Lucille A. Bozelko
Lucille A. Bozelko, age 85, of Orange passed away peacefully at CT Hospice on August 28, 2023. For 57 years, she was the loving wife of the late William J. Bozelko, Jr. Lucille was born in Brooklyn, NY, daughter of the late Francis “Frank” and Catherine McHale Abt. She is survived by her adoring children, Wendy Hoffman & her husband Peter, Wylie Bozelko (Yael Benoit), and Whitney Shanley & her husband PJ, and her cherished grandchildren, Peter Hoffman, Matthew Hoffman, Caitlyn Shanley and Colleen Shanley. In addition to her husband and parents, Lucille is predeceased by her son William J. Bozelko III and her siblings William Abt and Mary Abt. For many years, she was an active member of the Holy Infant Women’s Guild. Lucille volunteered numerous hours with the Hospital of St. Raphael and was a past President of High Plains PTA.
The hours for visitation will be held on Saturday from 9-10:30am at the West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Her funeral procession will leave the funeral home at 10:30 for a Mass of Christian Burial in Holy Infant Church at 11am. Interment will follow in Orange Center Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in her memory to the Holy Infant Women’s Guild 450 Racebrook Rd, Orange, CT 06477.
Geraldine E. Bruder
Geraldine E. Bruder of Milford, CT passed away after a short illness on Wednesday, August 23, 2023. She is survived by her loving husband of 59 years, John R. Bruder, Sr. She was born in Bridgeport, CT on November 21, 1940. She worked at Milford Hospital as a Unit Secretary for many years. Geraldine was a kind and loving person, who really enjoyed spending time with her kids, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She enjoyed cooking, fine dining, wine and her many trips to the casino. She was also a huge QVC fan and only did her shopping through them. She will be deeply missed by many.
Survivors include her three children, Karen Bruder of Milford, CT, John (Katherine) Bruder of Milford, CT, and Diane (Chris) Banks of Streetsboro, OH; one brother, Robert (Gunilla) Kettles of Fairfield, CT; four grandchildren, Sean (Samantha) Bruder of Beacon Falls, CT, Erik (Danielle) Bruder of Coventry, RI, Zachary Banks of Streetsboro, OH, Samantha (Danny) Giunto of Ravenna, OH; and three great grandchildren, Hayden Bruder, Emersyn Bruder, and Jameson Bruder; and also many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her sister, Joyce (Gary) Silverman, and her parents, John and Nellie Kettles. She was also recently predeceased by her beloved cat, Louie.
Geraldine wished to be cremated and per her request there will not be a traditional service, but a private memorial for close family and friends. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Heart Association on her behalf. GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford is honored to be entrusted with arrangements.
Richard J. Carey
Richard J. Carey, Jr., 75, of Milford, beloved husband of 50 years to Antoinette (Crocco) Carey, passed away on September 4, 2023. Born on February 18, 1948 in Bridgeport, CT, he was the son of the late Richard J. and Grace (DiBella) Carey, Sr.
In addition to his loving wife, Antoinette, Rick is survived by his children, Jennifer (Bryan) Weber and Rick (Tricia) Carey; his grandchildren, Grace Weber, Dante and Isabella Carey; his brother, Ronald Carey; his siblings-in-law, Anthony (Lee) Crocco, Jr., Brian (Elizabeth) Crocco, and Laurie Crocco; and his poodle, Bella. Rick was predeceased by his siblings, Marguerite Carey and Albert Carey.
Rick proudly served his country in the United States Air Force and was a member of the American Legion Post 196 in Woodmont. He also volunteered as a firefighter with Milford Fire Department at Station 5. Rick was a former member of the Planning and Zoning Board and later of the Board of Appeals. He was an active member of the Democratic Town Committee and within the Borough of Woodmont, where he was on the Board of Burgesses.
Rick’s storied career at United Technologies spanned 47 years before his retirement. During much of that time he can be found passing his knowledge to the students at Lincoln Tech.
Nothing was more important to Rick than his family. Extended family and friends filled the home during Christmas and New Years Eve. Vacations to Florida, Niagra Falls and Myrtle Beach were among the highlights. Summers were spent preparing fried dough at Doolittle Park for Woodmont Day and Fowler Field for the Oyster Festival. In Rick’s later years he could always be found supporting his grandchildren at gymnastics, football, softball and bring a veteran to school day.
Friends and family may call from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. on Sunday, September 10, 2023 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, September 11, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Agnes Church (Precious Blood Parish) 400 Merwin Ave., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment with Military Honors will follow at Mountain Grove Cemetery, 2675 North Ave., Bridgeport, CT.
Silio Costantini
Silio Costantini, 96, of Milford, beloved husband of Gaetana Violante Costantini, passed away on September 10, 2023. Born on March 30, 1927 in Porto Santo Stefano, Italy, he was the son of the late Luigi and Angelina Costantini. Silio was a veteran of the Italian Navy and became a skilled stone mason/brick layer building his first house on his father’s vineyard in Italy. He came to America, settled in Tarrytown, NY, married Gaetana, joined Bricklayers Local 27 and raised his three boys.
In his later years, Silio and his wife settled in Milford, CT where he enjoyed his retirement fishing, gardening, painting, cooking and entertaining his seven grandchildren with his silly crazy antics. It gave him great pride and enjoyment watching his three sons play soccer on the same team, and was always a constant on the sidelines until they were well into their sixties.
In the last almost two years, Silio and his treasured forty year old lemon tree, settled at Wesley Heights in Shelton, CT where he lived life to the fullest, making tons of friends, and emerging himself into all the activities they had to offer while frequently visiting with his great grandchildren.
Along with his wife, Silio is survived by his sons, Joseph Costantini, Angelo (Jane) Costantini, and Louis (Darlene) Costantini; grandchildren, Melissa (Matthew) Iacuone, Amanda (Edward) Larsen, Steven (Macie) Costantini, Julia (Michael) Raccio, Adam Costantini, Lindsay Costantini, and Lily Costantini; great grandchildren, Matthew, Benjamin, Jaxson, Zoey, Presley, Lucas, and one more on the way; as well as many extended family members and friends. He was predeceased by his siblings, Livio, Caterina, Emilio, and Alfiero.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to the kind and caring staff at Wesley Heights at Wesley Village, Shelton, for their compassionate care of Silio and Gaetana.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, September 15, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, September 16, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church(Our Lady Queen of the Apostles Parish), 212 Elizabeth St., Derby, CT 06418 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will take place at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Wesley Heights at Wesley Village.
Warren Edward Cullen Jr.
Born on December 28th, 1951 to Warren and Eleanore Cullen in New York City, Warren is survived by his three siblings Thomas Cullen of Williamsburg, Virgina, Eileen Davis of Nashua, NH, and Rainey Dul of Succasunna, NJ.
