hungary on July 10, 1954, son of the late Zoltan and Katalin Horvath, Sam and his family came to the United States in 1956 and he had lived in Milford and Derby for most of his life. He had worked for the Bullard Co. and later for Sikorsky Aircraft for many years until his retirement. He also bartended at his families business, the former Kossuth Club of Bridgeport . He also substitute taught his trade (Machine Shop) at Platt Tech. Sam enjoyed the outdoors, fishing and bird watching. He also loved helping coach his son Adam while he was younger in youth football (Derby), Elvis Presley music, dancing, and the occasional trip to the casino. He was the life of the party! Sam was very proud of his Hungarian heritage and more than anything he loved his family ,and would always be surrounded by them, or on the phone with them. In addition to his wife Susan, Sam leaves behind his children, Elizabeth (Lizzy) Farinella, and her husband, Aristide, of New Canaan, Christina Horvath, and her fiancée, Anthony Berrios, of Naugatuck, Victoria Cascarelli, and her husband, Jeffrey, of Monroe, Adam Horvath of Bethany and Steven Horvath of Derby. He leaves behind his grandchildren, Daniel DaCruz, Anthony and Abel Horvath, Toni Marie and Jace Berrios, and Alexander and Savannah Cascarelli; sisters, Monika Mason (Charles); and nieces, Emily Mason and Katalin Somers all of Annapolis, MD. Graveside services will be held on Wednesday, May 5, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford. There will be no prior calling hours. Arrangements in the care of the Lesko & Polke Funeral Home. To sign an online register or to get travel directions, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com.

Johnson, Sr., Kenneth W.

Kenneth W. Johnson, Sr. of Woodbridge, passed away at his home on Monday, April 5, 2021. He was married for 49 years to the late Joan Ann Hatch Johnson. He was born in New Haven on January 5, 1935 to the late Walter Perkins and Rose Saccavino Johnson. He was a proud veteran, serving his country during the Korean War in the United States Navy. At a very young age, Ken showed signs of being very artistic and equally athletic. A love for the game of hockey can be traced back to Madison Square Garden in New York where he helped his Pee Wee Hockey Team to two National Championships. He also attended the Paier College of Art in Hamden and was often recognized for his outstanding work. He, however, did not choose a career in the arts but rather took over his wife’s family business as the President and Owner of the Geo. M. Hatch Company for nearly 40 years until his retirement in 2009. Throughout his life, he still continued to paint and attended many art shows, loved to golf and was a longtime member of the Lions Club. He was the definition of a true family man. He was active in all aspects of his children and grandchildren’s lives, attending every school function, practice, game or recital. His chivalry, impeccably timed sarcasm/wit, world class ability to whistle, generosity and pure love will live on forever. Ken will be surely missed but never forgotten.

He is survived by a son, Kenneth (RoseMarie) Johnson, Jr. of New Haven, two daughters, Stephanie (Vincent Esposito) Charney of Hamden and Jeannette Johnson of New Haven, a sister, Susan Ranalli of North Branford, three sisters-in-law, Mary DePonte Johnson of Guilford, Georgia Marchulitis and Susan Hatch of East Haven and a longtime partner, Dawn Guercia of Westville, four grandchildren, Courtney (Christian) Parisi, Joseph Johnson, Zachary (Jenn) Charney and Crystal Johnson, four great-grandchildren, Julian Parisi, Abigail and Ariel Charney and Jack Johnson, as well as many nieces and nephews. Besides his parents and wife, he was predeceased by a brother, Richard Johnson and a sister, Nancy Jane Johnson.

A funeral service will be held this Saturday, at the East Haven Memorial Longobardi – Brennan Funeral Home, 425 Main St., East Haven, 203-467-1708 at 11 am. Burial with full military honors will take place immediately following at Eastside Cemetery, Woodbridge. Friends may call from 9 to 11 a.m, prior to the services at the funeral home. Every effort will be made to maintain social distancing and masks are required. Please visit easthavenmemorial.com and sign Ken’s guest book.

Kaplan, Karin

Karin S. Kaplan, 75, of Woodbridge, devoted wife of 51 years to Dr Richard B. Kaplan, died at her home on Friday, April 23, 2021. Born in Brooklyn, NY on April 19, 1946, Karin was a daughter of the late David & Mollie (Schrier) Sugarman. Beloved Mother of Melissa A. Kaplan-Charkow (Joshua Charkow) & Allison Kaplan (Rick Bialecki). Dear Sister of the late Verne Sugarman. Cherished Grandmother of Eliza & David Charkow.

