Jerry Benson
Gerald T. Benson, 83, of Milford, beloved spouse of Judith Benson for 54 years, passed away on March 27, 2026. Born on May 17, 1942, he was the son of the late Bernhardt and Helen Benson.
Jerry proudly served his country in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam era, a commitment that stayed with him throughout his life. After his service, he worked for many years as a carpenter and later as an operating room associate at Yale, where he was respected for his reliability and strong work ethic.
He formed lifelong friendships with a group affectionately known as the “Goombas”: Bobby, Ronny, Pat, Nicky, and the late Paul. Those friendships stood the test of time, and their semiannual gatherings were a constant source of laughter, loyalty, and connection. He studied political science at UNH and maintained a steady interest in current events and had a love for history.
Jerry loved sports and was a devoted fan of the NY Giants, the NY Yankees, and UConn Women’s and Men’s Basketball. He found quiet happiness tending to his flower and vegetable gardens, digging in the dirt, and spreading layers of rich mulch. For Jerry, there was never enough mulch.
In addition to his wife, Judy, Jerry is survived by his children, Jennifer Fatemi and husband Matthew, and Jon Benson; his grandchildren, Caitlin Peden and husband Tyler, Patrick McKelvey and wife Yashi Severson, Ellie Fatemi, Devon Verma, Austin Benson, and Olivia Benson; his great granddaughter, Mila; his nieces and nephew, Cheryl Padilla, Cassandra Nieves, and Omal Padilla; and great nephews, Logan and Cody. Jerry was predeceased by his sister, Gale Benson-Padilla.
Friends and family are invited to gather from 4 pm to 8 pm on Tuesday, March 31, 2026 at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 am on Wednesday, April 1, 2026 at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT. Military Honors will immediately follow and will be served at the church. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association at heart.org.
Magda “Bella” Borroto
Magda Emelia Borroto, age 94, of Milford, beloved wife of the Guillermo Borroto, entered peaceful rest on March 30, 2026 at her home.
She was born on May 30, 1931 in Cuba and was the daughter of the late Phillipe and Maria (Milian) Hernandez. Magda was an avid gardener and was passionate about watching the UConn Girls basketball team. Her greatest joy was her family.
Magda was affectionately known as “Bella” to her family and friends. She is survived by her two devoted children, William Borroto of Milford and Jeanette Sullivan and her husband Frank of Monroe, two loving grandchildren, Kimberly Manley and her husband, Ken of Monroe and Christine Sullivan and her husband, Raj Singh of Modesto, CA and two beautiful great granddaughters, Emelia and Holly Manely.
Family and friends may call on Thursday, April 2, 2026 from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. with Funeral Service at 11:30 a.m. at the GREGORY DOYLE FUNERAL HOME. 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment to follow at King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford.
Jennifer Lynn Brenes
Jennifer Lynn Brenes, 50, of Milford, passed away peacefully on March 30, 2026 at Yale New Haven Hospital while surrounded by her loving family. Jennifer was born on June 24, 1975, in Toledo, OH, to Douglas and Janice Capehart. Jennifer was the beloved wife of 27 years to Jonathan Brenes.
Jennifer was the true matriarch of her family in every sense of the word, a selfless and loving woman whose greatest joy in life was caring for her husband, children, and all those she held dear. She carried a deep appreciation for life that shone through in her warmth and kindness, and anyone who met her was drawn to her almost instantly. Jennifer had a rare and beautiful gift for making others feel safe, valued, and truly seen, always placing the needs of others before her own. She took great pride in her home, finding happiness in creating a space filled with comfort and love, and enjoyed shopping, often with family in mind. Her presence was a steady source of compassion and strength, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know her.
In addition to her beloved husband Jon, she is survived by her son Michael Maldonado (Kyhara Jeanty), son Ryan Brenes (Ava), and Emily Brenes. Grandchildren: Sophie Maldonado and Liliana Maldonado. Mother-in-law Sandra Jabiles and father-in-law Isaac Jabiles. Sibling in laws: Michael Brenes (Heidi), Dayvid Brenes (Veronica), and Cassia Jazmine Jabiles (Leonardo Portillo). Niece Jaidy Brenes and nephew Mikael Brenes. As well as many additional beloved family and friends.