Warren lived most of his life in Connecticut, living in Milford, Bloomfield, and Newington before enjoying his last few years in Vero Beach, FL. He will be missed by all his friends and for all those lives he touched throughout his life.
In addition to being beloved from his friends in Connecticut and Vero Beach, Warren is survived by his three sons Ashley and his wife Angela Cullen of Vero Beach, FL, Joseph and his wife Sarah Cullen of West Haven, CT, and Michael and Lauren Cullen of Bloomfield, CT, along with three grandchildren Carter and Cash Cullen, and Fiona Eleanore Cullen and 10 nieces and nephews that he affectionately called “The Tribe.”
A memorial service will be held at the Milford Elks Club on September 9th, 2023, located 124 New Haven Avenue Milford, CT 06460 from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to VA Hospitals of West Haven, CT and/or VA Hospital of Newington, CT.
Laurena P. Dais
Laurena Pitt Dais was born on July 20, 1944 in Fountain, North Carolina. She is the daughter of the late David and Helen Pitt. Laurena graduated from Greene Central High School in Snow Hill, NC. She was the beloved wife of the late Leon Dais.
Laurena was a loving and caring mother, sister, and aunt who had a heart of gold. She loved her family dearly. She especially loved her grandchildren, and there was nothing she wouldn’t do for them. Laurena continued her education in Connecticut. She received her bachelor degree from the Southern University of CT. Laurena was a foster mother in which she loved and cared for every child that came into her home.
Laurena leaves to cherish her memory: her children, Bruce (Gina) Dais and Aaliyah Dais; six beautiful grandchildren, Taliyah, Paris, Tristan, Araya, Laylanie, and James Dais; sister, Menerva Rogers of Farmville, NC; and a host of nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Roosevelt Pitt, Jesse Pitt, Jason Pitt, Mable Foreman, Evelyn Pitt, Helen McMillar, and David Pitt.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, August 28, 2023 from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at First Baptist Church, 28 North St., Milford, CT 06460. A Funeral Service will begin at 1:00 p.m. that day at the church.
Frank J. D’Ostilio, Sr.
Frank was raised in Bridgeport and graduated from Central High School, Class of 1950, and served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. Upon his return, he studied business at the University of Bridgeport under the GI Bill. After graduation, he joined Schick Razor in Milford as a Cost Accountant and retired 33 years later as the Manager of the Accounting Department. Frank was instrumental in founding the Schick Golf League at Orange Hills Country Club, where he played for over 50 years. During retirement, he and Betty spent their winters as snowbirds in Naples and Fort Meyers, FL, and they spent the rest of the year at Oronoque Village in Stratford. When Betty became ill, Frank was her primary caregiver for over 10 years and managed Betty’s care with grace. He spent his free time enjoying his grandchildren, playing sports, closely following the Yankees and NY Giants, and cheering on the UCONN Huskies basketball teams. Pops, as he was fondly known to his family, was a loving husband, father, and grandfather. His family wishes to thank his dedicated caregivers, Rachel Matloporo and Lele Mompati, who provided him with loving care, as well as the entire staff at Maplewood Senior Living, Orange, where he resided for the last years of his life.
Frank is survived by his sons, Frank (Mary) D’Ostilio Jr. of Woodbridge and Robert (Alyssa) D’Ostilio of West Hartford, his grandchildren, Andrew, Mark, Chris, Luke, and Lily, his sister, Millie McBride of Trumbull, his brother, Father Silvio D’Ostilio of Bethel Park, PA, and many nieces and nephews.
Friends may call from 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. on Monday, August 21, 2023 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will immediately follow at 11:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Assumption Church, 81 Center Rd., Woodbridge, CT. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Susan L. Duffy
Susan Lorraine Duffy, 78, of Milford, passed away on September 11, 2023. Born on June 9, 1945 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late James J. and Lorraine (Preece) Duffy.
Susan graduated from Laurelton Hall with the class of 1963. She obtained her bachelor’s degree in education from Southern Connecticut State University and her master’s degree from Fairfield University. She also studied at Columbia University. Prior to her retirement, Susan taught first grade for the Milford School System for 35 years, originally at Walnut Beach School and later at Simon Lake and Calf Pen Meadow. She was loved by students and parents for being a caring, concerned teacher who formed friendships that continued beyond her first grade classroom.. She attended recitals, sporting events, graduations and even weddings of her former students. For many years after retiring, she was also a well-loved substitute teacher in several Milford schools.
In 1986, Susan and a group of individuals with OCD, founded the Obsessive-Compulsive Foundation in New Haven. Its mission was to educate, to provide assistance to individuals and their families, and to support research into causes and treatments. Susan attended many conferences in the US and Canada as a board member of the Foundation. She was always open and available to anyone looking for assistance with this disorder.
Susan’s wide circle of friends included her co-workers, her former students and their parents, and people she met anywhere she went. She was admired for making connections with people and never forgetting how she knew them. She once recognized a kindergarten classmate in an airport fifty years later! Susan loved to travel to Florida, the Caribbean, Europe, and especially Ireland. She found special joys going to the casino, scratching lottery tickets and eating a good cheeseburger.
Susan is survived by her family who lovingly cared for her: sister Kathleen (Patrick) Thibadeau; nephews, James (Jennifer) and Kevin (Susan); great nieces and nephews, Finn, Lorraine, Blake, and Anne; and many cousins, extended family members and friends. She very much appreciated the love and support of Margaret Glendon and Beth Maroney. Special thanks to Dr. Michael Cohenuram, Dr. Nicholas Blondin and their wonderful support staff. Additional thanks to the wonderful staff at Carriage Green for all they did and to Caring Hospice, especially Kitty.
Friends and family may call from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Thursday, September 14, 2023 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Friday, September 15, 2023 at Saint Gabriel Church (Saint Raphael Parish) 26 Broadway, Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Hole in the Wall Gang Camp at holeinthewallgang.org or Milford Food 2 Kids at milfordfood2kids.org.
Janet B. Field
Janet B. Field, 74, of Milford, beloved wife of Lori Field, passed away on August 24, 2023. Born on September 8, 1948, in Brookline, MA, she was the daughter of the late Fred and Margaret (Green) Ballantyne.
In addition to her loving husband, Janet is survived by her children, Kevin Field and Heather (Kevin) Pokornowski; her grandchildren, KJ, Hannah, Kyle, Keith, and Hayley; her sister, Alison (Dan) Keating; and several cousins, nieces and nephews. Janet was predeceased by her brother, Fred J. Ballantyne, Jr.