Private Funeral Services will be held at B’nai Jacob Memorial Park, 200 Wintergreen Ave., New Haven on Monday afternoon at 1:30 o’clock.

Memorial Contributions may be sent to Smilow Cancer Hospital @ Yale or to the VNA Community Hospice, Guilford. Funeral arrangements in care of Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven. To sign an on-line registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit: www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Kirchberg, Betsy

Betsy Ellen Kirchberg, 70, of Red Cedar Road, daughter of the late Muriel Gerard-Kirchberg and Ernest Carl Kirchberg, peacefully passed away on Tuesday, April 21, 2021 at her Silverbrook Estates apartment with her live-in aide, Jasmine Thomas, and close family members by her side.

Betsy was born in New Haven on September 25, 1950, and was a lifetime resident of Orange. She graduated in 1968 from Amity High School in Woodbridge and received her Licensed Practical Nurse certificate from Emmet O’Brien Tech in Ansonia. For most of her professional career, she worked in various units at Yale- New Haven Hospital (YNHH) that included pediatric research, the surgical department, and the labor and delivery unit where she took great pride assisting in the births of countless babies. She ended her career with YNHH at the Women’s Health Center in 1993. After that, she worked for a short period of time as the school nurse and secretary for Laurel Oaks Adventist School in Hamden.

Betsy was a member of the Orange Republican Party and spent many hours helping with various organizations in the Town of Orange. She was a long-time member of the New Haven Seventh-day Adventist Church, and was an avid cook and baker. She enjoyed shopping, spending time with friends and family, and making her well-known cheesecakes and cookies.

Betsy was pre-deceased by her sister, Linda Seidman, of Harrah, OK; and brother Earl Kirchberg, of Hampden, ME. She is survived by two brothers: Paul Kirchberg and his wife, Debbie, of Orange; and Eric Kirchberg and his wife, Ivy, of New Haven; as well as Earl Kirchberg’s widow, Kallie Kirchberg, of Freeport, ME. Additional survivors include seven nephews: Nicholas Kirchberg, his wife, Aom, and their son, Maximus, of Old Orchard Beach, ME; Alexander Kirchberg and his wife, Laura, of Charlestown, MA; Demetri Kirchberg of Portland, ME; Paul Michael Kirchberg, his wife, Smita, and their daughters, Aria and Maya, of Milford; Johnathan Kirchberg, his wife, Stephanie, and their son, Ashlyn Ramos, of Woburn, MA; Michael O’Brien, his wife, Sarah, and their children, Kaitlyn, Alexandria and Jason, of West Haven, and Zachary Kirchberg of Bremerton, WA.

A Memorial Service will be held at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden on Saturday, May 1, 2021, with visitation starting at 1 p.m. followed by a remembrance service at 2 p.m. Her internment will be held privately at a future date. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Betsy’s memory may be sent to the Laurel Oaks Adventist School, 14 West Shepard Avenue, Hamden, CT 06514. To send condolences to her family, please see www.beecherandbennett.com.

Lanier, Peter “Richie”

Peter “Richie” Lanier, age 82, beloved husband of Harriette (Richardson) Lanier of Milford, passed away on April 21, 2021.

He was born on September 10, 1938 in Hartford and was the son of the late Peter and Anne (Dionne) Lanier. After graduating from Milford High School in 1956, Pete joined the U.S. Army Reserves. Pete volunteered to join the U.S. Army in 1959 where he graduated from Airborne Jump School. He proudly served during the Vietnam War with the 82nd, 101st and 173rd Airborne and was later attached to special forces. He received honorable discharge in 1966. When he completed his military obligations, Pete moved back home and became a test car driver at Raybestos as well as a longshoreman in Bridgeport. He later became a custodian at Foran High School in Milford where he proudly worked for over twenty-five years while also serving as lead maintenance at his beloved Saint Ann Church. Pete also loved the outdoors and achieved Eagle scout in 1952. He continued to teach and mentor in the Boy Scouts of America for 40 years. Pete also loved fishing, culminating in a trip of a lifetime to Alaska with his son. He enjoyed watching UConn basketball as well as NY Giants football games with his family. Affectionately known by many as “P2” he will be missed dearly by his family and friends.