A Graveside Funeral Service will be celebrated on Monday, April 6, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at King’s Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY)
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital online at www.Stjude.org
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Joan M. Costello
Joan M. Costello, of Milford, beloved wife of Peter Costello for 69 years, passed away peacefully on February 26, 2026. She was 91 years old. Joan was born in Mount Vernon, New York, on August 21, 1934 to the late Charles and Marie Voepel Kirchheim, though she mostly grew up in Burlington, VT. where she earned a bachelor’s
degree in nursing from the University of Vermont. Her long career included work as a floor nurse in various hospitals, supporting the family while her husband earned his doctoral degree. Once established in Milford in 1968, she became very involved in the community with work teaching nursing students at the University of Bridgeport and later as the Director of Education at Milford Hospital. There she designed and taught many community health education programs. Joan also served on the Milford Board of Health for many years and was active in the garden club. She and her family enjoyed many years sailing in New England on their boat, the Sandpiper and once
retired enjoyed exploring the country, especially the Colorado mountains and the western states. Joan will be remembered for her kind smile and warm personality.
Survivors, in addition to her husband Peter, include her children, Paul Costello and his wife Theresa of Milford and Kristen Costello and her husband Brian Smith of Evergreen, CO, five grandchildren, Peter and Michael Costello, Aaron and Dylan Smith, and Scott McCoy, as well as four great-grandchildren, Avery, Oliver, Elijah and Shine and her life-long friend, Connie Young. Family and friends may call on Saturday, March 21, 2026 from 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. at the GREGORY DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford, CT. Interment will be private. A celebration of life will be planned for a later date when more of her family can gather.
Jeffrey Michael Detoro
Jeffrey Michael Detoro of Milford passed away unexpectedly on March 17, 2026. He was born on February 13, 1984 and was a beloved son of Anthony, Jr. and Pamela Detoro.
Jeffrey graduated from Jonathan Law High School and earned his bachelor’s degree from Southern Connecticut State University. He had been employed with CSX Freight.
In addition to Jeffrey’s parents, he will be dearly missed by his brothers: David and his partner Sarah, and Nicholas his wife Lisa and their children Alyssa, Anthony, and Ashley; his grandmother Joan M. Barre; along with many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00am Thursday March 26, 2026 at St. Ann Church, 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. There are no calling hours. Interment will be private. The GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME in Milford is honored to be serving Jeffrey’s family.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Jeffrey’s memory to The Cure Starts Now at www.thecurestartsnow.org or mail your check to 10280 Chester Road Cincinnati, OH 45215. Please put Jeffrey Detoro on the memo line.
Jean Y. Dorfeuille
Jean Y. Dorfeuille, age 71, of Milford, beloved husband of Nancy Marcelin for 25 years, died peacefully at home on March 12, 2026. Jean was born in Haiti on January 17, 1955, to the late Justin and Andrea Joseph Dorfeuille. He was in pharmaceuticals and worked as a chemist for many years. Jean will be dearly missed by his family and friends. Survivors include his sister, Marjorie Vaval of New York and several cousins. Friends are invited to greet the family on Friday, March 27th from 8:30 a.m. – 10:30 a.m. in THE GREGORY DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated following the Calling Hours at 11:00 a.m. in Saint Ann Church (St Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment will be private. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Martha C. Farrington
Martha Constance Farrington, née Gelormine, aged 79, passed away on March 14 2026. Martha was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut on September 12 1946, the second daughter of the late Benjamin and Mildred Gelormine. She was the widow of Richard Farrington, who predeceased her in 2003.
Marti was a well-known figure in Milford. She lived nearly her whole life in the city, and in nearby Orange. After graduating from Jonathan Law High School in the Class of 1965, she went to work at Wildermere Public Library as an assistant librarian. She would work at Milford Public Libraries throughout her long career. After initially retiring in 2006, she worked at other area libraries, spending most of her time at Black Rock Library in Bridgeport. She had a lifelong love of literature and reading.
Marti and Rich were passionate about dogs and landscape photography. The Farringtons won prizes for their training of Old English Sheepdogs, but were also known for training Australian Shepherds. Their photography of Milford and other Shoreline communities were regularly presented at local shows and photo clubs. They also travelled extensively around New England and the East Coast, often with their dogs, in search of new landscapes to capture.
Marti’s love of animals and nature was sustained long after Rich’s passing. She continued to support wildlife causes throughout her life.
After finally retiring from her career as a librarian, Marti volunteered regularly at the Milford Senior Center. She was honoured by the centre in 2013 for her commitment to public service.
Above all, Marti was a devoted wife, daughter and sister. She provided love and advocacy for her father, husband, and sisters Linda and Dolores, during their illnesses, and sadly predeceased her. She was also predeceased by her brother, Benjamin Jr.