Janet was a lifelong resident of Milford and a graduate of Milford High School, Class of 1966. A longtime daycare provider at her home in Milford for over 35 years. A Past Worthy Advisor of Milford Assembly No.4, Rainbow for Girls; Past President of Milford DeMolay Mothers Club; and Member of the Orange Country Guild. She enjoyed antiquing, auctions, crafting, crocheting, gardening, baking, and afternoon tea with friends and family. A diehard Boston Red Sox fan in a house full of Yankees. She loved spending time with her grandchildren and family far and near. Always willing to lend a sympathetic ear with a chocolate chip cookie and was a second mother to many who crossed the threshold of her home.
Services will be celebrated with a private ceremony with close family & friends on Saturday, September 30, 2023, with a time to be determined. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Shriners Hospitals for Children at www.lovetotherescue.org To leave online condolences, please visit the tribute wall tab.
Alice A. Fox
Alice A. Fox, 101, passed away peacefully on August 30, 2023 at Connecticut Hospice in Branford, CT. Alice was born on August 23, 1922 in Bridgeport CT to the late James Fitzpatrick and Alice Moran Fitzpatrick.
Alice was a proud resident of Fairfield for the majority of her life, then living out the rest of her years in Milford CT with her daughter.
Alice is survived by her children: Betty Delgado of Florida, Gail Fox of Florida, Alice Cavallaro of Milford CT, Colleen Glover (Tim) of Oxford CT, James Fox (Eileen) of Bridgeport CT, Peter Fox of Colorado, and Kevin Fox (Elizabeth) of Milford CT. As well as 16 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren. She is predeceased by her son Michael D. Fox, son John G. Fox Jr, son in-law Juan Delgado and six siblings.
Alice was a devoted daughter, sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend. She took true pride in her Irish heritage and that her parents were Irish immigrants. Alice retired in 1992 as a physical therapy aide in Fairfield, CT. She enjoyed crocheting, her pet cats and listening to Kenny Roger and Elvis. She was known for her keen mind and sense of humor. The entire family will cherish the memories of gathering around her kitchen table as her door was always open. She was lovingly referred to as “Gram” by her grandchildren and “GG” to her great grandchildren, whom will all truly miss her.
Alice’s family would like to extend a sincere thank you to the staff and doctors with Connecticut Hospice of Branford for their compassionate care of her. In lieu of flowers, donations in Alice’s memory can be made to Connecticut Hospice online at https://www.hospice.com/donate/
Private services are to be held by the family. Burial will take place on a future date.
Abraham Meller Goldin
Abraham, or Abe, was born in Bridgeport, CT on November 16, 1939 to the late Maurice and Pearl Goldin. His childhood was spent in Bridgeport in the Brooklawn area and he attended Bullard Havens Technical School. He was a printer most of his life and was very proud of it.
Abe was dearly loved by his wife, Estelle Goldin, daughter Sheila Sulkis (Michael), son Joshua Goldin (Pam), grandchildren Alexandra Goldin, Kathryn Goldin, Rachel Sulkis, and Zachary Sulkis
Graveside services at Workman’s Circle Cemetery, 250 Reid St, Fairfield, CT 06824 on Wednesday, September 6, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. presided by Abraham L. Green & Son Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at alz.org in his memory.
Roberta J. Holland
Roberta grew up in East Haven, to her parents, Joseph and Rosemary (Bohan) Mailhot (deceased). Her surviving siblings include her older sister Gail Bartelli and husband Ed Bartelli, brother Steven, brother Matthew and wife Annie, and several nieces and nephews. Being the youngest sibling in a predominately Irish Catholic family, and having more liberties than the other siblings, she became affectionately and forever called “The Brat”, and the love of their lives. She was very active in Drum Core (The Connecticut Classics) for many years traveling around the country and Canada with her bother Matt, family in tow.
At the age of 16 she started working at Sears in Orange where she made many lifelong friends. On a late summer day in 1984 she was covering in the employee café when she met her future husband (and love of her life) Dan Holland. In order to see him more frequently, she pretended she needed his help with school work; even though she was the smart one. They dated for two years before getting married on Sept. 20, 1986. They had two boys, Steven and Alex who loved her very much.
Roberta received a data processing degree from Greater N.H. State Tech and continued to work towards her B.S., and then earn a master’s degree in IT Security at night. Meanwhile she worked at the University of New Haven, Aetna, SNET, Dana Engine Management, Bayer, Webster Bank, and the Knights of Columbus. Most recently she worked as a Senior Digital Forensics Examiner at the FBI in New Haven finding evidence in cell phones, cars, computers, and other electronics. She loved what she did and became an instructor to share her knowledge with others.
In November of 2019, her son Steven and his wife Zoe had a baby girl, Olivia; Roberta became Grammy, and could not get enough of her beautiful granddaughter. Though they were five hours away, she visited as often as she could, and did all those things grandmothers love to do. When she wasn’t working, she enjoyed crafts, reading, knitting, gardening, Disney, and all things Pittsburgh, but most of all, she loved her family.
She was deeply loved and respected, and will be missed by many cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. Friends and family may call from 5 to 7 p.m. Friday, Aug. 25, at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. There will also be a service at 9:30 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 26, at the Church of the Good Shepard on Racebrook Road in Orange, followed by a private burial. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to any charity you like. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Susan M. Howard
Our beloved Mother, Susan Howard entered God’s Kingdom on August 17, 2023. Susan was born to Walter and Florence Kaczegowicz on December 9, 1954, who she now joins in Heaven.
Susan is survived by many loving family members including; her two daughters Rebekah and Rachel Howard, Father of their children Gregory Howard, Jr., and her seven brothers and sisters.
Susan was a beloved, cherished employee at the Connecticut Burn’s Care Foundation. When she took the time away from making us smile, she enjoyed cooking, gardening, and loving her dogs Lily, Gabriel, and Eden.
Services are being held privately.
Gail Lee Leiby
Gail Lee Leiby, 80, (February 1, 1943 – September 1, 2023) of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully in hospice. Gail was the beloved wife of the late George A. Leiby. She is survived by her three children Denice (Leiby) Simone, Dawn (Leiby) Quinn (James Quinn III), and Jeffery Leiby (Christine Leiby). She is also survived by her brother, Harry Lindberg (the late Mariellen Lindberg), her goddaughter, Lori Buskey along with her grandchildren, Anthony Simone, Caroline Quinn, Ryan Leiby, Samantha Leiby, and great-grandchildren, Ava and Oliver Simone.
Gail loved spending time with her family and friends; her door was always open as her home was a special place filled with warmth and laughter. She enjoyed basking in the sun, floating in her pool, playing cards, and watching the New York Yankees and UCONN Huskies. Many remember her as the woman who helped them find a special occasion dress as she managed Josie Bridal Salon in Westport and Milford, CT. She retired from American Frozen Food in Milford, CT. She will always be remembered as the Mom with the long blonde hair and the beautiful blue eyes.
