Barbara Fradette Alpert
Barbara Fradette Alpert (August 1964 – November 2023) passed away peacefully at her home in Palmetto, Florida, with her loving husband by her side. Born in Bridgeport CT, the daughter of the late Laurier Fradette and Barbara Fradette Andrews, she resided in Fairfield CT for many years. Later, she resided in Milford, CT until relocating to Florida in 2009 with her husband, Dave Alpert Sr.
She was a loving mother and grandmother to her daughters, Stephine N. Comlish and Christina M. Healy (Mike) and grandson Michael George Healy III, who reside in CT. She was a sister to her seven siblings: Deborah Lienemann, Daniel Fradette, Sandra Dube, Michael Fradette, James Fradette, Kimberly Fradette (deceased), and Scott Andrews.
Barbara used writing as an instrument of hope, encouragement and to inspire others. She had written countless devotionals for Christian organizations and Bayside Community Church. She was the author of several books and a six-time contributing author to the popular Chicken Soup for the Soul series.
She has chosen cremation (with no service). Before passing, she took the time to create precious moments with family and friends. In lieu of flowers, you can make a life contribution to her grandson’s, Michael George Healy III, trust fund via GoFundMe, which is publicly posted on Barbara’s Facebook page.
Vincent James Ardigliano Jr.
Vincent James Ardigliano, Jr. age 57 of Milford, entered peaceful rest on October 25, 2023.
He was born on February 28, 1966 in New Haven. He was the son of Judith (Burleigh) Ardigliano of North Haven and the late Vincent J. Ardigliano, Sr. Vincent enjoyed golf, sports history and his kitten.
Vincent’s life was greatly enhanced the day he met his girlfriend, Maria Fanaza of Milford, who provided him with love and support for 11 years. In addition to Maria, he was survived by his siblings, Larry, Pat & Gerry Ardigliano, Jill Martone (Frank), Sally Frank (Michael) and his nephew, Frank Martone, Jr. Vinny was a kind and charismatic person who had a positive impact on everyone who was fortunate enough to meet him.
Services will be held in private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.
Robert Scott Bowe
Robert Scott Bowe, 69, of Milford, passed away on November 5, 2023. Born on September 11, 1954 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Alethia and John Bowe Sr.
Robert was a lifelong resident of Milford,CT. Robert graduated from Jonathan Law High School and later attended the Paer College of Art, School renamed Shoreline School of Music and Art. He ultimately became a liquor salesman for Hartley and Parker where he worked until his recent retirement.
Robert was also a Fine Artist and he left behind many wonderful works of art. His brother John says “His artwork should be his legacy”.
His hobbies included fishing, classic cars and cooking gourmet meals for friends and family.
Robert is survived by his brother, John (Catherine) Bowe Jr., of Millbury Ma; nephew, Daniel (Laura) Bowe, of Bristol NH; and close friends Al Dubien and Barbara Mollica, also of Milford, and extended family and friends.
A Graveside Service will take place on Monday, November 20, 2023 at 12:00 p.m. at Riverside Cemetery, 308 River Road, Shelton, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY).
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Shriners Children Hospital.
Jaime Alfonso Buelvas
Jaime Alfonso Buelvas, 77, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away on October 20, 2023. Born on June 3, 1946, in Colombia, he was the son of the late Pedro Buelvas and Maria De Jesus Pena. He was the beloved husband of Sara Tovar, his life partner of 55 years.
A hardworking man with a strong will, he immigrated to Connecticut in 1996 in pursuit of a better life for his family. Until his retirement, he spent over twenty years working as a manager at Atlantic Coast Fulfillment.
There is nothing Jaime loved more than spending time with family and friends, a good party, and life itself. He will be remembered in our hearts for his smile, his sense of humor, his love of dance, his fondness for vallenato, his regard for history, his skills as a handyman, his home-cooked meals, his kind heart, his strong will, his determination, integrity, compassion, and all of the other remarkable qualities that made him a cherished husband, father, grandfather, father in law and friend.
There was never a moment when he was not surrounded by the love of those around him. He will be missed dearly, but he leaves behind a legacy of inspiration and love. “Seguro estoy de que la bondad y el amor me seguirán todos los días de mi vida; y en la casa del Señor habitaré para siempre.” Salmos 23
Jaime is survived by his children, Astrid (Jorge) Ruisanchez and Angélica Buelvas (Giuseppe) Cinque; granddaughters, Stephanie Arévalo Buelvas and Annabella Ruisanchez Buelvas; siblings, Carlos, Ezequel, Rita, Dolly, and Raquel Buelvas; and many nieces, nephews, and extended family in Colombia.