In addition to his wife of 55 years, he leaves his four children, Michael (Melissa) Lanier, Joseph (Rebecca) Lanier, Matthew (Kim) Lanier and Sarah (Michael) Bennett and seven grandchildren, Justin Lanier, Peter and William Lanier, Jenna Lanier, Griffin, Evangeline and Autumn Bennett. He also leaves his sisters, Valerie Dionne-Lanier and Phyllis Sturtevant and many nieces and nephews. His brother, Kenneth Lanier predeceased him.

Due to the pandemic, Services will be held in private. Arrangements have been entrusted with THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD, CT 06460. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Leninger, Judith “Judy” Mary (Kmetz)

Dec 11, 1942 – April 3, 2021Judith “Judy” Mary Leninger, 78, Orange, CT returned to her heavenly home on April, 3, 2021 after a courageous battle with cancer. She died peacefully at her home surrounded by her loving family.

Judy was born to the late Andrew and Ludmilla Kmetz on December 11, 1942 in Scranton, PA. She graduated from Andrew Warde High School in Fairfield, CT and the Bridgeport Hospital School of Radiology in 1962. She worked at Bridgeport Hospital for many years in the x-ray department, the cardiac cath lab and the cardiac rehabilitation program. She later worked for Oxford Health Plans until her retirement. Judy was a lifelong member of Holy Trinity Lutheran Church where she spent much of her time volunteering.

Judy is survived by her beloved husband of 56 years, Paul Sr.; her daughter Kendra Luth and son-in-law Adam of Orange; her son Paul Leninger Jr and daughter-in-law Susan of Trumbull; cherished grandchildren Melinda Luth Coutu (Andre), Cameron Luth, Paul Leninger lll and Lyle Luth; great grandson Landon Coutu; sisters Rosalie Krajcik and Dorothy Steinbrick as well as a large extended family of cousins, nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews and friends, all of whom she loved immensely.

Due to Covid-19 the funeral service and interment of ashes will take place when restrictions are lifted.
To share a memory and read full obituary please visit www.luddyandpetersonfh.com.

Meisenheimer III, Daniel T.

Daniel T. Meisenheimer III, 70, of Orange, passed away peacefully in his home on April 10, 2021 with his family by his side. He was born in Bridgeport on March 22, 1951 to the late Daniel T. and Mary Ellen Meisenheimer, Jr.

Daniel will be lovingly and fondly remembered by his sons, Daniel Meisenheimer and his wife Tasha and James Meisenheimer and his partner Sophie Butcher; his grandson, Lachlan Meisenheimer; his wife, Eda Kovaci; his first wife, Jean Meisenheimer; his brother, Richard Meisenheimer and wife Linda; nieces, nephews, grandnieces and many cousins; as well as everyone in the towns of Orange and Milford that knew him.

Daniel graduated from Notre Dame High School in West Haven in 1969 and Southern Connecticut State University in 1973. He was the Founder and President of the United States Basketball League and Vice President of Spectrum Associates in Milford, CT. Daniel was an avid sports enthusiast playing basketball with friends at Holy Infant Church. He extended his knowledge and passion for the sport through coaching his sons, Daniel and James, and the many members of the community on the Holy Infant Orangemen throughout the 90s. Daniel was also a highly active golfer, having been a member of Oak Lane Country Club and Racebrook Country Club, enjoying rounds with family and friends throughout Connecticut.

Friends and family are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Tuesday, April 13, 2021 from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Masks and social distancing will be required. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 14, 2021 at 10:30 a.m. at St. Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at St. Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Mieczkowski, Genevieve M.

Genevieve M. Mieczkowski, age 92, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Stanley “Mickey” Mieczkowski, died on Saturday, April 24, 2021 in West Haven. Gene was born in Bridgeport on March 17, 1929 to the late Stanley and Sophia Bednarz Jerzyk. She was a longtime Milford resident and a member of the Milford Senior Center. She was an active parishioner of Saint Ann Church and their 50 + Club as well as a member of the West Shore Seniors. Survivors include her children: Sharon Adam (Joseph) of West Haven and Sandra Phaneuf (Brett) of MA, three grandchildren, Allen Adam, and Matthew and Michelle Phaneuf and several nieces and nephews. Gene was predeceased by her son, Alan Mieczkowski, three brothers and two sisters. Friends and Family may call on Thursday, April 29th from 9:00 a.m. – 10:30 a.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish) followed by interment in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Office of Radio and Television Mass, 15 Peach Orchard Street, Prospect, CT 06715. To share a memory, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Mushin, Allen

