Dr. Darryl P. Abriola
Darryl was intellectually curious and was a scientist at heart. Reading was a major hobby for him, and he always had a book, magazine, or newspaper close by. Word games and crossword puzzles were a favorite, and he finished many of the NY Times crosswords. Another notable interest of his was in food. Darryl was an excellent cook in addition to being a talented baker. He made all kinds of food, from sourdough bread, desserts and treats to meals for family members and was always looking for new recipes to try. Darryl loved music and listened to a wide variety of genres such as classic rock, R&B, jazz, soul and blues.
Throughout his life, Darryl enjoyed going to the beach. He went to Bradley Beach on the Jersey shore, various CT ocean beaches, numerous lakes, and spent many family vacations at Cape Cod. He loved the outdoors no matter the form, be it swimming, camping, hiking, or canoeing.
Darryl possessed a quiet strength and was someone you could talk to. He was an excellent listener and knew the right thing to say. Being very knowledgeable about nearly any topic, he could have in-depth conversations about current events, history, science, food and entertainment. Darryl was a kind and compassionate person and cared greatly about his family. He showed his love by being there for them and taking care of them.
During his battle with cancer, he showed great fortitude and courage. He had a positive outlook and never complained. He fought with determination and grace, inspiring everyone who knew him.
He is lovingly remembered by his beloved wife of 34 years, Laura; his father, Salvatore; his children, Alexander and Anastasia (Tasha) Abriola; and his sister, Karen Lowe along with her husband Robert. He also leaves behind many beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins to cherish his memory.
A funeral service and celebration of Darryl’s life will be held on Monday, September 28, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at Orange Congregational Church, 205 Meetinghouse Lane, Orange. Interment will be private. Relatives and friends may greet the family on Sunday, September 27, 2026, from 1:00 to 4:00 p.m. at the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Association for Cancer Research.www.aacr.org Darryl strongly believed scientific research will find a cure for cancer.
To leave an online condolence, please visit www.abriola.com.
Leo R. Alaimo
Leo R. Alaimo, age 89, of Orange and formerly of Milford, entered into peaceful rest on September 21, 2026, with his family by his side.
Leo was born on November 23, 1936, in Bridgeport to the late Aurelio and Elin (Eliason) Alaimo. Leo proudly served with the National Guard. He started his career as a hairdresser and later owned and operated his general contracting business, Hire A Husband.
Leo is survived by his partner of 19 years and the love of his life, Nora Roth of Orange; his two devoted children, Andrew Alaimo (Charlene) of Wall Township, New Jersey, and Daniele Alaimo (Thomas Johnson) of Duluth, Georgia; and three grandchildren, Allison, Michael, and Marcus Alaimo. He also leaves behind his sister, Karen Desbiens (Bert) of Milford, and many cherished extended family members.
Services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.
Marilyn E. Art
Marilyn “Lynn” Elizabeth Art, 85 of Milford, passed away peacefully on August 24, 2026. Marilyn was born on November 15, 1940, in Bridgeport, CT, to the late Frank and Mae (Hunyady) Kisco. She was the beloved wife of the late Walter F. Art, Jr.
Lynn graduated from Stratford High School as salutatorian in 1958 and continued her career at United Illuminating where she worked part-time while in high school. It was there, at a company Christmas party, that she met and fell in love with her husband Walt. The two were soon married in 1961 and began their life together in Bridgeport before moving to Milford, where they raised their four beloved children and made lifelong friendships. Lynn devoted her time and energy to her family, stepping away from her career to be there for her children as they grew. When they reached high school, she returned to United Illuminating and resumed her career, retiring in 1997. During the next several years Lynn worked as an administrator in the dermatology office of Dr. Theresa Huszar, MD, after which she joined Walt in retirement.
Lynn was an avid reader who enjoyed solving all types of word and Sudoku puzzles, going to dances with Walt, watching game shows and her favorite sports teams’ games, trips to the casino with friends and family, and regular get-togethers with her longtime friends and former co-workers.
Lynn will be remembered for her infectious laugh, warm spirit, and beautiful smile that could light up a room. Her love for her family and the joy she brought to those around her will remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.
Lynn is survived by her four children Deborah “Debbie” Art of Fairfield, Walter “Sandy” Art (Pamela), Richard “Richie” Art (partner Kelly Elliott), and Kenneth Art of Milford. Six grandchildren: Daniel Art (Nicole) of Loveland, Colorado, Nicholas Art, Austin Art, Jagger Art, Lars Art of Milford, Audrey Art-Leonard of Fairfield, and great-granddaughter Penelope Art, and great-grandson Lochlan Art. She also leaves behind her former daughter-in-law Sharon Art, brother-in-law Larry Art (Lorrie), sister-in-law Elaine Collins, and many additional beloved nieces, nephews, family and friends. She is predeceased by her cherished grandson Donald “D.J.” Art, brother Frank J. Kisco Jr., brother Norbert Kisco, and sister-in-law Kathleen Kisco.
Family and friends are invited to gather to celebrate Lynn’s legacy on Thursday, September 3, 2026, from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, September 4, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Agnes Church, 400 Merwin Ave, Milford CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH).
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Marilyn’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital https://www.stjude.org/give/memorials-and-dedications/donation-in-honor-of-someone.html.
Bernhard F. “Bernie” Bruder
Bernhard Francis Bruder, age 86, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Sandra (Maher) Bruder, entered into peaceful rest with his family by his side.
Born on September 3, 1939, in Bridgeport to the late Bernhard and Hildegard (Hotz) Bruder, Bernie started his career as an accountant with Ernst & Ernst and then continued his career with Venman and Co. working 50 years as a CPA prior to his retirement. Bernie loved playing tennis and golf over many years with his friends and boys.
