Obituaries from the April 8, 2023 Issue

Martha (Melone) Bartha

Martha Bartha, age 93, of Milford, died peacefully on Tuesday, March 14, 2023 at Milford Health & Rehab. She was the cherished wife of the late Louis Bartha with whom she was married for 68 years. Martha’s memory will be forever celebrated by her two children, Eric Bartha, of Milford, Beverlee Bartha and companion John, of Northford, her grandchildren, Corianne Brennan, Arthur Brennan, wife Amanda, and three great grandchildren: Louis, Troy, and Penelope Brennan. Never was there a more loving “Gram.”

She was predeceased by her parents Anthony & Amelia Melone, and five siblings, Connie, Mary, Thomas, Dominic, and Antionette. Born May 21, 1929 and raised in Bridgeport. Martha and Louis were wed in 1949 and moved to Milford in 1957 where they raised their family. In the 1960’s Martha worked at Friendly Frost Appliances then went on to work at GE/Hotpoint Service as a dispatcher where she retired.

Martha loved to cook for her family. Her stuffed cabbage, meatballs, and stuffed artichokes will go down in history. She was an avid reader of mystery novels and loved to travel and cruise with Louis, all her siblings, and their spouses. In her earlier days she was known to be a good pinochle player. Martha was strong in her Christian faith and a member of Christ the Redeemer congregation for over fifty years. She was also a member of the Ladies Guild for many years.

Martha’s family would like to extend a special thanks to her caregivers Christina Del Prete (great-niece), and the staff at Milford Health & Rehab for the exceptional care and compassion given to Martha and family during her stay.

Friends are invited to greet family on Thursday March 23, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. with mass of Christian Burial following at 10:30 a.m. at Christ the Redeemer Church, 325 Oronoque Road, Milford, CT. Interment to follow in St. Mary Cemetery, Milford.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her name to the Beth-El Center, 90 New Haven Ave., Milford CT. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Glenn Roger Bell

Glenn Roger Bell, 77, of Milford, CT passed away on Friday March 10, 2023 after a courageous battle with cancer.  He was the beloved husband of  Deborah Haines Bell for 52 years and the loving father to Jason Bell (Irina Anguelova) and Lori Bell Ginelewicz (Steven Ginelewicz).

Glenn was born in Hartford, CT on October 11, 1945 and was the son of (predeceased) Joseph and Alyce Bell, brother of (predeceased) Ronald Bell and (predeceased) Marge Mages.  Glenn was also predeceased by his caring in-laws, William and Lillian Haines.  Glenn grew up in Fairfield, CT and Old Saybrook, CT.

Glenn served in the U.S. Army Reserves, memorably playing Trumpet in the Army band for Lyndon B Johnson’s funeral. Glenn worked as Vice President of Advertising at Remington Products and Franzus Travel Company.

Glenn loved watching and playing golf, keeping his car shiny, the New England Patriots, UCONN Basketball, and traveling with his wife and family on beach vacations.  He was best known for his dry sense of humor.  His greatest joy was being with his family, especially his grandchildren, Alexander, Evelyn, Brady and Kyle.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday April 1, 2023 at 11am at Greenfield Hill Congregational Church in Fairfield, CT.

Bruce William Bolduc

Bruce William Bolduc, age 58, of Milford, passed away on Friday March 17, 2023. Bruce was born on March 31, 1964 to the late Beatrice Moniz and William Bolduc of Milford. He is survived by his son, Tyler Shea of Hamden.

Services will be private.

Betty Brennan

Betty J. Brennan, 86, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Edward Brennan Sr., passed away on March 26, 2023. Born on August 28, 1936 in Wilkes-Barre, PA, she was the daughter of the late Thomas and Arlene Rowan.

Betty attended Myers High School and graduated in 1954. On July 10, 1954 she married the love of her life Edward J. Brennan. One of Betty’s favorite past times was going to the casino with her loving husband Ed and they went often, a few days a month. Betty and Ed loved traveling and saw most of the US states with their friends Dan and Irene Kozlowski of Sun City, AZ. Betty was extremely kind and generous to everyone. She never met a stranger and enjoyed having conversations with people. Betty spent the last 2 years of her life residing at The Village at Mariners Point in East Haven and made many friends there. She enjoyed Bingo and her meals with her gal pals!

Betty is survived by her children, Patricia (David) Raffauf, Edward Brennan Jr., Mark (Carol) Brennan, and Kevin Brennan; grandchildren, Kristen (Kevin) Marano, Matthew (Gina) Petrucci, Trevor (Linzi) Raffauf, Tyler (Valerie) Raffauf, Mark Brennan Jr., Monica Brennan, and Dana (Greg) Cruz; great grandchildren, Santino, Luca, Kayden, Haylen, Grayson, Anthony, Mia, Gulianna, and Dakota; nephew, Tom; niece, Arlene; and many more extended family. She was predeceased by her brother, Thomas Rowan Jr.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Saturday, April 1, 2023 from 9:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Funeral Service will begin at 10:30 a.m. that morning at the funeral home. Interment will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Vitas Hospice at 199 Park Rd. Ext., Middlebury, CT 06762.

Tyler John Beuler

Tyler John Breuler, 22, of Orange, passed away on March 17, 2023. Born on October 18, 2000, in Milford, he was the son of John Geanacopoulos and Colette Breuler.

Tyler was a May, 2022 Graduate of Roger Williams University with a B.S. in Cybersecurity and Networking with a Minor in Computer Science. He was working as a Network Engineer.

Tyler had a warm welcoming smile on his face, sometimes with an awkward introductory gesture. Once you got to know him you could immediately tell how bright and intelligent he was. Tyler was a sincere and kind human being. He was always willing to help and lend a hand to anybody in need. If he was your friend, he was a loyal friend. There were very few topics he would not be able to speak about. It would immediately become apparent that Tyler had an insatiable appetite for knowledge. He was very well read and worldly.

He pursued everything with passion, with the intent to master it and be the best at it. Tyler took an interest in woodworking early on, and before long he was buying professional equipment to make and sell exotic wood cutting boards and custom-made bowls. This was all self-taught and self-purchased by earning money from a landscaping business that he started when he was 14 years old. He had other hobbies that would come and go, photography, gardening, bike riding, cooking, and growing exotic mushrooms for cooking to name a few. All with that same all-in passion and quest to be the best. He was truly a special unique soul.

Tyler (Monk-Monk) Bee Bee had an incredibly special bond and relationship with his mother. They had a special kind of love and adored each other. He had a great sense of humor and could make her laugh almost anytime. They knew each other so well and shared almost everything in their lives. They were blessed to have had each other and share so many of life’s treasures.

Tyler has left a huge void, is loved deeply by many, and will be missed terribly.

Tyler leaves behind his parents, Colette Breuler and John Geanacopoulos, his grandparents John and Helen Breuler, and Christopher and Karen Geanacopoulos, his three younger siblings, Alexandria, Nathan and Brayden Geanacopoulos, and his lifelong best friend Logan Herb. Ty leaves behind numerous friends, cousins, aunts, and uncles.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, March 27, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460. A Memorial Service will take place at 7:30 p.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.

Antoinette M. Buccieri

Antoinette Turro Buccieri, age 90, of Milford, beloved wife of Joseph A. Buccieri, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 28, 2023 with her loving family by her side. Born in Bridgeport on July 17, 1932, she was a daughter of the late Peter and Ruth Deyo Turro.

Antoinette was a loving and caring wife, mother and grandmother; always putting the needs of her family before her own. She treasured when the family was all together creating a lifetime of memories. The unconditional love she gave and the values she taught will forever live in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. Antoinette will be deeply missed.

In addition to her beloved husband of 70 years, Joseph, survivors her two loving children, a son, Richard Buccieri, and a daughter, Lisa Buccieri, three cherished granddaughters, Stephanie Castro (Rudy), Jessica Anastasio (Joe) and Alysha Buccieri (RJ), all of Milford, three adored great grandchildren, Rosalina, Natalya and Isaac, her adopted daughter, Betsy Boerner, daughter-in-law, Agnes Buccieri, a sister, Elizabeth Bengston, sisters-in-law, MaryAnn Turro and Madeline Anderson, as well as several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a son, Joseph F. Buccieri and three brothers, Peter, William, and James Turro.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, April 3, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. in St. Ann Church, 501 Naugatuck Ave., Milford. Interment will follow in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Milford. Relatives and friends may greet the family on Sunday, April 2, 2023 from 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. in the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Road, Trumbull.