Friends and family are invited to gather from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Friday, October 27, 2023 at the Cody-White Funeral Home (107 Broad St, Milford CT). In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale New Haven Hospital’s Closer to Free Fund: www.yalecancercenter.org/gifts.
Paul Dempsey
Paul Dempsey, a beloved father, passed away on November 5th, 2023, at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Bridgeport, Connecticut. He was born in March 1959 and grew up in Stratford, Connecticut.
Paul is survived by his three children and their partners: David and Jade; Matthew and Alan; and Randi Lee and Mark. He was a dedicated family man, with undying love for his children, always putting them first.
Paul is also survived by his steadfast brother Joseph Dempsey and his wife Cindy; his loving cousin Louise White; his beloved nephews and many cousins; and many others who loved him like family.
Paul Dempsey is reunited in the afterlife with his beloved parents, Doris and Joseph Dempsey, who passed away before him. He cherished their memory and the values they instilled in him, and their spirits will continue to watch over the family he leaves behind.
Throughout his life, Paul worked in the car business. Since 1986, he has been at Dan Perkins, where he built lasting relationships with colleagues and customers. He was a true car enthusiast, and his passion for automobiles was contagious.
In addition to his professional life, Paul was known for his gregarious and fun-loving personality. He had an incredible ability to get along with everyone he met, always leaving a warm and lasting impression. His friends and family will always remember his ability to make you feel like the most special person in the room.
Paul leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and cherished memories. His dedication to raising wonderful children and his unwavering love for all will forever be remembered.
Friends and family may call from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday November 17, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday November 18, 2023, at 10:00 a.m. St. Gabriel Church, 26 Broadway, Milford Ct. 06460 CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH).
Interment will follow the church services on Saturday November 18, 2023, at Saint Michael Cemetery, 2205 Stratford Ave, Stratford CT 06615.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Swim Across the Sound (https://swimacrossthesound.org/) Foundation.
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Andrea Dente
Andrea Dente, 57, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved wife of Joseph Dente, passed away on November 1, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. Born on March 27, 1966, in Yonkers, New York, she was the daughter of the late Thomas and Ellen Mary (Willwerth) Domizio,
Graduate of Saunders HS where she studied carpentry. She worked for Chase bank in her early years but spent the last twenty years working for Saint Mary’s catholic school as teacher for preschool/teaching assistant. Part of the day was spent teaching about religion in the Atrium. Andrea was very involved in the school with PTA, food bank, Library and numerous fund raisers. She was an active participant in the church. Andrea loved Saint Mary’s school and the Church. She considered the students and staff her second family.
Andrea loved doing craft projects with her own children as well as with her students. Gardening was what she enjoyed in her free time. From planting flowers to vegetables. Another thing she enjoyed was watching the hallmark channel, general hospital, and watching the various cooking shows. She enjoyed baking and cooking with her children and trying new recipes. She enjoyed shopping at Lancaster PA, Hobby Lobby, Christmas Tree Shop. Her favorite thing of all was spending time with her husband, children and family. One of her favorite times was walking with Rocco the dog on the beach.
In addition to her loving husband Andrea is survived by her treasured children, Juliana, Joseph and Anthony. Andrea is also survived by her siblings, Karen (Joseph) Loscri, Karol (Ted) Pernicano, Thomas (Keisha) Domizio and her brother-in-law Frank (Donna) Dente. Andrea also leaves behind her mother-in-law Lucille Dente. Andrea will be deeply missed by her nieces and nephews and great nephew and beloved dog Rocco.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday November 10th at 12:00 at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). There will celebration reception following mass at Saint Marry’s cafeteria. All are invited. Interment will be private.
Andrea and family are being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, Connecticut 06460.
The family is requesting that in lieu of flowers individuals seeking to do something in her memory please donate a backpack for a needy student and place one imperishable food item in it. The backpacks will be donated to needy children in our greater Milford community and the imperishable food item will be donated to the Deacon John Rgley Food Pantry at St Mary Church. The back packs will line the isle and be present in church for her funeral as an added tribute to Mrs Dente, a person who always cared about children and the needy. Anyone interested in donating a backpack with a canned good in it, can drop it off at school through Thursday. We will make sure that they are present at her funeral mass Friday.