Bernie lived his life with a profound spirit of giving, service and community. While raising his two sons, Bernie would function as baseball coach always being there to support Chris and Michael and their respective baseball teams. Bernie also used his professional expertise volunteering as Treasurer and the Director of Finance for 45 years for Laurel Beach Association, and volunteered numerous years for St. Gabriel and St. Ann’s parishes helping with various finance activities. Bernie also enjoyed volunteering and supporting a wide variety of activities being an active member of Rotary, and an alumnus of Fairfield College Preparatory School and the College of the Holy Cross.
Bernie is survived by his devoted sons, Christopher Bruder of Charleston, SC, and Michael Bruder (Leslie) of Columbus, GA; and four grandchildren, Chase, MacKenzie, David, and Matthew Bruder. He also leaves his nephews, Mark Bruder (Trish) of Seymour and Eric Bruder (Denise) of Haddam, as well as several grandnieces and nephews.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, September 9, 2026, at 10:00 AM at Saint Gabriel Church, 26 Broadway, Milford. Interment will be private. Family and friends may call on Tuesday, September 8, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Bernie’s memory to the American Cancer Society. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Janice Frederickson Carter
Janice Frederickson Carter passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, September 16, 2026, at the age of 80. Born in Bridgeport on February 13, 1946, Janice and her husband, Jim, moved to Woodmont, Connecticut in 1970 to raise their family, and she lived there for more than 55 years.
Above all else, Janice was a loving wife and mother who devoted her life to her family. She and Clarence “Jim” Carter III were married for 58 years, until his passing in April 2025. Their union was blessed with four children: the late Kelli Goulart (Rich), Mary D’Amato (James), Kevin Carter (Kristin), and Hope Martin (Jake). Janice was proud of her children and raised them to be kind and outgoing, just as she was. She was a devoted grandmother to James and Frank D’Amato, who affectionately knew her as “Nanny.”
Janice was a caretaker through and through, always making sure everyone else had what they needed before she thought of herself. Her door on Howe Street was always open, and for generations of neighborhood kids it was the house for sleepovers, pool parties, and summer afternoons on the slip and slide. She loved her cats, her soap operas, Barry Mannilow, and a good piece of gossip. She was never without her pocketbook or her lipstick. Sundays were for family: fairs, restaurants, shopping trips, and her favorite outing of all, a day at the casino.
Janice never drove, and she never needed to. She walked everywhere. She sold Avon for over 40 years and gave countless hours volunteering at the Milford public schools her children attended, including Fannie Beach, Seabreeze, East Shore, and Live Oaks. For more than 20 years she also worked part time at the local corner store, where the people were not coworkers and customers, but family, and where she was known simply as “Mama.”
A celebration of her life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in Janice’s memory may be made to The Purple Pantry Boxes of Milford.
Louis James D’Amato
Louis James D’Amato, age 89, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on August 28, 2026. Born March 9, 1937, he was the beloved husband of Theresa D’Amato for over 58 years.
Born and raised in Brooklyn, New York, Louis carried the pride of his Brooklyn roots and his Italian American heritage with him throughout his life. He was a man of strong values, hard work, and deep devotion to his family.
Louis was a graduate of the University of Bridgeport. He was also a proud American who served his country as a member of the Army National Guard.
Louis built D’Amato Brothers Builders together with his twin brother, John. Side by side, the brothers built more than a company — they built a legacy of craftsmanship, integrity, and hard work that Louis carried forward with great pride throughout his life.
Louis was deeply committed to the Milford community. He served on the boards of The Milford Bank and Milford Hospital. He was an active member of several non-profits, including the Milford Columbus Committee and the Milford Kiwanis Club. He was also a member of the Home Builders and Remodelers Association of Connecticut (HBRA) since 1969.
Above all, Louis took the greatest pride in his family. He was a devoted husband to Theresa, and a loving father to his sons, Louis and James (Mary) D’Amato. He was especially proud of his four grandsons, James, Frank, Louis, and Antonio, who brought him immense joy and pride in the years he shared with them. He was also a cherished uncle to his nieces and nephews, Elizabeth D’Amato, John D’Amato, Suzanne Johns, and Cheryl D’Amato.
Louis will be remembered as a devoted family man and a builder — of homes, of a business, and of a life filled with love, pride, and hard work.
He was predeceased by his parents, Louis and Anna D’Amato, and his twin brother, John D’Amato.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that you consider a donation to a charity of your choosing.
Friends and family will gather from 4pm to 7pm on Friday, September 4, 2026 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9am on Saturday, September 5, 2026 at Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Ave., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at Milford Cemetery 35 Gulf St., Milford, CT.
Monica Daniel
Monica Marie Daniel, 67, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away on September 8, 2026, surrounded by the family she loved beyond measure.
Born on March 30, 1959, in Milford, Connecticut, Monica lived an adolescence full of fun, love, and laughter alongside her longstanding friends. While she had many talents and interests, her greatest masterpiece was her children. To Monica, being a mother was not just a role; it was an art form, a sacred duty, and her absolute favorite adventure.
Her home was a haven—always filled with warmth, the smell of freshly brewed coffee or warm chocolate chip cookies, and the comforting reassurance that you were safe the moment you walked through the door. She didn’t just raise children; she cheered them on, listened without judgment, mended scraped knees and broken hearts, and taught them how to love deeply and laugh loudly. Her calendar was filled with ice cream runs, dog walks, graduation ceremonies, and quiet moments at the kitchen table just talking. For Monica, no achievement at work or in the world would ever compare to the joy of watching her children flourish.