Donald D. Byrne

Donald “Donny” Dean Byrne, 84, formerly of Milford, passed away on March 18, 2023 in Pompano Beach, FL. Born on December 1, 1938 in Milford, he was the son of the late Arthur and Dorothy Byrne.

Donny had a smile that would light up a room & sense of humor & laugh that was infectious. He retired from the post office & worked at Raybestos prior to that. Donny was a talented piano & organ player & his favorite song to play was somewhere my love. He enjoyed going to Las Vegas, traveling & loved to cook. His favorite pastime was spending time with his family & friends.

He leaves behind his brothers, George (Holly) Byrne and Leroy (Eileen) Byrne; as well as his nieces, nephews & cousins. He was predeceased by his parents, Arthur & Dorothy Byrne, His sister Dorthea, Brother Arthur Byrne & his wife Connie, Sister Phyllis Colluci, brother Robert (Dolly) and his partner Arthur Beckwith. He was loved deeply by his family & will be missed terribly.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, March 27, 2023 from 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Funeral Service will begin at 12:30 p.m. at the funeral home that day with a burial to follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. In lieu of flowers please send donations to Elder Justice Foundation or the Dementia Society of America.

Carolyn (Marcovich) Contardi

Carolyn H. (Marcovich) Contardi, 74, of Orange passed away February 24, 2023. Born in Bridgeport, she was the daughter of the late Stephen and Helen (Buturla) Marcovich.

Carolyn graduated summa cum laude from Southern Connecticut State College in 1970 and taught Spanish in Stratford Public Schools.

Carolyn is survived by her husband Gene, of Orange, her daughter Lisa, of Bolton, sister, Patricia (Edward) Zelinsky, of Guilford, and brother, Stephen, of Fairfield.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 2, 2023 at 11:30 a.m. at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Road, Orange, CT. (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH) Interment will follow at Saint Michael Cemetery, Stratford, CT.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to any local animal shelter in her name.

George Fino

The end of an Era…

George John Fino, 98 years old, born February 22, 1925 in Bridgeport, CT passed away peacefully on February 25, 2023 in Milford, Connecticut. He was the son of Domiano Fino and Angelina (Scippa) Fino and was one of ten children, all of whom are previously deceased.

Our beloved Uncle will be lovingly remembered by his numerous nieces and nephews. George served in the United States Navy, achieving three stars and the Asiatic Pacific Area Campaign Medal the American Area Campaign Medal. During WWII George served in the Chaplaincy Office on the S.S. Pittsburgh Destroyer in the Pacific Theatre and Achieved the WWII Victory Medal.

After his honorable completion of service, he moved to New York City where he began his lifelong antique business. He travelled extensively throughout Europe on buying trips purchasing inventory for his shop to the delight of his many clients, including Jacqueline Kennedy-Onassis of whom he was proud to have as a customer. Over his 98 years, George lived in several beautifully appointed homes in New York, Beaufort, South Carolina and Litchfield County where he graciously entertained family and friends with his devoted partner Harvey Smith, creating wonderful memories for us to cherish. He eventually became one of the first residents at Heritage Village in Southbury, CT where he was active in the village community.

He was a devoted member of the unofficial men’s local coffee shop “club” where many a tale was certainly exchanged. Uncle George was the consummate story teller and chronicler of our family histories and his own well lived adventures. These recollections are an enduring legacy among his nieces and nephews. Besides his joy of birdwatching, George was a lifelong animal lover.

Memorial donations may be made in his name to The Connecticut Audubon Coastal Center at Milford Point located at 1 Milford Point Road, Milford, CT, 06460. ctaudubon.org/coastal-center-at-milfordpoint

At his request, there will be no calling hours or funeral service; his cremains will be distributed at sea, by the Navy at a future date. His family wishes to say a special thank you and acknowledge the staff of Carriage Green at Milford Senior Living, for their compassionate care of George during his residency there.

George John Fino was a true gentleman, a devoted son, caring brother, warm and generous Uncle and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.

Thomas G. Forlano Sr.

Thomas G. Forlano Sr., 84. Our beloved father and husband passed away on March 17, 2023. He is survived by his wife Geraldine (DiNapoli), and children, Gina, Thomas Jr. (Dana), and Paula (Mark Smith). His greatest joy was his two precious granddaughters Giuliana and Antonia Forlano. Funeral services will be privately held.

 

 

 

 

Dr. Frank G. Fortunati, Jr.

Dr. Frank G. Fortunati, Jr., 58, of Milford, beloved husband of Karen (Angelo) Fortunati and adored father of Jenna and Frankie, passed away on March 5, 2023. Born in January 1965 in Trenton, NJ, he was the son of Marie (Migliaccio) Fortunati and the late Frank G. Fortunati, Sr.

Frank was truly a Renaissance Man. A psychiatrist, lawyer and pharmacist, Frank was the assistant professor and Deputy Chair for Yale-New Haven Health System. Since 2016, he served as Vice Chief and Medical Director of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health for Yale-New Haven Hospital (YNHH). Frank was a born leader, instinctively leading by example, recognizing and fostering the talents of his colleagues to build a dynamic team of health care heroes. He would never ask a colleague for something he would not or had not done himself. Through a combination of professional excellence, humility and genuine affection, Frank earned the love and admiration of everyone he worked with as well the patients who received his compassionate care.

Frank’s life outside of work was rich. He was an accomplished musician playing saxophone, guitar, piano and flute. One of his great joys was performing with his friends and fellow psychiatrists in their band “Schedule II.”  He filled his home and car with jazz and classic rock, bonding with his kids over bands like Chicago, Yes and Pink Floyd.

Humble to a fault, Frank was interested in everything – finance, ancient Roman history, technology, politics, and science. He embraced meditation as he navigated his health challenges and found peace in his faith.

While he found his professional purpose at Yale, love of family is what defined Frank. He was a steady and constant source of wisdom and encouragement for Karen and their children, diving deep into the issues and events of their lives. Their many adventures included travel up and down the Northeast, trips to indulge Karen’s passion for Revolutionary War sites, and to the Jersey Shore, Florida, and Europe, including a memorable trip to Italy in 2010. He had no shame in whipping out the selfie stick to take photos with his family.

But Frank’s favorite place was home. He poured hours into his garden, growing and harvesting tomatoes, peppers, eggplants, grapes from his late mother-in-law’s grapevine, and so many figs from his beloved fig trees. With no hesitation, he got matching fig leaf tattoos with Karen, Jenna, and Frankie over Thanksgiving 2018.

In addition to his loving wife and children, Frank is survived by his father-in-law, Richard, his brother, David (Jin), his brothers-in-law Rick and Steven (Tracey), his nephews and nieces Jake, Jessica, Sophie, Maggie, Emma, Rachel, Ryan and Peyton, and cherished dogs Patch, Petey and Penny.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, March 11, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will be private. No calling hours will be held. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Facing Hereditary Cancer Empowered (FORCE), www.facingourrisk.org/donate.

To view the service live, please visit www.NextLevelLiveStream.com.

Within 6 hours of the funeral, it will be archived at: https://vimeo.com/nlls/FrankFortunatiJr1965. This event will be available to view for one year after recording.

Raymond Garcia

Raymond Garcia, 94, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Vera Garcia, passed away peacefully on March 3, 2023. Born on September 15, 1928 in New Haven, he was the son of the late Frank “Emil” and Laura Garcia.

Raymond (Ray) leaves behind his daughter, Maria Garcia Weitzman and her partner Chris Schapdick, as well as many extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his siblings, Ernie, Joe, Ed, Emil, and Rosemary.

After graduating high school, Ray worked at a clothing store and as a bartender, before he was drafted into the Army during the Korean War in 1951. After being discharged in 1953, he joined the Postal Service and the National Association of Letter Carriers, a job he truly loved because it allowed him to interact with people.