Marti is survived by her niece, Michelle Scott, and nephew Louis Wahl, his wife Paula Goodman, and their children Zack, Olivia and Kate.
We would like to thank Diane and the aides at Family Matters Home Care LLC who have looked after and supported Marti for many years, ensuring her final years were safe and comfortable.
A memorial service will be held for Marti sometime this Spring. An announcement will be made in the local press in due course.
Dorothy Louise Flynn
A 1959 graduate of the James Hillhouse High School, Dorothy was an active member of the Rifle Team and Student Council Representative for each of her four years; she also served as Red Cross Representative for three years and Homeroom Representative for two years. She later attended Albertus Magnus College for two years.
In her younger years, Dorothy was a ballet dancer. Always active and engaged in a variety of interests throughout her adulthood, Dorothy went bowling every Tuesday; she enjoyed ceramics, sewing, and arts and crafts. She relished in visiting her favorite vacation spots, Italy, Ireland and Walt Disney World. Dorothy was lauded for being the best Italian cook “this side of the Pond.”
She will live on in the hearts of those she leaves behind.
Special thanks to Orange Healthcare for the compassionate care they gave our mom, and to Accent Care for her hospice providers.
Arrangements were entrusted to West Haven Funeral Home at the Green, 662 Savin Avenue, West Haven, CT. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, April 1, 2026, from 4 to 7 o’clock. A prayer service will begin at 6:45 p.m. in the funeral parlor. Interment will be private.
To share a memory or an online condolence with Dorothy’s family, please visit www.westhavenfuneral.com.
Joseph V. Giorla
Joseph V. Giorla Sr, 91, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Vernell Giorla nee Iden, passed away on March 25, 2026. Born on November 1, 1934 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, he was the son of the late Dominick and Carmella (Isgro) Giorla. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and brother.
Joseph took great pride as the Union Shop Steward of Temple University Hospital while working in facility management. He was always an artist. He loved painting, and building dollhouses, and in his younger years he was an avid musician, even playing for weddings, singing in his band. Joseph loved cars and animals most of all his favorite dog Santino. He will be most remembered by his family for the love he had for them, and how he always put his family first. Whether it was mentoring his grandchildren in life, or telling one of his many great stories, Joseph loved and cherished his family above all.
Joseph is survived by his beloved wife of 69 years, Vernell, his three children Diane Giorla, Debbie (Salvatore) Siconolfi, and Joseph Giorla Jr, his ten grandchildren, Stephanie Romasko, Michele Cox, Kimberly Picozzi, A.J. Picozzi, Dominic Giorla, Stacy Giorla, Dennis Giorla, Nicole Fallon, Anthony Siconolfi, and Salvatore Siconolfi Jr. Joseph is also survived by thirteen Great Grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.
Other than his parents, Joseph is predeceased by his son Dominic (Sandi) Giorla, and his sister Frances Collacchi.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, April 17, 2026, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to DAV: Disabled American Veterans.
Joyce Patricia Held
Joyce Patricia Held, 65, of Milford, passed away on March 8, 2026. Born on March 13, 1960 in Milford, CT, she was the daughter of the late Raymond and Helen Brown.
A proud business owner, Joyce dedicated her time to running her restaurant, Villa Roma. She took great pride in her work and in the community that gathered around her table.
Family was always at the center of Joyce’s life. She was blessed with a large, loving family and found her greatest joy in being a grandmother. Her grandchildren held a special place in her heart, and she treasured every moment traveling with them around the world. Whether near or far, those trips were filled with laughter, adventure, and the kind of moments that become lifelong memories.
Joyce is survived by her daughters, Sharon and Kimberly; her grandchildren, Haley, Tyler, EJ, Zack, Tommy, Ava, Madison, and Mason; and her great grandchildren, Ricky, Bryce, Princess Zoey, Bella, and John.
Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association at https://www.heart.org/donate.
Patricia A. Hoey
Patricia A. Hoey, 90, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully at her home on March 8, 2026.
Patricia was born on May 30, 1935, in Englewood, New Jersey, to the late Michael and Ella O’Brien. She was the beloved wife of the late Francis “Frank” Patrick Hoey Sr., with whom she shared 48 years of marriage. Patricia lived in Stamford for many years before moving to Milford, Connecticut.
Patricia lived a life marked by resilience, determination, and warmth. She lived most of her life with significant hearing loss; she did not begin school until the age of seven. At a time when opportunities for children with disabilities were limited, she became the first student in her area to receive special education, helping pave the way for others who followed. A remarkably skilled lip reader, Patricia never allowed her hearing loss to limit her independence or her determination.