She is survived by her sons, Brandon D’Agostino and Eric Rogers, her daughters-in-law, Deniz D’Agostino and Grace Mizzoni, her twin sister, Helen Quill, and a legacy of unconditional love that will echo through generations. She was preceded in death by her father, Joseph P. Daniel, her mother, Cecelia Lutheran Daniel, and her siblings, Joseph S. Daniel and Cecilia “Cookie” Tammany.
A memorial on behalf of Monica’s life and love will be held on September 19, 2026, 10:00am-1:00pm at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, Connecticut 06460.
Annette Dobbins
Annette K. Dobbins, 83 of Orange, passed away peacefully on September 6, 2026 while surrounded by her loving family. Annette was born on November 24, 1942 in Derby, CT to the late Anthony and Angela Kuzia. She was the beloved wife of 62 years to John “Jack” Dobbins.
Annette left behind a beautiful legacy of love, devotion, and family.
A graduate of St. Mary of the Springs College of Ohio, where she earned her degree in paralegal, Annette began a life filled with purpose and love. She met the love of her life, “Jack,” and the two were married in 1964. Together, they began their lives in Westville, Connecticut, before eventually settling in Orange, where they raised their two beloved children, Lauren and Jay.
Annette was the true meaning of a matriarch. Loving, kind, and generous, she always put her family above all else. Her greatest joy was watching her family grow and celebrating the people they became. She was her children’s and grandchildren’s biggest cheerleader, never missing an opportunity to celebrate their accomplishments, big or small.
Her grandchildren especially cherished their sleepovers at Gramma and Poppa’s house, where they created memories that will remain treasured for a lifetime. Annette’s home was a place where family was always welcomed, loved, and made to feel special.
She also found great joy in gardening. She loved tending to her flowers, with roses and daisies holding a special place in her heart.
Annette will be remembered for the warmth of her heart, the strength of her love, and the unwavering devotion she gave to her family. Her greatest legacy is the family she loved so deeply and the countless memories she created with them. She will be profoundly missed and forever cherished.
In addition to her beloved husband, she is survived by their daughter Lauren Betlinski (Robert) and son Jay Dobbins, grandsons Nathan and Carter, and her “true blue” friend Elizabeth “Betsy” Cassells. As well as many additional beloved family and friends.
Services have been held privately by the family. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Jeanne P. Esposito
Jeanne was a graduate of the CT State Teachers College and a devoted elementary school teacher for many years in the towns of Monroe, North Haven and New Haven, with a 17-years break during which she raised her four children. Upon her retirement in 1992, Jeanne, alongside Al, enjoyed taking care of their grandchildren, helping them in any way possible and giving encouragement at their extracurricular events. Jeanne was an avid reader, and loved to travel and spend summers on the beach in Green Hill, Rhode Island. She will be remembered by her family for many Sunday meals, especially her famous Superbowl parties that everyone looked forward to, and by all as the loving, kind, caring, generous and compassionate person she was to everyone she met.
Jeanne was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and her memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. She leaves to cherish her memory her four loving children, Alex Esposito, Joseph (Nicola Kelsey) Esposito, Charles (Nancy Setaro) Esposito and Ellen Esposito O’Neill (David), a sister, Irene Haller, eleven precious grandchildren and two cherished great-grandsons as well as many nieces and nephews and great-nieces and nephews.
At Jeanne’s request all funeral services will be private. Arrangements are in care of the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to the Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB) Research Partnership (www.ebresearch.org). To leave an online condolence, visit us at www.abriola.com.
Bonnie Fanning
Bonnie DeFrancesco Fanning, 72, passed away peacefully September 14, 2026 in Orange, CT. She was the widow of Thomas J. Fanning. Bonnie was born on January 21, 1954 to Lawrence DeFrancesco Jr. and Jean Smith DeFrancesco. Lawrence and Jean raised 5 children including Bonnie, Duayne, Kimberly, Daryll, and Craig. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Bonnie will be sadly missed by her extended family at the Orange Health Care Center.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects Friday at the Celentano Funeral Home, 424 Elm St., New Haven from 11:00 to 12:00 followed by a funeral service at 12:00. Burial will be private with her husband in Alderbrook Cemetery in Guilford.
Phyllis Grabinski
Friends may greet the family at the Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road, Shelton, on Tuesday, September 29, 2026, from 10:30 AM to 12 PM. Her funeral service will begin in the parlor at 12 PM (Noon). Burial will follow at St. Michael’s Cemetery in Stratford. Memorial contributions on her behalf are encouraged to the Orange Senior Center, checks payable to Treasurer Town of Orange, memo: Phyllis Grabinski, 525 Orange Center Rd., Orange, CT 06477, Attn: Stacy Johnson. Online condolences can be offered to the family at www.riverviewfh.com or legacy.com.
Frederick Gray
Frederick Gray, 77, of East Haven, CT, passed away peacefully on September 11, 2026.
Fred attended Bullard-Havens Technical and Jonathan Law high schools. He went on to enlist in the U.S. Navy and proudly served from 1968 to 1972, with his official honorable discharge in 1974. Fred had a passion for auto-mechanics which led to a life-long occupation in the field.
He is predeceased by his parents Fred and Ann Gray and his daughter Sarah Gray-Hefferon. He is survived by his son, Rick Gray and his grandson Gunnar Gray along with three more grandchildren from Sarah; Sylvio Rapuano, Branden Hefferon, and Josh Hefferon. He is also survived by his siblings John Gray, Pat Kopnicky (Tom), and several nieces and nephews.
All services will be private.
Lois Helupka
Lois Helupka, 89, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Joseph Helupka, Sr., passed away on September 11, 2026. Lois was born on October 21, 1936 in Greenwich, CT.
Lois was a devoted mother, a dedicated worker, and a loving friend who touched the lives of so many people.