Ray met Vera in a restaurant in New Haven and were married in 1957. They went on to have their only child Maria and were married for 62 years.

Ray retired from the Post Office in 1990. Afterwards, he spent his time travelling with his family, visiting his daughter, walking daily, voraciously reading multiple newspapers and magazines a day, singing and listening to music, watching sports and CNN and an taking an occasional trip to Foxwoods. The most important thing to him was his relationships with his family, friends and wonderful neighbors.

It cannot be understated how much he was truly loved and how many lives he touched – the list is too long to write. He loved being social, telling corny jokes and was known as the “Mayor of Wilson Road.” He was a frequent dinner guest at his neighbors’ and family’s homes (who also brought him food after Vera passed away). Ray was everyone’s favorite uncle and referred endearingly to his loved ones as “my pal.”

Family and friends are invited to celebrate Ray’s life on Friday, March 10, 2023 from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 12:00 p.m. that day at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd., Orange. Interment with Military Honors will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made UNICEF: Children in Crossfire of Ukraine Crisis | UNICEF USA to help support the children of Ukraine or the Ulster County SPCA, an organization Ray supported with Maria.

Elena L. Garet

Elena L. Garet, 61, of Milford, beloved wife of Ken Herbert, passed away on March 24, 2023. Born on February 8, 1962 in Brooklyn, NY, she was the daughter of Romilda Neville and the late John Garet.

Elena loved spending her time at the beach whether it was laying out on the sand or cruising the waves on the boat. She could always be found with a good book in her hand and had a passion for cooking, especially her famous homemade soups. Elena fiercely advocated for and sought to empower young women. She was an avid traveler, visiting many places like Florence and Mexico, but her favorite spot was the Vermont home. She was a successful attorney and a dedicated small business owner of Me Boutique in downtown Milford. Above all else, Elena was a devoted wife, beloved mother, cherished daughter and sister, and loyal friend who will be missed dearly.

Along with her husband and mother, Elena leaves behind her beloved daughters, Olivia and Phoebe, son in law Lucas; siblings, Laura, Suzanne, and John; and many nieces, nephews, extended family and good friends. She was predeceased by her sister, Jennifer

Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, March 29, 2023 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to either Tunnel to Towers Foundation or the American Cancer Society in honor of Elena.

Eric Carl Gerlander

Eric Carl Gerlander, 71, of Milford, passed away on March 25, 2023. Eric was born on July 25, 1951, in Bridgeport and he was the son of the late Eric G. and Lillian Gerlander.

Eric was a lifelong resident of Milford.  After graduating from Milford High School in 1969 Eric enlisted in the Navy.  Back then there was the “lottery” system, and his lucky number was 3 which meant if he didn’t sign up for the Navy he would have been in the front lines in Viet Nam.  Eric was stationed in Guam and after his active duty he went on to become a Reservist in the Navy for 21 years.  Eric took great pride in his service.

Eric was self-employed as a carpenter for most of his working years and took great pride in his work.  Eric earned his Associates Degree from Gateway Community College and also went to Southern Connecticut with the goal of becoming a teacher.  Eric taught carpentry at Oliver Wolcott Technical HS; Eli Whitney Technical HS; Bullard-Havens Technical HS and Platt Technical HS.

Eric had a variety of hobbies, but his favorite was sailing.  Eric enjoyed racing on Thursday nights in Milford and sailing for pleasure.  He also enjoyed bird watching; home improvement projects; taking rides in his truck and listening to Car Talk on WNPR (as a family this would be our Saturday mornings) and part of the ride would be to the transfer station!  As a family some of our greatest times were spent in New Hampshire in the summer where we enjoyed hiking, train rides, Story Land and swimming.

Eric was the proudest Dad. He loved doing things with Randy and Hanna and when he spoke of them he beamed from ear to ear.  Eric loved it when their friends were over, you could always count on some crazy activity happening here.  So many wonderful memories, the list is endless.

Eric is survived by his beloved children, Randall James (Alyssia) Gerlander and Hanna Lillian Gerlander; and their mother Kimberly Gerlander who was Eric’s caretaker, his sister Lynn Gerlander Hamilton and many extended family and friends.

I want to thank River Glen Health Care Center who took care of Eric for the last two years.  When Eric arrived there during Covid he was very confused and it was challenging to say the least, but they worked with him to make him feel comfortable and relaxed.  Sunny his nurse found that music calmed him so she would play Fleetwood Mac (one of his favorites) for him and that would change his mood. River Glen has shared with me how missed he will be, he was the heart of the floor.  Thank you all for taking such good care of Eric.

There will be a celebration of Eric’s life on Saturday, April 1, 2023 at 2:00 p.m. at the Woodmont United Church of Christ, 1000 New Haven Avenue, Milford. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association in honor of Eric.

Lawrence Francis Griffin

Lawrence Francis Griffin, 89, of Milford, passed away peacefully at home on April 1st , 2023 surrounded by loved ones. He was born on May 22, 1933 in New Haven, he was the son of the late Edward and Katherine Griffin. Larry was a lifelong resident of Milford and graduated from Milford High School in 1951.

Larry is survived by his daughter and son-in-law Eileen and Paul Kelly; his two sons Edward and Michael Griffin; and his former wife Elizabeth Murphy. Along with his grandchildren who he loved dearly: Tarah and Maggie Kelly, Monica and Tyler Griffin, Hunter Griffin, and his great-grandson Bowen Sullo. As well as his siblings Nancy Pluto and Robert (Rosanne) Griffin, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Edward Griffin and sister Katherine Carberry.

Larry served in the U.S. Navy (1951-1955), then attended Central Connecticut State University, also played football, and graduated in 1961. Upon graduation, he worked at Travelers for 30 years. In the early ’90’s, he began working at Yale University at the Payne Whitney Gymnasium for 10 years.

During his early life he pursued his avocation, sports officiating. Larry was past president of the New Haven County Football Officials Association and the Connecticut Chapter EIFAO (college football officials). He was honored as an outstanding football official by the New Haven Gridiron Club, inducted into the Connecticut Football Officials Hall of Fame, and was honored as one of the first inductees of the Ring of Honor by the New Haven Football Officials Association in 2020. He officiated nine Connecticut High School Championship games and six NCAA college playoff games. He was also a member of IIABO Board #10 (basketball officials), The Greater New Haven Umpires Association (baseball), and the Connecticut Lacrosse Officials Association.

Our family would like to thank the friends and family who stopped by over the years that Paul and Eileen took care of Larry. The laughs and memories got him through the hard days while remembering the best ones.
Calling hours will be Wednesday, April 5th from 12:00-2:00 pm at Dennis & D’Arcy – Abriola & Kelemen Funeral Home, 2611 Main St., Stratford, CT. Services to follow.

For online condolences please visit: www.dennisanddarcy.com.

Jeannette T. Hafner

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend, Jeannette Hafner of Orange, CT.

Born to Dorothy and Franklin Timpson, she grew up in Woodbridge, CT. She carried a sense of warmth, love, joy and creativity throughout her life, which she passed along to her own family.

Jeannette is survived by her three children: Robert Hafner of Hamden, CT, Bruce Hafner and wife Joanne, of Newark, DE, and Carol Heller and husband Joseph of Durham, CT. In addition, she is survived by her grandchildren, Kaitlin Richetti and husband Zack and sons Callan and Beckett of Kennett Square, PA, Jennifer Blondin and husband Zachary and daughter Sophie of Wilmington, NC, Cody Hafner and wife Danielle and son Hudson, of Philadelphia, PA, Timothy Heller and wife Kelsey of Boston, MA, and Keegan Hafner of Philadelphia, PA.

She was preceded in death by her loving husband, Harold Hafner of 57 years.

Jeannette was a graduate of Larson College, which later became Quinnipiac University, in Hamden. She and her husband were active members of the First Church of Christ, Scientist in New Haven.

Jeannette was an avid floral designer, and dedicated member of the Orange Garden Club for over 50 years, including service as President. She loved partnering with her garden club friends in coordinating fundraising events, house tours, silver teas, and local and regional flower shows and design competitions. Her dried floral designs were published in several books by Rodale Press and Sterling/Lark Press featuring her expertise in wreath making, topiaries, and floral arrangements.