Gail will be deeply missed by her family and friends but will continue to guide those she loved and live in our hearts forever.
All services will be private. The family is being cared for by CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Donate – Connecticut Hospice online at www.hospice.com/donate.
Jean T. Lewis
Jean T. Lewis, 85, of Milford, passed away peacefully surrounded by love on August 29, 2023 after a battle with lung cancer. Born on November 29, 1937 in Bridgeport, she was the daughter of the late Elmer and Ella (Starkey) Muller. She previously resided in Stratford.
Jean had many attributes- she was a loving, thoughtful person who cared about others especially her family and friends. She was always willing to help, listen, or give advice. She had a dynamic personality with a great sense of humor, no filter, and was never afraid to speak her mind! Jean was kind, outgoing, creative, and spunky with a magnetic personality that drew people of all ages into her world. She was a devoted daughter, wife, mother, Auntie, Granny, and Great Granny who loved spending time with her large family. Jean had many dear friends and always celebrated life events and even random weekends with large gatherings.
Jean worked for many years as a waitress “slinging coffee cups” at the Bridgeport Flyer Diner. She enjoyed arts and crafts, and especially loved showing off her bedazzled clothing and shoes. Anything could become beautiful if Jean had a little glitter, her hot glue gun, and some lace. She was known for her extravagant holiday decorations with Christmas trees abound, hosting grand celebrations with home cooked food as well as lively pool parties. There was always room at Jean’s holiday table for an extra guest or four!
Jean was proud of her husband Al’s softball career with the Raybestos Cardinals and enjoyed watching him pitch. She also was a diehard New York Yankees Fan. She enjoyed time spent in the sun with her husband and friends onboard her boat, Spoof lll. Her Sunday morning ritual was listening to Italian House Party on AM Radio as she did her hair and makeup. Jean was a valuable keepsake collector and surrounded herself with music boxes, fairies, cardinals and angels, displaying her porcelain doll and figurine collection throughout her charming home with pride. Whether she was at the Germania Schwaben social club or her tropical-themed sunporch, Jean could often be found playing cards or Bingo and enjoying a meal with her companion Bill.
Jean is survived by her daughters, Linda (Jerry) Richter and Suzanne (James) Barber; special niece, Cindy (Bill) Jaques; grandchildren, Melanie, Michelle, Lauren, Joseph, and Cody; great nieces and nephew, Jeffrey, Jenn and Sandra; many great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; and loyal, caring neighbors, Gary Ruggerio and Ronald French.
She was predeceased by her spouse, Albert Lewis; former spouse, father of her children and most recently, her companion, William Moyar; brothers, Elmer (Ann) and Robert (Helen) Muller; along with several dear lifelong friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, August 31, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, September 1, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Name of Jesus Roman Catholic Church, 1950 Barnum Ave., Stratford, CT 06615 (meet directly at church). Burial will follow at Lakeview Cemetery, 885 Boston Ave., Bridgeport, CT 06610.
Matthew Mailhot
Matthew Mailhot, 65 of Milford passed away peacefully on September 9, 2023, at Touchpoints of Bloomfield.
Mat is survived by his wife Anne Mailhot of 37 years, daughters Kayly Beitler (Ryan) and Dana Mailhot (Dave Szilagyi) , a sister Gail Bartelli (Ed), a brother Steven Mailhot, sisters-in-law Charlene Riling and Kate O’Boyle, Wendy Riling, mother-in-law Ann Riling, cousins, and several nieces and nephews. He was pre-deceased by his parents Joseph and Rosemary (Bohan) and his sister Roberta Holland.
Mat grew up in East Haven, CT. As a teenager he was very active in the Drum Corp (The Connecticut Classics), travelling the country with his sister Roberta in numerous parades and performances in the United States and Canada. He was a die-hard New York Yankees fan, and proud of his Irish Heritage. Mat was a hard worker as evidenced from his position of master machinist in the lighter division at BIC for 19 years, a job which he truly enjoyed. Mat was a proud member of the “The United Steelworkers of America Local 134L”. It was at BIC where Mat met his wife Anne, whom he would marry in 1986.
The family would like to thank the staff at Hartford Healthcare Hospice, Touchpoints of Bloomfield, and Bridgeport Hospital for their care and compassion. In addition, the family would also like to thank Bridges of Milford for the years of support they provided to Mat and the family.
Mat was dearly loved and will be missed by his family, cousins, nephews, nieces, friends, former BIC colleagues, and neighbors. He is now at rest with his parents and sister Roberta.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, September 15, 2023 from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Burial will follow at Saint Lawrence Cemetery, 280 Derby Ave, West Haven, CT 06516. In lieu of flowers, the family asks donations be made in Matthew’s memory to either Bridges Healthcare or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Anne Morin
Anne M. Morin of Milford passed away peacefully on 24 August 2023. She was the beloved wife of 57 years to Robert B. Morin, as well as devoted mother to two children. Anne lived most of her life in Milford, but as a child, she lived some of her time in New York City with her grandmother and uncle. She was the eldest of six children born to Italian immigrants, Antonio and Rosalia Giardino.
As the product of a generation that didn’t see many women in upper management roles, Anne was employed with the Connecticut State Labour Department as an employment interviewer and then as a supervisor of personnel services for Norden-Ketay Corporation (now known as Norden Systems) in the former Milford office. However, she left her professional work life behind to focus on raising a family and making her children a primary focus during their formative years.
Anne was actively involved in a variety of volunteer civic duties. At the request of then Milford Mayor Joel Baldwin, she served as commissioner for the Milford Civil Service Commission. She also volunteered for the Milford Council for the Aged, the Milford Conservation Commission, and devoted hours as a social volunteer at Milford Hospital. In her earlier years, she tapped into her artistic skills by volunteering to teach drawing and painting to handicapped persons in Milford.
Anne’s personal interests in her younger years included tournament level tennis, archery, and horseback riding. And for much of her life, she enjoyed learning and excelling at organic pesticide-free gardening, growing fruits and vegetables at home, which supplemented year-round supplies using traditional canning and blanching techniques. Later in her life, Anne also enjoyed learning ballroom dancing with her husband, which provided much social interaction filled with laughter and togetherness with other dancers.
Anne’s distinctive talent in drawing and painting started in early childhood, and continued and flourished throughout her life. After graduating from Hunter College (City University of New York), she studied art at Paier College of Art in Hamden, Fairfield University, Silvermine Arts Center in New Canaan, as well as earning another degree from the University of New Haven, whilst simultaneously raising her children. She also improved her artistic skills using self-taught methods and attended many local workshops. Anne also took annual retreats to the artist colony seaside village of Rockport, Mass, a beloved holiday destination she shared with her family. Her artistic talents spanned many mediums, including pastels, watercolours, acrylic and oil-based painting. She earned numerous awards and nominations for her entry into various local art show exhibitions, including the Milford Fine Arts Council, the Connecticut Classic Arts, the Society for Creative Arts in Newtown, all of which she was an active member, and the Milford Art League, of which she was also a former president. Her artwork was frequently displayed during exhibitions at the Firehouse Gallery in Devon.