She was a hardworking woman who spent 36 years serving the Greenwich community as a school bus driver, a career she took great pride in. Throughout those 36 years, Lois was more than just a school bus driver to the children she transported. She was a caring presence in their lives. Her warmth, patience, and kindness toward the children were a true part of her excellence at her job.
Above all else, Lois was a loving and devoted mother to her five children. She worked hard to provide for her family and treasured the time they spent together. Her home was a place where people knew they were welcome. Lois had an open-door policy and never hesitated to make sure that anyone who came through her door was fed, cared for, and made to feel at home. Taking care of others was simply who she was.
Lois also knew how to enjoy the simple pleasures in life. She loved playing bingo with the bingo ladies in Port Chester, sharing laughs and good times with friends. She had a particular love for chili hot dogs, a favorite that brought her enjoyment. And just as deeply as she loved people, Lois loved animals. Her compassion extended to every living thing, and her gentle heart made her a special person to both people and animals alike.
Lois will be remembered for her incredible work ethic, her generous heart, her open door, and the unconditional love she gave to her family and everyone who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, love, and devotion that will continue through her beloved family.
Lois is survived by her children, Joseph Jr. (Karen) Helupka, William (Rose) Helupka, Nancy (Terry) Murphy, Robert Helupka, and Michael Helupka; her grandchildren, Melissa, Allison (Michael), Matthew, Mark (Angela), Gabriel, James (Alexis), and Mary (Bernard); her great grandchildren, Rock Jr., Dylan, Alexis, Annabella, Matthew Jr., Joseph, Adalynn, Christopher, Lillian, and Scarlett; her great great grandchild, Joshua; her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Bonnie and Henry Jensen and their family; her brother-in-law, Stephen Helupka and his family; as well as many other nieces, nephews, and cousins.
The services will be private at the convenience of the family.
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.
Joseph W. Hite
Joseph W. Hite, age 75, of Milford, beloved husband of Janet Hite, passed away on September 16th, 2026. Born on September 7th, 1951, in Bridgeport, CT, he was the son of the late Evelyn and George Byrnes, and Robert W. Hite.
Joseph had a lifelong appreciation for the simple pleasure of being behind the wheel and a spirit of adventure that remained with him throughout his life. In his younger years, he enjoyed racing motorcycles, and later found great pleasure driving his beloved Corvette, often taking leisurely rides simply for the joy of being on the road. He also cherished time spent by the beach, where he and his wife, Janet, enjoyed many meals together and treasured the simple pleasures of being together.
Known for being fun-loving and always ready with a joke, Joseph had a special ability to bring humor and lightness wherever he went. He was funny, kind-hearted, and incredibly generous; often described as someone who would drop everything to help whenever he was asked. He never complained, even in difficult moments, and his positive spirit was admired by all.
Joseph worked late into his life to provide for and care for his family, demonstrating every day what dedication and selflessness truly looked like. He also loved technology and tinkered around with a variety of gadgets. From cameras to computers, he was always teaching himself how they worked and all he could do with them.
Everyone loved Joseph, including the doctors and nurses who cared for him. Above all, he was the best father and a man whose love, hard-work, humor, and generosity will remain forever in the hearts of his family and friends.
Joseph is survived by his wife of 51 years, Janet Hite, his children Kelly Lugo (William) and Daniel Hite, and grandchildren William Lugo III and Elise Lugo. He is also survived by his sister Linda Hurley and Janet’s siblings Chris Rosenberry (Lisa), Sandra Rosenberry, and Charles
Rosenberry as well as many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his siblings Marge Clauson, Bobbie Masterson, Butch Hite, and Janet Hite.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joseph’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, September 28, at St. Mary’s Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT 06460. Family and friends are warmly invited to attend. A luncheon will follow the Mass.
Gloria Hoder
Gloria Hoder will be remembered for the love, warmth, and devotion she shared with those closest to her.
Gloria is predeceased by her beloved husband, Harold E. Hoder. She is survived by her three children, Randy, Jena, and Jane, as well as her eight grandchildren.
Funeral Services will be held on Friday, September 18, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. Congregation B’nai Jacob, 75 Rimmon Rd. Woodbridge, Connecticut 06525.
May her memory be a blessing.
H. Gordon Holst
Herman Gordon Holst, “Gordon”, 99, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on September 21, 2026. Gordon was the son of Herman J. and Virginia Holst.
Gordon lived a long and meaningful life devoted to his family, his country, and the things he loved. A proud World War II Navy veteran, Gordon continued his commitment to serving others as a 50-year member of the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary, Flotilla 24-03.
Gordon was a loving father grandfather and uncle. He is survived by his daughter, Leslie Girard and her husband, Jeffrey, and his beloved grandchildren, Brianna Girard and Hilary Girard-Duckworth, and nieces and nephews Ella Holst, Kim MCoy, Jeff McCoy, Pamela McCoy-Staurovsky, Sharon Labosky and Brent Reeve. He was predeceased by his brother, Eugene Holst, his sisters, Susan McCoy and Ellen Reeve and nephew Scott McCoy.
His family was a source of great pride and joy throughout his life.
Outside of his service and family, Gordon had many passions. He loved boating, spending time on the water whenever he could. He had a special love for animals and enjoyed photography, capturing the people, places, and moments that meant something to him.
Gordon also had a lifelong curiosity about technology and the changing world around him. He embraced new technology and made a point of keeping current well into his 90s. His willingness to learn and his genuine curiosity were a reflection of his lifelong interest in understanding how things worked and staying connected to the world around him.
Gordon will be remembered for his dedication, his love of family, his service to his country and community, his curiosity, and the many interests that brought him happiness throughout his 99 years.
