Ball, Richard
With his close friend, Michael Rampino Jr, by his side, Richard Nolan Ball, beloved brother, Uncle, friend, neighbor and colleague, passed peacefully in his own home. He chose to keep his illness quiet as to not ruin the Christmas season for all who cared for him. A Southern Gentleman: Richard was born in the mountains of Virginia. He descended from an early settler family that never owned slaves, a fact he was proud of.
Richard was raised in Baltimore. He was a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University and pursued a career in Human Services. Richard worked for a number of agencies including Easter Seals, Goodwill Industries of New Haven, eventually retiring from Yale University where he thrived to assist people with varying abilities obtain and maintain employment.
Richard was professionally known to have the patience of a saint, slow to speak, always kind, never judging. Personally, he was known to be a true friend for many.
Richard is survived by his brother, Ronald (Karen) and Timothy (Claudia) Ball, as well as many close friends. He was predeceased by his parents, Delphia (Rasneke) Ball and Nolan V. Ball; and brother, Donald Ball.
A Graveside Service will take place on Friday, January 14, 2022 at 2 p.m. at the All Saints Cemetery, 700 Middletown Ave., North Haven (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY).
Bates, Nancy A.
Nancy A. Bates, 85, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Richard Bates, passed away peacefully at home on January 26, 2022. She was born on March 21, 1936 in Derby.
Nancy graduated from Derby High. She and her late husband Richard enjoyed boating and camping around CT with their camper and vacationing in Maine while visiting family and friends. She loved the outdoors, gardening, and taking care of her home which she resided for the past 48 years. She worked as a machinist her whole life and retired from her work at The Lighting Quotient in West Haven after 30 years at the young age of 81. After retirement she enjoyed doing puzzles and being with her family and friends. She will be deeply missed by her family.
Nancy leaves behind her sons, Allen Bates, Stephen Bates, and Brian (Paula) Bates; grandson, Jeremy (Allison) Bates; a great granddaughter, Amelia and one more on the way. She was predeceased by her son, Roger Bates; and her siblings.
Family and friends may gather on Tuesday, February 1, 2022 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Graveside Service will follow at Riverside Cemetery, 308 River Road, Shelton. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The American Cancer Society.
Benco, Robert Paul
Benway, Margaret “Peggy”
Margaret Ann Benway “Peggy”, 81, of Milford, wife of the late Eugene John Benway, Jr., passed away on January 17, 2022. Margaret was born on November 6, 1940 in Bridgeport, CT to the late Robert Farrell, Sr. and Marjorie Baker and her husband G. Joseph Baker.
Above all, Margaret loved being a mother and grandmother and cherished every moment spent with her family. St. Patrick’s Day was a favorite holiday and she made sure everyone celebrated and wore green. She was a proud member of the Steel Workers Union and worked at Bic Pen for 33 years. Margaret loved cooking, taking trips to the casino, playing cards, scratch off tickets and Jai Alai.
Margaret leaves behind her children, Richard J. Benway and Debra M. Benway; beloved grandchildren, Erica A. Benway, Robert J. Benway and Mark J. Benway; siblings, Eileen Kochiss and Joseph Baker; sister-in-law, Mary Ellen Farrell; daughter-in-law, Ann Benway; son-in-law, Peter Foss, and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her children, Eugene Benway III, Donna M. Benway and Mark J. Benway; and siblings, Robert Farrell, Jr., Gregory Farrell and Patricia Thornhill.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Friday, January 21, 2022 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Funeral Service will take place at 6:30 p.m. at the funeral home. For those who cannot attend in person, a livestream of the entire service will be available beginning at 4 p.m. via One Room Streaming. Event ID: Codywhitefh Password: 264CQN
Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.
Betlinski, May Ellen Hogan
Mary Ellen Hogan Betlinski, 85, formerly of New Port Richy, FL, passed away peacefully on December 27, 2021. Born on November 29, 1936 in Lowville, NY, she was the daughter of the late Amy and James F. Hogan, Sr.
Mary Ellen was raised in Orange but graduated from Milford High School as Amity was not yet built. In her mid-twenties, she moved to the west coast and spent time living in San Diego, Los Angeles, CA and Seattle, WA. She moved back to Enfield, CT in the mid-eighties before settling in New Port Richey, FL to enjoy retirement.
Mary Ellen is survived by her brothers: James F. Hogan, Jr. and Richard Hogan; nieces and nephews: Paula (Christopher) Garvey, Phillip, Christopher and Scott Hogan and Arielle (Matt) Sokolis; great niece and nephew, Catherine and Alexander Garvey; and her stepchildren, Marsha and Barry. She was predeceased by her husband, Edward Betlinski, and brother, Patrick Hogan.
A Graveside Service will take place on Thursday, January 6, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Rd., Orange. (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY).
Blume, James H.
He began his career as a podiatrist and podiatric medical physician in the Westville section of New Haven in November 1957. He practiced more than 60 years and retired at age 85. He was an extremely active member of the Connecticut Podiatric Medical Association from 1957 through present day. He received many accolades including the John D Walker award for podiatrist of the year during his tenure in the association and worked tirelessly with legislators and lawmakers in order to advance the medical care for the at risk communities within New Haven and throughout the state.
He practiced with his son, Dr. Peter A. Blume for approximately 25 years at Affiliated Foot and Ankle Surgeons in New Haven.
He was a dedicated parishioner and founding member of Congregation Or Shalom and a great contributor to many Jewish charities. He was a very generous person loved by many and a generous supporter of all causes with an emphasis on children’s causes. He loved spending time in the summers at the Anchorage Hotel in Ogunquit Maine.
Jim is survived by his daughter Amy Blume (Jim McMahon) of Guilford, CT and his son Dr. Peter Blume (Alyssa ) of Milford, CT, his grandchildren, Ashley, Morgan, Logan and Harrison. He was predeceased by his sister, Geraldine (Blume) Katz.
The Blume family is truly grateful to the Yale New Haven Hospital and the medical community that provided incredible care over the past 20 years. Many thanks to Dr. Michael Dewar, Dr. Jon Brier, Dr. Wayne Warren and Dr. Harold Tara who made it possible for him to have many quality years as a result of their phenomenal medical care.
Funeral services will be held at Beth Israel Cemetery, 855 Derby Milford Rd. Orange on Tuesday, afternoon January 18, 2022 (TODAY) at 1:00 p.m. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home New Haven, is in care of Arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Friends of Yale New Haven Children’s Hospital.
Brady, Joseph L.
Joseph L. Brady, age 96, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Mary Lynch Brady, died on Thursday, January 20, 2022, surrounded by his loving family. Joseph was born in Derby on September 22, 1925. He was a US Navy veteran and proudly served our country during WWII. Joseph was also an inspector at Avco Lycoming for many years. Over the years Joseph enjoyed fishing at Osborndale State Park, playing pool at the Senior Center and also enjoyed woodworking. Joseph was a lover of all animals, feeding the birds as often as he could and hanging out with the dogs each day. He will be fondly remembered for his sense of humor, quick wit and was loved by many.
Survivors include his children: Joseph T. Brady of Norwalk, Thomas Brady and his wife Janine of Milford, Barbara Brady of Meriden, two grandchildren; Rachael and Michelle Brady of Milford and great-grandson, Peter Zelinsky. Joseph is predeceased by his mother, Phoebe Brady and brothers Robert and Gene Brady.
Family and friends may call on Wednesday, January 26th, 2022, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. in the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warriors project.
Buccitti, Dominick Carl Sr.
Dominick Carl Buccitti, Sr., age 81, of Milford beloved husband of the late Barbara (Urbanowicz) Buccitti entered peaceful rest on January 22, 2022, surrounded by his loving family.
Mr. Buccitti was born on November 2, 1940, in Bridgeport and was the son of the late Amato and Pasqualina (Santalucia) Buccitti. He worked in research and development for Remington Arms in Bridgeport for over 45 years before his retirement.
Mr. Buccitti is survived by his devoted children, Christine M. Purpora and her fiancé Dave Pierson, Dominick C. Buccitti, Jr. and his wife Michelle all of Milford and Dana C. Elias and her husband Carlos of West Haven and seven grandchildren, Robby Purpora, Richard Purpora and his fiancé Alexis and Matthew Purpora, Dominick C. Buccitti, III and Brianna Buccitti and Aaron Elias and Madysen Elias. He also leaves two great granddaughters, Gabriella and Hailey Purpora, and his brother, Ralph Dominick Buccitti of Milford.
Family and friends may call on Thursday, January 27th, 2022, from 10:00 am to 11:30 a.m. followed by a funeral service at 11:30 at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment to follow in King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his memory to The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405.
Butcaris, Bernardine Mary
After moving to Bridgeport, CT in 1941, she attended and graduated from Harding High School in 1949. She attended The Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, NY where she earned her degree in Costume Design. After graduation she worked at Lord & Taylor in New York before returning to Bridgeport and working at Warner Brothers.
She married Michael, the love of her life, on December 28, 1957. She chose to stay home and raise her children in Trumbull where they lived for over thirty years. There was always a large garden which always had strawberries, flowers, and mint along with other vegetables. Her design background was the basis for another passion of hers: arts and crafts. Whether it was her glass bottle candle holders, her clothespin dolls or one of her famous, hand knit “Wallabies” that she made, she found joy in giving them to her children and, later, her grandchildren.
She loved to cook. She spent her time working on such family favorites as her homemade pizzas (a Friday night staple), Greek delicacies (traditional New Year’s Day peta), her own original ‘Kielbasa Nightmare” and of course, her famous Christmas morning standby: homemade pierogi. She graced all her loved ones with personalized ice cream cakes, each unique to the recipient’s personal tastes.When Michael was given an early retirement, they embarked on their dream career as “Missa and Grampy”. Over the next two decades, they did stints helping each of their children by babysitting. They attended countless baseball, basketball and football games along with dozens of plays, recitals and concerts that their grandchildren were in.