Frances Aletta Steevels Duhamel
Frances Aletta Steevels Duhamel, 92, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved wife of the late Daniel Joseph Duhamel Jr., passed away on October 28, 2023, with her loving family by her side. Born on February 13, 1931, in Hoboken, New Jersey she was the daughter of the late Bernard and Marie (Brandjes) Steevels. She met her husband Dan of nearly 60 years at a high school mixer when he was already enlisted in the Navy.
Fran graduated from Milford High School Class of 1949 and was a member of the 4H Club. She still lunched with her Milford High School girlfriends for nearly 75 years later. In her younger years she was known to be an inspiring tap dancer and dreamed of being a Rockette. She loved gardening and took great joy from her flower beds.
She was a Bookkeeper and Office Manager in the Aerospace industry for many years.
Fran was known to be a very loving and compassionate mother, sister and friend. The love of her family was everything to her and she took great joy sharing in the lives of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was a wonderful cook and we looked forward to her Sunday family dinners..
Frances leaves behind her loving children, Simone (William), Daniel III (Jerrilyn), Joseph (Tammy) and John (Elizabeth). Frances will be missed as well by her adored grandchildren, William, Jessica, Cori, Lauren, Brittany, Lindsay, Joseph Jr., Timothy, Anthony, Lucas, Jack and Caroline. Frances will be truly missed by her many great grandchildren. She also leaves behind her brother Barend (Vergie) Steevels and Nieces and Nephews.
Friends and family may call from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. on Saturday November 4, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Janice Benoit Fodero
Janice Lola Benoit Fodero, 83, died peacefully in her home in Orange on October 24. 2023. Born in Lowell, Massachusetts on February 12, 1940, Janice was the daughter of the late Maxime Armand Benoit and Blanche (Berthiaume) Benoit. She was the wife of the late Severio (Bob) Fodero and sister of the late Eileen Benoit.
Janice always said she had a wonderful life. Growing up in Athol, Massachusetts, she enjoyed biking, swimming, playing the flute, and having a good time with her friends. When the family moved to Hamden, Connecticut, Janice was a junior in high school. She often said that it was an eye-opening experience for a small town girl to move to a small city. After graduating from Hamden High School, Janice entered Albertus Magnus College where she majored in political science and made lasting friendships.
She began her professional life on an emergency teaching certificate as a middle school teacher in Wallingford. She attended evening and summer classes, eventually earning a Master’s Degree in Education from SCSU. She also taught in Hamden and at Amity Junior High School in Orange.
One day, while doing research in the SCSU Library, she began a conversation with a librarian which ended in Janice thinking she might want to switch careers. Janice was accepted into the Pratt Institute Library and Information Science program. Moving to New York City was a challenge and a delight for this small town girl. She met interesting people who introduced her to ethnic foods, the subway system, and life in the big city. Back home after earning her Masters in Library Science, she worked at libraries in Bridgeport and New Haven, and at SCSU, finally finding her home at the Hopkins School as Head Librarian. This was an immersive experience for her since the library needed to be completely updated. She tackled this process with focused determination, visiting the libraries of other private schools in the state, and talking to anyone who could advise her. Janice loved reading book reviews, helping students and faculty with projects, and bringing the library into the computer world.
During this time she met the ‘love of her life.’ She regaled her friends with how she met Bob. While living in New Haven with her sister, they decided to give a party and friends of friends were invited. When she opened the door to a knock, there was this handsome man standing there who said, “Is this where the party is? I’m Bob Fodero and I was invited by my friend. I can’t stay long because I have Army reserve duty.” Janice experienced that ‘coup de foudre’ moment where she knew this was the man for her.
Bob became the Associate Director at the Yale University Student Health Service and a fellow of Timothy Dwight College. He had a terrific sense of humor and an engaging personality. He was invited everywhere and Janice ‘tagged’ along meeting famous persons from all walks of life. Bob liked the status quo but not Janice. They moved into a house in Orange that was always a “work in progress” for Janice and a trial for Bob but he endured whichever project she worked on because he loved her. When it came to sharing likes, it was easy. They attended the theatre, concerts, and operas. Janice had traveled extensively with her sister to India, the Middle East, and hosteled through nine Western European countries. Oh, the stories she told about riding on scooters! She wanted to continue her travels so she and Bob took advantage of their vacation time to visit National Parks and historic sites in 37 states and many European countries, of which Italy was her favorite country and Sicily her favorite province. Bob drove and Janice was the navigator and tour guide. She liked nothing better than to read guide books and plan their trips.