Allen E Mushin, 82 of Orange, CT unexpectedly passed away Friday, April 23, 2021. Allen was born in Brooklyn, NY on July 16, 1938 to Anne and Victor Mushin. He was raised in New Haven, CT and graduated from Hill House High School in 1956. He proudly served in the US Navy as a radio operator on the USS Tingey. He spent his career as a technical writer until retirement. During retirement he was very active in the town of Orange as the leader of the CERT team for 13 years. Allen enjoyed magic, amateur (HAM) radio, and was a disc jockey on an internet radio show called The Doo Wop Cafe.The highlight of his life was spending time with friends and family, especially his grandchildren. Allen is survived by his wife, of 60 years, Sheila Mushin (Spivak), his two children, Mark Mushin and Beth Korman, son in law, Jay Korman, sister Linda Saslow, grandchildren, Andrew Mushin and his fiance Beth Wellington, Jenna Mushin, Elana Korman, Sydney Korman, and nieces and nephews, Randi Saslow, Wendy Saslow, Betsy Spivak, and Scott Spivak. He was preceded in death by his granddaughter, Alyssa Mushin and brother-in-law Harold Saslow. Due to COVID-19 Restrictions a private graveside ceremony is planned for the immediate family. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven is in care of Arrangements In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to National Tay-Sachs & Allied Diseases Association (NTSAD) 2001 Beacon Street, Suite 204 Boston, MA 02135 or to a charity of your choice. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Palma, Edward A.

Edward A. Palma, age 90, passed away peacefully on April 15, 2021, at his home in Orange. Born on May 5, 1930, in New Haven, a son to the late Ralph & Anna Pranno Palma, Edward is survived by his wife of over 62 years, Margaret “Peggy” Sasso Palma, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. He was predeceased by his siblings, Fred Palma, Phil Palma, Ralph Palma, Josephine Palma Celone, and Mildred Palma Bredenberg. Edward was a proud member of the CT National Guard Band. He retired from Interstate Container Company, where he worked in sales for many years.

A graveside service will take place on Monday, April 19, at 1:00PM, in St. Lawrence Cemetery.

Panton, Alcine

Alcine Panton, age 76, of Milford, passed away on Tuesday, April 6, 2021. Alcine was born in Milford on August 13, 1944 to the late Alfred and Alcine Davey Panton. She was a private practice attorney for many years and was a member of the Laurel Beach Association. Survivors include several cousins, Edward Sherwood (Shirly), Patricia Petrucci, Charles Sherwood (Jackie), Barbara Bussey, Joe Blichfeld (Candy) and William Butterly. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday, April 13th at 10:00 am in Saint Gabriel Church, Milford. Interment will follow in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford. There will be no calling hours. The Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home is handling arrangements. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Paterna, Thomas

Thomas Paterna, 74, of Stratford, formerly of Milford, beloved husband of 51 years to Patricia Paterna, passed away on April 25, 2021. Born on December 22, 1946 in Brooklyn, NY, he was the son of the late Thomas and Domenica “Minnie” Paterna.

Tom will be remembered for his kind soul, life wisdom, useless trivia and endless stories. His greatest gift was his ability to make people feel great about themselves. Whether through a kind word, compliment or joke, Tom always spread joy and laughter everywhere he went.

For 30 years Tom and his wife Pat successfully ran multiple businesses. Tom used his gift of gab to become a leader in the telecommunications security, and in his later years turned his attention to education and inspiring future generations. He earned his MBA in Marketing and was PhDabd in Management. As a professor, Tom was revered by his students as engaging, fun and genuinely caring.

Along with his wife, Tom is survived by his son, Dr. Matthew (Courtney) Paterna; grandchildren, Madelyn and Miles Paterna; sisters, Lucille (Michael) Tuminello and Felicia (Louie) Vitale; brother-in-law, Dino (Ellen) Rossi; nieces and nephews, James, Luke, and Jimmy Alfano, Lisa and Lauren Vitale, and Lauren and Jenna Rossi; and many friends. He was predeceased by his sister and her husband, Jeanette and Jimmy Alfano.