She attended Fairleigh Dickinson University for six years, studying accounting and medical technologies. Patricia later worked as a postal clerk for the United States Postal Service for nearly 40 years, retiring at the age of 74. She had a lifelong love of learning and embraced new things with enthusiasm—from mastering technology such as texting and FaceTime, to making regular trips to the library, and even taking up crocheting at the age of 90 so she could make scarves for her family.
Patricia was beloved by all who knew her and had an extraordinary sense of humor that made her a joy to be around. Throughout her life she enjoyed dancing, playing tennis, watching the Patriots, playing cards and bingo, and crocheting with friends. Above all, she treasured time spent with her family. Strong and inspirational, Patricia remained active in her community, where her neighbors became like family. She will be remembered for her kindness, perseverance, quick wit, and the happiness she brought to so many lives.
Patricia is survived by her loving children: Daniel P. Hoey (Lynnette), Timothy F. Hoey (Stacy Ferber), Kelley M. Maconochie (Robert), and Frank P. Hoey Jr. (Deirdre). She was the proud grandmother of nine cherished grandchildren: Emily Resk (Mitchell), Jackson Hoey, Kimberleigh Hoey, Adriano Maconochie (Samantha), Shannon Maconochie, Jacklyn Maconochie, Mackenzie Hoey, Teagan Hoey, and Grace Hoey. She is also survived by many additional beloved family members and friends.
She was predeceased by the love of her life, her husband Frank, and their oldest son, Michael B. Hoey.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Sunday, March 15, 2026, from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, Connecticut.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, March 16, 2026, at 9:30 a.m. at the Church of the Holy Spirit, 403 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, Connecticut. Interment will follow at Queen of Peace Cemetery, 124 Rock Rimmon Road, Stamford, Connecticut.
Though her voice may now be silent, the love, laughter, and strength she shared will continue to echo in the hearts of all who knew her.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Patricia’s honor may be made to the DeMaio Garden Club, the community where she spent the last nine years. Checks may be mailed to 75 DeMaio Drive, B-10, Milford, CT 06460.
Patricia Lilly
Patricia Lilly, 81, of Milford, beloved wife of the late John Patrick Lilly, passed away on March 7, 2026. Born on July 27, 1944 in Glasgow, Scotland, she was the daughter of the late William and Mary Harmon.
Patricia will be remembered for the simple joys that brought warmth to her life. She had a special love for playing bingo and shopping. One of her favorite pastimes was traveling the waters of the Long Island Sound with her husband, John, enjoying peaceful days together on their boat.
Above all else, Patricia cherished her family. Nothing meant more to her than spending time with her loved ones, especially her grandchildren, who brought her happiness.
Patricia is survived by her children, John (Kate) Lilly, Stephen Lilly, and Terence (Stacy) Lilly; her grandchildren, Seaver, Ryan, Evan, and Tyler Lilly; her sister, June Crabbe; her sister in law, Patricia Lilly; several nieces and nephews; and her dog, Cami.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, March 17, 2026, at 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 18, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Saint Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry Street, Milford.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.
James W. O’Brien
James W. O’Brien, 89, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of the late Georgette (Haskins) O’Brien, passed away on March 5th at home surrounded by his loving family. Born on December 15th, 1936 in Peckville, Pennsylvania, he was the son of the late Lawrence and Mildred (Munley) O’Brien.
Jim was a Veteran of the Army National Guard and the owner of Plastic Marking Specialists in Milford. He was a lifetime member of the Milford Elks Lodge #1589, an avid golfer, but his true loves were and his family, especially his grandchildren.
Jim is survived by his children Cheryl Riordan, and Darrin O’Brien, His grandchildren Danielle O’Brien, Joseph O’Brien, Ryan Riordan, and Katherine Riordan, siblings Patrick O’Brien, MaryLynne Larkin and Michael (Sue) O’Brien, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Other than his parents and loving wife, James is predeceased by his brother Lawrence O’Brien, sister Bridget O’Brien, and his son-in-law Robert Riordan.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday March 12th, 2026, at 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burialcewill be celebrated the following day, Friday March 13th, 2026 at St Mary’s, 70 Gulf St. Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery, 35 Gulf St. Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Anthony’s Army 18 Cowles St. Milford, CT 06461.
Aaron J. Pelaccia
It is with profound sadness the family of Aaron J. Pelaccia announce his passing on March 20, 2026 at 42 years old.