His life touched the lives of many, and his memory will live on through the family and loved ones who were fortunate enough to know him. He will be deeply missed and remembered.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, October 2nd, 2026, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. Military Honors accompanied by a Prayer Service will begin at 12:30 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Milford Coast Guard Auxilliary Flotilla 24-03 by mail to 1 Helwig St, Milford, CT 06460 or Mystic Seaport online at give.mysticseaport.org/donate
To leave online condolences, please visit our website at codywhitefuneralservice.com.
James L. Keating
James L. Keating, age 82, of Milford, entered into peaceful rest on August 29, 2026, surrounded by his family.
James was born on July 19, 1944, in Bridgeport and was the son of the late John J. Keating and Lillian (McGuire) Scott. He proudly served in the U.S. Navy. He was a shift supervisor for CL & P Power Plant in Milford for many years before his retirement. He was a friend of Bill W.
James is survived by his devoted daughter, Jennifer A. Keating-Tomasko of Milford; his son, Matthew L. Keating of West Haven; his loving grandchildren, Adam and Carly Tomasko of Milford; and many dear friends.
Family and friends may call on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m., with a funeral service to follow at 6:30 p.m. at the GREGORY DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Graveside Service with Military Honors will take place on Thursday, September 3, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. (DIRECTLY) at King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford.
Benedict Lazdauskas
Benedict Lazdauskas passed away peacefully on September 10, 2026, at the age of 86.
Ben is survived by his loving wife of 60 years, Nancy (Sawa); two sons, Benedict Jr. (Heidi) and Michael (Nanci); 7 grandchildren, Kristina, Mikey, Chloe, Ethan, Abby, Austin, and McKenzie; his sister Elena Vaitkus; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother, Walter Lazdauskas.
Ben was born in Lithuania to Joseph and Agnes Lazdauskas. He and his family immigrated to the United States when he was 10, settling in Bridgeport, CT. Shortly after marrying, he moved to Milford with his wife Nancy where he resided and they raised their family.
A veteran of the US Air Force, Ben proudly served for 4 years, and was stationed in Washington state and Libya, Africa.
Ben worked at Dupont for 37 years, traveling throughout the northeast repairing medical equipment. His work was often requested, as he enjoyed the challenge of a good puzzle and was quick to get things back in working order.
Ben was an avid gardener. Many hours were spent in the backyard keeping the lawn well-manicured, tending his many gardens and sharing his home-grown vegetables with family and friends. Sometimes you would find him sitting under the tree, simply enjoying the day. Ben also liked to play golf, and enjoyed watching golf tournaments as well as Nascar racing on the weekends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, September 28, 2026, at 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford. A Graveside Service will take place at The Connecticut Veterans Cemetery (317 Bow Ln, Middletown, CT 06457) the next day, Tuesday, September 29, 2026 at 1pm (ALL MEET AT CEMETERY).
Martin Ledewitz
Martin Ledewitz, 80, of Woodbridge, devoted husband of Frances Weiner Ledewitz (Cissi), passed away at Yale New Haven Hospital on Monday, August 31, 2026, surrounded by his loving family. Born in New Haven, January 8, 1946, he was the son of the late William and Reeva (Greenbaum) Ledewitz. Beloved father of Mark Ledewitz of Waltham, MA, Rachel Ledewitz-Gordon (Ram) of Woodbridge, Mindy Baitch (Yaron) of Woodbridge, and Rebecca Ledewitz (Toby Hershkowitz) of Hoboken, NJ. Dear brother of Alfred Ledewitz (Harriet) of Bethany, Deborah Farber of Orange, and Ruth Haendler (Steve Garber) of Stamford. Also survived by 6 grandchildren: Michael, Josh, and Emily Baitch and Ariel, Eva, and Abigail Gordon. Funeral Services at Robert E. Shure Funeral Home, 543 George St., New Haven, on Thursday, September 3, 2026, at 1:00 PM with Interment Services to follow at the Beth Hamedrosh Cemetery, Brockett Place, East Haven. Donations may be made in Marty’s honor to Smilow Cancer Hospital, Wepawaug Hadassah, Temple Beth Sholom (Hamden, CT), or a charity of one’s choice. On Thursday, Shiva will be observed at the home of Rachel Ledewitz-Gordon and Ram Gordon, Woodbridge, CT. An additional Period of Mourning will be observed at the Ledewitz Home, Woodbridge, CT. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit: www.shurefuneralhome.com.
Erin Ellen Moreshead
Erin was love and Erin was loved. She was a miracle from the start. The 11th of 12 children who never gave up trying to survive. She lived a life of constant pain and suffering but was often happy and smiling with a keen sense of humor. She could not speak but was always able to get her point across for her wants and needs. She was an Angel on earth, put here to challenge the resolve and intention of others. She was a test, a gift for us to show our humanity, our love and compassion. She was sent earth to give all a chance to redeem themselves from any bad Karma we may have racked up over the years. She was pure love and light and if she loved you, you felt it and if she didn’t you knew it.
My earliest memories of Erin are in Yale New Haven emergency department for the multiple medical issues like Pneumonias and Kidney infections. I remember countless times our primary care physician Dr. Connor came to our house to treat her. I remember my mom feeding her with a syringe due to her cleft palate and inability to take a bottle. I remember sleeping with her in her crib trying to get her asleep at night, which was always difficult. Her siblings and I would piggyback her everywhere in the beginning and we would entertain her to keep her happy with singing and games. She loved music and would often hum to herself a few recognizable bars, so we knew which one to sing for her. She loved piggyback rides, going fast in the wagon, and swinging. She loved the pool but always wanted to turn the float over and be dunked under water! She was a terror in the pool.