In 1995, they finally sold their house in Trumbull, when she found her “dream house” on the Green in Milford. After spending much time redesigning the layout, the house was finally completed in 1996 and she lived there until 2020.
She was predeceased by her husband Michael, her sister Gloria (Velgot) Lampugnale and her brother
Stanley James Velgot.
She is survived by her three devoted children Michael Butcaris and his wife Sheree of Beacon Falls, CT, Cecilia Urbanowicz and her husband Richard of Milford, CT and Gregory Butcaris and his wife Candis of Naples, FL; six loving grandchildren, Raymond Browning and his wife Lindsay, Jessica Toman and her husband Bradley, Matthew Butcaris and his wife Jessica, Nicolina Pugliese and her husband Gary, Gregory Butcaris and his wife Anna and Eric Urbanowicz and his fiancé Natalie Barletta; eight beloved great-grandchildren, Arya, Leo, Michael, Grace, James, Colby, Mackenzie and Cono as well as many nieces and nephews.
The family would like to thank the tremendous staff at Seacrest Retirement Center of West Haven, CT for the amazing care they gave Bernardine over the last eighteen months of her life.
Friends and family are invited to attend her funeral services on Saturday at 10:00 a.m. directly at St. Stephen’s Church, 6948 Main St. Trumbull. Interment in Long Hill Cemetery. Friends may pay their respects on Friday from 4-7 p.m. at the Cyril F. Mullins Funeral Home, 399 White Plains Rd., Trumbull, CT. (masks are required)
Memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association.
To leave an online condolence, please visit mullinsfh.com.
Cavallaro, Peter J.
Peter J. Cavallaro, 87, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Claire Cavallaro, passed away peacefully at home on January 21, 2022. Born on April 3, 1934 in South Philadelphia, PA, he was the son of the late Giuseppe and Michelena Cavallaro.
Pete had several jobs throughout his life. A jack of all trades, he was very handy and could fix or adapt anything to his needs. He worked for AFCO before his employment with the St of CT DOT. He also had his own landscaping business (which was his true passion), and upon retirement from the St of CT. he did this full time.
He enjoyed his home, caring for his yard, spending time with his family-especially his brother-in-law Joe, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.
Pete will be greatly missed by his children, Peter (Sharon) J. Cavallaro of Franklin, OH, Paula (Chet) Rutkowski of Ansonia, Michael (Kim) L. Cavallaro of Milford, and Brian (Rebecca) D. Cavallaro of Boston MA; grandchildren, Deanna (Cameron), Heather (Anthony), Eric, Casey (Ryan), Korinne, Tyler, Amelie, and Maxine; great grandchildren, Troy, Brandon, Mateo, and Ellie Claire, sister Ann Hellwig of Bantam, brother-in-law Joe Stramondo of Wolcott, and many extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his sisters Mary DiNatale, Jean Rivers, and Louise Stramondo.
Family and friends may call on Thursday, January 27, 2022 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Funeral Service will take place at the funeral home on Friday, January 28, 2022 at 9:30 a.m. Interment with Military Honors will immediately follow at the Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery, 317 Bow Ln., Middletown CT 06457. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Connecticut Hospice 100 Double Beach Rd. Branford CT 06405.To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Chasney, Patricia A.
Patricia Anne Chasney, age 81, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Kneeland Chasney, entered peaceful rest on January 15, 2022, at Bridgeport Hospital.
She was the daughter of the late Vincent and Verna (Santoro) Germinaro and was born on June 7, 1940, in Waterbury, CT. She lived most of her life in East Haven before moving to Milford to be closer to her daughter. Patricia started her career as a registered nurse at a high school in New Haven and went onto work at various nursing homes and later became a private duty nurse where she loved her wound care and psych patients the most. Each patient she cared for was treated like family and went above and beyond providing home cooked meals, groceries, and clothing for them. Patricia was known by many as “Pattie Rainbow” and before leaving would always say “Have a Rainbow Day.”
Pattie is survived by her devoted daughters, Heidi Verna Rice (Michael) of Milford and Doreen Anne Meyer (Tim) of Sarasota, FL and five grandchildren, Jake, who was the apple of her eye, Liam, Sean, Catie and Colleen. She also leaves her beloved boyfriend, Sherman Lee Rose of Milford, her step mother, Elizabeth “Betty” Germinaro, her sister, Maryanne DellaCamera and her nieces and nephews who thought she was so cool and called her Uncle Pat.
Family and friends may call on Thursday, January 20th, 2022, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. A Funeral Service will be held on Friday at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment to follow in Bare Plains Cemetery, North Branford.
Chatzopoulos, George
Connecticut Restaurant Association, Pan-Gregorian Association of Connecticut and proud to be a part of the Lyons Club, Rotary Club, and multiple Chambers of Commerce. The hard work and dedication of the Chip’s Team was never lost on George. He was forever grateful for their loyalty, dedication and teamwork. He was a mentor to many, always willing to give an opportunity to those that exhibited enthusiasm and ambition. He would often be found relaxing while listening to his Greek music. One of his favorite past times was dancing zeibekiko along with friends and family. He was many times the life of the party. He had a special appreciation for true friendship and cherished the time spent with his friends. He was happiest when his family and friends were enjoying life beside him. Visiting his homeland of Greece annually was something he was sure to make time for. His family and friends there looked forward to his visit since his arrival always brought the spirit of joy, fun, and feast to the village of Makrissia. While George enjoyed many pastimes, his pride and joy was spending time with his family, especially his nephews, AJ, Alex and Evan he referred to as “his boys” whom he treated like his own. Some of their best times were their drives to get ice cream or going out to dinner, just Uncle George and the boys. The Greek word “filotimo” captures the true essence of who George has always been. In the Greek language filotimo represents hospitality, pride, honor, integrity, respect, acts of kindness and unconditional love. George will be sorely missed by his family, friends and his Chip’s Team for all of these things and so much more. His legacy will live on through his loved ones forever.
Calling hours will take place at St. Barbara’s Church at 480 Racebrook Road in Orange, CT on January 14 from 4 to 8. A funeral will be held on Saturday, January 15 at 10:00 a.m. followed by interment at Orange Center Cemetery. A celebration of life will be held at St. Barbara’s Church Hall following the interment. In the true spirit of George’s giving nature, the family is requesting that in lieu of flowers memorial contributions can be made to the George Chatzopoulos Scholarship being administered through the endowment fund with St. Barbara’s Church. The Havens Family- North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue has been entrusted with arrangements.
Clark, Belvidera E.
Belvidera (Belle) E. Clark, age 90, of Torrington and formerly of Milford for many years, beloved wife of the late Charles H. Clark Sr. died on January 7, 2022. Belvidera was born in Cheshire, CT on August 8, 1931 to the late Franklin and Esther (Alling) Banta. At age 6 the family moved to Milford. She went through grammar school and graduated from Milford High School in 1949. She married her beloved Charles on November 18, 1950. She had fraternal twin boys the following year and ten years later had a baby girl. Besides being a loving mother, and housewife, she became a School Bus Driver for the City of Milford for 7 years, a job she truely loved. In 1975 they moved to Shelton where she lived for 11 years. In 1986 they moved to Tolland, Massachusetts were they bought a sprawling farmhouse with several acres. Upon her husband’s failing health they returned to Connecticut, she ironically returned to Milford High in 2004 to live in Milford Senior Housing which was one of her old classroom which was converted to an apartment. She lived there until August of 2019, when she pulled her ligament and tore her meniscus. She moved into Regal Care in Torrington were she remained until her death.
She was a volunteer for Milford Senior Center for a few years and a proud member of Daughters of the Nile. Throughout her life she enjoyed playing Bingo with her friends. Enjoyed camping in her early 80’s. She learned to play the piano while her children were still in school and after they were grown learned to play the organ. Belle was a talented knitter and crocheter most items she enjoyed giving away and bringing someone else joy. At age 90 made a crocheted blanket for her great-grand child.
She leaves her loving children: Son, Henry Clark and his wife Carol of Wakefield, RI, Charles Clark and his wife Barbara of Lakeland, FL and Jacqueline Bitso and her husband Robert of Tolland, MA, a sister, Rosalie Stanislawski of Milford, a brother-in-law, Fredrick Hopkins of Milford, grandchildren; Amber Perreault and her husband Adam, Robert Bitso Jr., Nicole Kenny and Stacy Trigg, and great-grandchildren, Harper Perreault and Emerson Trigg and several nieces and nephews.
Belvidera was predeceased by her siblings; Franklin Banta, Johnny Banta, Frances Banta, Norma Clark, Florence Hopkins. Friends and family may call on January 17, 2021 from 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Service will be held in the funeral home at 12:00 p.m. followed by the interment in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford.
Please use the following link to access the online viewing of the funeral service starting at 11:30 a.m. on Monday January 17th.
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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Shiners Hospital in Springfield. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Crowley, Barry Richard
Barry Richard Crowley, age 87, of Milford, entered peaceful rest on January 26, 2022, at Bridgeport Hospital.
He was born on July 10, 1934 in Stamford, the son of the late Joseph Curtis and Mable (Jeffries) Crowley. Mr. Crowley grew up in Stamford. In his early years he repaired radios and televisions; later, he was a manager for the USPS in Stamford and retired quite recently. He was a U.S. Army veteran and served with the 54th AAA Mission Battalion Army Center in MD. A member of the American Legion and Milford Irish Heritage Society, he enjoyed music and photography.
Mr. Crowley is survived by his two devoted daughters, Kara Crowley of New Fairfield and Cheryl Crowley of Decatur, GA, as well as three granddaughters: Devin and Brenna Imperati of New Fairfield and Lucy Crowley-Mold of Decatur, GA and son-in-law David Mold of Decatur, GA. His sister, Jeanette Crowley, and his brother, James Crowley, predeceased him.
Services will be at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made in Barry’s name to Milford Irish Heritage Society or Int’l Bluegrass Musicians Trust Fund. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.