In addition to her deep love and devotion to family and friends, Anne was forever grateful for the gifts of a sense of humour, her love of the arts, and a lifelong spirituality. She is predeceased by her husband, Robert, as well as her one sister and four brothers. She is survived by her son, Zain Morin, of Berkeley, California, and daughter, Jane Morin of Charlotte, North Carolina, and several nieces and nephews.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, September 11, 2023 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, September 12, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf St., Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Burial will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford.
Angelina Mosher
Angelina (Angie) Mosher, 89, of Orange, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on August 20, 2023. Born in New Haven on June 21, 1934, a daughter of Louis and Susie Mongillo DelBuono, Angie is survived by her loving son John (Dorine) Mosher III; grandson David (Shannon) Mosher; great grandsons David Mosher, Jr. and Aiden Mosher; sister Carmella “Carol” (Richard) Coughlin; brother-in-law Jack Pragano; niece Kim (Paul) Paprocki; nephew Richard Coughlin; many other nieces and nephews; and numerous long-time friends in Florida. In addition to her parents, Angie was preceded in death by her husband John Mosher, Jr. and her brother, Simon “Sam” DelBuono.
Raised in New Haven, Angie worked as a secretary for Milford Automatics for many years. After retiring, she moved to Orange City, Florida, whereby she claims to have spent the best thirty-four years of her life. She loved the hot temperatures, gossiping around the community pool, music, dancing, eating out, and enjoying her active social life. She took in concerts, plays, day trips with her friends, and countless activities in the retirement community where she lived. She made many, many close and long-lasting friendships both in Connecticut and Florida. Angie loved to dress up, always coordinated her outfits and never wore the same thing twice. She was the happiest among her friends and family, so much so that her family lovingly referred to her as “The Gypsy,” as she was rarely home.
Arrangements were entrusted to West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Calling hours will be held on Monday, August 28, from ten to eleven o’clock, at which time her memorial service will commence in the funeral parlor. Interment will follow in Orange Center Cemetery.
You may offer an online condolence or share a memory by visiting www.westhavenfuneral.com.
Richard E. Niper
Richard E. Niper, age 76 of Milford, passed away Monday, August 28, 2023. Richard was born in Bridgeport on July 1, 1947, to the late James and Mary (Titus) Niper. Richard proudly served in the US Air Force earning the rank of Sergeant, he was stationed at Edwards Air Force Base, CA and Kimpo Air Base, Seoul, Korea. Richard worked at Raymark Industries with many of his family and finally Blase Manufacturing Co before retiring several years ago. Richard was part of a close-knit family and his dedication to his sister, Lola Jane, was insurmountable to the end. He was always willing to lend a hand to anyone.
Richard was an avid deer hunter, yearly family trips were always eagerly anticipated. He enjoyed family gatherings, coffee with Al, Sunday dinners, and a good screwdriver. Richard was loved by so many and gave us all memories to keep him close. Survived by two sisters: Lola Jane Wakeley of Milford and Diana Lee Flanagan (Daniel) of Nebraska, a brother: Allen Niper (Janet) of Milford; nephews and nieces: James Niper III (Carolyn), Susan Schmersal (Erik), David Flanagan (Sara), Allen Niper II (Stacy), Andrew Niper (Lauren) and great nephews and nieces: Luther, Logan, and Allen Niper III, Natalie and Emily Schmersal and Molly Flanagan. Richard is predeceased by his brothers: Luther Niper, HN James Niper Jr, USN, twin Robert Niper, sister: Betty Lou Niper, brother-in-law Howard Wakeley, and nephew Luther Niper.
Friends and family are invited to call on Saturday September 2nd from 8:30 a.m. – 10:00 a.m. with a Funeral Service to follow at 10:00 am in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Interment with full military honors will follow in Lakeview Cemetery, Bridgeport. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Alzheimer Foundation.
Ernest Pepe
Ernest Pepe, 77, of Milford, passed away on August 30th, 2023 surrounded by his loving family. Born on June 19th, 1946, he is the beloved husband to Elaine (Sebas) Pepe.
Ernie has been an inspiration to his family long before it was conceived, through stories of how he grew up into the amazing husband, father, & ‘Grampy’ that they love so much.
The eldest of three brothers, as young boy Ernie was diagnosed with Polio, but he also dreamed of being an athlete. He was told by doctors he may gain the ability to walk again, but that the pain would most likely not allow him the strength to play sports.
But even as a child, Ernie was a shining example of what hard work, determination, & commitment to your goals can achieve. Not only did Ernie succeed at his dream to become an athlete, but he quickly rose to the title of Captain on nearly every team he became a part of. With a passion for soccer, baseball, & especially football, he was a natural born leader, valuing the heart of a player as much as their skill; which would lead him later in life to his true calling as the affectionately titled, ‘Coach Pep’.
Ernie graduated from Milford High School in 1966, & completed his education at Sacred Heart University. He then met Elaine Sebas, who would later become Mrs. Pepe, & celebrate over 51 years of marriage together. A devoted husband & family man, Ernie never missed a moment with the next loves of his life; his two daughters’, Cindy & Cheryl Pepe. He was then blessed with two grandchildren, Samantha Pepe & Tyler Stanko; who he spoiled, loved, & support like no one else.
Ernie was always a ‘numbers guy’; his brilliant mathematical mind & affinity for numbers helped him to hold a lengthy career as a successful accountant for Fairfield based General Electric (over 16 years), following an even more successful career as a top financial advisor; running his own business with Primerica Financial. Even in his leisure, Ernie rarely missed a morning without sitting in his armchair to complete his daily Sudoku, keeping his mind sharp.
Ernie was first dubbed the title of ‘Coach’ when his younger brother Brett was trying out for little league. There was simply too many kids interested in playing & rather than turning them away, Ernie was asked if he would become the head coach of a second team; & the rest was history! Ernie loved the kids he coached as much as his own family, & put in over 50 years with the Packers, Jonathan Law, & Foran football teams, even coaching his own grandson his freshman year! On October 23rd he was even honored at the Foran High School field by the Mayor of Milford, for his 50 year tenure stretch, post the announcement of his retirement. Ernie just couldn’t say goodbye to the kids, so he continued to coach awhile after.