She was spoiled rotten growing up as she should have been. She had so much stimulation from us as a family. There was very little support in the community back then for such a severely handicapped child and when she was about 9-10 years old, she was placed at Mansfield training school, and this was really devastating to take her there. We went to visit her every Sunday, and it was horrific. She stayed there about 15 years till we were able to convince my parents that a group home would be so much better for her and it was such a blessing. My parents were devoted to her and throughout their lives they made sure she cared for the best way they knew how. Here sister Kerry and I took over as her guardians when her care became too much for them to manage, and we have seen to it that Erin has the best of everything we can provide for her. Her brother Dennis was an all time favorite with the staff and with Erin when he brought her coffee and hash browns. Her sister Kathy also visited her to provide treats for Erin and the staff for holidays and special occasions as well.
Erin was so lucky to have the Angels who work at her group home to care for her. She has been with Tynese now for many years and Dwana as an advocate to ensure that she was safe and happy. Her staff over the years and now at Milford Point Group Home are the most caring and compassionate people on the planet. I thank God for them every day and pray all good things come to them. They will be rewarded now with a special Angel to watch over them like they watched over her. My Parents were incredibly grateful for all your love and attention that they gave every day to her.
Erin loved Music, she loved coffee, Neco wafers, Cheeto’s, coffee, Peanut butter cups, McDonalds, DD coffee and hash browns. She was not above taking what she wanted, and she had been known to steal coffee if left unattended.
Erin made the world a better place by reminding us how lucky we are every day to be able to do even the simplest things by ourselves. Freedom from chronic pain and illnesses is also a blessing and she suffered so but rarely showed it. We need to remember the gifts that we have and always strive to provide and love those who depend on us for care.
I would like to extend special thanks to Tynese, Gladys, Dwana, Barbara, Myriam, Nichelle, Rosemarie, Keisha, and Gwen for caring for Erin in such a loving way. You deserve a place in heaven. We would also like to extend our thanks to her Day Program Accord Inc. where Erin attended and whose staff was wonderful and loved Erin and basically entertained her all day. Erin loved her staff and enjoyed school.
I will close by wishing you all happiness and peace. I know you will be rewarded for the kindness and compassion you have shown to those who depend on your care. Erin will be deeply missed, but we are grateful that she is at peace, and we take comfort in knowing that Mom and Dad were waiting patiently to bring her home.
Mary Fitzpatrick O’Neil
Ronald Craig Osach
Ronald Craig Osach, a man of many talents and interests, passed away at home on August 25, 2026. He was born in Brooklyn, in February 1948, to Constance and Norman Osach. Ron leaves behind two exceptional and wonderful sons, Daniel and Drew Osach, from his first wife, Barbara Osach. Blessed to have a daughter-in-law, Laura; and a new granddaughter, Nova Constance. He is survived by, a sister, Trisha; also, Matt, Cortney, Bethany, Jon, David, Allison, Lisa; and a whole crew of kids from Taylor, Blake, Cooper, Luke, Julia, and Cate. Ron met Ila Osach over 30 years ago and so the blended family began. Those of you who knew Ron knew he was a man of many qualities and a great scholar. A renaissance man or the gentle giant. He was astute in his early years, in Mamaroneck, in tennis and soccer. Later, in college, he studied acting at Bucknell, where he played nice parts. He ultimately became a lawyer and studied tax. During his years, he skied, biked, sailed, and even started motorcycle riding. But most importantly, he gave back to the community in so many ways. Whether it was Rotary or food for kids. Those who knew him loved him. He was that special man. He had no fear and would tackle any project that interested him. Rest in peace, Ronald. Any donations can go to the charity of your choice.
Ornella Palumbo
Ornella was born in Senigallia, in Ancona, Italy, on November 22nd, 1933, to Ida and Atillio Moretti. In 1956, at the age of 22, Ornella began her journey from Italy to the United States by boat. Shortly after arriving, she met her future husband, Joe, at the Pioneer Service Station, which he and his brother owned. The two were married in 1957 and shared 63 wonderful years together.
Ornella was predeceased by her husband, Joseph, her grandson, Joey, her brother, Giorgio Moretti, and her son-in-law, Tom Centone. She is survived by her children, Susan Centone, Loredana Morrisroe, and Joseph Palumbo Jr. (Toni Marie); her granddaughter, Bianca Palumbo Pavano (Michael); great-grandchildren Lucia and Giancarlo Pavano; and her sisters, Luciana Chiaramonte and Maria Rossi.
Family was the center of Ornella’s world. She was happiest when surrounded by her family, especially her grandchildren. Her kitchen was the soul of her home-a place where love was served as generously with unforgettable meals. She had a true passion for cooking, and Sunday dinners were always something special. Her family will never forget the rich, inviting scent of the fried meatballs drifting from the kitchen and filling the house, almost as if they were dancing their way into your nose to wake you up. That familiar aroma became a hallmark of comfort and joy she created. Her kitchen was a place where family gathered, memories were made, and Ornella made sure that anyone who came though her door never left hungry.
Beyond her home, Ornella enjoyed getting out and having fun: trips to the casino and outings to Green Lake Resort with the East Shore Seniors. Her warmth, her generosity, and her unwavering love, which she gave so freely to her family, will remain with them always.
Ornella will be deeply missed and forever remembered for her kindness, her culinary gifts, her devotion to family, and the strength she carried throughout her life. Heaven has gained a beautiful soul, reunited at last with her husband and grandson.
The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Smilow Cancer Center, Dr. Joseph Balsamo, and the Yale Blood Draw team in West Haven for their compassion and care during Ornella’s illness.
Family and friends are invited to a Mass of Christian Burial in the St. John XXIII Parish at St. John Vianney Church, 300 Capt. Thomas Blvd., West Haven Tuesday morning at 10:00. Interment will be private. There will be No Calling Hours. Memorial contributions may be made to the Ronald McDonald House, Attention: Jane Capua, 860 Howard Ave., New Haven, CT 06519. Arrangements are in care of the PORTO FUNERAL HOME, 830 Jones Hill Rd., West Haven. Sign Ornella’s guest book online at www.portofuneralhomes.net.