D’Auria, Jaclyn Cody
Jaclyn Cody D’Auria entered into eternal rest on January 13, 2022. How do you write about a woman who could always give the writer the words to say? I will tell you how – you just do it. Jackie would have said “just do it”. Jackie was a beautiful, courageous, strong willed and passionate person. She was born on February 21, 1952, to the late Thomas J. and Jane Jenkins Cody, and would have turned 70 years old in a few short weeks. Jackie grew up in Milford, CT, where she attended Lauralton Hall class of 1970. From there she attended the University of Rhode Island and graduated from Baypath University. Shortly after, Jackie became a licensed Funeral Director and began working with her father, Thomas Cody Sr., at Cody White Funeral Home alongside her two brothers, Thomas Cody Jr. and Kevin Cody. Jackie had one of the kindest hearts and this was shown through her development of “The Caring Network” an ongoing support program for adults who have suffered a loss through death.
Aside from being a Funeral Director, Jackie was licensed to sell insurance, a licensed realtor, and as her family would say “she was the boss”. One of Jackie’s passions was Lauralton Hall where she served as Chairman of the Board of Trustees for two years and received Lauralton’s prestigious Claven Award in 2005. Jackie met her beloved husband in 1970 at a block party in Milford. A close cousin and a friend said to John, “go dance with her” and it was from that exact moment Jackie knew she had found her soulmate. Jackie and John enjoyed traveling to Aruba, where Jackie found peace and tranquility. In addition, she enjoyed decorating her home or providing her children with ideas on how to decorate. She was immensely creative and had a true gift and brilliant eye to see the beauty in life. Jackie also had a passion for essential oils, crystal rocks and sea glass. Jackie was one of the most spiritual people you could encounter, which provides her family and friends with comfort knowing she is happy, safe and at peace with God.
Jackie is survived by her beloved husband John Joseph D’Auria, her three children: Michael Cody D’Auria, Robert Cody D’Auria, Kathryn-Mary Cody Falzarano and husband Mathew James Falzarano and beloved granddaughter Rachel Rose Falzarano; brothers and sister Thomas Cody Jr., and wife Susan Cody, Kevin Cody and wife Chrystine Cody, Christopher Cody and wife Christine Gonillo and Nora Cody and her husband John Lipsky; nephews Brian Cody (Megan), Michael Cody (Kath), and niece Nora Beth McKenna; sister in-law Denise D’Auria Odell and husband John and their children Jennifer Odell, Stephanie Odell Bolstridge and Matthew Odell. Several great nieces and nephews and cousins. Lastly, Jackie is survived by her ultimate confidant and best friend, Betsy Buonocore and her husband, John’s cousin, Gary Buonocore.
Family and friends may call Wednesday, January 19, 2022 from 4:00 to 7:00 pm at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thursday, January 20, 2022 at 10:30 am at St. Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT, friends please go DIRECTLY to the church. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Thomas and Jane Cody Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Lauralton Hall, 200 High Street, Milford, CT 06460 or to Saint Mary School, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT 06460.
DeRosa, Carmen Thomas
Carmen, also known as ‘Tom’, and “Jun” (for Junior), served in the US Army and developed a lifelong passion while being stationed at Fort Monmouth, New Jersey. His overall manner and skillset were noted, therefore being tasked with caring for war pigeons. Weighing barely a pound, these extraordinary birds flew unwavering, carrying messages in and out of smoke, gas, exploding bombs and gunfire. He trained and handled “G.I. Joe”, a pigeon that ultimately received honorable distinction for saving the lives of over one-hundred Allied soldiers. Moreover, Tom was exclusively interviewed by Elizabeth Macalester, as she conducted research for her book “War Pigeons”, then ultimately invited to Washington, DC to accept the Medal of Honor on behalf of his partner, “G.I. Joe”. He married the love of his life, Pauline, on May 14, 1966, choosing his birthday as a fitting date to expand on what was one of the happiest and best days of his life. As his family grew, he founded the Westville Crest Plumbing & Heating company, enjoying many years of successful enterprise- a result of his hard work and dedication. Tom never met a stranger; he was a friend to all, always quick to offer a selfless and compassionate gesture. Whether a genuine handshake, a ride, an intent ear, a smile, a hug, a joke, or funny story- he was always there when one needed such. Of course, the greatest offering was that of his welcome and fried dough at home, joined by his four-legged best friend, Louie. A man led by his faith, Tom personified what he impressed upon his family, and for that, his life, love, and kindness will carry on through those he touched so deeply.
Arrangements have been entrusted to West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Calling hours will take place on Monday, January 17th, from 5 to 8 o’clock, in the funeral parlor. A procession will depart the funeral home on Tuesday at 9:45am, for a 10 o’clock Mass of Christian Burial, to be celebrated in St. Lawrence Church, West Haven. Interment and miliary honors will immediately follow at St. Lawrence Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Carmen’s honor to the West Haven Animal Shelter.
To leave an online condolence for the family, you may visit www.westhavenfuneral.com.
De Stefano, Richard Jay
Richard Jay De Stefano was born July 19, 1947 and died January 25, 2022 at age 74. All services will be private. The family is being passionately cared for by the staff of the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT.
DiBiaso, Pasquale Jr.
Pasquale DiBiaso, Jr, 62, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Carlene DiBiaso, passed away peacefully on January 13, 2022. Born on March 30, 1959, West Haven, CT he was the son of the late Pasquale DiBiaso, Sr and Sandra Persenpere.
Pasquale graduated from West Haven High School and worked as a truck driver for Grillo Services. He enjoyed gardening, the beach, working on his mustang and his dogs. Pasquale was a hard worker and loving father.
He leaves behind his son, Matthew DiBiaso; and his daughter, Emily DiBiaso; and nieces, nephews and other family members.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Friday, January 21, 2022 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Those who cannot attend the service may join us virtually at: https://view.oneroomstreaming.com/. Event ID: Codywhitefh; Password: 6QT4N6
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, January 21, 2022 at 2 p.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Rd., Milford, CT. Burial will be at a later date.
Elio, Marion H.
Marion H. Elio, age 95, of Shelton, and formerly of Milford beloved wife of the late Joseph Elio, passed away on January 28, 2022. Marion was born in Bridgeport on January 8, 1927, to the late Daniel and Emily May Scheiring Hathaway. She was an active member of Black Rock Church in Fairfield for many years. Survivors include her children: Dale Lance of Portugal and Mark Lance of IN, stepdaughters: Patricia Cash of CA Renee Elio of CN and, five grandchildren; Lisa Johnson, Matthew and Michael Lance, Sarah Ridgeway and Lyndsie Lance and step grandchildren: Michelle Farlee and Angela Johnson. Marion is predeceased by her daughter, Sharyn Lance and brother, Daniel Hathaway. Services will be private and THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, MILFORD is handling arrangements.
Fasold, Louis Vincent
Louis Vincent Fasold, 84, of Milford, passed away peacefully on January 12, 2022 after a brief but fierce battle with Leukemia. Louis was born and raised in Stratford, CT the son of the late Louis & Bernadette Fasold. Louis attended Stratford High School where he ran track and was a kicker for the football team. During high school he met the love of his life, Margaret Vitko. They married in 1958 and spent the next 65 years by each other’s side, playing tennis, cards or socializing with friends. They were always chit chatting and holding hands.
Louis joined the Army and along with Marge they moved to Torrey Pines, NC. When Lou was called up for the Berlin crisis, Marge returned home to stay with family in Stratford.
In 1965, Lou & Marge moved to Milford where they would reside for the next 57 years. They welcomed 2 children, Kimberly & Kyle and became a complete family. Lou began an apprenticeship as a Manufacturing Engineer at Sikorsky Aircraft and subsequently earned his bachelors degree from The University of New Haven. He worked at Sikorsky direct for 42 years and was invited back as a consultant after retirement due to his unique knowledge of many parts. Lou was a member of the Knights of Columbus, played in a league at Milford indoor tennis and in later years enjoyed the senior golf league at The Orchards in Milford, even becoming a member of the Hole in One Club.
Above all else, Lou was a family man. When his beloved grandchildren Christopher & Elisabeth were born, Lou completely retired and became Grandpa Daycare. There was nothing he enjoyed more than spending time with his grandchildren. Playing golf with Christopher, taking Ellie shopping or just watching them participate in their various activities.
Louis is survived by his adored wife, Margaret; his daughter, Kimberly Hibson and her husband, Emmet; his son, Kyle Fasold; and most cherished grandchildren, Christopher & Elisabeth Hibson and Nicholas & Gianna Lastrina. He is also survived by his siblings Mary Tierney, Peter (Linda) Fasold and Paul (Mary) Fasold, many beloved nieces & nephews and so many wonderful friends. Louis was predeceased by his parents, his brother-in-law, Robert Tierney and granddaughter, Catherine Hibson.
Lou will be remembered as a kind and generous man who was always available if you needed help. He never met someone who wasn’t a friend!
The family would like to thank Dr. Vijay Chabra, Dr. Zhao Lu of Oncology Hematology Care of Connecticut and the wonderful and caring support of their entire staff.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Sunday, January 23, 2022 from 12pm – 2pm at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. Those who cannot attend the service may join us virtually at: https://view.oneroomstreaming.com/. Event ID: Codywhitefh; Password: 4T4SV8
Fraulo, James F.
Fugal, Nancy Jean Canfield
Nancy Jean Canfield Fugal, age 70, of Milford, beloved wife of 30 years to the late Jan Peter Fugal, MD, passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 22, 2022.