Jeannette had many other creative hobbies as she was a master basket weaver, having crafted hundreds of distinctive and traditional shaker designs over the years. She also loved painting, which she focused on in her later days.

Jeannette cherished time with her children, and their families, and especially loved spending her summers with them at her lakeside cottage in Maine.

Memorial contributions can be made to the Orange Garden Club or the Crescent Lake Watershed Association.

Memorial Services will be held on Saturday, April 15, 2023 at 10 am at the Orange Congregational Church in Orange, CT.

Ursula Ann Hayes

Ursula Ann (Wallace) Hayes, 89, passed away on February 24, 2023 at her home. She was predeceased by her loving husband of 63 years John Joseph Hayes. Ursula was born in Bronx, New York on October 6, 1933. She attended Mount Saint Ursula High School and received a bachelor’s degree from Notre Dame College, Staten Island.

Along with her husband, Ursula was predeceased by her parents William and Mary (Heffernan) Wallace.

Ursula was an elementary school teacher at Long Ridge School in Stamford and Fort Trumbull School in Milford. Leaving teaching to raise her children, she was very involved in Saint Mary School, starting the hot lunch program and the basketball tournament, which is celebrating its 47th year. Upon returning to work, she became the bookkeeper at Saint Mary Church where she stayed until her retirement. She enjoyed traveling with her husband, friends, and family and always had great stories to tell of her adventures. Throughout her adult life, when she was not working or travelling, you could always find her at a game or event for her children and grandchildren. She was extremely loyal, maintaining friendships for decades.

Ursula was a devoted parishioner of St. Mary Church. She was an active member of the Ladies Guild and was a Eucharistic Minister for many years. She was a recipient of the St. Joseph Medal of Appreciation, given by the Archdiocese of Hartford, for her countless years of volunteering for St. Mary Parish and school.

Ursula is survived by her five children: Michael (Meghean) Hayes of Orange, Mary Hewitt of Milford, Patricia (Michael) Gargiulo of Cheshire, John (Elizabeth Mazzabufi) Hayes, Jr. of Milford, and Robert (Kristen) Hayes of Woodbridge. She will lovingly be remembered by her grandchildren: Charise, Charles, Jennifer (Albert), Michael, Patrick, Brian, Kerry (Jake), Brendan (Sarah), Sean, and Clare and her great grand daughter Beatrix. She also leaves her brother Reverend William Wallace and sister Mary Catherine Wallace, nieces and nephews.

The family would like to thank her devoted care givers, including Manel and Cremilde, and the medical professionals from Home Care Plus for their many years of varied assistance.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, March 1, 2023 from 5:00 pm-8:00 pm at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian burial will be held at St. Mary Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT on Thursday, March 2, 2023 at 11:00 am, followed by interment at St. Mary Cemetery, Milford.

Edward Charles Henning

Edward Charles Henning, age 73, lifelong resident of Milford, beloved husband of Joni (Troxler) Henning, passed away unexpectedly on March 27, 2023 from injuries sustained in a car accident.

Edward was born on May 4, 1949 to the late Charles William Henning and the late Patricia (Maiden) Olenski and her husband, Henry. Ed worked as a mechanic at Bic Corp. for 50 years until his retirement. Ed was a proud husband and father who loved telling stories of his kids and grandkids. He enjoyed spending time outdoors- golfing and playing baseball in his younger years, tending to his vegetable garden, smoking ribs, fishing for snapper blues, and bird watching.

Ed was a quiet man with a lighthearted personality who loved to have fun- whether that was duckpin bowling on Sundays, drinking a bud and playing pinball, or cheering on his Red Sox. All who knew him will miss his great sense of humor.

In addition to his devoted wife he leaves, his children, Edward Henning, Jr. (Dixie) of GA, Dawn Henning (Edward Finlayson) of New Haven, Heather Henning of Milford and stepson, Ricky Smith, Jr. (Irene) of North Haven, five grandchildren, who lovingly referred to him as “Papa or Poppy” Eddie Henning, III (Lylee), Daisy Henning-Morse, Emmett Finlayson, Hunter Smith, and Tabitha Smith. He also leaves his great granddaughter, Elliot Grace Henning, stepdaughter in law, Wendy Brunell of Milford, his siblings, Thomas Olenski (Wendy), James Olenski (Melody) and Timothy Olenski (Karen) all of Arizona and several nieces and nephews. His stepson, Brenton Michael Smith predeceased him.

A service will be held on Monday, April 3, 2023, at 9:45 a.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD followed by a Mass of Requiem at 10:30 a.m. at St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, 71 River Street, Milford. Interment to follow at King’s Highway Cemetery, Milford. Family and friends may call on Sunday from 2 – 5 p.m. at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ed’s memory to an animal rescue organization of your choice.

Carolyn (Snyder) Holmes

Carolyn Holmes, 90, of Milford, CT, passed away surrounded by her loving family on March 15, 2023. Born on October 11, 1932, in Dudley, MA, she was the daughter of the late Frank and Anna (Menzner) Snyder. Carolyn was the loving wife of Jack Holmes for 65 years.

In addition to her husband, Carolyn is survived by her children, Jeff Holmes of Oxford, CT, Tracy Caristinos of Milford, CT, and Kimberly Rogers of Ormond Beach, FL; her grandchildren, Carolyn Holmes, Justin Holmes, Michael Caristinos, Brittney Whitman, and Shyla Rogers. She is predeceased by her brother, Frank Snyder of Newark, DE, her sister, Esther Stocklin of Webster, MA and her brother, Albert Snyder of Webster, MA.

Carolyn attended Bartlett High School in Webster, MA. She then attended Memorial Hospital School of Nursing, Worcester, MA (now known as UMass Memorial), followed by the University of Bridgeport, Bridgeport, CT where she earned a B.S. in Nursing.

Carolyn started her career at Bridgeport Hospital, then Yale Hospital and finally Milford Hospital. She then was employed as a school nurse for the City of Milford from 1966 to 1995. She enjoyed caring for her patients, adults and especially children. Always driven to help others, Carolyn treated everyone with kindness and compassion remembering “you could be a patient someday and how would you want to be treated”.

Carolyn was an avid gardener with an assortment of colorful flowers blooming all year long as well as cucumbers, tomatoes, and blueberries. She also enjoyed doing crossword puzzles, word games, jigsaw puzzles, and playing along with Jeopardy! She was passionate about antiquing, with her prized possessions including a functioning juke box and a player piano to fill the home with music. She lovingly maintained correspondence with friends and relatives through handwritten letters.

Her fondest memories included caring for her children and grandchildren, decorating and hosting holiday and family gatherings, Mother’s Day at Central Grammar School where she helped the kindergartners select their plants at the annual plant sale, and the many excursions tracking down a favorite antique.

All services will be private per Carolyn’s wishes. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff of Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460.

Joseph Frank Honek

You might have called me JOE or some called me Frank, some as JOE FRANK, but when GOD called on March 1, 2023, that was a call I had to answer.

Joseph Frank Honek was born in Milford on February 6, 1958, to the late Joseph A. Honek and the late Anna B. (Grosko) Honek.  He is survived by his brother, Andrew P. Honek and his wife Roberta, close cousins, Vicky Marella (Bookend), Jacqueline Honek (Princess), cousin, Bill Honeck of CA and other cousins here and in Europe, aunt, Henrietta Honek Platt of Milford and Aunts, Marge Baluch, Mary Jordhamo and Irene Marella.

Joe graduated from Saint Gabriel School in 1972 and Jonathan Law High School in 1976.  He enjoyed organizing many of the class Reunions that JLHS had. Joe (Frank) was involved in the management of the family business, Connecticut Driveshaft, from its founding in 1971 to eventual sale to a national roll up, Fleetpride.

Joe enjoyed the family log home in northern New Hampshire and traveling to Saint Maarten where he spent a month every year.  Joe was fortunate to be able to travel to many places and all that knew him knew he loved his frequent flyer miles.  He made 4 trips to Slovakia where his mom was born and still has relatives.