In retirement Janice branched out. Janice loved her yard. She was especially proud of her copper beech tree and she actually enjoyed weeding and cutting her hedges because she said she could see immediate results. She joined the Literacy Volunteers of Milford where she spent countless hours preparing for her classes making sure she had a variety of activities planned to teach her students about American history, American English, our customs, politics, states, and literature. She was a member of the Milford-Orange AAUW and was currently in charge of publicity for the Friends of the Case Memorial Library in Orange. She was an avid reader, especially enjoying biographies of our 20th century presidents. Her vacations included visits to presidential libraries.
Janice forged a special friendship with two friends, Judy Grosso of Monroe and Phyllis Gwatkin of Orange. They were her “chosen sisters” who engaged in stimulating conversations, lots of laughs, visits to museums, lunches, and family dinners at holiday times. When they heard about her illness, they were there to support her, to care for her, and, ultimately, to prepare a service to celebrate her life. Janice also leaves her “adopted” Laotian-American family: Kate and Larry Nitirouth and her godson, Justin, of Boston and his brother Andrew of New York City; Vanhkham and Mone Lavarn, and their daughter, Christina; and Joy and Bob Pocobello, all of Wallingford.
A celebration of Janice’s life will be held on Friday, November 10 at 10:00 am at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT. Burial will follow at All Saints Cemetery, North Haven. During her brief illness, she was cared for by the Orange VNA, Live-In Advantage, and Opal Stork caregivers, and Hospice. Their compassionate and professional care made her last days peaceful. In lieu of flowers, donations are encouraged to the charity of your choice in Janice’s name.
Eric Furtado
Eric Furtado, 47, passed away on October 24, 2023 at his home in Milford CT. Eric was born on August 1, 1976 in Bridgeport CT to the late William and Lucille Furtado.
He found his calling as a DJ, known as “DJEricF”, specializing in the vibrant and pulsating beats of house music. He had a passion and boundless enthusiasm for music that brought him to Miami, New York City, and other cities where he would perform for cheering crowds.
Eric was not just a DJ; he was the life of the party and an infectious energy. When he wasn’t DJing, he enjoyed passing the time at home with his loyal sidekick, his pit bull Bruiser.
Eric is survived by his brother Scott Furtado and his nephew/godson Storm Furtado (Allie Smith). He is also survived by many close friends.
A Celebration of Life Gathering will be held on Thursday November 2, 2023 at the Cody-White Funeral Home (107 Broad St, Milford CT) from 5 to 8 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Eric’s honor to Stratford Animal Clinic.
Eric is being compassionately cared for my Cody-White Funeral Home.
Josephine F. Kilbride
Jo Kilbride, age 93, of New York City, beloved wife of the late Richard Kilbride entered peaceful rest on October 30, 2023.
She was born on April 4, 1930 in Detroit, Michigan and was the daughter of the late Thomas and Rachel (Vismara) Vanadia. Jo was an elementary teacher in both Detroit and San Diego, California and later worked for many years at Saks Fifth Avenue in Stamford, CT. She was an avid volunteer at the Stamford Museum and Nature Center, and was instrumental in developing and curating their initial “Country Store”. She was a lover of Broadway and enjoyed going to weekly Wednesday Matinees with her AAUW friends and also looked forward to her monthly luncheons with the “Sak’s Ladies.” The ladies were so well known they actually once were featured in the Stamford Advocate!
Jo is survived by her devoted daughters, Sam Utzler(Ryan) of Milford and Kathleen Hall (Stacy) five grandchildren, Nick, Julie, Francesca, Casey and Jack and three great grandchildren, Abel, Josephine and Nicole. She was predeceased by her sisters, Joanne Johnson and Mary Vanadia.
Services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Marie J. Kubanis
Marie Kubanis, 82 of Milford, CT passed at Saint Raphael’s hospital with her daughter by her side on November 7, 2023 – a month and a week before she would turn 83. She is survived by her daughter, Katie Auger (Pat), granddaughter Violet Auger, and sister Carol Maselli – all of Milford. She also leaves behind quite a crew of cousins scattered across CT. Marie joins her parents, aunts, uncles, cousins and beloved nephew Matthew up in Heaven. All services will be private.