When you think of Ernie, the many lives he touched, the following quote comes to mind: “Sometimes a winner is just a dreamer, who just won’t quit.” – Rudy (The film)
In addition to his beautiful wife Elaine (Sebas) Pepe, Ernie is survived by his mother, Trudy Assunto; his two brothers; Brett & Tony Assunto (Terry Assunto), eldest daughter, Cheryl Pepe (Rick Allred); two loving grandchildren, Samantha Pepe (Bryan Creevy) & Tyler Stanko (Haley Walters); as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, & dear friends. Ernie was predeceased his youngest daughter as well as his father, Cynthia (Cindy) Pepe & Tony Assunto.
A gathering of friends and family will take place on Friday, September 8th, 2023 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME 107 Broad St., Milford, CT 06460. Internment will be private.
Joseph Pippa
Joseph Pippa, , 88 of Milford, beloved husband of Ruth (Burgos) Pippa, passed away on September 1 , 2023 . Born on December 4, 1934 in Mount Vernon , NY.
Joe owned and operated Vari Fasteners Inc. for many years before retirement. In his leisure time, he loved to be on the golf course, especially Mill River Country Club in Stratford, where he was an active member. He also loved to be on the water fishing with his family on the Long Island sound or at Indian Field Campground on Gardner Lake taking his family water skiing. The Great Joe Pippa, as many of his friends and family called him , simply lit up any room he was in.
He was avid fan of the New York Giants , he had season tickets and brought the family to many games . He was very fortunate to have witnessed all four of their super bowls. Joe was born with polio and spent a large portion of his childhood in and out of hospitals. He never once used that as an excuse but only as motivation to succeed in anything he did in life. He was an extremely successful business man, owning & operating an aerospace hardware distribution company , Vari Fasteners Inc in Milford.
He was a wonderful husband to his beautiful wife Ruth and the best father to his children.
He loved each and every one of his cherished grandchildren beyond belief.
He was an extremely special man and will be missed by every single person who was blessed to know him. Please rest easy and we will forever love you “THE GREAT JOE PIPPA!”
In addition to his loving wife, Ruth, Joe is survived by his children, Julianne (Michael) Dellipoali, Joby (Kelly) Pippa, David Pippa, and Daniel (Maxine) Dickey ; grandchildren, Max, Kiley, Aubrey, Emily, Julia, and Nicholas ; his brother, Charlie Pippa and extended special family Allison & John Slowikowski & their daughter Olivia .Joe was predeceased by his sister, Lorraine (Duke) Caruso, and sister-in-law, Maryanne Pippa.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, September 5, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Wednesday, September 6, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Burial will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford.
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Ricardo Manuel Ponce de Leon
Ricardo Manuel Ponce de Leon passed peacefully at home, surrounded by his family on Saturday August 19, 2023.
He was born in San Bernardo, Chile on September 25, 1928. Son of the late Manuel Ponce de Leon and Emma (Tapia) Ponce de Leon, Ricardo is survived by his loving wife, Ester (Magliona); his daughter, Eleonora (Ponce De Leon) VanEgghen, and her husband, Bob VanEgghen; son, Ricardo Ponce de Leon; sister, Aura Ponce de Leon; grandchildren, Susanna VanEgghen, Robert VanEgghen and wife Audra Bouffard; and his great grandson, Alexander VanEgghen. He is loved and will be missed by many more beloved nieces and nephews in Chile, friends, neighbors, extended family, and former coworkers. He was preceded by his dear sons, Orlando and Manuel Ponce de Leon.
Only surpassed by the love for his family, Ricardo was an accomplished sportsman, lover of soccer, and avid gardener. Despite never learning to swim, he loved spending time on the water while fishing on his son’s boat. He was cremated Friday, August 25, 2023. Services have been entrusted to Cody White Funeral Home.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday September 12, 2023 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. Interment will follow at St. Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave Milford CT 06460.
Linda T. (Teixeira) Ruzbarsky
Linda (Teixeira) Ruzbarsky, age 80, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Paul J. Ruzbarsky, Sr. entered peaceful rest on September 4, 2023.
She was the daughter of the late John and Marcelina (Goncalves) Teixeira and was born on September 26, 1942 in Bridgeport. Linda worked at AT Systems and formerly at Sikorsky Credit Union for many years before her retirement. Linda was passionate about cooking and making Christmas cookies. In her spare time, she loved to do arts and crafts, especially ceramics and was an avid reader, gardener and bird watcher. But most of all, Linda loved spending time with her family and spoiling her pets.
Linda is survived by her devoted sons, Paul J. Ruzbarsky, Jr. and his wife, Meladee and Mark A. Ruzbarsky and his wife, Kimberly, four grandchildren, who lovingly referred to her as “Boa Boa” Paul, III and Megan Ruzbarsky and Mason and Nathan Ruzbarsky all of Milford. She also leaves her brother, Edward “Eddie” Teixeira (Donna), Ronald “Ronnie” Teixeira (Victoria), and her nephew, who was more like a son, Orion Teixeira, and several nieces and nephews, Charlie Teixeira(Natalie), Orion, Jr., Chris, Matthew, Kristy, Rachel and Marcelina, Jay, Elizabeth and Robert. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her two brothers, John and Albert Teixeira.
Family and friends may call on Friday, September 15th, 2023 from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Committal will be private.
Toni Soderholm
Antoinette (Toni) Gertrude Soderholm, 80, passed away peacefully on September 6, 2023 at Carriage Green in Milford, CT. Toni was born on June 3, 1943 in Queens, NY to the late William and Charlotte Scheel. She was the beloved wife of the late Kai Erik Soderholm, with whom she joins in the afterlife.
As a young woman she did very well in school, and completed high school one year early, before moving on to Bellevue School of Nursing. She graduated in Bellevue School of Nursing in 1963 and became a pediatric nurse, due to her love of children. After this, she took further classes in NYU and also worked at William Paterson and Passaic County Community Colleges teaching other nurses. During this time, in 1965, she met Kai Soderholm, and they got married in June of 1966. Together they chose to move to a house in the woods in Stockholm, NJ in 1971, and had two children in the following two years.
Toni was a devoted mom, primarily staying home until both of her children started school. Then she became a school nurse at Lafayette Township School. Soon afterwards, she became a camp nurse at Silver Lake YMCA, giving her children the opportunity to enjoy full summers at this wonderful overnight camp. Toni was an incredibly caring mom throughout, with tremendous positive energy, openly encouraging her children to be the people they wanted to be. During these years, in addition to her work, she also helped other children in many ways, like volunteering as a school board member and a soccer coach.