Dana A. Poulin
Dana A. (White) Poulin, age 71, of North Kingstown, passed away on Sunday, May 31, 2026. She was the loving wife of Norman M. Poulin. Born in Bridgeport, CT, she was a daughter of the late Albert and Shirley (Onderdonk) White.
Besides her husband, Norm, Dana leaves behind her sister, Caroline “Essie” Lydon of Connecticut; brother, Philip White of Massachusetts; stepdaughter, Nicole Poulin of Florida; two step-grandchildren; three nephews, Tim, Edward (wife Melissa), and Jason (wife Meredith); and 8 grand nieces and nephews.
Dana grew up in Orange, Connecticut, where she attended public schools, and graduated from Amity Regional High School in 1973. A lifelong learner, she earned her bachelor’s degree from Boston College in 1977 and began her career at Wang Laboratories. She later pursued her passion for education and information services, earning a master’s degree in library science from Simmons College in 1998.
Music was an important part of Dana’s life. In 1996, she joined the North Kingstown Community Chorus, where she met the love of her life, Norm. Their shared love of music blossomed into a lasting partnership, and they were married on New Year’s Eve in 1998. Dana continued to share her gift of song as a member of the choir at St. Matthew’s Church in Jamestown.
Known for her kindness, intelligence, and warm spirit, Dana found joy in life’s simple pleasures. She loved getting lost in a good book, traveling to new places, attending plays and concerts, and cheering on her beloved New England Patriots. She treasured time spent with family and friends and will be remembered for the warmth, friendship, and quiet joy she brought to those fortunate enough to know her.
Dana’s family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to the doctors, nurses, and staff of South County Hospital for their compassionate care, as well as to those who provided hospice care through HopeHealth Hospice & Palliative Care for their support and kindness during her final days.
An interment service will be held on Saturday, October 10, 2026, at the Orange Congregational Church of 205 Meetinghouse Ln., Orange, CT 06477, with a reception to follow; relatives and friends are invited to join.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Dana’s memory may be made to the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 7023, Merrifield, VA 22116 or the music program at St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, 87 Narragansett Ave., Jamestown, RI 02835.
Elizabeth Rose Ramadon
Elizabeth (Betty) Rose Ramadon, 89, of Milford, CT, beloved wife of the late Neal Ramadon, passed away peacefully on September 21, 2026. Born on December 29, 1936 in Lynn, Massachusetts, she was the daughter of the late Charles and Mildred (Sweat) Miller.
Betty was the mother of four children: Thomas (Dawn) Ramadan of New Hampshire, Laurie (James) Bly of Swickley, PA, Carolyn (Bob) Augur of Milford, CT and Allyson Ramadon of Milford, CT. Betty’s pride and joy were her 6 grandchildren: Kristen Callahan, Tripp and Chase Bly, and Bobby and Tyler Augur. Her beloved first grandchild, Jeffrey Ramadon, preceded her in death and will be among the vast greeting committee in heaven, along with her dear husband of many years, Neal Nelson Ramadon. In addition, Betty was a great grandmother to Caroline and Maren Callahan, and Margo Bly. She was also very proud to be a step grandmother to Alana Bly and Bridget Bly Snyder. Of all her blessings, her family was the most important.
Betty grew up in a small town in Western Massachusetts. Her parents were Charles and Mildred Miller. She had three siblings: Charles, Mary Lou and Peggy. The youngest of the family, Betty was a self-described Tom boy. She met the love of her life in elementary school, when her future husband dunked her braids into the ink well. It was love at first sight.
Betty was the cheerleader captain at Neal’s varsity high school football games. She excelled at history and upon graduation toured Europe with her best friend, Tina DeMaio. This began Betty’s many adventures overseas and around the world. Upon her return, Betty worked at Mass Mutual Insurance company as an administrative assistant. She married Neal in 1957. They moved to West Haven, Connecticut when Neal joined his brothers at their restaurant, Turk’s. Betty and Neal moved to Orange in 1960, where they raised their four children.
Betty was a member of the Paugasett Tennis and Swim Club. She clocked countless hours on the tennis courts in both singles and doubles. Her enthusiasm for the sport of tennis was unmatched, as was her serious competitive attitude. Betty also enjoyed bridge with her many friends. She loved to travel and became a travel agent. A voracious reader, Betty especially adored biographies. She instilled this love for reading in her children and future generations.
She will be greatly missed by her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and her many nieces, nephews and friends.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, October 3, 2026, at 11:30 a.m. at the Orange Center Cemetery, Orange.
Craig Allyn Renz
In addition to his wife, Marie, of 63 years, survivors include his three sons, Craig A. Renz Jr., and his wife, Kathryn, Patrick Renz and his wife, Rose Iannino-Renz, and Brian Renz, his two cherished granddaughters, Julia and Isabella, several nieces and nephews, and his dog, Louie. He was predeceased by his sister, Sally Monahan; and his brother, Henry Renz.
Relatives and friends may greet the family on Wednesday, September 9th, from 4:00 to 7:00 pm, with a prayer service starting at 6:30 pm, in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, www.stjude.org .
For online condolences, please visit us at www.abriola.com.
Janet Susan Sciarappa
Janet, age 74, beloved wife of Michael “Mickey” Sciarappa Jr., passed away of cardiac arrest at Bridgeport Hospital on Thursday, September 3rd, 2026 surrounded by her family.