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Mary Jane Murray
Mary Jane Murray, 85, longtime resident of Milford, beloved wife of the late William J. Murray Sr, passed away on November 5, 2023. Born on October 13, 1938 in Atlasburg, PA, she was the daughter of the late Mary Magdalen and Bartley F. McManus, Sr.
Mary Jane spent her childhood in Footedale, PA as a proud coal miner’s daughter. She and her husband Bill married in 1958 and moved to CT a year later. They ultimately put down roots in Milford where their family continued to grow. Mary Jane was known as Mom to so many more than her own children. She was an amazing, caring and giving woman. She was a wonderful cook, baker and gardener. She was especially known for her homemade sauce and meatballs served every Sunday, where anyone was welcome to join. She made the most delicious homemade pies and loved to add flower beds in her yard wherever there was room. Mary Jane was very involved with her childrens’ activities in scouting, little league and PTA.
Her legacy is her family, which was the most important part of her life. She was a devout catholic and a Eucharistic Minister for years at Christ the Redeemer Church where many parishioners enjoyed her stylish Sunday outfits. She was much loved by her co-workers for many years at New England Controls where she ran the shop floor before becoming the purchasing agent. After her retirement, she enjoyed traveling with her family and friends. She frequented Milford Senior Center ceramics where she made countless family heirlooms. She was an avid walker, seen daily walking the Milford Green and Joyce Court. She continued walking in her assisted living facility with her big smile and laugh. The family would like to thank the caring staff at Meadow Mills Assisted Living & Memory Care, especially the lovely Emily, Vesta and Phyliss, who cared for and loved her like family for the last 3 years.
Mary Jane is survived by her children, Karen (Donald) Nemeth, William (Dawn) Murray Jr., Michael Murray, Colleen (Wayne) Zacarelli, and Kathleen (Craig) Kilian; daughters-in-law, Lauren Murray and Beth Murray. She was predeceased by her son Dennis Murray.
She also leaves behind her loving grandchildren; Donald (Mandy) Nemeth Jr., Shannon (Eddie) Clarke, Sean (Jessica) Nemeth, Katelynn (Ryan) Clark, William (Erin) Murray, Hayley (Ashley) and Michael Murray, Dennis (Natalie) Murray, Lauren (Mathew) Wlodarski, Courtney Murray, Amber (James) Hickey, Alyssa (Robert) Callahan, Stephen Cretella, Patrick, Matthew (Carina) and Jenna Zacarelli, Sarah and Emily Kilian; great grandchildren, Adeline, Andrãs, Madison, Beau, Ellie, Austin, Wake, Cora, William, Gabriel, Payton, Violet, Jack, Greyson, Brogan, Anneliese, Emma, Charlie, James, and Frankie; and many extended family and friends. She was also predeceased by her 16 brothers and sisters, Magdalene, George, Kathryn, Bartley Jr., Henry, Marcella, William, Walter, Clara, Kasimere, Bernard, Bernice, Marie, Joseph, Thomas and Bartley III.
Friends and family are invited to gather from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Friday, November 10, 2023 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, November 11, 2023 at 9:30 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Rd., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to MJ’s team – Alzheimer’s Association Greater New Haven Walk.
Beryl Swire Novitch
Beryl Swire Novitch passed away on Nov. 9th in West Palm Beach, FL at the age of 86 after a nine-year battle with Alzheimer’s. She is survived by her husband of 63 years, Howard, and her three sons Michael, Lawrence, and Peter. She was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut to Esther and Max Swire. The family located to Orange, Connecticut where they lived for 45 years.
Beryl graduated from the University of New Haven and received a master’s degree in forensic science. Beryl worked for the Connecticut State Police in forensics lab with Dr. Henry Lee for 2 decades.
After retirement, Beryl volunteered at the Orange Public Library and Books for the Blind. She was an active member of the Congregation Or Shalom Synagogue. Beryl’s last years were spent as a resident of MorseLife Memory Care unit, West Palm Beach, FL.
Funeral Services will be held at Cong. Or Shalom, 205 Old Grassy Hill Rd., Orange on THURSDAY Nov. 16th at 12: noon with interment to follow in Beth Israel Cemetery, Orange. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven is in care of Arrangements. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit; www.shurefuneralhome.com.