He will be dearly missed by his wife Chloe, his daughter Alexandra and son Gavin. He will be lovingly remembered by his mother Bonnie Pelaccia of Orange, CT; his father Joseph Pelaccia and wife Marie of Orange, CT; sister Erica Lindhal and husband David of Fargo, ND; brother Evan Pelaccia and wife Katie of Orange, CT and brother Ellis Pelaccia and wife Beth of Orange, CT. He will also be dearly missed by his nephew and nieces Leighton, Flora, Sophia, and Ariana, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Aaron was born on April 7, 1983 in Derby, Connecticut. He attended Amity Regional High School, earned his Bachelor’s in Accounting from Augsburg University, and Master’s in Taxation from the University of New Haven. He was a Certified Public Accountant and during his professional career worked for Marcum, Henkel and the IRS.
Aaron’s greatest love and source of joy was spending time with his children. In addition, Aaron had many passions and hobbies that enriched his life. He was an accomplished angler, avid reader, traveler and musician. One of his favorite pastimes was attending concerts, including dozens of Phish shows over the years. He was also a man of faith whose belief in God brought him strength and guidance. His loss is profoundly felt and he will be deeply missed.
Family and friends are invited to calling hours on Friday, March 27th, 2026 from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. at Cody White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A funeral mass will follow at 12 p.m. at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks contributions be made to his children’s college funds by clicking here and here.
Carmela M. “Bunny” Petrucelli
Carmela M. “Bunny” Petrucelli, age 87 of Milford, passed away peacefully on Friday March 6, 2026, at Orange Rehabilitation and Health Care Center in Orange. She was the beloved wife of the late Robert Petrucelli, Sr. Born in Bridgeport on April 15, 1938, she was the only child of the late James P. and Carmella M. (Squezello) Fellows. She was employed by the Milford Board of Education at Jonathan Law High School for many years and also at the Milford Jai Alai fronton before her retirement. She was a wonderful cook and loved sunflowers and chocolate fudge. She was a great fan of her children’s and grandchildren’s baseball, softball and soccer teams, UConn Women’s basketball, MLB Spring Training, the Boston Red Sox and Neil Diamond. A loving and devoted daughter, wife, mother and grandmother, she will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. Carmela is survived by her loving children, Robert (Bob) Petrucelli, Jr. and his wife Mary Shropshire of West Haven, Mark Petrucelli of Milford, Tammy Petrucelli and her spouse Susan Brown of West Haven, Jamie Petrucelli and his wife Karen of Boca Raton, Florida; her cherished grandchildren, Jules Petrucelli of North Branford, Chris Petrucelli and his spouse Brianna of Hyde Park, New York; her grandchildren’s aunt, Patty “Ciocia Pat” Denis; and her longtime, devoted best friend Linda (Roger) St. Cyr of Milford. The family would like to extend their deep gratitude for the care Carmela received from all of her doctors, nurses, and support staff during her lifetime. Funeral services and internment will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to Orange Rehabilitation and Health Care Center or to the charity of one’s choice.
Joan Rainey
Joan Rainey, 96, of Milford, beloved wife of the late David Rainey, passed away on March 13, 2026. Born on January 21, 1930 in Hartford, CT, she was the daughter of the late Harold and Catherine (Corbett) Summers.
Joan was a graduate of Milford High School and worked for the City of Milford in the engineering Department for over 23 years. Joan enjoyed volunteering for Milford Hospital, spending time with her Red Hats, traveling as much as she could, watching the UConn Women’s Basketball Team and the NY Giants. She always looked forward to her Thursday night card games with her friends. And most of all spending time with her grandchildren, especially her youngest great granddaughter Lily.
Joan is survived by her children, Kevin (Lauren) Rainey, Stephen (Barbara) Rainey; 13 grandchildren; 7 great grandchildren; and her brother, Harold Summers, Jr. Joan was also predeceased by her infant son, David, Jr.; sons William and Robert Rainey; and siblings, Ralph, Diane, and Rosemary.
Services will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
Elmer G. Rowe
Elmer G. Rowe, 90, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Susan MacDonald Rowe passed away on March 22, 2026. Born on March 29, 1935 in Nanticoke, PA, he was the son of the late Ernest and Marion (Shukait) Rowe.