A Walk Through Wake will take place from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Friday, April 30, 2021 at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Masks and social distancing will be required. Interment will take place on Saturday, May 1, 2021 at 9:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY) with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital at www.stjude.org. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Pike, Esther I.

Esther I. Pike, 88, of Milford, CT, beloved wife of the late Edwin E. Pike, Sr., passed away peacefully on Easter Sunday, April 4, 2021, with her family by her side. She was born in Highland, IL, on July 12, 1932, the daughter of the late Elmer and Corine Haas Koch.

Esther met the love of her life of 62 years, Edwin Pike, at Highland Lake in Highland, IL and moved with him to Milford, CT to make their home for their 5 children. Esther was very proud of her children, her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She considered them her greatest accomplishment. Esther was known for her wonderful baking, especially her perfect chocolate chip cookies. She was employed for many years by New England Controls, Milford.

Survivors, include her children Edwin Pike, Jr. (Roberta) of Wallingford, Linda Sadick (Greg) of CA, David Pike of PA, Cynthia Ruggeri (Paul) of Orange and Brian Pike (Janice) of Wallingford; 10 grandchildren: Jillian, Kevin, Alicia (Ryan), Sara (Nolan), Jacob, Kyle, Corrine, Matthew, Anneliese and Emily; and two great-grandchildren, Mason and Jackson, and several nieces and nephews. Esther was predeceased by her brothers, Bernard and Gerald Koch.

A walk-through visitation will be held on Saturday, April 10th, from 8:30 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated following the calling hour at 10:00 a.m. in Saint Agnes Church, Milford (Precious Blood Parish). Interment will follow in Saint John’s Cemetery, Wallingford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Pirner, Susan B.

Susan B. Pirner (Bennett), 75, longtime resident of Milford, beloved wife of Richard Pirner, passed away peacefully on April 14, 2021. Born on March 1, 1946 in Middletown, NY, she was daughter of the late Charles and Grace Bennett.
Susan grew up in Garden City, NY and graduated from GC High School in 1964. She proceeded to attend St. Clair’s Nursing School before eventually taking a position as secretary for Doubleday Publishing. Susan enjoyed sewing, collecting dolls and building doll houses and miniature furniture, reading cozy mysteries, gardening, bird watching, painting landscapes and taking in the stray cats that would find their way to her. She was also a member of the Milford Republican Town Committee for many years.

Along with her husband, Susan leaves behind her son, Edward Pirner; and many extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her brother, Lawrence Bennett.

A walk through wake will take place on Monday, April 19, 2021 from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. Masks will be required and social distancing enforced. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Susan’s memory to your local no kill animal shelter .To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Seiger, Joseph R.

Joseph R. Seiger, age 94, of Milford, beloved husband of 57 years to the late Irene J. (Farkas) Seiger, passed away on April 26, 2021. He was born on September 30, 1926 In Philadelphia, PA and was the son of the late Ann Poulos. He graduated from Bassick High School and Embry-Riddle School of Aviation in FL. Mr. Seiger was a proud veteran with the U.S. Army Air Corps and served during WWII. Mr. Seiger worked as a foreman at Sikorsky Aircraft for 34 years before his retirement. He enjoyed spending time with his family and friends and Thursday morning breakfast with the guys. He was a member of St. Ann Church 50+ Club and a volunteer with the Milford Hospital Auxiliary. Mr. Seiger is survived by his devoted daughter, Carol A. Altieri and her husband Frank of Milford and two grandchildren, Laura Altieri (Jon Kaplan) of Stamford and Luke Altieri (Lauren Bertuzzi) of Milford. In addition to his mother and wife, he was predeceased by his loving son, Robert J. Seiger.

His daughter, Carol would like to thank everyone who helped her Dad in recent years. A Walk-Through Calling Hour will be held on Friday, April 30th from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be followed (DIRECTLY) at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment with Military Honors at Saint Michael Cemetery, Stratford. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Steinman, MaryAnn

MaryAnn Steinman, age 83, of Milford, beloved wife of Raymond E. Steinman Jr. for 61 years, died on Monday, April 19, 2021.  MaryAnn was born in New York, NY on June 8, 1937 to the late Alphons and Marie (Cieslinski) Blatz.  She was a secretary at Waterbury Lock and later the lunch lady at Pumpkin Delight Elementary School for 30 years.