Carol Ann Peterson
Carol Ann Peterson, 72 of Orange, CT (formerly of Hopewell Junction and Hyde Park, NY) passed away peacefully on October 30, 2023, surrounded by her loving family after a courageous fought battle with early-onset Alzheimer’s Disease. Born in Bayshore, NY on August 24, 1951, and raised in Sayville, NY she was a daughter of the late Francis “Frank” and Marie Virginia “Ginny” (nee Cowhig) Peterson. She was a 1970 graduate of Sayville High School and then went on to study at Suffolk Community College. In addition to her parents, Carol was predeceased by her brother, Arthur Peterson and her brother-in-law, Charlie Geyer. She is survived by her two children who will miss her dearly: Kristen Bailey Coletta (husband, Luciano) of West Haven, CT; and Daniel Bailey (wife, Barbara) of Charleston, SC; and her three cherished grandchildren: Gavin Bailey, Declan Bailey and Alessia Coletta. Additionally, she leaves behind her three loving sisters: Ginny Geyer, of East Meadow, NY; Barbara Whittall of East Patchogue, NY; Elaine Thyberg (husband, Michael) of Blue Point, NY; and her brother, Frank Peterson (wife, Diane) of West Babylon, NY. Carol is also survived by several nieces and nephews and great-nieces and nephews whom she adored. Carol’s greatest joy was spending time with family and her closest friends. In addition to her family and closest friends, Carol loved many things throughout her life. She treasured her yearly trip to her favorite small beach town of Sebastian, FL, she loved family vacations in Schroon Lake and Saranac Lake, scenic drives along the CT shoreline, and leaf-peeping in the fall. She also enjoyed walking outdoors, she was an avid reader and found solace and inspiration within pages of countless books of various genres, relaxing pitter-patter sounds of the rain falling outside, she had a love for music and dance, she enjoyed playing card games such as UNO and Gin, and always loved Aunt Marion’s Pecan Pie. Carol was a person of great faith. It was her faith that was her everlasting source of strength throughout her debilitating illness that she faced with dignity and grace. Thank you, Mom, for guiding us with your inspiring example of courage, faith, compassion, resilience, and love. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Maplewood at Orange caregivers and support staff and Constellation Health Services for the compassion and dignity shown to Carol.
Family and Friends are invited to go directly to St. Mary’s Church of St. John Bosco Parish, 731 Main Street, Branford on Friday morning, November 17th at 11:00 to attend a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that friends please consider memorial contributions to the Alzheimer’s Association, 200 Executive Blvd., Suite 4B, Southington, CT 06489 or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, P.O. Box 50, Memphis TN 38101-9929. The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue, North Haven have been entrusted with the arrangements.www.northhavenfuneral.com.
Russell Pisacane
Russell Pisacane, 51, of Milford, passed away on October 24, 2023. Born on April 5, 1972, in Milford, Connecticut, he was the son of the late Carl and Sharon (Southard) Pisacane.
Russell “Rusty” was a beautiful, kind, gentle soul who will be remembered for his love for all and the ability to talk and become instant friends with everyone he met. Growing up he loved his family vacations to Disney World, Lake George, and Myrtle Beach. Russell loved with his whole heart and never met a stranger who didn’t become an instant friend. Affectionately nicknamed the “Mayor”, by many who knew and loved him. Russell had a positive outlook on life, and he sang and danced his way through the day. He always ended every single conversation with saying, “I love you, god bless, and have a great day”.
Russell is survived by his loving brother Donald (Jessica) Pisacane and sister Karen (Mark) Robinson. In addition, Russell will be lovingly missed by his many nieces and nephews, Ryan, Josh, Ava, Olivia, Jimmy, Justin and Lexi.
A gathering of family and friends will take place on Tuesday November 21, 2023, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at the Cody White Funeral Home, 107 broad Street Milford, Connecticut 06460.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Robert Paul Rosa Sr.
Robert Paul Rosa Sr, “Bob”, passed away peacefully on November 4, 2023. Bob was born on December 12, 1933 in Stamford, CT to the late Paul and Anna Rosa. He was the beloved husband of Eleanor Rosa, whom he joins in heaven.
Bob proudly served his country in the United States Army as a radio specialist during a time when his expertise and dedication were greatly needed. Professionally, Bob was an accomplished accountant, primarily working with law firms. His meticulous attention to detail and analytical skills made him an invaluable asset in the financial world.