Friends and family may call on Monday, March 6th from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in The Gregory F. Doyle Funeral Home, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday at 10:30 a.m. in Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford.  Interment will follow in Saint Mary Church, Milford.  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Diabetes Association.  To leave an online condolence, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Brian Robert Hulse

Brian Robert Hulse, 81, of Milford, beloved husband of Delena (Herron) Hulse passed away peacefully at home on March 17, 2023. Born on March 21, 1941 in Bridgeport, Connecticut, he was the son of Gladys (Delaney) Hulse and the late Clifford Hulse.

Brian served in the Air Force for 6 years before working many jobs throughout his life. Brian worked at Spectrum Associates as a Draftsman for many years, then as a Store Designer for Subway World Headquarters for 12 years before retiring.

Brian is more known as the Founder and Lead Singer of the renowned band “Flashback” bringing memories and love of 50’s Rock n Roll music to many fans for 38 years.

Brian is survived by his children, Scott Hulse (Holly), Lori Stein (David), Gregory Hulse (Sheri); stepchildren Debra Robinson, Denise Treiber (Kurt), and Jon Robinson (Linda); his grandchildren, Kenneth Hulse (Victoria), Christopher Hulse (Danielle), Stephanie Ayala (Ken), Hannah Stein, Erica Stein, Ashley Hulse (Meredith), Geoffrey Hulse (Kelsey), Matthew Porter and Savanah Robinson (Noah); and his great grandchildren, William, Alexander, Andrew, Aubrey, Noah, Johnathan, Jackson, Benton and Luna. Brian is also survived by his mother, Gladys Hulse of Milford who is 104 years old; his brother, Brad Hulse; his sister, Bev Lebel (Wayne); and several nieces and nephews. Brian was predeceased by his sister, Barbara Wolf.

There will be a “Celebration of Life” Service on April 15, 2023 at Kingdom Life Christian Church, 1455 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford, CT from 10:00am to 11:00am. Visitation Hours will be from 9:00am to 10:00am before the service. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family.

John Iaffaldano

John Iaffaldano, age 59, of Milford, died on Thursday March 9, 2023. John was born in Queens, NY on June 30th, 1963 to the late Antonio and Pasqua DiDonna Iaffaldano. He was the owner of John Michael’s Hair Salon in Milford for many years. Survivors include his siblings; Berardino Iaffaldano and his wife Mary of Milford, Grace Iaffaldano Best and her husband Jeffrey of Monroe, Joey Iaffaldano and his wife Donna of Milford and Lisa DiPrato and her husband Paul of Milford and several nieces and nephews. Services will be private. THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, Milford is in care of arrangements. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

 

 

 

Carolina Jaser

Carolina Jaser, 55, of Milford, beloved, passed away peacefully with her family present on March 19, 2023. Born on May 26, 1967 in Jerusalem, Palestine, she was the daughter of Naimeh (Yaser) Jaser and the late Yousef Jaser of Milford.

Carolina graduated from Foran High school in 1986. She worked for Paul’s Hamburger stand and served the Milford community for 20 years. She was a hard working woman and decided to open up her own business, Plaza Beef. Lina was an avid Yankees fan and enjoyed her love for music, dancing and being the life of every party she attended. She always made people laugh with her comical, witty personality. She loved everyone who crossed her path; she was selfless and giving to all even if it was her last.

Carolina is survived by her siblings, Alexandra (Elias) Jaser, Philomena Yaser, Alexander Jaser and Paul (Paulie) Jaser. She is predeceased by her brother-in-law, Abed Yaser and her niece Katrena Akel. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews, cared for by her loving Goddaughter Rebecca (Brandon) Schneider and her longtime best friend Patricia Bodnar. She will be deeply missed and forever treasured in our hearts.

We would like to thank all the doctors, nurses and medical staff for the outstanding care they provided for Carolina at Yale Smilow.

All Services will be Private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.

Ronald A. Kuhl

Ronald A. Kuhl, 83, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Josephine (Plavcan) Kuhl, entered into eternal rest on March 14, 2023. Born on December 9, 1939 in East Lyme, Connecticut he was raised in Bridgeport, CT. He was the son of the late Robert and Martha (Williams) Kuhl.

Ronald was a graduate of Harding High School in Bridgeport, CT. Following high school he worked at Jenkins Bros in Bridgeport for several years before following his desire to serve his country by enlisting in the United States Army where he obtained the rank of Sergeant, proudly training and leading his team of soldiers. Following Ronald’s honorable discharge from his duties in the Army, he married his loving wife of sixty years, Josephine, and they settled down in Milford, CT, where they raised their family and where he would spend most of his career as a Set Up Machinist at Burndy Corporation. Upon the closure of Burndy Corp, Ronald continued his career at Bodine Corporation in Bridgeport, CT, where he worked as a CNC Machinist until his retirement. Ronald was an avid reader and started each day catching up on the latest news by reading several news publications. He loved bowling and he was also an avid fisherman. Ronald loved taking long drives with Josie admiring the beautiful landscapes throughout Connecticut, New Hampshire, and Vermont. When he wasn’t out exploring on his long drives you could find him home cheering on his favorite teams, the New York Yankees and the Dallas Cowboys.

Ronald was a lifelong member of the Milford Elks and also a proud member of the American Legion.

Ronald was predeceased by his parents Robert and Martha. He is survived by his loving wife Josephine, his son Ronald Kuhl and daughter in law Peggy Kuhl and his daughter Donna Nunno and son in law, Bob Nunno; his brother, Robert Kuhl and his sister, Diane Bardinelli. He is also survived by his five grandchildren Christy (Jonathan Pareja) Kuhl, Ronald Kuhl, Jennifer (Sean Baia) Kuhl, Christopher Nunno and Nicholas Nunno as well as four great grandchildren, Christian, Jayce, Jackson, and Easton. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Monday, March 20, 2023, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday, March 21, 2023 at Saint Gabriel’s Church, 26 Broadway, Milford, CT. Interment with military honors will follow mass at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry Street, Milford, CT.

Patricia M. Lucia

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Patricia Mary Lucia age 77 of Milford, CT on March 19, 2023 at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by her loving family. Pat was born in New Haven, CT to the late Thomas and Mary (Heaphy) Cronan.

Pat’s true calling in life was to be a registered nurse which she wore her badge with honor and dignity. Over her fifty plus years of nursing, she wore many different hats. She first started as an Emergency Room nurse at Saint Vincent’s Medical Center in Bridgeport, CT which she later became their nurse manager for twenty years and met her beloved husband there. She then went on and became the manager at Temple Recovery in New Haven, CT until its closure. During that role, she was nominated by her employees and won the prestigious Nightingale award. Her next chapter in nursing took her to Yale New Haven Hospital as the first urology nurse educator. As the clinical practice continued to grow, she returned to management as the role of APSM until she retired three years ago. In typical Pat fashion, she could not stay retired and went back to working with the Urology department. During her years of devoted nursing, she not only gave her patients and employees respect but she made lifelong friends along the way. She infallibly had an open-door policy to her employees and was always there to lend an ear or give advice to as she was known to many as “Mama Pat”, much more than their boss.

As nursing played a huge role in Pat’s life nothing was as vast as her mother and “Grammy” role. Pat was the definition of selfless. All you needed to do was pick up the phone and she was there for you no matter what and no questions asked. Be it picking up a grandchild to and from school, bringing them to their numerous activities, running to the store at any hour of the day, Sunday rituals to mass, making her phenomenal chicken cutlets and her many delicious dishes that will be sorely missed. She always said that her family was her life, but she was OUR life. She has left us with an immense void, but also beautiful memories that we will cherish forever.