Elmer will be remembered as a proud Marine whose strength of character and quiet dedication carried through every part of his life. He found joy in the simple things that brought people together—whether it was talking endlessly about his love of golf, spending time at the bowling alley as a devoted member of the Senior Bowling League, or greeting familiar faces at the Woodruff YMCA, which he considered his second home. There, he swam daily, building not only his health but lasting friendships. Elmer had a gift for connection; he was warm, sociable, and seemed to conversate with everyone he encountered. One of his greatest joys was bringing smiles to others, especially when he played Santa for nursery children, a role he embraced with genuine delight. His kindness, friendliness, and vibrant spirit will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
In addition to his beloved wife, Sue, Elmer is survived by his son, Kevin Rowe, his daughter, Sharon Dougherty, his step-son, Christopher Marchese, his brothers, Donald, Bill (Rose), and Kenneth (Sharon) Rowe, grandchildren, John, Talia, Billy, Michael, and Karlee, his great grandchildren, Patrick, Astella, Davy, Nyxlee, Jackson, and Ryder; and several nieces and nephews. Elmer was predeceased by his beloved first wife, Stella Rowe, daughter, Kimberly Mohr; brothers, Ernest and John; and his sister, Evelyn Sirak.
Friends and family may call from 5pm to 8pm on Friday, March 27, 2028 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Saturday, March 28, 2028 at 10am at the funeral home. Interment with Military Honors will immediately follow at King’s Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers please consider making a donation in Elmer’s memory to the St. Judes Children’s Research Hospital.
Joseph V. Shay
Joseph Vincent Shay, of Milford, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family, on March 26, 2026, the day after his 96th birthday. He was the beloved husband of 62 years of the late Mildred J. Shay. He was born in White Plains, NY on March 25, 1930, the only son of Hilda Palaia and Joseph Shay. He grew up in the Hollow neighborhood of Bridgeport where he attended St. Augustine elementary school and graduated from Central High School in 1947. He joined the Marine Corps in 1950 and proudly served his country as a Staff Sargeant during the Korean Conflict.
Joe, affectionately known as “Dude”, married Millie in 1955 and they settled in Fairfield, where they would live for 45 years, and raised their family. He worked at Bryant Electric and in 1962, began his 30 year career with Harvey Hubbell in both Bridgeport and Orange, retiring in 1992 at the age of 62 as the Director of Data Processing. In his retirement, he began gardening and created beautiful rose gardens, continued his passion for reading, and walked every day.
Joe was a devoted Yankees and Jets fan, a supporter of college basketball who had season tickets for 30 years to the Fairfield University Stags Men’s basketball games. He was a friend of Bill’s for more than three decades. He created a lifetime of memories vacationing with his family in Misquamicut Beach, Rhode Island every summer, and the tradition continues.
Joe will be missed and remembered by his beloved children, Coleen (Art) Clark of Milford, Karen (George) Swift of Randolph, NJ, Lisa (George) Poland of Orange and Christopher (Annie) Shay of Trumbull; his thirteen grandchildren, Michael (Michelle) Clark, Karen (Eric) Anton, Ryan (Melissa) Clark, Sean (Randi) Swift, Patrick and Andrew Swift, Katharine, Elizabeth and John Poland, Connor, Grace and Nolan Shay and Emily Kiely; and his six great-grandchildren, Layne (Bunny) Clark, Dylan Clark, Wesley Clark, Hazel and Shay Swift and Emmett Clark; nieces and nephews, including his special niece, Patricia Konecny; and his companion, Geraldine Westover.
A Graveside Service will be held on Saturday, April 4, 2026 at 11 am in Lawncroft Cemetery, 1740 Black Rock Tnpk., Fairfield with Military Honors. Friends may greet the family on Friday, April 3, 2026 from 4-7 pm with Words of Remembrance being shared at 6:30 pm in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull.
To leave an online condolence, visit www.abriola.com.
Diane D. Smith
Diane Deborah (Kane) Smith, age 69, of Milford, CT, beloved wife of John Smith, passed away after a brief illness into the loving arms of Jesus on Saturday, March 7, 2026 at Bridgeport Hospital. Diane was born in St. Vincent’s Hospital in Bridgeport, CT, on August 18, 1956, to the late Irene and James Kane.
Diane was a lifelong Milford resident and a 1974 graduate of Jonathan Law High School. Diane was a well-liked student, and many of her classmates became lifelong friends. Diane dedicated over 35 years of her career to Schick-Wilkinson Sword in Milford where she advanced to a middle-management position as a Reliability Inspector, where she was highly regarded by colleagues and leadership alike.
Diane loved watching Nascar (#48) and reality police shows, she was also a 49ers fan. She loved getting her nails done and anything pink! Diane would enjoy sitting down at the beach listening to music and hanging out at home reading or doing crafts on her own or with her grandchildren. She also spent her years traveling with her husband and most recently with her sons and grandchildren. Her life revolved around her family and her efforts to be the best wife, mother, grandmother, and sister she could be.