Maryann enjoyed traveling with her husband, Ray,  anywhere their Chevy van would take them.  She especially enjoyed Niagara Falls and Disney World. She deeply loved her family and enjoyed spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Survivors include her children: Elizabeth and Craig Carr of Milford, Kathleen Mahieu of Simsbury, John and Linda Steinman of North Haven, Susan and Thomas Coleman of Milford and Christine and David Heenan of Milford, grandchildren; Daniel, Jillian and Christopher Carr, Robert and Andrea Mahieu, Jessica Bifield and Jack Steinman, Valerie, Tiffany,  James and Nicholas Coleman and Tyler and Lauren Heenan and great-granddaughter, Daisy Bifield.   MaryAnn is predeceased by her brother Alfons J. Blatz and granddaughter, Melanie Amber Coleman.

Friends are invited to call on Friday, April 23rd from 10:00 am – 12:00 pm in The Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.  A Graveside service will be held at 12:30 pm in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford.  To share a memory, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Vaccaro, Mark

It is with deep sorrow in that we mourn the passing of Mark Anthony Vaccaro who passed away unexpectedly at his home on April 24, 2021. Born on January 10, 1960 in Peekskill, NY, he was the son of the late Anthony and Anita Vaccaro. Mark is survived by Diane, his beloved wife and best friend for over twenty years. They shared a relationship based on mutual support and a deep love for each other.

A lifelong resident of Milford, Mark began his career with UPS in 1996, was a member of Teamsters Local 191 and had just recently retired.

Mark was known for his quick wit and his kind and compassionate spirit. He possessed an uncanny ability to find happiness in his daily routine, was an avid sports fan and had an “outstanding” knowledge and passion for music. The simplest pleasures in life brought him great joy; his favorite chair, outdoor grilling, appreciation for a good meal, basking in the sun, and of course spending time with family and friends.

Along with his wife, Mark leaves behind his brother, Anthony Vaccaro, Jr. (Fran), several sister and brothers-in-law, numerous nieces and nephews, several great-nieces and nephews, and a host of friends and beloved co-workers.
Friends and family are invited to share their memories during a Walk Through Wake on Saturday, May 1, 2021 from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Interment will be private. Masks and social distancing will be required. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Breast Cancer Society. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Wayne, James Palmer Sr.

James Palmer Wayne, Sr., 73, of Milford, beloved husband of 45 years to Ann Wayne, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on April 13, 2021. Born on May 31, 1947 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Carl and Ethel Wayne. Jim was the proud president and owner of Wayne Tire for over 50 years. He was an extremely active member in the Milford community serving as a past president of the Kiwanis Club of Milford and board member of the Milford Red Cross as well as volunteering for various charity events. Jim enjoyed golfing and sailing which he often did on his many trips to Puerto Rico with his family and friends. Above all else, Jim always wore a smile on his face and was ready to help his family, fellow neighbors and friends. He was always doing something for someone. Jim was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather and a faithful friend. His presence will be missed but never forgotten, especially his wonderful stories and his fabulous sense of humor. Along with his loving wife, Jim leaves behind his cherished children, Jacqueline Ann (Timothy) Maloney, James P. Wayne, Jr., and Nicole Wayne; grandchildren, Brendan Maloney, James P. Wayne, III, and Shannon Maloney; and several cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends. He was predeceased by his sister, Carol Bogaars. Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake on Wednesday, April 21, 2021 from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. Masks will be required and social distance protocols will be followed. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, April 22, 2021 at 11 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Masks will be required. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Jim’s memory to the Kiwanis Club of Milford at http://www.milfordkiwanis.org/donations.aspx, Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford, or a charity of one’s choice .To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Whalen, Paul R.

Paul R. Whalen, 85, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Joan Whalen, passed away peacefully on April 23, 2021. Paul was born on December 26, 1935. He worked for several insurance companies over the years and frequently traveled for his job. Paul loved watching the NY Giants and taking trips with Joan to Cape Cod.

Paul leaves behind his son, Michael Whalen, Sr. and his wife Cynthia; daughter, Debra Whalen; grandsons, Michael Jr., and Justin Whalen; step-grandchildren, Amanda and Anthony Martin; brother, James Whalen and his wife Joyce; brother-in-law James Manifold; faithful dog, Moe; and Kevin and Frank Vann.

Family and friends are invited to pay their respects at a walk-through wake, Thursday, April 29, 2021 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 30, 2021 at 10 a.m. at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Burial will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Rd., Orange, CT. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.