Pat will be severely missed by her son WalterJohn whom they shared a very special bond and his wife Renee who was like a daughter to her. Their three children who were the reason for her being Frankie, Santino and her namesake Daniela GracePatrice Lucia. She was not only their Grammy, but their friend as well. You could always have seen Pat cheering them on at the sidelines of swim meets, hockey games, basketball games and at the dojo. She didn’t miss any milestones in their lives, and she will continue to watch over them. She also leaves behind her caring stepdaughters Rita (Dave) Supernaw, Elisa (Jim) O’Connor, and Laura (Chris) Church. Her beloved grandchildren Matthew Carralero, Ricky and Nella Church. Pat is survived by her close sister Maureen Redman and many nieces and nephews in addition to her great nephew David whom he will miss their frequent phone calls. She is predeceased by her brothers Thomas, William, and Robert Cronan. As well as her late husband and soulmate Walter Lucia, MD. We know that they are dancing up in heaven and enjoying a long-awaited glass of wine together.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday March 23, 2023 at 1:30 p.m. at Saint Lawrence Church, 505 Shelton Ave, Shelton, CT 06484. Friends and family may call from 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. on March 23, 2023 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Transplant Patient Care Fund, Office of Development at Yale New Haven Hospital P.O. Box 1849, 20 York Street New Haven, CT 06510 in memory of Patricia Lucia.

Irene Jefferson Nolan

Irene J. Nolan, 62, of Milford, CT died Monday, February 27, 2023 at Bridgeport Hospital after a period of declining health. She will be deeply missed by her friends.

Irene, daughter of the late Ruth R. (Jefferson) and George J. Nolan, was born in New Haven, CT on October 25, 1960. Raised in Milford, CT, she graduated from Foran High School in 1978, and enjoyed planning reunions with her classmates. She graduated from Mount Holyoke College in 1982 with a degree in history. After earning a Master of Library Science degree from Southern Connecticut State University in 1984, Irene made her career as reference librarian at the Miller Memorial Central Library in Hamden, CT for over 30 years.

In retirement, Irene applied her skills and love of local history as an active contributor and devoted member of the Milford Historical Society. A trained genealogist and mystery lover, Irene enjoyed helping others to discover their own family stories.

A Graveside service will take place on Friday, May 19, 2023 at 1pm at Saint Mary’s Cemetery, 3110 Whitney Avenue in Hamden, CT.

Irene’s motto was “Drink tea, Read books, Be happy….” Irene’s dear friends, who served as her immediate family, invite all friends and colleagues to share remembrances at a Memorial Brunch, on Saturday May 20, 11:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. at Stonebridge Restaurant, Milford. For planning purpose, please send RSVP e-mail to tributeforirene@gmail.com by May 10, 2023.

Mary Anne (McLean) O’Connell

Mary Anne O’Connell, R.N. of Milford, CT, formerly of Holyoke, MA, Norwalk & Bridgeport, CT and Bradenton, FL, wife of John ‘Jack’ O’Connell Sr., peacefully left us to join other angels on Saturday, March 18, 2023.

Mary Anne Jeraldine O’Connell was born on September 16, 1941 in Holyoke, MA to John and Mary (Falvey) McLean. After the deaths of both parents Mary Anne and her sister Peggy were raised by their Aunt Jane and Uncle Jeremiah Sullivan. Mary Anne attended Blessed Sacrament Grammar School and Holyoke Catholic High School, graduating in 1959. Following high school Mary Anne attended Providence Hospital School of Nursing earning a degree in 1962. Mary Anne’s caring and compassionate soul made a her a successful nurse in every place she worked, beginning her career in Florida. She continued her career in Connecticut, ultimately retiring from her role as a Public Health Nurse in the Bridgeport Public Schools.

Mary Anne was most dedicated to her family. She met her husband, Jack, in Kindergarten and they had their first date in 4th grade. Though they remained friends, their second official date wasn’t until 1963. They got engaged on what was technically their third date and they were married for 59 years. Through all of life’s ups and downs they sustained their love and dedication to each other. This relationship has been inspirational to many, especially their children.

After they got married Mary Anne and Jack lived in NYC and eventually settled in Norwalk, CT, moving to Bridgeport, CT in 1984. She and Jack moved to Laurel Beach in Milford, CT in 2005. This was referred to as the “O’Connell Family Compound” of which Mary Anne was the true matriarch hosting many holidays and special events there. She also cherished the time living near her oldest son allowed her to spend with her grandchildren. Her loving and sensible, encouraging words guided them, and were appreciated for being more Mary Anne-ish than grandmotherly. Especially when combined with her famous chocolate milk!

Mary Anne spent many years enjoying their home at Goose Rocks Beach in Kennebunkport, ME while her children were growing up. She and Jack enjoyed traveling together, especially to Isla Majeures, Mexico where often friends or one of her children would join them. One of Mary Anne’s most favorite trips was the family trip to Ireland where we all explored much of the country including Dingle where her family was from. Later in life she and Jack traveled south in their RV, finally enjoying winters at their home in Bradenton, FL. Later on in life Mary Anne and Jack could be found having lunch at the diner where Mary Anne enjoyed her daily grilled cheese sandwich and having dinner at local Milford restaurants on Saturday nights.

Mary Anne loved to have any reason to celebrate, the sun on her face, and a lobster dinner. She called shopping her therapy, and especially loved her girl’s trips to China Town with best friend and sister-in-law Mary Lou and daughter Margaret. She had a fabulous sense of humor and tremendous faith. She was a compassionate and loving wife, mother, grandmother (great!), aunt, mother-in-law, and friend. She handled her health struggles over the years with strength and grace. She never let her struggles stop her from dancing at family weddings and making memories with friends and family.

In addition to her parents, Mary Anne was predeceased by her son Matthew, sister Margaret “Peggy” McLean, and brother and sister-in-laws George E. and Joan O’Connell. Survivors include her husband John ‘Jack’ O’Connell, Sr., son John O’Connell, Jr. and wife Jennifer of Milford, daughter Margaret and wife Katherine of Norridgewock, ME, son George E. O’Connell and wife Lori of Stratford, Maria O’Connell of Flemington, NJ, grandchildren Alice Iavicoli and husband Nicolino, Lyddy O’Connell, Katie-John O’Connell, John (Jack) O’Connell III, and great grandchildren Giovanni and Ollie Iavicoli. In addition, special to her heart, sister-in-law Mary Lou O’Connell, cousin Fr. James Bowler, SJ, nephew George William O’Connell, wife Karen, and great nieces Julia and Audrey.

There are no words to describe the effect Mary Anne has had on all of our lives. She was brave and an inspiration to us all. She loved us all unconditionally. You are in our hearts forever, especially when we see the ‘sky blue pink’ of the sunset. The family would like to thank the Mary Wade Home in New Haven, CT for their care of Mary Anne and the family. Also, CT Hospice for the tender and compassionate care they provided. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford, CT 06405; www.hospice.com. Friends and family may call on Friday, March 31st from 8:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 12:00 p.m. in Saint Gabriel Church, 26 Broadway, Milford. Interment will be held at a later date. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Elvira C. (Costa) Prokoski

Elvira C. Prokoski, age 105, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Raymond J. Prokoski, entered into eternal rest on March 16, 2023.

“Ellie” was the daughter of the late Urbano Freitas Costa and Escolastica (Raposa Corderio) Costa and was born on June 17, 1917, in New Bedford, MA. She was the salutatorian of Lawrence High School (Class of 1936) in Falmouth, MA. During her working career, she was a recreational leader for the Works Progress Administration and a social worker for Old Age Assistance Services in Falmouth; a secretary and medical assistant for Dr. Samuel Janet, secretary for Bogdan & Powers, and answered phones for Gregory Answering Service/NESS Security, all in Milford; and a secretary for Attorney Robert R. Goldberger in Bridgeport. She was a former secretary of Engine Company 3 Ladies’ Auxiliary and Walnut Beach Association. As a communicant of St. Gabriel Church, she was a former Eucharistic minister, member of the Rosary Society, and participant in variety shows. She was also a former member of the Red Hat Society and the West Haven German Club. Known for her snazzy outfits, some of them hand-sewn, Ellie enjoyed tap dancing and singing, and will also be remembered for her beautiful penmanship.

She is survived by her son, Raymond M. Prokoski, of Branford; devoted daughters, Rosanne Margeson (Robert) and Ramona Prokoski, both of Milford; her grandson, Justin Margeson; her son-in-law, David Machernis; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her daughter, Regina Prokoski Machernis, and three sisters, Caroline Costa, Virginia Ramos, and Emily Furtado.