Around 1995, Toni became a member of the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Sussex County (UUFSC), a church that fit her open-minded caring mindset, and continued her frequent volunteerism. After retiring in 2004, she traveled to dozens of countries and cruised the world with her husband and friends, passing through the arctic circle, equator and around Cape Horn on their many journeys. She also continued with UUFSC and frequently volunteered. In 2010 she was determined to be the Senior of the Year by a Knights of Columbus council, and in 2012 was determined to be one of the 12 Outstanding Senior Citizens of Sussex County at the New Jersey State fair.
Toni is survived by her son, Karl Erik Soderholm, and his wife, Lori; her daughter, Heidi Charlene Hashagen, and her husband, Carl; and her brother Leo Feher. As well as her grandchildren: Willow, Elizabeth and River Soderholm. She is also survived by many other additional family and friends. In addition to her beloved husband, Kai, she was preceded in death by her brother, Thomas Feher.
Toni’s passing leaves a void in the hearts of all who knew her, but her legacy of love and laughter will forever shine as a beacon of inspiration. She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by her family and friends. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Sussex County (www.uunewtonnj.org) or the Unitarian Society of New Haven (www.usnh.org) in Toni’s memory.
May she rest in eternal peace, reunited with her loved ones who went before her, and may her memory continue to bring comfort to those who cherished her.
A Graveside Service will take place on Saturday September 16, 2023 at Kings Highway Cemetery (271 Cherry St, Milford, CT 06460) for 10 a.m. A Memorial Service to celebrate Toni’s life (and the life of her husband Kai) will also occur at 11 a.m. at Trinity Lutheran Church, 21 Robert Treat Pkwy, Milford, CT 06460 with a reception afterward. The memorial service will also be available online through zoom on the Trinity Lutheran Church website. (www.trinitymilfordct.org).
Philip Walter Spier Sr.
Phil was one of those people in life that made you LAUGH a little louder, SMILE a little bigger and LIVE just a little bit better.
Phil was born in Danbury, Connecticut in 1937. He resided in Stuart and Palm City for many years before he moved to Port St. Lucie. Phil graduated from Greenwich High School in Greenwich, CT, then served in the US Navy’s 7th Fleet as a signalman. He loved cars and spent years racing in SCCA races. After selling his liquor store in Connecticut, he relocated to Stuart, Florida and became well-known selling Charles Chips to local businesses. Phil also opened The Sub Station Deli, as well as other enterprises. Phil and Kathy Spier Promotions started in the 1980’s, and began hosting home and local boat shows, and promotional events of all types. That business eventually became Eventmakers International, which grew to become a major event and rental company.
Phil served on various organizations and clubs, including as president of Western Greenwich Lions Club, director of Martin County Chamber of Commerce, president of Stuart Sports Car Club and Treasure Coast Vintage Car Club.
Phil lived his life with passion and curiosity. He started and ran many successful businesses, and was a gifted entrepreneur and a natural salesman. Phil knew how to dream big, work hard and stay focused- and his efforts brought him success and satisfaction. He also had a quiet, reflective side which helped him stay grounded. Phil had a knack for putting people at ease with his quick wit and sense of humor, and he was good at making new friends. Phil never met a stranger.
He could drive anything, from the smallest sports car to a 40-foot motorhome. He loved the thrill of the open road and delighted in fantastic adventures with Kathy across North America. Yachting was another of his passions- once cruising from Canada to Florida and up the Tennessee Tombigbee (Tenn Tom) Waterway. After retiring, Phil enjoyed years of traveling, boating, RVing and spending time with family and close friends.
Phil was preceded in death by his father Ernie and his mother Ulla, his brother Elden, first wife Mary Ann and son-in-law Mark. He is remembered with love by his second wife Kathy, children Phil Jr. and Sheri, his daughter-in-law Kim, his grandchildren Jennifer, Amanda, Derek, Sol, Ben and Sam, and his great grandchildren Sophia, Noah, Scarlett and Tegan, and many nieces and nephews. On the road again, he will forever be in our hearts.
Friends and family are welcome to join us for a celebration of life on October 14 at the Dolphin Bar (Jensen Beach) from 12:00pm-3:00pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the charity of your choice or to World Central Kitchen and Treasure Coast Hospice. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten. May he rest in peace. Online condolences and tributes may be expressed to the family at Forest Hills Palm City Chapel site (www.foresthillspalmcityflorida.com).
Margaret “Nancy” Ann (Fallon) Stewart
Margaret A. (Fallon) Stewart, 70, of Milford, CT passed away peacefully on August 29, 2023 in the company of her family. Fondly known as Nancy, she was born on July 6, 1953 in Bronx, NY, to the late Edward Fallon and Mary (Quigley) Kakos. She was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother who enjoyed family trips and spoiling her grandchildren. Nancy was a homemaker and a compassionate person who was always available to help anyone. With her warm smile and kind heart, Nancy made friends wherever she went.
Margaret is survived by her beloved husband of fifty years, William Stewart. She is also survived by her loving children, son William Stewart, daughters Andrea, Heather, and Laura (Rich Buglione) Stewart, as well as her cherished grandchildren Austin, Holly (Patrick), Aubrey, and Lily. Additionally, Nancy is survived by her two brothers Patrick Fallon and Mark Fallon as well as many nieces and nephews that she loved spending time with.
In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her stepfather, Andrew Kakos, and sister-in-law Mickey Fallon.
Visiting Hours will be Friday, September 8th, 2023 from 9-11 a.m. with a Funeral Service at 11:00 a.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment to follow at Saint Mary’s Cemetery in Milford. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.
Manny Strumpf
Born in Mount Vernon, New York in 1935, Manny Strumpf lived with his wife, Phyllis, in Milford, CT for over 50 years before relocating to Monroe Township, NJ, 14 years ago to be closer to his family. He spent his winters in Deerfield Beach, Florida and recently moved to the Five Star Senior Living community in Teaneck, NJ.
He was an historian, lecturer, author of four murder mystery books, gave VIP tours of Ellis Island to some of the most famous politicians, athletes, and actors of his time, such as Mary Tyler Moore, Dolly Parton, Danny and Marlo Thomas, Vanna White, Hank Aaron, and Willie Mays. In his life’s work, he also rubbed elbows with Al Gore, Bill and Hillary Clinton, Colin Powel, Lee Iacocca, Barbara Walters, and many, many more. All of these individuals were touched by his genuine sincerity and authenticity. His crowning achievement was appearing on an Episode of 20/20 during Prime Time on ABC with Tom Jeril and Barbara Walters on a scaffold, prior the reopening of the Statue of Liberty
A graduate of NYU, Manny Strumpf started his career as a journalist and later a Bureau Chief for the New Haven Register, where he covered Milford, Connecticut. He followed that with a successful Public Relations career, first as owner of Manny Strumpf Associates in Orange, Connecticut, culminating with his position as Public Affairs Director for the National Parks Service, Department of Anterior, where he retired after 20 years.