Nancy was born in Bridgeport on March 16, 1951 to the late Raymond Gray and Winifred Edna Doyle Canfield. A graduate of Jonathan Law High School Class of 1969, Nancy spent her life embracing many joyous moments and enduring challenging times. Nancy’s greatest joys were her husband, children, and grandchildren. She enjoyed vacationing every year in Alton Bay, New Hampshire, first with her own parents as a child, and then with her growing, blended family. Nancy was an avid reader and skillful writer, often sharing her book recommendations and thoughts with others. Hundreds of favorite books lined the shelves of her home, and her meticulous penmanship and crafty vocabulary were visible on research papers, personal letters, and holiday cards alike. Nancy had a child-like, silly side to her, in which her laughter was infectious. Nancy loved Christmas and making the holiday magical for those she loved and those in need, preparing numerous gifts for Jan to deliver on Christmas Eve to unsuspecting loved ones. She loved watching movies, sprawling out in front of a roaring fire in her stone fireplace, and latch-hooking in the living room, creating holiday decorations and ten personalized stockings for the fireplace. Nancy never turned down a delicious lobster roll or a bakery treat, and always loved cheering on her favorite teams, the Giants and Yankees. The thousands of pictures taken across seven decades tell the story of a beautiful, young woman who loved life, met a wonderful man who changed her world, created a beautiful family with memories to cherish, and endured far too many medical challenges that took its inevitable toll. Nancy has left a lasting impression on all those who knew her. The life lessons she taught directly, or that which were learned indirectly by watching her, will last a lifetime. Nancy is finally at peace now, rejoining loved ones who passed before, who were so terribly missed.
Nancy was also preceded in death by her daughters Ashlee Elisabeth Canfield Fugal and Sherri Lee Fugal Furce. Nancy leaves behind her sister Deborah Lynn Canfield O’Meara and her husband Frank of Orange, children Laurie Lynn Fugal Ott and her husband William of Milford, Howard Hugh Fugal and his wife Stephannie of West Greenwich, RI, Rebecca Jeanne Fugal Migliore and her husband John of Milford, Lisbeth Ane Fugal Greist and her husband Harold of Stratford, Edward Roy Fugal and his wife Patricia of Milford, Jan Peter Fugal II, DDS, and his wife Tabatha of Burnt Hills, NY, and Kurt Garrett Fugal and his wife Sherry of Guilford. She leaves behind twenty-two grandchildren: Olivia, Mackensie, and Ethan Ott; Gwynn and Aaron Fugal; Edwards and Hailey Greist; Christopher Piccoli, Christian, and Amber Furce; Danielle (Lukas) Bradley, Justin, and Jennafer Fugal; Tanner (Amber), Ashley (Justin) Bradshaw, Joshua, Cameron, and Liam Fugal; Tyler, Abigail, Nathan, and Lorren Fugal; and two great-grandchildren: Madilyn and Benjamin Bradley. She is also survived by son-in-law Robert Joseph Furce, sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, fourteen nieces and nephews, many extended family members, and dear friends throughout the years.
Friends and Family may call from 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. Friday, January 28th at the Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. Masks and social distancing will be required out of respect for the on-going pandemic. A private interment will follow in Milford Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American SIDS Institute, 509 Augusta Drive, Marietta, GA 30067 or www.SIDS.org. The family would like to thank all of the friends, co-workers, the staff of Milford and Yale-NH Hospitals, West River Healthcare, Sea Crest Assisted Living, and Apple Rehabilitation Center for all their compassionate support and care throughout the years. To share a memory, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Gabel, Stanley
Stanley Gabel, 54, beloved husband of Jacqueline Gabel, passed on January 31, 2022. Born on September 16, 1967 in New Haven, he was the son of Moi Gabel and the late Carl Gabel.
Stanley (known to many as Stany) was a graduate of Foran High School class of 1985.
Stany enjoyed crabbing, and having chili dogs with his son Hunter. In his earlier years he played football and hockey.
Stanys biggest passion throughout life was his music. He played the guitar and bass and his love of music brought him to many places all over the world. Throughout his travels and experiences he always had the best stories to tell. Many of his friends became family to him. He was a jokester and loved to play pranks especially on his wife!!! He will be missed by everyone who had the privilege to have crossed paths with him.
Along with his wife and mother, Stany is also survived by his son, Hunter Gabel; stepchildren, Kyle Disley and Caitlin Goodale; grandson, Antonio Roulston; brothers, John Gabel and Apidet Saengkaew; parents-in-law, Joanne and William Keyes; and MANY great friends who became family to him.
Services will take place at a later date.
Jackson, Helene
Helene Jackson died peacefully on Monday night, at home surrounded by all three of her children, after a long a battle with pancreatic cancer.
Helene was born on March 7th, 1944 in New Haven, CT – The oldest child of Leon and Anne Hadelman. She grew up in West Haven before moving to Milford in her Junior year of High School. She was a proud graduate of the Milford High School class of 1962. Her three (3) surviving children include Todd Jackson and his spouse Tami, Tracy Jackson Creller and her husband Craig; and Eric Jackson and his spouse Melissa, and many grandchildren and nieces and nephews.
She worked at Schick for many years before spending more than 27 years with Bayer Pharmaceutical in West Haven. During her retirement, she lived life to the fullest and spent a great deal of time with her grandchildren and much time travelling the world with the Golden Girls.
A Memorial Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, February 3, 2022 at 11 a.m. at St. Peter Church, 71 River St., Milford, CT. Burial will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, Columbarium Wall, 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the National Pancreas Foundation.
Jackson, John Charles
John Charles Jackson, 73, of Milford, beloved husband of Janice (Murphy) Jackson for nearly 50 years, passed away peacefully on January 26, 2022 at Bridgeport Hospital, with his loving wife by his side. Born on July 16, 1948 in Milford, CT, he was the son of the late John B. and Barbara (Daniels) Jackson.
John graduated from Jonathan Law High School, Central CT State University with a Bachelor’s Degree in Industrial Arts and earned his 5th year Teaching Certificate from the University of Bridgeport. He went on to teach at Milford High School until the opening of Joseph A. Foran High School, where he worked until his retirement in 2002. John enjoyed teaching and working with his students on automobiles (and other Tech Ed courses). He enjoyed drag racing Camaros and his 1972 Chevy Nova at Connecticut Dragway; Lebanon Valley, New York; Epping, New Hampshire; Englishtown, New Jersey; Reading, Pennsylvania; and Long Island Dragway. John enjoyed traveling, with his wife, through the New England states to visit family members in Maine. He especially enjoyed Niagara Falls and Nova Scotia in Canada. John and Janice enjoyed many road trips riding their Harley-Davidson motorcycles and their electric blue trike. They also enjoyed automotive and antique flea markets, as well as, country fairs. John enjoyed target shooting and was an avid reader especially enjoying American history. He was an outspoken person and enjoyed spirited conversations. John was a member of the Ansonia Rod and Gun Club, the NHRA, and the Milford Senior Center.
In addition to his cherished wife, John is survived by his brother, Daniel K. Jackson; by his brother-in-law, Thomas C (Christine) Murphy, Jr.; sister-in-law, Sharon (James) Feero; sister-in-law, Patricia (John) Sember; sister-in-law, Lori (Andrew) Starrett; and by many nieces and nephews. John was predeceased by his sister-in-law, Charlene Murphy and Charles J. Jackson.
The family wishes to thank the ICU medical staff at Bridgeport Hospital for their compassionate care.
All services will be private. The family is being cared for by the staff at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Shriners Children’s Hospital.
Lasse, Genevieve M.
Genevieve Lasse (Salito), age 92, entered peaceful rest on January 13, 2022, at Milford Health & Rehabilitation Center. She was the daughter of the late Peter and Mabel (Goff) Lasse and was born on November 16, 1929, in Milford. She was formerly of Old Point Road and was the owner of Cut & Curl Beauty Salon in Devon for many years.
Genevieve is survived by her devoted son, Ralph Salito and his wife, Beth of Trumbull, four grandchildren, Matthew Salito (Meaghan), Hailey Salito, Kendra Salito and Alexandria Ponzio (Salvatore) two great grandchildren, Keira Salito and Chase Ponzio. She also leaves her daughters in law, Deanna Salito and Kellie Salito and several nieces and nephews. Her sons, Jeffrey Salito and Philip Salito, her brother, Russell Lasse and two sisters, Madeline DiBona and Helen Pietrini and her former husband, Ralph Salito predeceased her.
Calling Hours will be held on MONDAY, January 24th, 2022, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Masks are required when in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of one’s choice. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Malady, Gail Parrett
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Gail Parrett Malady who went home to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on January 11, 2022. She is survived by the love of her life, Daniel W. Malady. Gail and Dan met when they were 13 years old. They married at the age of 20 and spent a total of 52 years together. Gail was born on June 14, 1956 to the late Frank Parrett Jr. and Edna M. Camp. She was 65 years old. She is survived by her loving children Michelle Malady Chinova, Michelle’s children Todd, Lisa Marie (deceased) Cari and Sean; Nikole Malady (deceased) and her children James and Chloe; Zane (Gina) Malady and their son Zane, Jr.; Faith (William) Daniels and their children Jesse, Aiden, Felicity, Trinity and soon to be born Korbin. She is also survived by 6 great grandchildren Aaliyah, Colton, Caius, Catori, Xander and Quinn, several nieces and nephews., her sisters who adored her, Debra Camacho, Lynda (Frank) Lanziero and Suzette Parrett. In addition to her parents, daughter Nikole and granddaughter Lisa Marie, Gail is predeceased by her brother Frank Parrett III and her in-laws William and Elizabeth Malady. Gail was a warm and caring person and a true defender and advocate of children. She was an amazing and creative cook who could turn the simplest dish into a gourmet meal. Gail and Dan shared a deep love of music. Music moved her heart and their life together built a beautiful soundtrack. Her love for her family was unconditional and she will be sorely missed.
On Tuesday January 25th, a service honoring Gail’s life will be held at 6:30 pm at Gateway Christian Fellowship, 129 Bull Hill Lane, West Haven, CT.
Mannix, Isabelle Marie
Isabelle Marie Gorek Mannix, devoted mother, daughter, sister, and friend passed away peacefully at 66 years of age on January 14th, 2022. Born on March 19th, 1955, in Paris, France. Despite a heroic battle with cancer, she was a beacon of elegance, grace and fortitude.