Family and friends may call on Tuesday, March 21, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 22, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment to follow in St. Michael Cemetery, Stratford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to: Meals on Wheels, c/o Milford Senior Center, 9 Jepson Drive, Milford, CT 06460. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Thomas J. Protsko

Thomas (Tom) Protsko, 81, of Miford, passed away peacefully on March 5, 2023, after battling illness. Tom loved to laugh and had fun joking with everyone around him. Even in his final days and hours, he was making visitors smile.

Tom was happiest when he was fixing something or making something for people he loved. His family and friends benefitted from his meticulous car detailing skills as well as his famous lemon poppyseed cookies and homemade empanadas. He was always looking for new recipes to try. Tom was a lifetime member of VFW Post 7788 in Milford, where he had previously served as a chaplain. The ultimate handyman, Tom was mechanically inclined and loved solving problems with his hands. He worked as a sheet metal journeyman for 22 years before being employed by the Milford Department of Public Works for 18 years.

Tom met his wife of 56 years, Carol Cicero, a year before enlisting in the military. The couple got married in 1966 and moved to Milford in 1970 where they raised their family. Tom and Carol enjoyed traveling together in their retirement. A devoted husband, Tom affectionately referred to Carol as “my right arm.” He often said “she’s the one who knows everything” and “she takes good care of me.”

In addition to his wife, Tom is survived by his daughter, Jessica Ossen and her wife Deborah and their son Ethan, of West Hartford; his son, David Protsko and his wife Victoria and their daughters Haillie and Madison Krankall, of New Haven; his brother Lawrence Protsko, of Monroe; his sister Joan Stefan and her husband Steven, of Milford; and several nieces and nephews.

Tom grew up in Bridgeport, the son of Joseph Protsko and Helen C. Geffert. He lived a life of service, beginning as an altar boy at SS Cyril and Methodius Church. At age 20, he joined the U.S. Marine Corps and served during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Thank you for your service and dedication all these years Thomas.

Family and friends may call on Saturday, March 11, 2023 from 11:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD and a Funeral Service to follow with Military Honors at 12:00 p.m. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Marine Corps Toys for Tots.

John Enright Reeynolds

John Enright Reynolds, 86, passed away peacefully on March 19, 2023, under the loving care of his wife Ethel Ann Reynolds (née Lynch) in his Milford home. He was born on October 15, 1936, by mid-wife in New Haven to the late Catherine Mary Reynolds (née Enright) of Ennis, Co. Clare, Ireland and the late William Joseph Reynolds of Mohill, Co. Leitrim, Ireland.  Married to Ethel in 1965, he is also survived by sons Timothy and Kevin; daughter-in-law Lisa Reynolds (née Neri); grandchildren Sydney, Riley, and Kelsey; and many nieces and nephews.  He is preceded in death by his sisters, Catherine (Gordon) Stewart, Mary (Maurice) Condon, and Florence (Peter) Carroll, and brothers, William (Mary Ruth) and James.

He attended Saint Mary’s Parochial in New Haven until moving to Milford in 1947.  After graduating Milford High School in 1955, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy.  An Atomic Veteran, his duties as AG2 aboard the USS Lansing, DER 388, included predicting wind direction during atomic bomb testing on the Bikini, Enewetak, and Johnston Atolls in 1958.

John’s professional career was dedicated to the advocacy of safe places for at-risk youth, protection of children, and keeping families together.  Applying his studies at Southern Connecticut State College, University of Denver, and Smith College, he served as a social worker for the State of Connecticut, New Haven and West Haven school districts, and Casey Family Services of Bridgeport.  After eleven-years as Division Director at Casey, he stepped back into field work with the State until his retirement in 2001.

In 1976, when the coach didn’t show to his son Timothy’s soccer game, John was nominated as the new coach by an impatient referee.  He became an avid student and coach of the game, co-founded and served as the first president of Milford United Soccer Club.  In 1980, he formed Milford’s first girls traveling soccer team, guiding them to regional and state success.  Ethel and John led a life filled with travel, camping, bicycling, sailing, skiing, and most of all dancing.  Retirement found them visiting grand-daughters in Seattle and on annual Atlantic-crossings on the Queen Mary 2 for travels between Paris, Rome, and London.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Friday, March 24, 2023 from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 12:00 p.m. that day at the Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford. Burial with Military Honors will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford. The family thanks the team at Connecticut Hospice and aides Carol, Merlyn, Margaret, and Robert for their compassionate care of John and support of Ethel.  Please consider a donation to Connecticut Hospice or Feeding America.

Kenneth R. Robinson

Kenneth R. Robinson Jr of Woodbridge, CT, born December 12, 1953, passed away on March 14th, 2023 at Griffin Hospital at the age of 69. He is survived by his wife, Khaleah (Kaye) Robinson, and his children Sean and Skylar Robinson.

He was born to Ethyl and Kenneth Robinson Sr. of Orange, CT. He was a graduate of Amity High School (1971), before going on to receive a Bachelor’s degree from University of Connecticut and a Master’s Degree from University of South Carolina.

After finishing his Master’s degree he joined his father in running K.R. Robinson Company in Orange, CT. They worked together in general contracting, with projects ranging from office buildings and warehouses to specialty machine foundations for manufacturers. Some of their clients included Hy’s Limousines and Bayer Pharmaceuticals. Ken even started a design-build division of the company. An interest in flying led him and his father to branch out and start Robinson Aviation at Tweed- New Haven Airport as an additional business/investment. This company continued to expand and thrive under Ken’s leadership over the last 3 decades.

During this time, Ken met his wife, Kaye Williams, on a blind date arranged by a mutual friend. The rest, as they say, is history. They were married August 15th, 1987. The two enjoyed sailing on Long Island Sound, traveling, and gardening together throughout their marriage. Ken designed both homes where they would live and raise their children, Sean and Skylar.

During the last few years, his son joined him in the family businesses. He had a lifelong love of horses which he shared with his daughter. He remained an avid gardener, and bird watcher. He retired from sailing but retained his love of the ocean. He was a member of the Milford Yacht Club for 39 years and enjoyed dining at the club and viewing the boats.

A celebration of Ken’s life will be held at the Milford Yacht Club on Saturday, March 25, 2023 from 11:00 am to 2 pm. Ken will be sorely missed by those who knew and loved him.

In lieu of flowers please a make a donation to a Charity of your choosing. Donations may also be made to the Orange Volunteer Fire Department https://www.orangevfd.org and or the Forever Morgan Horse Foundation http://www.forevermorgans.org/.in Honor of Kenneth.

Concetta Mary Rooney

Family and friends may gather on Saturday, April 1, 2023 from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A memorial service will begin at 12:30 p.m.

Hanna A. Samander

Hanna Atallah Basil Samander of Milford, CT, passed away peacefully in his home on March 2, 2023, at the age of 72, surrounded by his loving wife and children.

He was born on August 16, 1950, in Birzeit, Palestine. He was the eldest son of the late Atallah and Mufideh Samander.

In 1974, he arrived in the United States with his wife, Samia (née Kaoud), where he soon called Milford his home. A dedicated family man, he worked hard to support his immediate and extended family, provide his four children with an education and raised them with the same Christian, cultural and family values that were instilled in him while growing up in Palestine. All who knew him, recognized his love and loyalty to his family, and whatever you asked of him, he would find a way to deliver.

Hanna was gregarious, enjoyed hosting family and friends, was a consummate storyteller and photography enthusiast. When he wasn’t working, he loved to travel with his family, always eager to pile his wife, kids, in-laws, siblings, you name it, in a van and just drive (and drive, and drive). There were countless road trips from Florida to Canada and everywhere in between. And if he couldn’t get there by car, his passport was at the ready for him to hop a flight with a lightly packed (seriously, essentials only) carry-on bag, to fun, cultural and international destinations, like Las Vegas, Spain, Italy, Kuwait, Syria and Jordan. When he got that travel bug, nothing could stop him.

Hanna is survived by his beloved family, wife of 48 years, Samia, daughters Elizabeth (Nader) Ajlouny, Lenna, Vivian, son Atallah, his beautiful grandchildren, Aidan George and Ava Grace; siblings, Aida (Yousef) Sayej, Emily (Michel) Owais, Elaine (Jihad) Shahoud, Suhail (Norma) Samander, and mother-in-law, Rahil Kaoud; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, friends and grand-dog, Winston. He is predeceased by his parents, his brothers Antone and Michael and father in-law, Wadi Kaoud.