An active and dedicated member of the St. Agnes Church in Milford, his strong faith led him to become a Eucharistic minister, where he found great fulfillment in serving his fellow parishioners and spreading the message of love and compassion. Bob was deeply involved in the Milford community, where he was a proud member of the Republican Town Committee.
Bob is survived by his three beloved children: Margaret Rosa, Robert Rosa Jr. (wife Laura), and Elisabeth Rosa. Six grandchildren: Brad Rosa, Robert Lockwood, Ryan Lockwood, Kyle Rosa, Katelynn Rosa, and Lindsey Rosa. Two great grandchildren: Bradley Jr. and Ayden. Three honorary great grandchildren: Madaleine, Nora and Ryker. Sister-in-law Margaret McDonald, niece Ellyn, niece Suzanne and niece Elizabeth. As well as many additional beloved family and friends. Bob is predeceased by his brother Paul Rosa Jr.
A Visitation will be held on Thursday November 9th, 2023 at Cody-White Funeral Home (107 Broad St., Milford CT 06460) from 5 to 8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial is to be held on Friday November 10, 2023 at St. Agnes Church (400 Merwin Ave, Milford, CT 06460, PLEASE MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH) 10:30 a.m. with Interment to follow at Kings Highway Cemetery in Milford CT.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his honor to either Parkinson’s Foundation www.parkinson.org or Mozaic Senior Life www.mozaicsl.org .
Bob is being compassionately cared for by Cody-White Funeral Home. To light a candle or leave a condolence in his memory please continue to the Tribute Wall tab.
Troy Ruff
Troy Douglas Ruff passed away on November 3, 2023, at his home in Stratford CT. He was the loving husband of Carmen Ruff. Troy was born November 9, 1964, in Bridgeport CT to Robert and Elizabeth (Blake) Ruff.
He was the fourth of seven children. He will be greatly missed by his brothers Robert Ruff Jr (Dina Glantz) of Stratford, Kenneth (Debra) of Milford, David (Shelly) of Fuquay Varina NC, Trent of Beacon Falls, Todd (Ronnie Mendoza) of Austin TX, and his sister Elizabeth Guidone (Raymond) of Wallingford Ct. Having so many siblings, afforded him the ability to always have enough kids for a game of football, kick the can, or hide and seek in their Milford neighborhood. He was always out until way passed dark simply playing and enjoying life.
Troy leaves behind his sons, Troy Thomas Ruff (Mia Marchitto) of East Haven, Brandon (MaryKate) of Milford, his daughter Katelynn Ruff-Fuentes (Michael) also of Milford, and his step kids Xiomara, David (Brenda), and Yahir. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Troy is predeceased by his father Robert Ruff Sr.
Troy was fiercely proud of each of his children. He loved celebrating their accomplishments. When they were young, he enjoyed watching Troy play baseball, Katelynn excel in softball, and Brandon in high school football. Troy loved cheering on the Giants and the Yankees.
His children, now adults have continued to grow his cherished family. His grandchildren Avery, Giovanni, Arianna, Isabella, Zury, Jensuel brought him so much joy and laughter.
Troy also enjoyed being outdoors. As an adult he thoroughly enjoyed spending time riding his Harley with Carmen until the coldest days of winter. Ever the problem solver he then switched to his snowmobile. He loved speed be it driving around in his Corvette or simply watching NASCAR. Never one to sit idle he was constantly. He had a tremendous work ethic, excelling at every job he ever had. He worked hard and played hard. Troy also loved vacations with Carmen, going to Puerto Rico, Aruba, and Florida.
Troy was kindhearted and funny. He loved to make others laugh be it with corny jokes or using silly voices. He had an infectious smile and was always among the first to offer a helping hand.
Friends and family are invited to gather on Friday, November 10, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. There will be a celebration of life get together at a later date.
Howard William Seat Jr.
Howie lived most of his life in Bridgeport and the past three years in Milford. Howie is survived by his sister Pamela (Kirk) Pieper of St. Louis, MO, nephew Peter Perez, niece Erin Pieper, great-niece Felicia, great-nephew Elijah, cousins Linda Fuller, Albert Bachleda, Doreen Dortenzio and many close, dear friends. Howie graduated from St. Ann’s School, Bridgeport, Fairfield Prepatory High School and attended Housatonic Community College. Three of his major careers were with Bunko Ramo, The United Way and Sikorsky Aircraft, which he retired from several years ago. Howie truly embraced his community and had a strong presence with Local 1150. A huge accomplishment was his vision to grow interest in Unions and working with the AFL-CIO, Howie pioneered one of the largest and most successful High School Internship Programs of its kind in the country “Career Pathways Internship”. The program has been in place over 20 years and has resulted in more than 500 interns being hired on full-time. Howard is still honored each year at Commencement Dinner.