Isabelle earned her Baccalaureate degree at the Lycée Francais de New York and her Bachelor of Science at Pace University. She then earned her nursing degree and was a labor and delivery nurse at New York Cornell Hospital for over 10 years. She continued to work at Danbury Hospital for a number of years while raising her children in Wilton, CT.
Isabelle was selflessly devoted to helping others through her kindness. She had a wonderful sense of humor and shared her life experiences and wisdom through storytelling. Isabelle had a unique combination of talents and interests. She had a true “Joie de Vivre” throughout her life, gathering culture through her love of books, frequent trips to museums and open conversations with people from all walks of life. She was an artist, music buff, avid gardener, and world traveler. She was a loved and valued member of the Milford and Wilton, CT Communities. She enjoyed all activities by the water, including swimming, kayaking, and the overall beauty of sunsets and coastal living. Her creativity was most evident in her gardening and painting. Isabelle kept a warm and inviting home. She enjoyed cooking and was considered a chef by all who enjoyed her delicious meals. Especially fond memories were made over cozy dinners with friends and family.
She loved nothing more than spending time with her family. She is survived by her son Matthew John Edmond Mannix, and daughter Olivia Marguerite Helen Mannix (Jared Hujing), ex-husband John F. Mannix, Jr., her mother Marguerite Gorek; sister Sophie Wynne (Thomas) , nieces and nephews Chloe Wynne Reed (George) and Wesley Wynne. She was predeceased by her father the late Dr. Edmond Gorek.
Isabelle’s Celebration of Life
Venue: Village Bistro, Milford, CT
Thursday 1/20/2022
3-6 PM
Village Bistro is located at 141 Merwin Avenue in Milford, CT. Lunch will be provided throughout. There will be a Memorial service for Isabelle beginning at 5 p.m.
If you are unable to attend our Celebration of Isabelle’s life, please join us virtually, using the below link, at 4:45PM EST. The Service will begin promptly at 5PM. If you are unfamiliar with Zoom, these tutorials are available through the platform to aid in set up and navigation.
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In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to Uganda Farmers Inc. https://www.ugandafarmersinc.org/
Isabelle, RN, was a long-time supporter of Uganda Farmers Inc., a local nonprofit whose mission is to aid the rural poor in East Africa. She supported Lillian, a young poor girl from a rural village by paying her tuition through school. As a result, Lillian has graduated from nursing school, is now a certified health professional, and is devoting her life toward assisting others. None of this would have been possible without Isabelle’s love and concern. By donating to Uganda Farmers Inc. you can help to educate children in Africa lifting them out of the cycle of poverty.
Maturo, Annamae Rhodes
Due to the concerns about social gatherings affecting us all at this time, funeral and interment services will be held privately for the immediate family. Arrangements have been entrusted to Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull and online condolences may be left by visiting us at www.abriola.com. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude PL, Memphis, TN 38105.
Mete, Marjorie V.K.
Marjorie VK Mete, 94, of Southbury CT formerly of Milford CT, beloved wife of the late Joseph Mete passed away peacefully on Wednesday January 26, 2022. Born on July 17 in White Plains, she was the daughter of the late Helen (Shanahan) and Gordon Van Kuren.
Anyone who knew Marge would agree that she was a devoted mother and wife. She cherished her family and her faith. Known for her grace and kindness, Marge was always willing to lend a helping hand. There was not anything she would not do for the family, not only her daughter and husband but her extended family as well.
She is survived by her daughter Patricia Mete and her favorite son-in-law Charles Cash of Woodbury CT, and her “family” Patti and Tim Wege and Steve Myers all of New Hampshire. She embraced all of her husband, Joseph’s family, as her own and leaves them behind with fond memories of her caring ways. Marge also leaves behind many treasured friends especially Kathy and Jim Uebelacker and their family. She was predeceased by her sisters, Florence and Elvira, as well as her Aunt Gertrude and Gertrude’s daughter Myrtle and son, Charles. With them she developed her love for Lake George, sharing many special memories.
The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 5, 2022 at 10 a.m. at Saint Agnes Church, located at 400 Merwin Avenue, Milford, CT. (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). An interment will take place following mass at Saint Mary Cemetery located at Buckingham Avenue, Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contribution may be made to American Heart Association.
Miklos, Charles
Charles “Charlie” Miklos, 68, of Milford, passed away on January 10, 2022. Born on December 5, 1953 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Alexander and Margaret Miklos. He was a life long Milford resident of the Devon section.
Charlie is survived by his siblings, Barbara Noble, John Miklos, and Joseph Miklos; nieces and nephews, John Andrasko, AnnMarie Horton, Amy Harvey, Edward Miklos; and great nieces, Elizabeth (Luis), and Tina (David). He was predeceased by his brother, Alexander Miklos, his nephew David Noble, and his buddy Ernest Costa. He leaves to mourn his passing many more cousins, great-nieces, and great-nephews.
Charlie was a joy and he touched so many lives. He will be remembered for his great smile and his hugs. He loved going to Church, he always had his bible with him. He loved everyone, Charlie didn’t see color or race he just loved everyone. We all remember all the birthdays he had, every time we had company we had to have a cake with candles to celebrate him. His favorite outings were Burger King, and Shop Rite. He loved Coke Zero. His favorite holiday was Christmas, and Santa Clause. Charlie loved the ladies, and would often dance in the living room with his nieces and friends.
He will be so missed but we know he is now in heaven with Jesus.
We would like to thank Dr. Dean Har and his staff, for the care he always provided to Charlie and the staff at Bridgeport hospital who took care of Charlie with compassion and care.
Services will be at a later date.
Musfeldt, Walter J.
Walter J. Musfeldt, age 84, of Milford, CT, passed away on January 31, 2022.
Walter was born in Bridgeport on September 16, 1937, to the late Walter and Helen (Kalvis) Musfeldt and had been a lifelong area resident. In addition to his parents, Walter was predeceased by his sister, Patricia Krivi. Walter attended Harding High School, Bridgeport CT, after graduation he proudly served with the U. S. Army. He was an active salesman and model, retiring as Director of Sales for All State Fire Equipment. Walt had contagious smile and a wonderful sense of humor. He enjoyed taking drives along the Milford shoreline, painting, gardening, hiking, tennis, and kayaking.
Walter was survived by his beloved children, Kevin Musfeldt of Nashville, TN, and Michael Musfeldt (Susan Hansen) of Milford, CT, loving grandfather to Stephanie Musfeldt (Shawn Dickson), and two great-grandchildren, Arianna and Andrew, brother-in-law, Paul Krivi, and his loving family.
A service will be celebrated in the Spring, 2022. The Adzima Funeral Home- Stratford has been entrusted with the funeral arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Alzheimer’s Association, https://www.alz.org, in hopes that one day we will all meet the first Alz survivor.
Norman, Robert Douglas
Robert “Bob” Douglas Norman, 74, of Milford, beloved husband of Joyce (LeGeyt) Norman, peacefully passed away surrounded by his family on January 30, 2022. Born on March 29, 1947 in Winsted, CT, he was the son of the late Ralph and Ruth (Tallon) Norman.
He was known as Robert, Rob, Bob, Dad, Grandpa and Dada. The last two names are the ones that brought the most joy to his life. Memories of fishing, gardening, water gun fights in the pool, big family breakfasts and just talking around the kitchen table will always be in the hearts of his grandchildren.
Dad will always be the one who instilled a love of music in his children, showed them the importance of hard work and perseverance and taught them how to haggle the price of souvenirs outside Yankee Stadium.
Robert was the high school sweetheart of Joyce and the love of his life. They met when they were just kids and for more than 50 years shared their lives everyday…through ups and downs, heartaches and joy, they truly are an example of love always winning.
No matter what name you knew Robert by, everyone has one thing in common: they’ve laughed their hardest with him and their hearts will always be filled with love for knowing him.
Robert is survived by his children, Tara (Mitchell) Wexler, Jonathan (Louise) Norman, and Meghan (Robert) Cole; his grandchildren, Nicholas, Finn, Liv, Kai, Ella, and Liam; his siblings, Marianne Callahan, and Melissa (Fred) Panas; and by several nieces, cousins, and extended family members and friends. Bob was predeceased by his brothers, John and Kevin.
Friends and family may call from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Friday, February 4, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Paul Newman’s Hole in the Wall Gang, a charity he loved and supported www.holeinthewallgang.org.
Olah, William
William “Bill” Olah, 76, of Milford, passed away peacefully at home on January 27, 2022. Bill was born on July 11, 1945 in Bridgeport, CT to the late George and Dorothea Olah.
Bill was a proud veteran who served in the United States Navy. Bill worked for Windsor Properties as District Manager, managing the Newport and Robert Treat Apartments for over 50 years. He was an incredibly talented craftsman and handyman, from making jewelry and leather products from knife sheaths to gun holsters, one of a kind bracelets, necklaces, anything he could think of. Bill really enjoyed working on projects throughout his home. He took great pride in his yard and gardens and really enjoyed outings on his motorcycle. He also loved loud quality home theater systems. He was a people person and made friends wherever he went. Bill loved life, making others laugh and taking joy in the small moments.
His family would like to extend a special thank you to all the staff at Connecticut Hospice for their kind and compassionate care.
Bill leaves behind his son, David Carlson Olah and his partner, Cristina Ramos; sister, Nancy Pereto; niece and nephew, Christopher and Alison Pereto; his companion for over 20 years, Sandy Pelle; and his Granddaughter (kitty cat) Sebago. Bill was predeceased by his son, William George Olah II and his late wife, Ellen Carlson (Olah).
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Wednesday, February 2, 2022 from 5 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Funeral Service with Military Honors will close the evening at 7:30 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405.
Onofreo, Patricia Ann
Patricia Ann Onofreo, 79, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Mark Onofreo, passed away on January 25, 2022. Born on March 18, 1942 in Springfield, MA, she was the daughter of the late Robert T. and Mary V. (Sullivan) Moultis.