He will be loved always, greatly missed, and fondly remembered by many as a loving and generous husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, God father and friend. May he rest in eternal peace.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, March 7, 2023, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m., at the Cody White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, March 8, 2023 at 11:00 a.m., at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT, with interment to follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry Street, Milford CT 06460. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Maria Therese Savko

Maria Therese Savko, age 64, of Milford, passed away unexpectedly from a blood clot in her lung on March 26, 2023, at Bridgeport Hospital with her family by her side. Maria was born in New Haven on August 18, 1958, the beloved daughter of the late Michael J. and Margaret Gonzalez Savko and lifelong resident of the area. She graduated from Stratford High School, Class of 1976 and was a retired Registered Nurse for the State of Connecticut Department of Corrections. Maria was a dedicated and highly skilled nurse who loved what she did. Age 15 saw the beginning of her battle with anxiety and panic disorder. She fought valiantly and relentlessly and, for much of her life, she prevailed against it. She worked her career and traveled the world. She was tough! But even the tough get tired. These last few years she faced some difficult challenges and fought the best she could. Now, she is at peace but a piece of us has gone with her. Survivors include her devoted sisters, Pamela Carroll of Milford and Margaret Paquette of Stratford, her nephew, Ryan Carroll, and many cherished cousins, colleagues, and friends. Friends may visit on Thursday, March 30th from 4-7 pm in the Adzima Funeral Home, 50 Paradise Green Place, Stratford. All other services will be private. To make an online condolence please visit www.adzimafuneralhome.com.

Michael A. Solemene Jr.

Michael A. Solemene Jr., age 62, of Milford, beloved son of the late Michael and Rosalie Leopardi Solemene, passed away peacefully on March 17, 2023 in Bridgeport Hospital with his loving family by his side. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, March 29, 2023 at 10:30 a.m. in the Galello-Luchansky Funeral Home, 2220 Main Street, Stratford, officiated by Deacon Joseph Koletar. Interment will follow in St. Michael’s Cemetery. Friends may call on Wednesday, March 29, 2023 from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. in the Galello-Luchansky Funeral Home. To celebrate his life and view the full obituary, please visit us at www.galellofuneralhome.com.

Chad Michael Stryker

Chad Michael Stryker, 48, of Ansonia, CT., beloved father of Fallon, Kendal, and Chad Jr. , entered into eternal rest on Saturday, February 25, 2023. Born on July 22, 1974 in Wickenburg, AZ.

Chad grew up in Wickenburg & Phoenix, AZ, before moving to Milford, CT. in 1988. He loved his music, as he was part of bands KingPin, Rev6 Eight, UP from Eden, Room237, Headcase, and Dirty Devils Grin. Chad was famously nicknamed “ChadRock”. He worked as an installer for AT&T for many years and presently was employed by Mondeleze Nabisco as a Sr. Sales Representative.  Chad loved to spend time with his children; go to football games to see Kendal cheer, or to see Fallon dance, and chilling with his son Chad Jr. Chad loved to go hiking, go to the lake and explore the trails around the State. During the peaks and valleys of his life, Chad never lost sight of what was important to him, his family.

Chad is survived by his fiancé, Ruth Cushnie, of Ansonia, Connecticut; his children, Kendal, Fallon, and Chad Stryker Jr. of Milford, Connecticut; his mother, Margaret Bratz Mayo and Step-dad, George Mayo of Palm Coast, Florida; his Step-Mom Carla Stryker, Phoenix, Az.; his brother, Jon Stryker (Rachel Bryan), Addison Twp, MI.; and Keith Stryker, Palm Springs, CA.; his former wife and mother of his children Stacey Gill, Milford, CT. He is also survived by several aunts and uncles and many loving cousins. Chad is predeceased by his father Roy A. Stryker of Phoenix Arizona, and his grandparents on both sides.

The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Go Fund Me to help support Chad’s family during this difficult time.

Frank Tondora

Frank Tondora, 82, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Marguerite “McGee” (Ryan) Tondora, passed away after a brief illness on March 3, 2023, with his loving family by his side. Born on October 6, 1940 in Wilkes-Barre, PA, he was the son of the late Francis and Agnes (McDade) Tondora.

Frank was raised in Baltimore, Maryland, and grew up fishing in the Chesapeake Bay. He often traveled with a rod and tackle box just in case he spied a good fishing hole, later sharing this love and talent with his children and grandchildren. He was a lifelong fan of all things Baltimore, including the Orioles, Colts, and classic Maryland crabcakes. Frank attended the all-boys Catholic school Calvert Hall and he always spoke fondly of the Brothers who taught there. They helped instill in Frank values, character, discipline, and faith in all things – including Notre Dame football’s ability to bring home the big win when it mattered most.

Frank met the love of his life, McGee, while attending the Johns Hopkins School of Radiologic Technology. He knew a good thing when he saw it and he followed McGee back to Milford. They later married and raised a family in Heatherstone where they were blessed with decades of neighborhood friendships and traditions. Frank and McGee shared 51 beautiful years together and many common interests. Sports were a big part of their lives. They loved to travel near and far to cheer their kids on from the sidelines and the pool deck. And when that chapter closed, they then never missed a UCONN Women’s Basketball game (unless, of course, it conflicted with one of the grandchildren’s activities). Frank also volunteered many hours coaching softball, basketball, and Little League – he even donned a pair of skates to help a friend start Milford’s youth hockey program. After they became empty nesters, Frank and McGee became travel partners and avid golfers. They enjoyed many rounds among new and old friends at Grassy Hill Country Club where Frank brought home the Senior Championship more than once.

Frank’s dedication to his family was mirrored by a steadfast work ethic that enabled him to enjoy a long and successful career. He started out in industrial radiography at AVCO/Lycoming and later applied his talents in sales and marketing at Professional Equipment Company and Fujifilm as well as in medical imaging at Milford Hospital where he proudly worked as Chief Radiologic Technologist. Following his retirement, Frank continued to serve his community as an ambassador with the Cody-White Funeral Home for many years.

A cherished father and beloved “Poppy,” Frank is survived by his children, Frank Tondora III and his wife, Janis, Lauren Tondora Murray, and Lisa Blaha and her husband, Jon; his grandchildren, Caleb, Rylee, Hayley, Mick, Hannah, Zachary, and Maren; and his extended family, affectionately known as the “Jersey Gang” and the “Canada Crew.”

Friends and family may call from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Wednesday, March 8, 2023, at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD ST., MILFORD, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 9, 2023, at 11:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association.

Peter William Trapani

Peter William Trapani, age 73, of Milford, beloved husband of Connie Innamorato, died on Wednesday, March 1, 2023.  Peter was born in Bethpage, New York on November 18, 1949 to the late Peter Anthony and Theresa Giaritano Trapani.  He was a proud US Army Vietnam Veteran and worked for the City of Stamford for many years as a police officer. Peter loved being with his family and friends.  He enjoyed riding his motorcycle and was a huge car enthusiast.

Survivors, in addition to his wife Connie, include his children, Joseph and Michael Trapani of Milford and grandchildren, Sophia and Genevieve Trapani.  Peter is predeceased by a brother and sister.

Family and friends may call on Wednesday, March 8th from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD, CT. A Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, March 9th at 10:00 a.m. in the Funeral Home followed by interment in Saint Mary Cemetery, Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Ronald F. Unger

Ronald F. Unger, 78, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Roberta “Bobbie” Unger, passed away peacefully on March 23, 2023. Born on July 7, 1944 in Brooklyn, NY, he was the son of the late Frank and Mildred Unger.

Ronald was an avid car and boat enthusiast, from being an ace mechanic to having a need for speed behind the wheel. He will always be remembered for his quick wit and great sense of humor.

Ronald leaves behind his son, Eric Unger; grandchildren, Jonathan and Jamie Unger; brother, Carl “Dick” Unger; and extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his son, Robert “Jay” Unger.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Thursday, March 30, 2023 at 10 a.m. with a funeral service to begin at 11 a.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Road, Orange.