Throughout his life, he was involved in many philanthropic and community-oriented programs, including holding the office of president of the Milford, Connecticut chapter of the Kiwanis Club, a member of Congregation Beit Shalom, In Monroe, NJ and Temple Beth Israel in Deerfield Beach, Florida. He was also a former longtime member of Congregation Or Shalom, in Orange, CT.
Manny Strumpf was predeceased by his loving wife, Phyllis, who he was married to for over 56 years; and his parents, Ben and Jenny Strumpf. And his aunt Fannie Strumpf. Surviving are his loving children Lori Dritz and her husband Ron of Poughkeepsie, NY and Jeff Strumpf of Springfield, NJ; and his 4 cherished grandchildren: Scott Dritz, Beth Strumpf and her fiancé Jiancy, as well as Justin Strumpf. Manny is also survived by Suzie Werner, his loving partner of eight years who was with him during his last moments; and by many adoring friends from wherever he lived and traveled. He touched the lives of everyone with whom he came into contact.
Funeral Services were held on Sunday, August 20, in Val Halla, New York.
Memorial contributions may be made to Congregation Shir Chadash, LaGrangeville, NY, where an educational scholarship has been established in his memory.
Dr. Ismail Tarkhan
Dr. Ismail Ibrahim Tarkhan, beloved father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on August 26, 2023, at Yale New Haven Hospital in New Haven, CT. He was born on April 16, 1951, in Mecca, Saudi Arabia to the late Ibrahim Ali Tarkhan and Fathia Ali Mousa. He will be dearly missed by his family, friends, and loved ones.
Ismail was a respected internist and pathologist for nearly 40 years at several hospitals and medical institutions in Connecticut and New York, and had served as a medical examiner for Milford, CT between the years of 1991 and 2003. He received his medical degree from Cairo University School of Medicine and completed residencies at State University of New York Downstate Medical Center and Westchester Medical Center.
He was curious, playful, and effortlessly cool. A self-taught musician, he was skilled at playing guitar, bass, piano, drums, harmonica, and more. He kept up with cutting-edge technology and always had the latest gadgets. An avid cyclist, he was active every day. He drank tea frequently and loved every kind of fruit, with a special regard for mangoes.
Ismail is survived by his former wife of many years and mother of his children, Robin Tarkhan, daughter Alexandra “Kiki” Tarkhan O’Keeffe, son Zachary Tarkhan and his girlfriend, Ece Yildirok, daughter Victoria Tarkhan and her husband, Steven Micali, and grandsons Julian and Milo Micali. He is also survived by two sisters, Maha Tarkhan and Daad Khosht, one brother, Khalid Tarkhan, and predeceased by one brother, Hamza Tarkhan.
A Memorial Service Gathering will be held on Friday, September 1, 2023, at the Cody-White Funeral Home at 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. ET.
Ann R. Wayne
Ann R. Wayne, 76, of Milford, passed away peacefully at Yale New Haven Hospital on August 19, 2023 surrounded by her loving family. She was born on January 14, 1947 in Stamford, CT to the late Emanuel and Ann Russo. She was also the beloved wife of the late James Palmer Wayne Sr., whom she joins in heaven.
Ann graduated from Milford High School and went on to cosmetology school. She worked for many years as a hairdresser before opening her own salon, Head Quarters in Walnut Beach. She also worked as a real estate broker, helping locals find their forever homes. In addition, Ann was the proud founder of the organization, W.O.M.E.N. Inc.; a local group which supports the Milford community.
Ann had a wonderful sense of humor, sass for days, and enjoyed a good party. She was a social butterfly, always out and about with family and friends. Ann loved shopping, traveling and if you needed to know something or wanted advice, you called Ann. Cissie, as her family affectionately called her, cherished hosting holidays, family gatherings and her door was always open for company. Some of her favorite memories were formed during her yearly trips to Puerto Rico, for over 40 years, with her husband, family and so many of their friends. Ann was a loving sister, wife, mother, aunt, godmother, grandmother and faithful friend who will be dearly missed by all who knew her.
Ann leaves behind her cherished children, Nicole Wayne, Jacqueline Ann (Timothy) Maloney, James P. Wayne, Jr.; grandchildren, Brendan Maloney, James P. Wayne III, and Shannon Maloney; brother Richard A. Russo Sr (Christine); nieces and nephews: Laurie A. Sheehan, Patrick A. Russo Jr, Richard A. Russo Jr., Lisa Foley, Sonya Abromavage, and Hans Bogaars; as well as several cousins and friends who are like family. In addition to her husband, James, she is predeceased by her brother Patrick A. Russo, Sr.
Ann’s family would like to extend a special thank you to the doctors and care team at Smilow Cancer Hospital who offered her the most skilled and compassionate care during her courageous battle with cancer. Jackie would also like to thank her sister, Nikki, for caring for her mother so selflessly.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made in Ann’s honor to Milford Food 2 Kids online at https://www.milfordfood2kids.org/ or to Smilow Cancer Hospital of New Haven online at https://www.givetoynhh.org/ Select the destination for donation as “Closer to Free Fund for Smilow Cancer Hospital”.
Friends and family are invited for calling hours on Monday August 28, 2023 at the Cody-White Funeral Home (107 Broad St., Milford CT 06460) from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday August 29, 2023 at St. Mary Church (70 Gulf St., Milford CT 06460) at 11 a.m., please meet directly at church. Burial to follow at St. Mary Cemetery in Milford, CT.
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Barbara Ann Zych
Barbara Ann Zych, age 87, of Shelton, passed away on Monday, September 4, 2023. Barbara was predeceased by her childhood sweetheart and loving husband of 58 years Joseph Louis Zych, who passed away July 6, 2016.
Barbara was the daughter of Victor and Aldona Gregutis from Milford. Barbara grew up in the Walnut Beach area of Milford graduating from Milford High School. She worked 30 years at The Milford Bank where she retired as Manager and Assistant Treasurer. Barbara also worked at Alexander’s and Hallmark Cards at the Connecticut Post Mall.
Barbara loved cooking, reading, Hallmark movies, and was an avid Neil Diamond fan. She was thoughtful, supportive, and always gifted the best cards for special occasions creatively decorated with colorful stickers making them extra special. In 2016 she rang the bell defeating stage 3 breast cancer.
Barbara is survived by her son Timothy Zych and his wife Annmarie; her daughter Karen Zych and her partner Paul Denhup; her daughter Amy Myers and her husband Douglas; cherished grandchildren Lily, Holly, and David Zych along with Ashley, Mackenzie, and Christian Myers.
A funeral mass will be held at St. Mary’s Church (70 Gulf St, Milford, CT) at 11:30 am on Friday, September 8, 2023.
Private cemetery services will be held by the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society online at www.donate.cancer.org.