Pat was active in her community and was a member of the Saint Mary Ladies Guild, Women Refining Retirement, The Widows Group and Friends of the Milford Public Library.
Pat is survived by her children, Denise (Todd) Moyher and Mark Onofreo (Kim Calouri); her grandchildren, Sarah, Taylor, and Makaila; her great granddaughter, Phoebe; her brother, Robert (Janet) Moultis; and several nieces, nephews and extended family members.
The family would like to express their gratitude to the healthcare workers at Milford Health and Rehab for their care and compassion.
Friends and family may call from 9 a.m. to 10 a.m. on Monday, January 31, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, January 31, 2022 at 11 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT. Friends and family may call from 9 a.m. to 10 a.m. on Monday, January 31, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.
Protomastro, Robert “Bob”
Robert “Bob” Protomastro, 79, of Milford, beloved husband of Marie Protomastro, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loved ones on January 23, 2022. Born on September 4, 1942 in New Jersey, he was the son of the late Vincenzia Lombardi Protomastro.
Bob was a caring husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend. He grew up in Hoboken where he met the love of his life on a blind date that lasted 57 years. After a few years working in NYC, he moved his family to Milford where he enjoyed raising his girls. Bob loved being with friends, traveling, and loved to laugh and entertain his grandsons with “grandpa jokes”, creative stories, and corny magic tricks. An ideal day for Bob included walking along the beach, two-for-one sundaes and evenings with his longtime friends.
Along with his wife, Bob leaves behind his daughters, Marie Patel and her husband, Dr. Devang Patel, and Denise Ackerman and her husband, Roger; four grandsons; brothers, Nicholas Protomastro and Dr. Gerard Protomastro and his wife, Joan; brother-in-law, James Ciani and his wife, Dolores; and many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his sisters, Anne Murphy and Joan Nintzel.
Family and friends may gather on Thursday, January 27, 2022 from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Masks will be required, and please refrain from attending if you are not feeling well. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, January 28, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf St., Milford. Burial will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. For those who wish to make a memorial contribution in Bob’s name, donations can be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation or Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Rossi, Gaetano Carmine
His funeral procession will leave the PORTO FUNERAL HOME, 830 Jones Hill Rd., West Haven, MONDAY morning at 10:15. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in the Our Lady of the Assumption Church at 11:00. Entombment will follow in the Garden Mausoleum of St. Lawrence Cemetery. Family and friends may call SUNDAY from 4pm to 7pm. Sign Gaetano’s guest book online at www.portofuneralhomes.net.
Sansouci, Edward
Edward Sansouci was born June 6, 1931 and died January 23, 2022 at age 90. Friends and family may call from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Wednesday, January 26, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT. A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Thursday, January 27, 2022 at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT. Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Avenue, Milford, CT.
Schermerhorn, Marilyn A.
Marilyn A. Schermerhorn, 89, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Gilbert Schermerhorn, passed away peacefully on January 29, 2022. Marilyn was born on February 21, 1932 in Mechanicsville, NY to the late Elton and Amelia Laisdell.
Marilyn cherished every moment spent with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. She also enjoyed reading and traveling, her most recent trip being to Alaska with her sisters.
Marilyn leaves behind her children, Dale Schermerhorn, Gay Schlager and her husband David, and Ty Schermerhorn; five grandchildren, three great granddaughters; and siblings, Cheryl Anders, Diana Crosby and Lynn Laisdell and his wife Jeanette. In addition to her parents and husband, Marilyn was predeceased by her daughter-in-law, Kathleen Schermerhorn.
No services will be held. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford, CT 06405.
Shields, Anne M.
Anne M. Shields, 83, lifelong resident of Milford, beloved wife of the late Robert W. Shields entered into eternal rest on February 4, 2022. Born on February 25, 1938 in New Haven, she was the daughter of the late Frank and Antoinette Milone.
Raised in West Haven, Anne was a graduate of West Haven High School, class of 1955, where she was an honors student, class officer and captain of the cheer squad. Throughout her youth, Anne was passionate with regard to education, in particular a love for reading, a passion that stayed with her throughout her life. Anywhere Anne ventured, her Kindle was in tow.
After high school, Anne enrolled in Southern Connecticut State University graduating with a teaching degree, thus beginning her journey as an educator in the Milford Public School system that spanned more than 30 years, where she inspired generations of young children to share her passion for learning. Considered by many to a “teacher’s” teacher, Anne, along with her husband Bob, also a career educator in the Milford school system, spent their lives dedicated to the pursuit of teaching and inspiring the students of Milford to dedicate themselves to learn while always exemplifying the highest degrees of character. During her teaching career, she was able to touch the lives of elementary school students at Pumpkin Delight, Central Grammar and Meadowside schools until her retirement in 2000.
While her days were spent in the classroom, her afternoons and evenings were primarily spent on the bleachers watching her three sons (Todd, Robert & Craig) play little league, junior football, high school and college sports. Home or away, Anne was sitting in the bleachers, you could always find Anne in the crowd, not because she cheered the loudest but because she was the mother with one eye on her sons playing and the other focused while writing in her lesson plans for tomorrows class. We wouldn’t have wanted it any other way as those lesson plans became classroom learnings that her students would remember for years and to this day, remind hers sons wherever they meet at a restaurant, store or a gas station as to a special topic or moment that they recollect from her class 20-30 years prior. We are so proud and filled with joy when we hear “your mother was my favorite teacher”.
As respected and admired as a teacher earning many accolades and awards, Anne was first and foremost a Mother and a Grandmother, nothing could ever supplant that as her legacy. Family was everything to her and she treasured every moment and every opportunity to be with together. Summers in Boothbay Harbor, late June visits to Martha’s Vineyard, ski weeks in Vermont are forever imprinted in our memories along with her famous themed summer picnics including a memorable July 4 making her nephew dress as the Statue of Liberty. Anne’s Thanksgiving poems, crazy love of pewter, hour’s long phone calls and her love for the American flag will always be remembered as pure Anne. For many of us, we will always remember her handwritten notes and cards always closing with an “I love you” with a stick figure of herself holding balloons. For many of us that will be the Mom and Grandma we will miss the most.
Anne is survived by her children, Todd (Sharon) Shields, Robert Shields and his longtime partner Sue, Craig (Maria) Shields, grandchildren, Mark, Marissa, Morgan. Riley, Lauren, Luke, Alexis, Cameron and Chloe, Sister Elaine Strogie, Brother Frank (Gwen) Milone, many nieces and nephews, extended family, friends and former students. Anne was predeceased by her loving husband Bob in 2014.
The family would like to thank the staff of U.S. Renal care at their Orange and Branford locations for the love and care provided to Anne for the past nine years.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 12, 2022 at 11 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will take place at a later date at Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford CT.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the “Robert and Anne Shields” Scholarship fund c/o Joseph A. Foran High School, 80 Foran Road, Milford CT 06460.
Simmat, Barbara
It is with great sadness that I share with you the passing of my Mom, Barbara Simmat, on January 28th in our home with me and our cats, Cooper and Tucker, by her side.
Mom was born Mary Barbara Heilig in Reading PA on October 29, 1930 to Russell and Mary Willson Heilig. She grew up in Reading later living in New Jersey, Massachusetts and ultimately settling in Milford in 1964.
In 1973 Mom was working temp jobs when she accepted an assignment at BIC Pen. That temporary assignment turned into a 20 year career at BIC. One day she was summoned to Bruno Bich’s office. She was so afraid. What did she do that would cause her to be called to Bruno’s office? As it turned out he had heard that we had an extra bedroom and he was looking for a room and board situation for a French student coming for the summer to intern at BIC. Money was tight so she thought why not, plus it would be fun. Fun it was for she hosted many more interns over the years, traveled to France several times and developed long lasting friendships.
Mom also loved Italy, traveling to Rome, Venice, the Marche Region and the Amalfi Coast. It was in Rome where we had the infamous accident when our taxi t-boned another car and Mom broke her arm. Thankfully our friend Neva and her husband Rich came to the ER where Neva translated and Rich kept me company while Mom got her arm set. She came home with a big cast signed by the hospital staff.
Mom was a tireless advocate for insurance coverage for TMJ. She worked with Jim Amman in the CT legislature to require coverage and was president of the CT TMJ association. She traveled to Washington to meet with members of Congress and the NIH to discuss issues related to the recall of the implants in her jaw.
In her later years Mom struggled with COPD and macular degeneration but still enjoyed weekly lunches at Jeffrey’s and Rainbow Gardens as well as times with friends.
Mom and I are lucky to have the best friends who are our family. Thank you to everyone for the many years of fun and friendship. She and I have been so blessed to have your support, especially as her journey was ending.
A special thanks to her aide Juana for being our angel for the last 18 months. During this time Juana has become family. Also, Nurse Sandy who has been there for Mom and has provided comfort and guidance to me. And finally Sandra and the staff at Compassus who have provided Mom with exceptional care. We have known Nurse Sandra for many years going back to her pre nursing days as a waitress at Jeffrey’s. She has been both nurse and friend to Mom.
As she requested there will be no wake or funeral but instead ask that she be cremated, buried in Milford Cemetery and there be a celebration of her life.
Let’s raise a toast to a life well lived now and at a celebration when Covid and the weather allow.
Please note that many flowers/plants are toxic to the cats so I am not able to have them in the house. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her name can be made to Halfway Home Rescue the place where we adopted Cooper and Tucker.
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Simonelli, Ashley Nicole
Ashley Nicole Simonelli, 34 of Milford, CT, passed suddenly on January 14th, 2022. Ashley was born on August 24th, 1987 in Stamford, CT.