Besides her husband of 52 years, she leaves her sons Samuel and James (Kristin) as well as her daughter Ellen (Phillip Rodriguez), granddaughter Jade Rodriguez, her brother Alan Horwath (Dulce) of Syracuse, New York and several nephews.
She was the daughter of George and Christina Horwath. Janet was well known for her cooking and baking abilities and was well loved by all. She makes a peach pie to die for.
She graduated from Milford High in the class of 1970. As per her wishes there will be no showing or services. Relatives and friends are invited to gather at the house on Saturday, September 19th from 2:00 PM to 5:00 PM.
She died happy with her husband by her side.
Susan J. Stover
Susan was predeceased by her parents, Robert and Kinue Stover.
She is survived by her brother, William Stover; sister-in-law, Gina Stover; and nieces, Ariana and Julia Stover. They will cherish the memories they shared with Susan and carry her memory in their hearts.
Susan will be missed by many others, especially her best friends, Deborah (Robert) Kluczinsky and Wendy (Robert) Tatham, who shared many special memories, laughter, and years of friendship with her.
One of Susan’s most treasured experiences was traveling to Japan with her dear friends Deborah and Robert. During the trip, she was fortunate enough to meet her Aunt Hiroko and her cousin, Ayako Nakao, in person for the very first time. It was a deeply meaningful experience for Susan and a special journey that she treasured and remembered fondly.
Outside of work, Susan found joy in the things she loved most. She was an avid reader, a fan of horror films and serial killer books, and a lover of all animals. She had a special place in her heart for Japan and Japanese culture, as well as a love for Hello Kitty and all things Japanese. Susan was also a passionate lover of live music and enjoyed attending many concerts and shows, making wonderful memories along the way.
She will be deeply missed by her brother, William; sister-in-law, Gina; nieces, Ariana and Julia; her best friends Deborah and Wendy; and all who had the privilege of knowing and loving her.
Arrangements: A celebration of Susan’s life will be held at a later date.
Forever loved, forever remembered, and never forgotten.
Dr. Philip Weisinger
Dr. Philip Weisinger attended Midwood High School, Brooklyn College and Buffalo University Medical School.
He did his residency in pediatrics at Boston Children’s Hospital and another residency in allergy medicine at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City.
He served in the U.S. military as a captain and doctor for two years, from 1965-1967, in Fort Devens, MA.
He joined an allergy practice in New Haven, where he practiced for 50 years. He was very dedicated to his patients.
Philip is survived by his wife of 67 years and three daughters. He also leaves seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.
Thomas K. Williams
Thomas Kenneth Williams Sr., 75, of Milford, passed away on September 11, 2026. Thom was born in Milford on April 21, 1951, moments after his twin brother Ken, and was the son of the late Kenneth and Rose (Salcito) Williams. Within the next few years, his sisters Geraldine and Diana followed.
Growing up steps from Long Island Sound, in a neighborhood populated with many families with similarly-aged children, the Williams kids had an adventurous and happy childhood. Thom was always pleased that many of these childhood friends are still his closest friends today.
Thom attended Kay Avenue Elementary School, graduated from Jonathan Law High School, and then entered the workforce as a sporting goods salesman at Alling Rubber Company at the Connecticut Post, Clampett’s in Fairfield, and eventually, The Milford Sports Shop in Milford Center. After a hard day of work, he stopped for a milkshake and was charmed by the young lady working at Carvel. Many milkshakes later, he and the former Debbie Bennett were married, and they recently, happily celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.
Three children later (Thomas, Jr., Jennifer, and Edward), Thom began his 30-year career as a FedEx courier. Despite the long hours, he found time to coach his kids’ sports teams and just be a fun and involved dad, whether it was pitching wiffleball, playing pool basketball, or a Sunday afternoon football game in the yard.
Retirement brought many golfing days at Grassy Hill Country Club, often with some of those same childhood friends and frequent trips to the casinos with his dear friend, Michael. Retirement also brought his beloved grandson, Eddie, and their many hours of fun times together, soccer games, and karate competitions.
Unfortunately, a short but dreadful battle with Lewy body dementia took Thom from our world.
Thom is survived by his cherished wife, Debbie, his children Thomas Williams, Jr. (Eve Chu), Jennifer (Nacho) Ochoa, and Edward Williams, and his grandson, Edward Ochoa. He also leaves his brother, Ken (Joan) Williams, and sister, Geraldine (Allan) Brown, as well as his nephews and their families. He was predeceased by his sister, Diana Battista, and his parents.
A gathering of family and friends will be held on Friday September 18th, 2026 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM at the Cody-White Funeral Home located at 107 Broad Street in Milford.
If desired, donations in Thom’s name may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Naomi Young
Naomi was born in the Bronx and attended City College of New York where she met the love of her life, Joel and they enjoyed 68 years of marriage. Together they formed the bedrock of a family tapestry that included daughters Shari (Marc), Lisa (Ron), Judi (Jim) and son Howard (Jessica), 8 grandchildren (Karia, Shawn, Micah, Jesse, Bella, Maddie, Jacob, Benjamin) and 2 great-grandchildren (Max, Quinn). Naomi had a beloved sister, Marilyn and she was devoted to her 3 nephews and cousins.
Naomi cherished family above all else and brought family together in many ways, including through food – she is revered for her famous yodel cake and noodle pudding which live on as a family tradition. Naomi was a good friend to all and maintained friendships spanning decades – childhood friends from the Bronx, a tight knit community in CT, and newfound friends in FL. Naomi earned several masters degrees and served for many years as Director of Senior Services at the New Haven JCC. Naomi loved to shop (and return); she enjoyed mahjongg, canasta and word games. Most of all
Naomi liked sharing in her family’s and friends’ successes and she made sure we all knew she was always there for us.
Donations in Naomi’s memory can be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital https://www.stjude.org.