Those who knew Diane will remember her warmth and loyal heart, her lively personality and quick wit, and the genuine joy she brought into the lives of others. She had a special way of making people feel valued, and besides her family, her friendships were among the most important treasures of her life. Diane will live on through the many memories of the laughter and love she shared with those fortunate enough to call her a friend.
Diane will be sadly missed by her husband of 47 years, John Smith of Milford; her children: Brandon Smith and his wife Elizabeth of Canton, Jarrett Smith and his wife Evette of Waterbury, and Justin Smith and his wife Susann of Milford; her twin brother Brian Kane and his wife Martha of New Hampshire; brother-in-law Robert Smith and his wife Eileen; sister-in-law Kathleen O’Connor Smith; grandchildren: Laura, Ryan, Lena, MacKenzie and Madison, as well as many nieces and nephews. She will also be missed by her dearest friends: Shirley, Margaret, and Daisy.
Visitation will be from 9:00am –11:00am Wednesday March 11, 2026 at THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, Milford with a prayer service to follow. We will then proceed to Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford for burial.
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Brian “Richie” Turner
Brian spent his life as a Milford resident since 1972. He was a graduate of Notre Dame High School Class of 1961 and Norwalk State Technical School Class of 1963. He was a member of the National Guard 242nd Combat Engineers. Brian was the founder and President of T/C Engineering, which he operated for 40 years.
In addition to his beloved wife of 57 years, Jacqueline, survivors include his two loving children, Karen Wentz and her husband Sean and Brian Turner II and his wife Jessica, four cherished grandchildren, Daniel (Gina) and Drew Izzo and Kayleigh and Liam Turner, as well as several sisters in law and brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews, many friends he considered family and a very special cousin Marylou Lang. He was predeceased by his brothers Robert Turner and George Turner Jr.
Funeral services will take place on Tuesday, March 24, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull. Interment will follow in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Trumbull. Relatives and friends may greet the family on Monday from 4 – 7 p.m. in the funeral home. To leave an online condolence, please visit www.abriola.com.
Dr. Pang-Hsung Wang
Dr. Pang-Hsung Wang, 85, of Milford, beloved husband of Mei-Lee (Pan) Wang, passed away on March 10, 2026 just 3 days before his 86th birthday. He was born on March 13, 1940 and originally from Taipei, Taiwan.
Dr. Wang graduated from Taipei Medical University in 1968 and emigrated to the US to further his medical training. He completed his internship at Fairview General Hospital in Cleveland Ohio (now part of Cleveland Clinic), residency at St. Mary’s Hospital in Waterbury and his pulmonary fellowship at Laurel Heights Hospital in Shelton. He opened his primary care private practice in Milford in July 1976. Throughout his 43 years of practice, he was an active attending physician at Milford Hospital. He was a member of the Milford Medical Society, Chairman of the Milford Hospital Infection Control Committee, served on the hospital Pharmacy and Therapeutics Committee and on the Board of Directors for Homecare Plus Agency. He loved his profession and provided high quality, compassionate care to several generations of patients. Upon his retirement, the Mayor of Milford proclaimed June 28, 2019 as Dr. Pang H Wang Day “in recognition and deep appreciation for his distinguished service to the community”. Although he cherished his career, his greatest joy was spending time with his family. He was a doting father and grandfather. He also enjoyed swimming, golfing and bowling. He loved Long Island Sound and enjoyed spending time on his boat or just looking out at the water every day.
Besides his wife, he leaves his children Tom Wang, Susan Wang, and Seaver Wang (Julia); grandchildren Alexa Beeks, Max Beeks and Benjamin Beeks, Taylor Wang, Hamilton Wang, and Theodore Wang, brother Hsing Hsung Wang (Yung-Hsin); and several nieces and nephews.
Friends and family may gather from 11am to 2pm on Saturday, March 21, 2026 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will be celebrated at 1:30pm at the funeral home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.
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Ulrich Weil
Uli grew up in Orange, Connecticut, and spent his adult life between Connecticut and upstate New York. Most recently, he was a resident of Guilford.
As a young man, Uli was an active member of his high school swim team, worked on Buckholz Farm, and spent countless hours outdoors fishing, biking, and hiking around Indian Lake in Orange. He attended Hopkins School and later Amity Regional High School, graduating in 1981.