Ashley was a hard worker and free spirit with a vivacious personality. She enjoyed spending time with her family, friends and had a special place in her heart for animals. Although petite, Ashley was a self-proclaimed “Foodie” and you could always find her with a towering plate of food, especially her mom’s stuffed cabbage. Ashley enjoyed movies and music and could be found belting tunes from Selena and The Little Mermaid throughout her childhood home in Milford, CT. Ashley never left the house without a spritz of perfume. Ashley was truly, a one-of-a-kind soul and was always ready for a good time. You could count on her to make any situation fun, even if she couldn’t dance.
Ashley was a loving daughter, sister, and aunt. She is survived by her parents, Douglas and Susan Unger. Her twin, Heather Simonelli, her sisters Sarah Schreyer (Matthew), Rebecca Unger and brother, Alexander Unger. Grandmother, Kim Varney, Grandmother, Josephine Simonelli, Grandparents, Philip and Marion Unger. Along with many aunts, uncles and cousins. Her contagious smile and laugh will forever be missed.
Please join us in celebrating this special person’s life at Cody White Funeral Home on Saturday January 22nd from 3pm-6pm. In lieu of flowers, the family would like any copies of photos or videos you may have to be sent to Rebecca.unger16@gmail.com.
Skok, Robert William
Robert W. Skok, 73, passed away January 24, 2022 from cancer caused by exposure to Agent Orange during the Vietnam War. He was a 100% disabled Veteran. Born in Wilkes-Barre, PA on March 12, 1948, he was the son of Isadore and Olive Skok.
When Bob was an infant, his family moved to Milford, CT. Educated in Milford, Bob entered the Army in 1965. He served in Vietnam and was honorably discharged in 1968. After the war, he became an Operating Engineer at IUOE Local 478. He retired from United Rentals. For more than 20 years he was a crane operator for McClinch Crane in Fairfield, CT. Throughout his life, he enjoyed boating and fishing, along with hunting, especially with his son.
Bob leaves behind his loving wife, Kathleen McMahon Skok and his son, David Skok and his companion Angela Rocca, of North Adams, MA. He will also be remembered by his brother-in-law and sister-in-law, James and Paula McMahon, along with his nephews Scott and Patrick (Cheryl) McMahon.
A Military Graveside Service will be held on Thursday, January 27, 2022 at 11 a.m. at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT. Memorial contributions may be made online to DAV, or by mail to DAV, Chapter 15, PO Box 3006, Milford, CT 06460.
Smith, Walter “Bud”
Walter “Bud” Smith, 97, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Leontine “Lee” Smith, passed away peacefully with his family by his side on January 9, 2022. Born on December 27, 1924 in New Haven, he was the son of the late Walter H. and Adeline Smith and brother to the late Jane Wilcox. Bud grew up in Westville and was a graduate of Hillhouse High School. Facing the spectre of WWII, Bud enlisted in the United States Army at age 18 before he was captured at the Battle of the Bulge. He was liberated in Spring of 1945 and returned home to his family in Connecticut. Following his return, he attained his B.S in Engineering at the University of Connecticut.
After college, he began his lifelong business endeavor with his father in what would become Orange Hills Country Club, in Orange. With a group of 6 men, a bulldozer, and his handy crowbar, Bud cleared & built the back 9 holes at the golf course over 7 years. During the golf season he was a constant presence at the course, whether picking rocks in the fairway, setting up golf matches, or socializing with golfers in the clubhouse. Walter had a way of making golfers and employees alike feel like family, and he remained passionate for and actively involved in the family business up until the last days of his life. He was a proud member of the Wooster Lodge No. 79 A.F. & A.M, a Life Member of the CT Superintendents Association, and he was inducted into the CT State Golf Association Hall of Fame in 2000 for his Service to Golf.
Bud’s passion for and avid support of local sports teams started at age 8, when he and his friends snuck into a Yale Football game with a fake mascot bulldog (an imposter Handsome Dan). This began a lifelong tradition of attending and organizing tailgates for friends & family at the Yale football games. Later in life, UCONN basketball became another fixture of Bud’s – hardly a Lady Huskies’ basketball game transpired without his focused attention and play-by-play commentary.
More than anything, Walter loved and cherished spending time with all his family, and friends that he considered family. He is survived by his two children, son Jud W. and daughter Judith A. Smith, both of Orange; his 4 grandchildren Justin P. Morgan, Jennifer L. and spouse Katelin V. Morgan-Kohl, Rebecca S. Morgan, and Staci Baranchak; and his nephew John J. and spouse Lynn-Ann McGrail. He was predeceased by a son, Paul W. Smith and a daughter Patricia A. Henriques.
The family will be forever grateful for the loving care provided by Jirapha Glover, Maria Biondi, Rose Marie Green and Dawn Dalrymple.
Services are private at this time. There will be a Celebration of Life this Spring at Orange Hills Country Club. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Wreaths Across America, The Tommy Fund, or The Connecticut Association of Golf Course Superintendents (CAGCS).
Sparks, Janet
Janet Sparks, 77, of Milford, beloved wife of 55 years to James L. Sparks, Jr., passed away peacefully at home on January 19, 2022. Born on July 12, 1944 in Birmingham, England, she was the daughter of the late Fred and Clara Garrington.
Janet enjoyed bowling, bingo, reading and in her earlier days, knitting. She was the past president of the Catholic War Veteran Auxiliary. She and her husband, James, enjoyed traveling and going on cruises together.
Along with her husband, Janet leaves behind her children, Jennifer (Thomas) Esposito and James F. Sparks; grandson, Kyle Pysz; brother, John Garrington; and multiple nieces, cousins, and friends. She was predeceased by her sisters-in-law, Kathy Garrington and Sharron Jones Sparks.
Family and friends may gather on Tuesday, January 25, 2022 from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Funeral Service will conclude the gathering at 3:30 p.m. at the funeral home. Burial will follow at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.
Spinelli, Rosalie
Rosalie Spinelli, 88, of Orange, passed away on January 31, 2022. Rosalie was born on November 25, 1933 in Manhattan, NY to the late Rocco and Christina Spinelli.
Rosalie worked for 20 years at the Milford City Hall as a receptionist in the city attorney’s office. Rosalie was gifted with a meticulous eye for detail, color and design which carried into her talent of sculpting, painting, drawing and photography. She enjoyed classical music, dancing, cooking and being outdoors. Rosalie cherished every moment spent with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. She was a spiritual woman who had faith in God. Rosalie was a vibrant and kind hearted soul who will be deeply missed by all those who were blessed to know her.
Rosalie leaves behind her children, Lia Chouiki, Joseph DeRosa, Jr. and Samantha (Christopher) Miniter; grandchildren, Dana (Gregory) Casey, Dylan DeRosa and Kaitlyn Miniter; great grandchildren, Liam and Owen Casey; brother, Anthony (Josephine) Spinelli; and many nieces and nephews.
No services will be held at this time.
Stach, Ronald E.
Ronald E. Stach, 79, of Lynn, MA, beloved husband of Renate Stach, beloved father of Michael Stach, and beloved grandfather of Madeleine and Eleanor Stach, succumbed to Parkinson’s on January 8, 2022. Born on June 11, 1942 in Bridgeport, CT, he was the son of the late Edward and Margaret Stach.
Ronald grew up in Bridgeport, CT where he graduated from Central High School, which he ultimately retired from in 2003 as a History teacher in the Magnet Program. After high school, Ronald graduated from the University of Bridgeport with a B.S. in Education. After completing a Master of Arts degree in History from Columbia University in New York City, Ronald began his teaching career in Bridgeport at Bassick High School. For the last 18 years of his teaching career in Bridgeport, Ronald taught History at the Central High Magnet Program. The Magnet program was Bridgeport’s solution to make a first-rate college preparatory education available to the best and brightest students in Bridgeport. His time at Central Magnet made the final years of his career very rewarding. He loved being able to convey his love of learning and History to a diverse student body, many who went on to Ivy League schools and advanced degrees. Ronald felt uniquely privileged to be a part of this positive force in the community, as did many of his students. Upon retiring in 2003, Ron’s favorite activities included reading History, travelling, and golf.
He is survived by his brothers, Alan (daughter Monica) and David Stach (spouse Barbara) and David’s children, nieces Julianne (spouse Buddy), Ashley MacPherson (spouse Ross and children, Austin and Ian), Karissa Shields (spouse Tristan, and children Genevieve and Aubrey), and Kristen. He is also survived by his lifelong friend, Clinton Peterson, department head at Bassick High School and later a city-wide Social Studies Supervisor for the Bridgeport School system. Before Ronald’s marriage to his beloved wife Renate, Clint and Ron enjoyed travelling all over Europe and cross-country in the USA. In the later years, Ronald and Renate visited Clint in Florida enjoying many rounds of golf with Clint. Ronald left his beloved friends, family, students, and colleagues with many happy memories of time with him that keep him alive within us.
Friends and family may call from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. on Thursday, January 27, 2022 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Memorial Service will take place at 6 p.m. at the funeral home. Anyone unable to attend in person are welcome to join remotely at Next Level Live Stream. Click the red button on the home page to view the livestream. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Parkinson Foundation.
Steck, Jeffrey
Jeffrey Banning Steck, age 64, of Milford, died on Monday, January 24, 2022. Jeffrey was born in Bridgeport on May 25, 1957 to the late Roger and Ann Steckler Steck. He was an avid Green Bay packer and Mets fan. Jeff always had a smile on his face and was truly an inspiration for all who knew him. He will be dearly missed by his family and friends.
Survivors include his sister, Deborah Duhancik and her husband David of Milford, niece and nephews: Joshua Duhancik of Orange and Jeremy Duhancik of Loveland Colorado and his wife Emily and Megan Hurd and her husband Kevin of Milford. He also leaves behind his precious grand-niece and nephew, Olivia Duhancik and Oliver Hurd. Jeffrey loved his grand-niece and nephew dearly and would anxiously await pictures of them daily. He always enjoyed singing them songs on the phone and was very proud of them both.
Services will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the American Diabetes Association or the National Kidney Foundation. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Steinberg, Aaron Marc
Aaron Marc Steinberg, 34, of Brooklyn, NY and originally of Orange, CT, passed away on January 8, 2022. Born on February 13, 1987 in Milford, CT, he was the son of Paul and Kathleen (Listenes) Steinberg.