Howard had an enormous heart and a smile that brought pure joy to anyone lucky enough to be in his presence. He was generous, loyal and brave. Very knowledgeable in many categories of life’s experiences and an avid reader. He truly loved his family and friends and if knew him, you knew it.
A Celebration of Life was attended by his family and friends at The SS Norden Club in Black Rock on Aug. 13, 2023. Per Howard’s request, he was cremated by Nutmeg State Cremation Society in Stamford, CT. He will be missed dearly.
Pauline Vargoshe
Pauline Vargoshe, 85, beloved wife of the late Stephen Vargoshe, passed away on October 30, 2023. Born on February 21, 1938 in Bridgeport, she was the daughter of the late Susie and Frank Suchara.
Pauline was a true adventurer at heart; she had a deep passion for traveling and exploring new places. Her strength, kindness, compassion, and adventurous spirit will live on. She loved to dance, listen to her favorite music, and try her lady luck at the casino, cards, and bingo. Everyone who knew Pauline knows dessert is the most important meal of the day. Above all else, Pauline treasured time with her family and friends. She will forever be missed.
Pauline is survived by her loving daughter, Cindy (Vargoshe) Vassilowitch and Steve Cooper, and cherished granddaughter, Ashley Vassilowitch and Coury Brown. She will rest eternally with her grandson, Jonathan Vassilowitch and her husband, Stephen Vargoshe. She is also predeceased by her siblings, Margie Rohlman, Mary Slee, Ann Costello, Helen Mastroni, and Frank Suchara, She also leaves behind her goddaughter – niece, Linda Stasko, as well as her nieces and nephews, Paul, Rosemary S., late Diane, Suzanne, Janet, Cliff, Rosemary M.,William, Ronnie, and Susan, along with many great-nieces and nephews. Her family is forever grateful for the wonderful friendships and caring people where she lived, Smithfield Gardens.
Friends and family are invited to gather on Monday, November 6, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, November 7, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. at Our Lady of the Assumption Church, 81 Center Rd., Woodbridge, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. Memorial contributions may be made to the CT Humane Society, Disabled American Veterans, and Parkinson’s Disease Foundation.
Betty Jane Vodola
Betty Jane Vodola, 77, of Milford, Connecticut, beloved wife of the late David Pond Vodola passed away on November 6, 2023. Born on December 3, 1945, in Bridgeport, Connecticut she was the daughter of the late Walter and Dorothy (Ettinger) Lawrence.
Betty grew up the second of four children on North Avenue in Stratford, CT. After graduating from Bunnell High in 1962 she attended secretarial school and worked as an administrative assistant in many major corporations including Sikorsky Aircraft. She practiced “short-hand” and could type 92 words a minute. Betty was not only astute, and business minded, but classically beautiful. She attended modeling school in Bridgeport in the mid-60’s. She was the petite, vivacious “girl-next-door”. A natural competitor, she won runner-up as Miss Connecticut in the Miss U.S.A competition.
She met her husband of 50 years at Danny’s Drive-in in Stratford. David was so taken by her that he dove into the back of Betty’s friend’s car as it was leaving the parking lot. They married when she was 21. Three years later they were blessed with a daughter whom they named Wendy.
She was huge animal lover, good cook, and had a “green-thumb”.
Their life was full & happy with many friends and family.
Betty is behind her beloved daughter Wendy Vodola Cahill and precious grandchildren Cole and Hailey Cahill. She is also survived by her siblings: Nancy Gray, Faith Lawrence, Daniel Lawrence and favorite sister-in-law, Debbie Fountas.
The last 4 years of her life Betty was fortunate to be in the loving care of nurse’s aide Janet Amoah and her sister Yaa Prempeh. The compassion they exhibited to Betty was the same they afforded their own mother.
A memorial service will be held in her honor Sunday, November 12 at 4pm in Milford at Woodmont United Church of Christ, 1000 New Haven Avenue.
Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association or Connecticut Hospice.
The Vodola Family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.