Uli’s love of cooking began early while working at Lender’s Bagels in Orange. That experience sparked a passion that led him to attend the Culinary Institute of America, which began a distinguished career in the culinary world. Over the years, he held positions at Robert Henry’s, the Union League Café in New Haven, Perfect Parties in Madison, La Cuisine in Branford, and with Sodexo at several universities. His work was marked by creativity, discipline, and a deep respect for quality ingredients.
Most recently, Uli co-founded Energy Lab Eats with his business partner and friend, Brendan Bloom. Through that venture, he partnered with Bishop’s Orchards in Guilford, where he served as executive chef. While he loved cooking professionally, nothing brought him greater joy than preparing meals for his family-both close and extended-and sharing his enthusiasm for new ingredients and recipes.
Uli is survived by his four children and grandchild, Christa, Claire, Madeline, Tim, and Eloise; his loving partner, Stephanie Connelly; and his sisters, Claudia and Christa. He was a loving father who instilled in his children the values of hard work, determination, and self-reliance.
Those who knew Uli understood that he was a man of few words but tremendous drive. He was a competitive triathlete who completed a half-Iron distance race and participated in many shorter events throughout the Northeast.
Uli loved to laugh, to nourish others through his cooking, and to mentor his children, coworkers, and employees as they pursued their own paths. He was taken far too soon, still full of energy and excited about the future-both his own and that of the people he loved.
Reflecting on his life, Uli often said, “I started my life working on a farm, and I’ll end my life working on a farm.”
A memorial service will be held on Friday, March 13, from 2:00 – 5:00 p.m. at the Branford Yacht Club, 39 Goodsell Point Road, Branford. In place of flowers, please make donations in Uli’s name to the Community Dining Room in Branford, CT.
Daniel W. Wywoda
Daniel W. Wywoda, age 93, of Milford, beloved husband of Anne Wywoda, passed away peacefully on March 15th, 2026 surrounded by his family. Born on July 14th, 1932, in Dupont, Pennsylvania, he was the son of the late John J. Wywoda and Genevieve Smichowski.
Daniel lived an honorable and humble life, defined by devotion to his family and faith, and by finding joy in life’s simple activities. A man of Polish heritage, he carried his roots with him wherever life took him, building a legacy grounded in hard work, a strong sense of duty, and deep kindness and generosity.
Daniel proudly served his country in the United States Army for a year and a half during the Korean War. His service reflected the same commitment and sense of responsibility that guided him throughout his life.
Daniel shared a remarkable 57-year marriage with his beloved wife, Anne. Their story began with a fortuitous encounter in Puerto Rico. During Daniel’s career as an international businessman with Acker Drill and Intraco, Anne often accompanied him when his work took him abroad. Daniel was well traveled, visiting 77 countries across six continents. Yet no matter how far his journeys carried him, home and family were always at the center of his life.
A passionate sports fan, Daniel’s first love was football, religiously following the NFL RedZone each season. Baseball followed closely behind, along with the highs and lows of the Boston Red Sox. He also found great joy in family traditions such as March Madness and the W Cup, where he proudly served as “The Commissioner.” Daniel especially loved attending his grandchildren’s sporting events, cheering enthusiastically from the sidelines.
Daniel also cherished the simple pleasures of daily life. His mornings began with Taster’s Choice coffee and the newspaper, reading it from front page to back. In the kitchen, he was famous for making the best scrambled eggs—always prepared with a generous amount of butter. Evenings were often spent relaxing with a glass of wine or a well made Manhattan.
Those who knew Daniel will remember his kindness, warmth, and steadfast love for those around him. His life was rich with experiences—from travels across the globe to the small, meaningful moments shared with family. He leaves behind a large and close knit family tree who will forever remember the examples he set and the love he gave so freely.
In addition to his wife Anne, of 57 years, he leaves to cherish his memory his children Susan Asimakis and her husband Greg, Kathy Wywoda, Dan Wywoda and his wife Rosemary, and Mike Wywoda and his wife Lisa. He is also survived by his grandchildren Scott Asimakis and his wife Rose, Laura Asimakis, John Wywoda and his wife Kaitlyn, Tim Wywoda and his wife Catherine, Rachel Wywoda, Jaden Wywoda, and Declan Wywoda. His tree also extends to his great grandchildren Layla, Ethan, Aoife, Ronan, Julia, and Diana and many nieces and nephews. Daniel is survived by his sister Elaine Worden and predeceased by his brother Bobby Wywoda.
Family and friends are invited to gather on March 30th, 2026 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Mass of Catholic Burial will be celebrated on March 31st, 2026 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Agnes Church, 400 Merwin Ave in Milford. Interment will follow at the State Veterans Cemetery, 317 Bow Lane in Middletown. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.