Aaron lived for music, and was known as “Music Wizard” to his friends. A 2005 graduate of Amity High School, he was a creative and talented guitarist. His passion first led him to move to New York City. He then relocated to Los Angeles to attend Musician’s Institute and landed a role on L.A. Rock City, a television show. Eventually he moved back to Brooklyn to be closer to his family during the pandemic. Aaron was adventurous and loved to travel and visit new places around the country. With a fantastic sense of humor, he enjoyed making everyone around him laugh. Aaron was a wonderful son and encouraging big brother. His family will forever miss his infectious personality and presence.
In addition to his loving parents, Aaron is survived by his younger sister Rebekah Nash and her husband, Sean, and his younger brother Samuel Steinberg; his maternal grandparents, Rosemarie Davis and Alan Listenes and his wife, Elaine; and by his many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Aaron was predeceased by his grandparents, Pearl and Samuel Steinberg, and Edward Davis.
A Graveside Service will be held on Thursday, January 13, 2022 at 11 a.m. at Congregation Or Shalom Cemetery, 75 Farwell St., West Haven, CT 06516. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Subbloie, Albert R. Sr.
Albert “Al” R. Subbloie, 96, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Mary Theresa Passariello Subbloie, joined his heavenly family on January 28, 2022. Al was born on December 23, 1925 to the late Mary (Affinito) and Anthony Subbloie. He grew up in West Haven and worked at White Motors as a truck mechanic. Al served in the military, after which he went on to become a successful carpenter and building contractor.
For over 50 years, Al built, remodeled and worked on many homes in the town of Orange as well as surrounding towns. He was a craftsman and perfectionist. He was known for his ability to create anything out of a piece of wood. Whatever he built was solid and lasted forever. He was trusted by so many to design, build, fix or create anything they wanted, from a tiny birdhouse to a custom-built home. He built an amazing reputation on being creative, precise, reliable, and responsive, and he took pride in his creations. Al continued to build custom things for his friends and family until he was in his early 90’s with the same precision and craftsmanship as he always had in previous years.
Although designing, building and creating were his passion, Al also loved to hunt and snowmobile. He loved the outdoors, whether he was working outside or hunting with his bow and arrow. Trips to Vermont to hunt over the years became trips to Vermont to snowmobile. Some of the highlights in his 60’s and 70’s included a number of trips with family and friends to Yellowstone Park, where he enjoyed snowmobiling within the Park to visit Old Faithful, along with viewing buffalo, wolf, and elk, followed by deep powder riding in the surrounding high mountain peaks. Al also enjoyed sports and played baseball and softball. There was no limit to what Al could do at almost any age. He was even seen as recently as 3 years ago driving the same green 1973 GMC Sierra Truck, now 50 years old, around town serving his friends and customers.
Al was married to his loving wife, Mary, in June, 1952 at Holy Infant Church. He built their first home in Orange on Dogburn Lane in 1955 and then they moved to Alpom Drive in 1962, where he built their second home, which is where he resided until his passing.
Al is survived by his daughter, Linda, his son, Albert, Jr. and his partner, Jacqueline Barbara. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Natalie Subbloie and Marcus Barbara, along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.
The family extends their deepest gratitude and appreciation to Al’s caregiver, Fatima Posmao, for the exceptional attention, care and love she gave to him. The family also thanks Fatima’s immediate and extended family for the help, support, and love they gave us in assisting Fatima in Al’s care over the years.
Services for Al will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of your choice, or, in loving memory of Al’s wife, Mary, to Cure Alzheimer’s Fund, 34 Washington St., Suite 310, Wellesley Hills, MA 02481.
Varga, Gregory T.
Gregory Thomas Varga, 53, of Milford, passed away on January 21, 2022. Born on March 26, 1968 in Bridgeport, he was the son of Ann Varga and the late Steve Varga.
Gregory loved three things in his life, his family, Darla and cars. His kids were first on his list. Everyone knows that Greg would do anything he can to make his kids happy and get them involved in whatever they wanted to do. His second love was his girlfriend whom he did everything with. Finally, his love for cars, he graduated from Platt Tech in ’86 from the auto body shop. Ever since then, that is where you can find him. He had the only job we all knew him by, working at Wanye’s Auto Body, a place where you could always find him. His days never stopped there, especially on those long Friday nights at Stafford Motor Speedway making sure the #10 Wayne’s Auto Body car was perfect and ready. He took pride in every car he worked on, and he would work on anybody’s car. You call him about your car, he would ask “what did you break now?” He wanted everyone safe in the cars he worked on. If you know Greg, you know his love for MOPAR, Dodge, Plymouth. Those are the cars he enjoyed the most and he was always the MOPAR guy.
Along with his mom, Greg also leaves behind his beloved children, Dylan Varga and Katelynn Varga; brothers, Steven Varga, Gary Varga, and Alan Varga; nephews, Michael (Vanessa) Varga and Daniel (Jessica) Varga; great nephew, Rolan Varga, adoring partner, Darla Lenihan; and many great friends. He was predeceased by his father, Steve Varga; brother, Jeffrey Varga; sister-in-law, Sharon Varga.
Family and friends may gather on Sunday, January 30, 2022 from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Katelynn or Dylan Varga’s education fund. Checks may be made payable to cash and mailed to 109 Underhill Road, Milford, CT 06460.
Vincelette, Donald R.
Donald R. Vincelette, age 74, of Milford, beloved husband of Linda Arendarczyk Vincelette for 53 Years, died on Sunday, January 30, 2022 surrounded by his family. Donald was born in New Haven on November 9, 1947 to the late Rene and Elmira Cossette Vincelette. Donald was a US Marine Corp Vietnam Veteran who was wounded in action. Donald was proud to be a veteran and worked at the VA Hospital for many years in West Haven. Survivors include his daughter, Denise Van Hise of Milford, sister, Louise Rapacciuolo of Milford, sisters-in-law, Joan George of Milford and Carol Vincelette of Hanford, CA, and three grandchildren, James, Jenna and Jackson Van Hise and several nieces, a nephew and great nieces and nephews. Donald is predeceased by his son-in-law, Trevor Van Hise and brother, Joseph “Mike” Vincelette. Friends and family are invited to meet directly at the mausoleum in Mount Saint Peter’s Cemetery, Derby at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 5, 2022 with full military honors being rendered. There will be no calling hours. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Disabled American Veterans in Donald’s memory. To share a memory or to donate, please visit to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Whitcomb, Virginia Ruth Goodbody
She loved kayaking and did so, well into her 90s. She was a life-long bridge player and immensely enjoyed the many bridge clubs she played in and substituted for. Her interests were broad and included tennis, square dancing and bowling, though none of these touched her passion for bridge. She enjoyed travel that reached all seven continents, first with her husband and, following his death, with other family and friends. She was always a learner and an avid reader of non-fiction. Virginia was a member of the Orange Congregation Church for 68 years, serving on many committees and playing in the Bell Choir. She also greatly enjoyed the New Haven Symphony and regional theater.
Virginia is survived by her four devoted children, Suzanne Reynolds (Robert), William G. Whitcomb (Linda), Leslie H. Whitcomb, Patience Benassi (Martin), six grandchildren, twelve great-grandchildren, one step granddaughter, three step great-grandchildren and was predeceased by grandsons, Charles Reynolds and Jason Avigne. The family would like to thank the attentive staff at Benchmark Senior Living, Hamden for their spirited care and the comfort provided by the nurses, chaplain, and staff of Constellation Hospice.
There will be an in person and virtual memorial service on Saturday, February 5, 2022, at 2pm, at the Orange Congregational Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Orange Congregational Church, UCC. She will be greatly missed by her family and many friends.
Williams, Glenn Alan
Glenn Alan Williams was born December 1, 1962 and died February 2, 2022 at age 59.
Zwiebel, Roland Joseph
Roland graduated from Webster High School, graduated from Fairfield University, and attained his DDS from University of Maryland. He began his dental practice in Milford, CT and served 4 generations of grateful patients……. over the course of 35 years! He served as chairman of the Milford Chapter of the American Red Cross for 3 years, was a member for 20 years, and a member of the Milford Fine Arts Council Board of Trustees. Roland volunteered with Habitat for Humanity and was a faithful member of Asylum Hill Congregational Church in Hartford, CT. He was such a supporter of his beloved UConn Women Basketball team. Dr. Z was an avid hot rod fan, especially his 1933 modified Chevy Street Rod. He enjoyed cruising and traveling in the Southwest and Europe. In 1997, he married the love of his life, Jeanne. Roland and Jeanne enjoyed living in Wallingford, CT for 18 years. They retired to Las Cruces, NM in 2015. In retirement, Dr. Z volunteered at the Lighthouse Panty, at Morningstar Methodist, where they are members. The ROMEO’S (retired old men eating out) met for lunch at various restaurants every week. This outing with the guys remained very special to him to the end. In retirement, several times a month, Roland and Jeanne enjoyed gathering with friends to eat and play cards. Roland was an excellent card player, too!
Dr. Zwiebel was preceded in death by his parents and 2 brothers, Alfred and George. He is survived by his loving wife, Jeanne, 3 step children: Doreen McCarthy, Barbara Pelletier, and Paul Kuraitis. Also, he has 3 wonderful grandchildren: David, Dan, and Sabrina. Roland, also leaves behind 2 sister in laws: Barbara Zwiebel, Claudia Zwiebel, numerous nieces, nephews, and their children. Roland is survived by many friends far and wide on the East Coast and Southwest who will miss his wit, storytelling, and generosity very much.
A Memorial Service will be held on February 2, 2022 at Morningstar Methodist Church at 11:00 AM. Those wishing to honor Roland can donate to Hospice of Connecticut, Habitat for Humanity, or Morningstar Methodist Church of Las Cruces, NM.
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